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if I skip the gym I will stay up all night having sex to get cardio in.3
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_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »I find it equally odd... there are quite a few people here that find me somewhat reasonable to associate with, however I don’t recall the last time I had any sort of “friend” in real life.
I have absolutely no very close friends anymore. I have good friends and tons of people I associate with on various levels, but no real close personal friends.
Is it weird that I mostly don't mind? Somedays I find it extremely lonesome, however most days I barely notice. I have my family, and 75% of the time, that's enough.1 -
_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »I find it equally odd... there are quite a few people here that find me somewhat reasonable to associate with, however I don’t recall the last time I had any sort of “friend” in real life.
I have absolutely no very close friends anymore. I have good friends and tons of people I associate with on various levels, but no real close personal friends.
Is it weird that I mostly don't mind? Somedays I find it extremely lonesome, however most days I barely notice. I have my family, and 75% of the time, that's enough.
Same. I really only focus on my wife and kids in real life, and that fulfills me enough. The biggest thing was, when I was going through some personal stuff a few years back I had zero people to confide in. I ended up gong to a counselor, just to have an impartial person that I could say whatever I wanted. I remember having friends like that when I was younger, but somewhere in the transition to becoming my own man...I made it the only man in my life kinda situation. So there are times I miss a close brother like that. But most the time, I got my stuff together or take responsibility for things, so I just work with that.2 -
GuitarGuy02038 wrote: »I am a closet Led Zeppelin fan...
That's the most insane *kitten* I've ever heard.1 -
_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »I find it equally odd... there are quite a few people here that find me somewhat reasonable to associate with, however I don’t recall the last time I had any sort of “friend” in real life.
I have absolutely no very close friends anymore. I have good friends and tons of people I associate with on various levels, but no real close personal friends.
Is it weird that I mostly don't mind? Somedays I find it extremely lonesome, however most days I barely notice. I have my family, and 75% of the time, that's enough.
Same. I really only focus on my wife and kids in real life, and that fulfills me enough. The biggest thing was, when I was going through some personal stuff a few years back I had zero people to confide in. I ended up gong to a counselor, just to have an impartial person that I could say whatever I wanted. I remember having friends like that when I was younger, but somewhere in the transition to becoming my own man...I made it the only man in my life kinda situation. So there are times I miss a close brother like that. But most the time, I got my stuff together or take responsibility for things, so I just work with that.
It wasn't so long ago that I did exactly the same thing.0 -
_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »I find it equally odd... there are quite a few people here that find me somewhat reasonable to associate with, however I don’t recall the last time I had any sort of “friend” in real life.
I have absolutely no very close friends anymore. I have good friends and tons of people I associate with on various levels, but no real close personal friends.
Is it weird that I mostly don't mind? Somedays I find it extremely lonesome, however most days I barely notice. I have my family, and 75% of the time, that's enough.
Same. I really only focus on my wife and kids in real life, and that fulfills me enough. The biggest thing was, when I was going through some personal stuff a few years back I had zero people to confide in. I ended up gong to a counselor, just to have an impartial person that I could say whatever I wanted. I remember having friends like that when I was younger, but somewhere in the transition to becoming my own man...I made it the only man in my life kinda situation. So there are times I miss a close brother like that. But most the time, I got my stuff together or take responsibility for things, so I just work with that.
Also probably why I post pretty openly about stuff in such an inane environment like MFP. Just to get stuff off my chest, call BS on my own BS, etc.. I don't really need answers, but got a few folks who throw in support and stuff. It's cool.3 -
_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »I find it equally odd... there are quite a few people here that find me somewhat reasonable to associate with, however I don’t recall the last time I had any sort of “friend” in real life.
I have absolutely no very close friends anymore. I have good friends and tons of people I associate with on various levels, but no real close personal friends.
Is it weird that I mostly don't mind? Somedays I find it extremely lonesome, however most days I barely notice. I have my family, and 75% of the time, that's enough.
Same. I really only focus on my wife and kids in real life, and that fulfills me enough. The biggest thing was, when I was going through some personal stuff a few years back I had zero people to confide in. I ended up gong to a counselor, just to have an impartial person that I could say whatever I wanted. I remember having friends like that when I was younger, but somewhere in the transition to becoming my own man...I made it the only man in my life kinda situation. So there are times I miss a close brother like that. But most the time, I got my stuff together or take responsibility for things, so I just work with that.
Also probably why I post pretty openly about stuff in such an inane environment like MFP. Just to get stuff off my chest, call BS on my own BS, etc.. I don't really need answers, but got a few folks who throw in support and stuff. It's cool.
I am in complete agreement with this as well.0 -
mrboston00 wrote: »
if I skip the gym I will stay up all night having sex to get cardio in.
So basically you are on a no cardio workout routine?
@GalBundy no I do cardio. I make sure to do it so I can get a good sweat in if I don't go to the gym.
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I have 3 close friends, 2 of which I haven't spoken to in months, but regardless.... They'd help me hide a body tonight if I asked and I'd do the same for them
Some people you'll just always be close with no matter how distant.
Or maybe I'm just fortunate like that...4 -
mrboston00 wrote: »if I skip the gym I will stay up all night having sex to get cardio in.
All night huh? Seems legit
It can be done I here.0 -
mrboston00 wrote: »if I skip the gym I will stay up all night having sex to get cardio in.
All night huh? Seems legit
By all night, he means 5-10 minutes5 -
Only at night it seems....the days are used for broadcasting.....1 -
UrBaconMeCr8zy wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »I have 3 close friends, 2 of which I haven't spoken to in months, but regardless.... They'd help me hide a body tonight if I asked and I'd do the same for them
Some people you'll just always be close with no matter how distant.
Or maybe I'm just fortunate like that...
I just imagined like 4 grown *kitten* men playing hide and seek
Then I must be something awful ..this year I've banned 9 games and hide n seek is one of them0
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