strip club question??...

SarahKJ0704

How would you feel about your spouse going to a strip club and possibly getting a lap dance.. just curious to see how people feel about it

nic_ci

I go to strip clubs with my husband...they don't bother me!

nblais06

I would give him money lol

ndj1979

just dont let him go in the champagne room....

ndj1979

I go to strip clubs with my husband...they don't bother me!

^ marry me???

TexasTroy

Sweet...where do I meet girls like the above? lol

Stump_Likker

Never been with hubby but have gone myself. Got a lap dance once.

Wouldn't care if he went (when we were still together) . Really don't care now.

Capt_Inzane

If I had a significant other and she went out to a strip club ...now I wouldn't care because she's coming home to me and hopefully I'd receive the benefits of her staring at other dudes junk.

Before my divorce and when I didn't have an ounce of self-esteem I would had been jealous and mad funny how that works out.

ldrosophila

I tried to get the boyfriend to go with me but he wouldn't go. The only thing that would piss me off is if he spent a lot of money there. $100 maybe but more than that and the claws are coming out.

baybeecakes08

I don't like the idea of strip clubs.

XxYeaIrocxX

I'd find it hilarious.
My husband is a very quiet and keep to himself type of person, I'd pay for a dance for him just to see his face lol

adioschubs

I would find it hilarious! I'd be more worried about him spending the money on strippers though (on his budget) lol.

usernameMAMA

Negative. If he wants a lap dance he can get it from me.

megabyt23

I must be prude...haha i'd be pissed!!! :explode:

mystczi - i agree haha

TheSwoleMinister_deleted

Once in Vegas many years ago (maybe our second year of dating) my wife and I went to a strip club with another couple, and she was all jazzed about buying me a lap dance. She was getting all antsy because I couldn't pick out a girl that I wanted one from. After a few songs I said "OK, I'll go for that girl" and pointed one out. Within seconds she got all weird and was like "Why her? What is it about her?" It got all nuts after that and she was actually in tears. Crazy night, and we have never been back to a strip club.

BostonStrong617

Once my ex and I got into a fight because I told him it was okay to go to a bachelor party at a strip club (And no it wasn't some stupid girl test!) He got pissed and said if I really loved him I couldn't bare the thought of him wanting to see naked girls or getting a lap dance etc... He later used this as an excuse to go through my computer and phone while I slept because it was a sign I didn't REALLY love him and probably couldn't be trusted... Um yeah hahah so be careful if you happen to be dating a psycho?

shadowkat57

I'd want to hear details.
One of our friends is a stripper - one of the smartest, most feminist people I know. Also hot.

mustang289

I think if a person is young and insecure it would bother them.

As that person matures and becomes secure in their relationship they would realize its no big deal.

I suppose the common reaction is jealousy, which is just another form of a tantrum saying "Pay attention to me!"

JaneDough_

Guhhhrossss.... pass on the strip clubs.

catrinaHwechanged

When I've been in relationships, it never bothered me. Hell, I'd go with

nic_ci

I go to strip clubs with my husband...they don't bother me!

^ marry me???

Lol...lots of girls go to strip clubs...it's cheap entertainment!

megabyt23

I think if a person is young and insecure it would bother them.

As that person matures and becomes secure in their relationship they would realize its no big deal.

I suppose the common reaction is jealousy, which is just another form of a tantrum saying "Pay attention to me!"

false...I know lots of older people who wouldn't approve despite being married for decades...men and women.

Cutting4life

time to find a new wife/gf has nothing to do with insecure/secure

bookworm_847

I wouldn't care and told my husband that if he and his buddies wanted to go to a strip club, that's fine with me. As a good friend of his said, "I'm married, not dead."

SoViLicious

I am all for it

nic_ci

I think if a person is young and insecure it would bother them.

As that person matures and becomes secure in their relationship they would realize its no big deal.

I suppose the common reaction is jealousy, which is just another form of a tantrum saying "Pay attention to me!"

false...I know lots of older people who wouldn't approve despite being married for decades...men and women.

Age doesn't matter...insecurity is the key...if you know he's going home with you other girls shouldn't matter...it's just a job, strippers don't want your man!!!

mustang289

I think if a person is young and insecure it would bother them.

As that person matures and becomes secure in their relationship they would realize its no big deal.

I suppose the common reaction is jealousy, which is just another form of a tantrum saying "Pay attention to me!"

false...I know lots of older people who wouldn't approve despite being married for decades...men and women.

They got older, but they never matured and never felt secure in themselves or their relationship.

Now if the question were "what do you think of strip clubs?"
I've been in the past, but I've got a different outlook on them now. I wouldn't want my daughter, sister, or granddaughter to work in one, so it would be hypocritical for me to go. Not my cup of tea, but if others find them necessary I don't have a problem with them going.

tequila09

Not up in here.

fShaw86

I would definitely be upset, sad, and/or jealous!

Thena81

depends on if im going
just sayin... then i can watch this supposed lap dance and see if i disapprove.
ive been to male joints when i was younger, i get it..

thatonegirlwiththestuff

My husband does go to strip clubs. Even the ones on business trips where the strippers allow him to cop a feel. But I couldn't care less. Better them than me.