strip club question??...

2stepscloser

I wouldn't mind; I've actually offered to go together but he's never taken me up on my offer. :ohwell:

NeverGivesUp

My hubby isn't into stuff like that. He is a consultant and had to work and help out a porn company for a while lol. He was so embarrassed and a year later all his co workers are still teasing him about it. Despite him not wanting to do it and having no interest in it, I wouldn't have married a man that did like it. We trust eachother a million percent and I like it that way.

Alatariel75

I'd ask for details!! Though I'm probably more likely to drag him to one and get a dance for me! We meant to go to the strippers while we were in Vegas getting married and just never got around to it.

bethlaf

since they have no plus sized dancers at strip clubs, wouldn't bother me a bit..
the one time he went he told me it was so gross and nasty, he didn't even want to be there, but it was a "guy" thing, his buddy wanted to go , and his friend paid for a lap dance, and the girl just kept putting her breasts in his face, needless to say , he claims it did nothing for him.. and , well, since ive been married to him for a decade, i know boobs do nothing...:glasses:

257_Lag

Depends on my mood at the time lol

Herein lies the problem for us men :laugh:

Shetchncn1

If he can go to one for men then I get to go to one for women Then ABSOLUTELY!

patentguru

All heterosexual men like seeing naked women. So when I see posts like "my husband doesn't like strip clubs" or won't go with me, it is not because he does not like strange naked women. He is a lot smarter than you think. Going to a strip club with your girlfriend or wife is really stupid. There is no up side to this for the guy. Women love to test their man and there is no better place to find out what the man likes and how he acts around other women than a strip club. Thus, the smart answer for men is "no I only want to see you naked honey!".

Boogage

I'm the one who drags my bf to strip clubs and he hates them. I did send him off to a stag party at a strip club and I told him he could get a lap dance but I don't think he stayed at the party for more than 20 minutes as he just thought it was grubby and dirty. If you trust your partner, I don't see what the problem is.

NeverGivesUp

All heterosexual men like seeing naked women. So when I see posts like "my husband doesn't like strip clubs" or won't go with me, it is not because he does not like strange naked women. He is a lot smarter than you think. Going to a strip club with your girlfriend or wife is really stupid. There is no up side to this for the guy. Women love to test their man and there is no better place to find out what the man likes and how he acts around other women than a strip club. Thus, the smart answer for men is "no I only want to see you naked honey!".

You don't know my husband. There is a lot of history behind why he doesn't go to places or like places like that which I will not bother to get into. Speak for yourself please. He didn't even do it when he was single.

To each his own, if you like it and are able to keep a loving and trusting relationship all the more power to you!. As long as no one is getting hurt or insecure, who cares.

MissFuchsia

My husband went to strip club on his stag night as most men do. I wouldn't have a problem if he wanted to go again. I'd join him if he asked me too.

All heterosexual men like seeing naked women. So when I see posts like "my husband doesn't like strip clubs" or won't go with me, it is not because he does not like strange naked women. He is a lot smarter than you think. Going to a strip club with your girlfriend or wife is really stupid. There is no up side to this for the guy. Women love to test their man and there is no better place to find out what the man likes and how he acts around other women than a strip club. Thus, the smart answer for men is "no I only want to see you naked honey!".

Very true

tuckerrj

I'm no prude, but strip clubs are just creepy. Leacherous old men hangin' around with piles of money to pay for the attention of attractive young women. Just creepy.

Myhaloslipped

I go with my boyfriend and buy lap dances for him. It actually gets him all worked up and makes the sex better when we get home!

Myhaloslipped

i dont care.. have a great time!

OMG I just have to say that your profile GIF made me almost die laughing!

Alatariel75

All heterosexual men like seeing naked women. So when I see posts like "my husband doesn't like strip clubs" or won't go with me, it is not because he does not like strange naked women. He is a lot smarter than you think. Going to a strip club with your girlfriend or wife is really stupid. There is no up side to this for the guy. Women love to test their man and there is no better place to find out what the man likes and how he acts around other women than a strip club. Thus, the smart answer for men is "no I only want to see you naked honey!".

My husband likes naked ladies. Does he like them gyrating for money in a grubby club? not so much. There's a big difference between liking naked ladies and liking strip clubs. That's like saying that all men like steak, so all guys would like a cheap, badly cooked steak from a grubby diner.

Dauntlessness

The key is to find a man who doesn't want to go. My husband, when he was single he tried it and hated it. I guess he is not attracted to skanky women. haha

jenilla1

It's not something we do. We have nothing to prove by either going or not going. I think a lot of people "allow" or encourage their spouses to go because they think it makes them look more secure in their relationship if they do, or they are afraid they're gonna do it anyway so they might as well feel like they have some control by giving their blessing. I think it's kind of a stupid waste of money, honestly.

I guess if it were for a special occasion and we were going together in a group we might have fun cracking jokes and throwing around the old innuendos. Male strippers especially crack me up. The whole display is more silly than sexy. I just can't take it seriously.

Chicks at strip clubs are not really his type so I haven't had to think about it. I guess if he was there he wouldn't look away (neither would I), but I don't think he'd seek out a strip club. I don't think it's as exciting for him when he has to pay someone to give him attention. He gets tons of positive reinforcement at home. :smooched:

Vain_Witch

I have two views on strip clubs:

1) Just bring me. First of all, I find hilarious entertainment value in it. And, secondly, you will get sooooo much more attention from the dancers if you have a girl with you...it makes the guys seem more safe.

2) I always tell my boyfriend (and I told my exhusband the same)...if you want to go to a strip club with your buds...GO!!!! Have fun! Seriously! Just don't come home all hot and bothered over some other woman and wake me up expecting me to take care of it. lol!

atamrowski

I find nothing wrong with it. How's it any different than a consensual couple watching an adult movie together?

My husband doesn't like strip clubs. So I guess adult movies it is!!! :blushing:

BeachGingerOnTheRocks

All heterosexual men like seeing naked women. So when I see posts like "my husband doesn't like strip clubs" or won't go with me, it is not because he does not like strange naked women. He is a lot smarter than you think. Going to a strip club with your girlfriend or wife is really stupid. There is no up side to this for the guy. Women love to test their man and there is no better place to find out what the man likes and how he acts around other women than a strip club. Thus, the smart answer for men is "no I only want to see you naked honey!".

My husband likes naked ladies. Does he like them gyrating for money in a grubby club? not so much. There's a big difference between liking naked ladies and liking strip clubs. That's like saying that all men like steak, so all guys would like a cheap, badly cooked steak from a grubby diner.

The hubby and I occasionally think about going out for steak. When the diner is full of gristle, it's more a stare at the meat case from the back bar kind of thing, but sometimes the steakhouse is kind of nice on the inside and we might get up close and drool right on the meat case. In the end, the steak at home is cooked just the way he likes.

kaotik26

I don't care, he's coming home to me after all!

Alatariel75

All heterosexual men like seeing naked women. So when I see posts like "my husband doesn't like strip clubs" or won't go with me, it is not because he does not like strange naked women. He is a lot smarter than you think. Going to a strip club with your girlfriend or wife is really stupid. There is no up side to this for the guy. Women love to test their man and there is no better place to find out what the man likes and how he acts around other women than a strip club. Thus, the smart answer for men is "no I only want to see you naked honey!".

My husband likes naked ladies. Does he like them gyrating for money in a grubby club? not so much. There's a big difference between liking naked ladies and liking strip clubs. That's like saying that all men like steak, so all guys would like a cheap, badly cooked steak from a grubby diner.

The hubby and I occasionally think about going out for steak. When the diner is full of gristle, it's more a stare at the meat case from the back bar kind of thing, but sometimes the steakhouse is kind of nice on the inside and we might get up close and drool right on the meat case. In the end, the steak at home is cooked just the way he likes.

I think I love you.

_SABOTEUR_

I've been to male strip clubs and female strip clubs. I don't really get it. Is it the look but don't touch forbidden fruit thing that people enjoy? Perhaps it's the fact you have power over someone with your wallet?

Anyway, never appealed to me. I'd rather go to a club where everyone dances with there tops off and jump in the middle and get me some of the hotness to take home.

FearAnLoathingJ

I've bought mine lap dances

_SABOTEUR_

All heterosexual men like seeing naked women. So when I see posts like "my husband doesn't like strip clubs" or won't go with me, it is not because he does not like strange naked women. He is a lot smarter than you think. Going to a strip club with your girlfriend or wife is really stupid. There is no up side to this for the guy. Women love to test their man and there is no better place to find out what the man likes and how he acts around other women than a strip club. Thus, the smart answer for men is "no I only want to see you naked honey!".

My husband likes naked ladies. Does he like them gyrating for money in a grubby club? not so much. There's a big difference between liking naked ladies and liking strip clubs. That's like saying that all men like steak, so all guys would like a cheap, badly cooked steak from a grubby diner.

The hubby and I occasionally think about going out for steak. When the diner is full of gristle, it's more a stare at the meat case from the back bar kind of thing, but sometimes the steakhouse is kind of nice on the inside and we might get up close and drool right on the meat case. In the end, the steak at home is cooked just the way he likes.

I think I love you.

Fight you for her!

kooltray87

Yes my man can go. Watch them, ok. Tip them, sure. Lap dance, djalhgdf;jafkidja! lol The only person doing favors for my man should be ME. Yep I'm selfish when it comes to intimacy with my guy. I'm surprised more don't feel the same way...but then again I'm not seeing how popular stripping is these days.

Alatariel75

All heterosexual men like seeing naked women. So when I see posts like "my husband doesn't like strip clubs" or won't go with me, it is not because he does not like strange naked women. He is a lot smarter than you think. Going to a strip club with your girlfriend or wife is really stupid. There is no up side to this for the guy. Women love to test their man and there is no better place to find out what the man likes and how he acts around other women than a strip club. Thus, the smart answer for men is "no I only want to see you naked honey!".

My husband likes naked ladies. Does he like them gyrating for money in a grubby club? not so much. There's a big difference between liking naked ladies and liking strip clubs. That's like saying that all men like steak, so all guys would like a cheap, badly cooked steak from a grubby diner.

The hubby and I occasionally think about going out for steak. When the diner is full of gristle, it's more a stare at the meat case from the back bar kind of thing, but sometimes the steakhouse is kind of nice on the inside and we might get up close and drool right on the meat case. In the end, the steak at home is cooked just the way he likes.

I think I love you.

Fight you for her!

Will there be jello?

AmyJo527

I don't care if he goes to strip clubs...I actually like going myself. We have gone together with a group of friends and I got a lap dance! It was fun.

TheRoadDog

I rarely go to a club, unless I'm on some kind of Bike rally. My wife doesn't mind if the guys go to a strip club. She's gone with us a couple times. As for a Lap Dance -- never had one; never will. If I want a lap dance, my wife will give me one.

Not paying some stripper $20 to rub up against me.

goalss4nika

Tuh! I will go with him and get a lap dance myself :blushing:

patsimmon88

it's fine, just no back room stuff!!!!