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  • saxmaniac
    saxmaniac Posts: 1,133 Member
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    Sure, she could go. We'd go together and have quite a bit of fun.

    I've only been once, long ago. I think I spent $9. Real life is more interesting than that, and totally free... so I don't see the point in going alone, often, or spending a lot of money.

    I imagine if your bring your SO they realize they can't fleece you as much as someone who is desperate. I'd probably treat it like a game, and see how much we could get, for how little cash.
  • Katrioustu
    Katrioustu Posts: 2,461 Member
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  • Katrioustu
    Katrioustu Posts: 2,461 Member
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    This'll get everyone 'hot'

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  • lostdogg
    lostdogg Posts: 450 Member
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    My wife has went with me probably 6 or 7 times in the past. Nothing recent tho. Only one in the last 8 yrs and that was a Mardi Gras last year. She said she'd rather go with me cause she thinks they are fun but she didnt have a problem with me going alone. Again this was a while back. Not sure how she'd feel now.

    I've offered to pay for her and her friend to go a male club but she wasn't interested.

    As added info, when we went together EACH time she, along with any other women patrons in the club, got more attention than any guy.
  • SakuraRose13
    SakuraRose13 Posts: 621 Member
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    why would he go to begin with ? what's the point ? I can give him one for free :)

    Just because you own a Mustang.... does not mean that you don't still drool over a well built Trans Am, Camaro, Nova, Chevelle, etc.

    haha , that's what porn is for isn't it ? sorry made me laugh yes a Audi is nice to look at when you are always looking at a mustang but if the mustang runs better than the Audi and has less miles why downgrade >?

    He has before but only once yes once , I know everyone would like to assume all men are the same but they are not ,some just don't care for it they find other means to entertain themselves... I will leave you on that .
  • MrsSenecal
    MrsSenecal Posts: 312 Member
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    I go to strip clubs with my hunny and love it. I am bisexual so it is as much fun for me as it is him. I trust him so its not like im worried about anything. He can have a lap dance. He is going out to his bachelors party next month and im sending money with his best man to buy him a couple lap dances on me ;)
  • sarahkalt88
    sarahkalt88 Posts: 51 Member
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    I don't love it, but I trust him so I don't complain. He works with a lot of older single men so they'll often go to the rippers for lunch or post-work beers. Its usually just to relax, not for the actual girls. If he goes on a weekend its usually because my friends, or myself have instigated the trip.
  • mflinn84
    mflinn84 Posts: 35
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    Whatever you decide, its your marriage/values/ethics - and nobody can tell you what those should be. However, my husband and I do not and would not under any circumstances go to a strip club.
  • mflinn84
    mflinn84 Posts: 35
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    This'll get everyone 'hot'

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    This cracked me up!!!
  • Nightterror218
    Nightterror218 Posts: 375 Member
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    I have never been a fan of them, do not like paying money to be teased.

    Went for my bachelor party, wife knew just did not want to know details, but she knows i do not like them.
  • MsEndomorph
    MsEndomorph Posts: 604 Member
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    I think if a person is young and insecure it would bother them.

    As that person matures and becomes secure in their relationship they would realize its no big deal.

    I suppose the common reaction is jealousy, which is just another form of a tantrum saying "Pay attention to me!"

    false...I know lots of older people who wouldn't approve despite being married for decades...men and women.

    They got older, but they never matured and never felt secure in themselves or their relationship.

    Now if the question were "what do you think of strip clubs?"
    I've been in the past, but I've got a different outlook on them now. I wouldn't want my daughter, sister, or granddaughter to work in one, so it would be hypocritical for me to go. Not my cup of tea, but if others find them necessary I don't have a problem with them going.

    For me, it has nothing to do with being secure/insecure. It has everything to do with respect for me and our relationship. I honestly have a hard time buying that that many women are really okay with it and even go along. If a woman is going along it's for one of the following reasons (maybe all of thee above):

    1) Lesbian/Closet lesbian
    2) She wants to keep an eye on her man
    3) She wants to appear to be "one of the guys", which is the brightest shade of pathetic
    4) If she's going with her girl friends, it's to make fun of the strippers.

    Disclaimer: this is my truth, you're not going to change my mind.

    All 4 of those aren't the reasons for me, anyways (used to be years ago if it ever did happen). And yes, maybe some are hiding the fact that they're insecure by doing those actions you listed above. But, you'd be surprised at how many people don't mind their SO going to strip joints alone.
    Yes, a women's body is beautiful, do you have to be a lesbian to enjoy the female body? No. I'm 100% straight and I'd rather get a dance from a woman than one from a guy who looks jacked up on steroids. The male body is not attractive. Im pretty sure I'm not the only one to think that; alot of women from what I've seen so far on a mothering website i go would rather look at lesbian porn than any other and the same goes for female strippers. Everyone likes to get out and have fun with their SO's. You're relationship is what matters the most, who cares how others deal with theirs?

    The male body is not attractive??? I think you should have said that YOU don't find the male body attractive. I'd rather look at a nice hard p***s than a vag any day but then I'm straight.

    As a woman, I know a lot of women, and I swear not one of them would agree with you. I don't think I've ever heard anyone say that before! Not that there's anything wrong with it...just not expected lol.
  • nickalow11
    nickalow11 Posts: 99 Member
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    There have been many conversations about this in my house. My husband has been, I never have. I have made it clear that I really prefer he not go. And I will fully admit it is because of my insecurities, not because I don't trust him. Ask me the same question after I've lost another 50 pounds. :)
  • emmalouc93
    emmalouc93 Posts: 328 Member
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    I couldn't see MYSELF ever wanting to go to a strip club, if I was with someone I actually cared about. I don't see a valid reason for ME to do such a thing, and it is MY opinion it could potentially exacerbate already present insecurity issues even with the most confident of women, if you're a great guy and she's really into you she has reasons to assume other women might feel the same way about you.

    Agree with this viewpoint.

    On a personal moral level, I don't like them, and wouldn't like my boyfriend to go to one, but if he wanted to, I wouldn't be able to stop him, and definitely trust him not to do anything, but it would make me question why he needs to pay for a woman to dance on him when he has a willing one at home! I would be disappointed, if I'm being honest, but I am not with a man that likes them at all thankfully, and I would not go to one.

    I would rather a personal lapdance in an exclusive relationship.... Much better, and the ending is presumably a lot more fun than when it is with a stranger :P
  • MsEndomorph
    MsEndomorph Posts: 604 Member
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    Nope....I wouldn't be happy... Pissed would be more like it...:explode:

    It is amazing to see all these women on here that go....I would have never guessed women would be ok with that...

    Oh Well Live and Learn :drinker:

    That my friend is because we live in a society and age where morals and the line between right and wrong are practically non-existent.

    If my significant other went, she could pack her bags and hit the door. Hell I'd pack them for her.

    If you are okay with your S/O seeing someone else naked and that turns them on, there are 2 problems with that logic.

    1. Why is he/she being sexually excited about ANOTHER person

    2. Shows how much interest they have in who they are with.

    It's about character and people today don't have much of it.

    That is my 2 cents.


    -Army Vet (4 countries, 45 states in america, married and divorced, and re-married - I got some experience)

    The naivety of that is so extreme, I don't know we're to start.

    For starters, men have eyes and penises when they aren't in strip clubs. They have imaginations, nude scenes on TV and in movies, they have porn, and god knows what else. It doesn't matter if you're "ok" with your SO being attracted to someone else or not - it's happening. If being attracted to another person means you no longer have interest in your SO...we're pretty much all screwed.
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,472 Member
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    mine would not go,
  • Maribel_1986
    Maribel_1986 Posts: 457 Member
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    I couldn't see MYSELF ever wanting to go to a strip club, if I was with someone I actually cared about. I don't see a valid reason for ME to do such a thing, and it is MY opinion it could potentially exacerbate already present insecurity issues even with the most confident of women, if you're a great guy and she's really into you she has reasons to assume other women might feel the same way about you.

    Agree with this viewpoint.

    On a personal moral level, I don't like them, and wouldn't like my boyfriend to go to one, but if he wanted to, I wouldn't be able to stop him, and definitely trust him not to do anything, but it would make me question why he needs to pay for a woman to dance on him when he has a willing one at home! I would be disappointed, if I'm being honest, but I am not with a man that likes them at all thankfully, and I would not go to one.

    I would rather a personal lapdance in an exclusive relationship.... Much better, and the ending is presumably a lot more fun than when it is with a stranger :P

    I feel the same way! I have never been to a strip club but my fiance did when he was 18-20 (he's 27 now)... And he said pretty much the same thing that out of respect to me he won't go. Plus it's a waste of money. I do agree. I think that if I was single I might go once just to see what the big hype is about but honestly I would rather have my man satisfied and not just give him a tease like the strippers would do.
  • mhull57
    mhull57 Posts: 21 Member
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    our deal is whatever amount of money he spends there.... he spends twice as much on me.. haha
  • freddykid
    freddykid Posts: 265 Member
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    I go or used to go with my wife all the time. we haven't been in a while now but for me that is totally normal.
  • MelsAuntie
    MelsAuntie Posts: 2,833 Member
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    What girl wouldn't want to be ground on by one of these guys?
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    Me. I would HATE being "ground on" by a stranger. I would have to know the guy and have some sort of relationship. NOT interested otherwise.
  • StrongAndHealthyMommy
    StrongAndHealthyMommy Posts: 1,255 Member
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    ummm if he wants to go to strips clubs full of nasty hookers, he can be single.... and he knows that from date#1

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