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  • emmalouc93
    emmalouc93 Posts: 328 Member
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    Also, to clear things up, like most women on this thread, I think male strippers are disgusting... Not into that at all.
  • epicrockstar24
    epicrockstar24 Posts: 86
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    i’d probably let him go. i know that its really only looking, and he watches porn anyways so stripping really ain’t much different than that.

    but i really wouldn’t be okay with it, i wouldn’t hold it against him or anything (im assuming were are talking about him going just once in a blue moon for a bachelor party or something and not an all the time thing) but it would eat at me inside and really mess up my mind. But i realize thats because of my own insecurity. i’d tell him how i felt about it, but trying to control him and telling him him what he can and cant do like i’m his mother, is not something i want to do, so if he really wants to go, then he can go. but thus far he has never asked or suggested even asked, but maybe one day it will come.

    and FWIW i hate that he watches porn too, it makes me sick to think of him watching other women, but again i’m not going to tell him to stop. and i’d rather him jack off to porn to get his fix than to seeking out another woman and physically cheating.
  • laurenz2501
    laurenz2501 Posts: 839 Member
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    Also, to clear things up, like most women on this thread, I think male strippers are disgusting... Not into that at all.

    :drinker: AGREED! I've never been to a male strip club. I like female ones though. I'm 100% straight but I know a hot girl when I see one. They just don't creep me out as much as male ones do, and they're fun with my male or female friends. But a significant other wanting to go by himself/with his guy friends...hmmm....I'd rather go with him but I doubt that would fly. I don't think I'd be happy about it but I agree with epicrockstar2 that if it was a bachelor party or once in a blue moon then I guess it's cool. Lap dance though? (And of course there would be lap dances for all) Uhhh........I got nothin'. If I'm 100% honest with myself, I'd be disappointed (again, if I "wasn't allowed" to go! I'm not good with being excluded! Haha) I WANNA GO! lol :sad:
  • laurenz2501
    laurenz2501 Posts: 839 Member
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    I'd be more concerned if he was lying about it/trying to hide it.

    ^^^^^^^THIS!^^^^^^ VERRRY true!
  • elledeery
    elledeery Posts: 866
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    I don't think it's a huge deal if it's just for a laugh at a bachelor party or even as a gag on a birthday, a rare occurrence but if there comes a point when a man spends more time and money at a strip club than he does with you or he's hiding his strip club adventures from you then the red flag should go up!
  • xFamousLastWordsx
    xFamousLastWordsx Posts: 301 Member
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    Even though he's expressed no interest in going, I really wouldn't care. However I have a problem with lapdances, I don't want some chick grinding on my boyfriend. You can look but you can't touch.
  • sixibabey
    sixibabey Posts: 80 Member
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    I love strip clubs men and woman strippers both. Lap dances are the best
  • dunlunicor
    dunlunicor Posts: 189 Member
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    just dont let him go in the champagne room....

    Just your friendly, local stripper clearing up a misconception:

    Don't let him go to the CR if A) you don't have that kind of money to spare or B) he's a cheater and going back with an extras girl. Most dancers do NOT want to have sex with your man. The CR is a convenient way for us to make a good amount of money in one go and be off the floor for an hour. If you're concerned, go with him and have fun. Strippers are boner-facilitators. Go to the club, get turned on, go home, have sex. It's that simple.

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