Single life or Relationship ?

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  • simplyciera
    simplyciera Posts: 168 Member
    Is this dude on bath salts or what? Scary ****.

    No, I just don't think that's he's been in a mature, healthy relationship with a TRUE mature, woman who has high self-esteem and her finances, mental capabilities and life together. But he has time to learn ;/

    Plus, the crazy/slutty/whorish ones fxck the best so if I was dude that didn't care, i wouldn't be in a rush to settle down with a 'normal' girl either :)
  • Gwen_B
    Gwen_B Posts: 1,018 Member
    Relationship!!
  • englishbulldog2013
    englishbulldog2013 Posts: 11 Member
    married I love him more anything in word
  • BrklynTico
    BrklynTico Posts: 143
    Is this dude on bath salts or what? Scary ****.

    No, I just don't think that's he's been in a mature, healthy relationship with a TRUE mature, woman who has high self-esteem and her finances, mental capabilities and life together. But he has time to learn ;/

    Plus, the crazy/slutty/whorish ones fxck the best so if I was dude that didn't care, i wouldn't be in a rush to settle down with a 'normal' girl either :)

    I just find it funny the woman trying to lecture me on "mature women" is engaging in pre-pubescent name calling.

    Also find it funny that you attempted to tell my life story like you've ever walked a day in my shoes. I have "time to learn?" Maybe you have time to learn to never judge a person you don't know.

    At least I'm "mature" enough to know that.

    Good night, ladies.
  • wpanderson
    wpanderson Posts: 194
    Single life for me was WILD & CRAZY! I lovedddd it!

    Fast forward a year and 1/2 later my husband has "mellowed" me out as my friends like to point out!

    Married life is definitely for me now but my single days were FANTASTIC!!
  • simplyciera
    simplyciera Posts: 168 Member
    Is this dude on bath salts or what? Scary ****.

    No, I just don't think that's he's been in a mature, healthy relationship with a TRUE mature, woman who has high self-esteem and her finances, mental capabilities and life together. But he has time to learn ;/

    Plus, the crazy/slutty/whorish ones fxck the best so if I was dude that didn't care, i wouldn't be in a rush to settle down with a 'normal' girl either :)

    I just find it funny the woman trying to lecture me on "mature women" is engaging in pre-pubescent name calling.

    Also find it funny that you attempted to tell my life story like you've ever walked a day in my shoes. I have "time to learn?" Maybe you have time to learn to never judge a person you don't know.

    At least I'm "mature" enough to know that.

    Good night, ladies.

    Dude I'm not trying to be mean to you! nothing wrong with having fun lol
    No judgment. Everyone has had their share of recklessness & it's totes okay!
    Embrace it, fxck it, & then move on!
    <3
  • cebiginalaska
    cebiginalaska Posts: 280 Member
    Single :bigsmile: . Haven't been in a relationship since my ex-girlfriend moved out of the state :sad: :cry:
  • glovepuppet
    glovepuppet Posts: 1,710 Member
    What mature woman would date a guy who isn't looking for a relationship?

    Are you sure you don't mean sluts? Or mentally deficient women?

    LOL.
    How about... a mature woman who doesn't want a serious relationship.

    Sheesh, are you aware this isn't the 1950's? A FWB fills the physical needs in a safe and respectful way. Not everyone woman is obsessed over getting a ring on it.
  • glovepuppet
    glovepuppet Posts: 1,710 Member
    And women complain about guys calling them "sluts" or "*kitten*?" You ladies are the worst offenders.

    I don't complain. Most women who get called that totally deserve it.

    But most "mature" women want a relationship. So I still call bull****.

    Unless you mean promiscuous mature women ... which leads me to believe you spend a lot of time at the nursing home bud.
    And how is having a FWB promiscuous?
    Does sleeping with a friend somehow count for more partners than sleeping with a boyfriend?
  • blah2989
    blah2989 Posts: 338 Member
    Im engaged and very happy in my relationship. Weve built so much together and I love him. Hes there for me when I need him and Im there when he needs me. Sure relationships require compromise, trust, faith/loyalty but I wouldnt trade it for the single life. But I would rather be single if it were a bad relationship. (My ex was abusive - not physically but mentally/emotionally, verbally; extremely controlling and selfish) So when I dumped him, it was liberating lol.
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    I'm getting to the point where I miss having a boyfriend. But I'm loving the freedom! Honestly, life is just less complicated when you're single.
  • ggxx100
    ggxx100 Posts: 520 Member
    The wedding's coming up, so don't really have much of a choice now do I, hah.

    I loved being single...and I mean LOVED it. I was dead set on staying that way for a while too, which is why I knew he was a keeper when I found myself in a relationship.

    I'm happy either way, but now that I'm with the right person I wouldn't change it for the world.
  • bsuew
    bsuew Posts: 628 Member
    Definately relationship! Married to my best friend for 25 years! Sweeter as the years go on. :love:
  • michellemybelll
    michellemybelll Posts: 2,228 Member
    What mature woman would date a guy who isn't looking for a relationship?

    Are you sure you don't mean sluts? Or mentally deficient women?

    LOL.

    um. judge much? who're you to generalize? i consider myself a mature, intelligent, thoughtful woman. i am NOT looking for a relationship. i do NOT want children. i do NOT want marriage.

    are you calling me a slut? or mentally deficient? or both?

    get off your pedestal woman. open your mind and close your mouth.
  • pennelope515
    pennelope515 Posts: 369
    Relationship.
    I can't even imagine being single. LOL
  • jollyjoe321
    jollyjoe321 Posts: 529 Member
    Guess it depends who you're with, and whether you're happy to wait.
  • Ocarina
    Ocarina Posts: 1,550 Member
    Married to be more specific! I like the guaranteed partner for life and having someone to go through experiences with. I am having a blast with it so far!

    Single life is great for the newness but dating suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuucks
  • EdTheGinge
    EdTheGinge Posts: 1,616 Member
    Single at the moment, just out of relationship and quite nice to just focus on myself for a bit. That selfish ?

    Relationship in time, but in no real hurry.
  • battyg13
    battyg13 Posts: 508 Member
    Single Life works much better for me.
    i have gotten bored quick when in relationships, maybe i just havent found the right woman yet.

    i look at it as life is a buffet and you can choose what you like from the table when single.
    when in a relationship there are only so many ways you can dress up a scotch egg, but underneath its still a scotch egg :-)
  • jollyjoe321
    jollyjoe321 Posts: 529 Member
    But then the right girl is like chicken? X)
  • battyg13
    battyg13 Posts: 508 Member
    But then the right girl is like chicken? X)

    possibly so XD
  • Nutella91
    Nutella91 Posts: 624 Member
    i have been single for the longest time and still am, sometimes it's really depressing although it has many benefits :bigsmile:
  • Chadomaniac
    Chadomaniac Posts: 1,785 Member
    Single life :wink:
  • Jennyflies
    Jennyflies Posts: 94 Member
    I think the longest I was ever single was 7 months. Those 7 months were VERY fun..very very fun. Then I met my husband and I get to live my life happily ever after! :)
  • Buddhasmiracle
    Buddhasmiracle Posts: 925 Member
    I will always prefer being in a healthy, mutually fulfilling relationship over being single.

    But I will always prefer being single to being in a bad relationship.

    Right now, I am single, and I am happy. Open to whatever comes my way but also genuinely happy.

    I'm married now and happy, but this best sums up my relationship/single life.
  • FITIsTheNewPINK
    FITIsTheNewPINK Posts: 43
    Personally I would say relationship, just because a good, solid relationship is unbeatable. However, I'm happy being a crazy cat lady, too. Lol :)
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    I was dead set single for years, knew I'd always be single and more than happy with that. No regrets!

    Then my husband come along and stuffed it all up, and I'd not change a thing :D

    This..I was 36 when we got married...turning 37 and was fine being single but he is such a cutie (and all around good man)
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    What mature woman would date a guy who isn't looking for a relationship?

    Are you sure you don't mean sluts? Or mentally deficient women?

    LOL.

    see below she said it better
  • BluejayNY
    BluejayNY Posts: 301 Member
    I guess I better start prefering single life as I am now single.
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    What mature woman would date a guy who isn't looking for a relationship?

    Are you sure you don't mean sluts? Or mentally deficient women?

    LOL.

    um. judge much? who're you to generalize? i consider myself a mature, intelligent, thoughtful woman. i am NOT looking for a relationship. i do NOT want children. i do NOT want marriage.

    are you calling me a slut? or mentally deficient? or both?

    get off your pedestal woman. open your mind and close your mouth.

    Amen to that...before I married I had my good job, (have held is for over a decade) bought myself a house, new car, lots of friends, travelled and I am well schooled in many things...I was missing regular sex so I found it (ps he's10 years younger) and wham I am married but I WAS NOT LOOKING FOR IT.

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