married chit-chatters?

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  • Tomm88
    Tomm88 Posts: 733 Member
    Not married but in an awsome relationship if that counts haha, been together 3 years now.
  • Devlyn_P
    Devlyn_P Posts: 294 Member
    Married! I stopped frequenting these forums last year due to the high amount of "dating" and "ego" stroking threads lately. MFP is a great site but the forums have become questionable. Nice initiative!
  • Tomm88
    Tomm88 Posts: 733 Member
    Devlyn_P wrote: »
    Married! I stopped frequenting these forums last year due to the high amount of "dating" and "ego" STROKING threads lately. MFP is a great site but the forums have become questionable. Nice initiative!

    some of them really are pretty naughty hahah
  • karlschaeffer
    karlschaeffer Posts: 1,507 Member
    Hi folks. Married 39 years. Three grown kids. First grandkid due within the month. MFP lifer.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    Tomm88 wrote: »
    Not married but in an awsome relationship if that counts haha, been together 3 years now.

    Definitely counts!
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    @Cutaway_Collar I'm so sorry for your loss. :heart: It's good to be able to talk about it. Since none of us know her, it's ok. She probably just doesn't want people around her to know and comment. My heart goes out to you. I'm so so sorry!
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    <<<My profile pic is a selfie with my daughters. My 12 year old got the flash in her eyes (she is bigger than me now). My 12 year old looks like my husband and my 9 year old looks like me.
  • Lonestar5715
    Lonestar5715 Posts: 466 Member
    Thank you, Darlene. And you're welcome. My wife had a miscarriage and is in a terrible state of mind. And so am I. Her HCG is still not back to 0 but we booked this trip months in advance and I am also taking her to my office after lunch. Just a two day release from world's problems. But she is not really happy. She is grumpy and moody.

    @Cutaway_Collar I'm truly sorry to hear your news. I have never had to experience that but wish you both understanding with each other and healing in your hearts however that happens.
  • Lonestar5715
    Lonestar5715 Posts: 466 Member
    gfjazz wrote: »
    Good morning just finished U Tube video try something different daily
    We are 52 years married it's not easy but we lean on one another for support
    Our kids and grandkids ignore us they have important things to do
    After 5 years of thearpy I am ok with it

    @gfjazz Congratulations on so many many years of marriage. You obviously have something special going and I commend you for toughing it out through the valleys. I hope you visit the thread regularly and lend the rest of us some of your experience.
  • rps67
    rps67 Posts: 163 Member
    I'm jumping in here, even though I hope to be out of it in the next year. I'm 48, sort of married, mother of 8 kids, business analyst and training for a triathlon and half marathon plus planning a race. On top of that, I feel like I need to get serious about dropping this last 15 lb. or so that I've held on to since the last kid so that's why I'm back.
  • rps67
    rps67 Posts: 163 Member
    Send one of the 8 to my house. We'll adopt ;)

    The problem with that is the older ones have some issues, like the lack of desire to get an education or a good job, and the young ones are still cute enough that I like them. I'll have to see if the 6 year old behaves today; if he doesn't, I may ask for your address.

  • thenananator
    thenananator Posts: 273 Member
    Send one of the 8 to my house. We'll adopt ;)

    Greetings my dear...sorry to hear of your heartache. My H and I adopted 3 of our 4 children...two of them were a sibling group and they joined our family at ages 1.5 and 3.5...the last one we adopted at age 27 but she has been with us since she was 12. Nothing eases the pain that you have now, I am sorry for that.
  • DarleneReid577
    DarleneReid577 Posts: 4,401 Member
    ^

    That's great. I didn't know adoption can be done that late.

    Anybody who cooks good food wants to partially adopt a 36 year old foodie?? He will stay in the basement once a week. Wife visitation priveleges needed for him. The sex will be so quiet nobody will know.

    You have a wonderful sense of humor. Basement dwellers are freaky but basement dwellers that want wifely sex are just freaks. Lmao....
  • DarleneReid577
    DarleneReid577 Posts: 4,401 Member
    projectsix wrote: »
    I'm married but I cheat alllllllllll the time. Call me for a good time!

    Yuck....matches with __ck. As in WTF
  • drbuzzard91
    drbuzzard91 Posts: 1,204 Member
    swingers whats good ;)
  • DarleneReid577
    DarleneReid577 Posts: 4,401 Member
    Holy *kitten* did the pervert squad take over our thread... .come on people. ..help me
  • DarlingNikki2011
    DarlingNikki2011 Posts: 287 Member
    edited August 2016
    B) Well, I was just about to say hi to all the married folks....then I got to the last page. Seems things have gone in another direction.
  • Lonestar5715
    Lonestar5715 Posts: 466 Member
    B) Well, I was just about to say hi to all the married folks....then I got to the last page. Seems things have gone in another direction.

    @DarlingNikki2011 you can still say hi, glad to have you here and feel free to start a subject of interest to married members. :)
  • Lonestar5715
    Lonestar5715 Posts: 466 Member
    Hey everyone........when it comes to planning a vacation, do you get involved in the planning with your spouse or is the other person the one who lays out the trip? Are you married to someone who plans months and months in advance or are they spontaneous and like to surprise you on a Friday evening with weekend plans out of town?
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    I plan way in advance. I even sometimes check years in advance to where my husband's physics conferences will be because if it's a place worth it for us all to go we can plan it as a family trip. I think my husband is more last minute. We both contribute to the planning.
  • Lonestar5715
    Lonestar5715 Posts: 466 Member
    I plan way in advance. I even sometimes check years in advance to where my husband's physics conferences will be because if it's a place worth it for us all to go we can plan it as a family trip. I think my husband is more last minute. We both contribute to the planning.

    That makes a lot of sense @BinaryPulsar What is your favorite place you have visited with your family as a result of your husband's conferences?
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    I plan way in advance. I even sometimes check years in advance to where my husband's physics conferences will be because if it's a place worth it for us all to go we can plan it as a family trip. I think my husband is more last minute. We both contribute to the planning.

    That makes a lot of sense @BinaryPulsar What is your favorite place you have visited with your family as a result of your husband's conferences?

    Usually we just go if it's near friends or family. Otherwise it's generally easier for him to go. All the conferences are in the US. We live in Canada. I have family in Boston, and California. He has family in New Jersey. We have friends in all three places. We lived in California for seven years and have many friends there. So, soon we will go with him to a conference in California. He has another conference before that (I can't remember where, it was a surprise). There is an annual conference he always goes to. And then surprise trips for presentations. The last time we went was when it was in Rhode Island. And we visited Vermont (we met there in college), Boston, and New Jersey. It was during hurricane Sandy. And we take fun trips nearby in British Columbia, where we live. Lots of nice places here. I have also been to India on my own. And when I was in India, my husband was kayaking with a biologist friend through the everglades and camping on docks. They were collecting bug samples. And were with alligators and sharks. Yikes!!!
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    We were travelling across the US after our wedding. We lived in NY when we were married there (upstate), so we did a honeymoon stop at Niagara Falls, and then across the country.
  • DarleneReid577
    DarleneReid577 Posts: 4,401 Member
    I love to travel. We have been to Cuba, Costa Rica. Dominican Republic and I have travelled from Ontario to British Columbia. I usually plan the trips as Mr works away from home and I have way better computer skills. Anyone remember going to a travel agent to book trips.
  • Lonestar5715
    Lonestar5715 Posts: 466 Member
    I love to travel. We have been to Cuba, Costa Rica. Dominican Republic and I have travelled from Ontario to British Columbia. I usually plan the trips as Mr works away from home and I have way better computer skills. Anyone remember going to a travel agent to book trips.

    Yes, travel agents, one of the many jobs that have all but disappeared with the rise of the World Wide Web.
  • meredithgir199
    meredithgir199 Posts: 243 Member
    Hey everyone........when it comes to planning a vacation, do you get involved in the planning with your spouse or is the other person the one who lays out the trip? Are you married to someone who plans months and months in advance or are they spontaneous and like to surprise you on a Friday evening with weekend plans out of town?

    I'm usually the one who plans and yes I do it months & months ahead of time. Our schedules are such that we have to schedule time off well in advance if we want more than a day. Plus I'm cheap and like to get low fares with plenty of time to save. Lol
  • DarleneReid577
    DarleneReid577 Posts: 4,401 Member
    I love to travel. We have been to Cuba, Costa Rica. Dominican Republic and I have travelled from Ontario to British Columbia. I usually plan the trips as Mr works away from home and I have way better computer skills. Anyone remember going to a travel agent to book trips.

    Yes, travel agents, one of the many jobs that have all but disappeared with the rise of the World Wide Web.

    Yes my friends in Ontario just posted me about Canada post is going to start doing alcohol delivery. You order online from LCBO and pick up with ID at post office.
  • danj_64
    danj_64 Posts: 96 Member
    Hello all. I'm new to this thread. Been on MFP for a long time but have not been active lately.