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  • dwatson925
    dwatson925 Posts: 143 Member
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    Married in PA, feeling better about myself.
  • hdatres
    hdatres Posts: 635 Member
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    dwatson925 wrote: »
    Married in PA, feeling better about myself.

    I'm married and in PA too!!
    I'm in Altoona area.
  • hdatres
    hdatres Posts: 635 Member
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    I'm married we're going to NewYork for our 3 year anniversary in August!!! Where excited!
  • honesty71108
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    Noelani1503 wrote: »
    Guns_N_Buns wrote: »
    Here's my rule of thumb: if it's something I can't show/tell my husband (i.e. show him the convos with that person/s, etc.) about, then I shouldn't be doing it.

    This. I'm a fan of total honesty.

    Also, I don't think anyone can presume to know the rules of someone else's marriage. I knew a guy who I thought was a total jerk for cheating on his fiancé regularly and lying to her about it. Turned out, she knew, it was allowed, and she didn't want details. They're married with a kid now. Happily. I'm not gonna judge what makes someone happy unless they're hurting someone else. I can't possibly know what goes on in a relationship/marriage that isn't mine.

    so true....u can never know what works for someone...so best to let them do whatever they think is right for them..
  • Lonestar5715
    Lonestar5715 Posts: 466 Member
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    Good morning everyone! Happy Friday Eve!
  • Morgaen73
    Morgaen73 Posts: 2,818 Member
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    synchkat wrote: »
    DarleneReid577 wrote: »
    It's sort of like phone sex, but on a fitness site. Do you think I might be a hot skinny chick that can rock your world. Think about it. Duh

    I've seen many women upset here because "he told me he'd leave his wife for me". Ya I'm sure it happens sometimes but some on. that's just my two cents worth. Most people just want a spot and someone to vent to about their spouse. Someone who might in a small way get it

    This lol

  • kevin3676
    kevin3676 Posts: 40 Member
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    Married here
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
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    TannedTiger wrote: »
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    I'm just expressing my thoughts. I'm sorry if I accidentally say something that is odd, offensive, or leads to misunderstanding. Because this seems like a topic open to lots of misunderstanding. I don't see how online chatting could ever be as good or better than real life. I like the physical interaction of real life for sex and for everything. But, I guess online is "safer" because people can have that flirty feeling with much less risk of it going further than what they would actually want. Online chatting is just imagination/illusion. But, it seems some people use it as an interactive type of porn. So, I guess that's the appeal. But, I am not interested. Seems it would get boring really fast. Also my husband adores everything about me. I can't imagine finding anyone that adores me to that degree. Online being an illusion means that a person would be liking an imaginary version of me. Not the real me with all my various quirks that make me a flawed human with positives and negatives. And you don't know, the person could smell bad. That said, I have been in a relationship with my husband for 18 years. It often seems that people that haven't been in a long happy relationship get more freaked out (and judgemental) by the idea of married people looking, flirting, etc. But, we are happy and human. I don't mind if I am out dancing with my husband and we are flirting together with others. I know he loves me and adores me. And can still have fun interacting harmlessly with others. It's not a big deal to me. Just being open to admiring and being admired with men and women. I don't want to be with anyone but my husband. But, it's still fun to interact in an open way with other humans dancing.

    Wow...I am impressed..
    Are you single? lol

    She is not. I have been trying to steal her husband away from her for a while now, you know, for science.
  • gfjazz
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    Lion king was so awesome
    We were dressed up had great seats and the costumes wonderful
    For all soon to be married congratulations
    For those of us married it's tuff but I am 52 years married
  • rosalieglez
    rosalieglez Posts: 13 Member
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    Married 2 years! <3 But totally OK with having hot guys and girls as friends :lol:
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,369 Member
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    Morgaen73 wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    DarleneReid577 wrote: »
    It's sort of like phone sex, but on a fitness site. Do you think I might be a hot skinny chick that can rock your world. Think about it. Duh

    I've seen many women upset here because "he told me he'd leave his wife for me". Ya I'm sure it happens sometimes but some on. that's just my two cents worth. Most people just want a spot and someone to vent to about their spouse. Someone who might in a small way get it

    This lol

    haha amazing you understood what I wrote hahah
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,369 Member
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    Cutaway_Collar wrote: »
    ^

    Will husband be okay with the hotnesses?

    you talking to me?
    I figure skate, he's used to be being scantily clad in front of an audience and sharing a changer with men. My speciality for skating is ice dance and I basically teach which requires me to skate in very close proximity with men. He also refers to me as a trophy wife...so....
  • RunRachelleRun
    RunRachelleRun Posts: 1,854 Member
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    Guns_N_Buns wrote: »
    Cutaway_Collar wrote: »
    Singles are like children. They do not understand married people problems :D

    One guy told me he cannot imagine not having sex for a week if he were married. Sometimes life happens and sex is the last thing that week.

    Oh my goodness, sex never changed in my relationship:dizzy: . I swear, I think my hubby keeps tabs on what I "owe him" for putting a ring on it or something. :#

    Sorry for the TMI, but it's at least once a day.

    Seriously? Do you have children? What about during Tom and you're feeling cramped, bloated, and irritable :cold_sweat: . I started out hard to get and stayed that way. He wants it more than I do, and that seems like a good way to keep it. Married 20 years, some happily. (For some reason I cannot type a question mark. It is insisting I use an emoji instead. Emoji equals question mark.)
  • RunRachelleRun
    RunRachelleRun Posts: 1,854 Member
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    Cutaway_Collar wrote: »
    I don't know but it's not happening in my marriage. And the best sex of my life was with my wife. However, we don't do it every day right now. When we were dating, it used to be 7 to 10 times for just the weekend.

    Glad to hear it. For a second, I doubted my awesome wifeness.
  • honesty71108
    honesty71108 Posts: 50 Member
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    it just depends what works for you and your partner...having more gap in your sex days in a marriage is normal...kids, chores, priority...wifes mood etc....lol

    but i think i can make my man feel like a teenager again when i click my fingers...;)...its better to spice up your life then fall in a midlife crisis in a marriage
  • Guns_N_Buns
    Guns_N_Buns Posts: 1,899 Member
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    RunRachelleRun wrote: »
    Guns_N_Buns wrote: »
    Cutaway_Collar wrote: »
    Singles are like children. They do not understand married people problems :D

    One guy told me he cannot imagine not having sex for a week if he were married. Sometimes life happens and sex is the last thing that week.

    Oh my goodness, sex never changed in my relationship:dizzy: . I swear, I think my hubby keeps tabs on what I "owe him" for putting a ring on it or something. :#

    Sorry for the TMI, but it's at least once a day.

    Seriously? Do you have children? What about during Tom and you're feeling cramped, bloated, and irritable :cold_sweat: . I started out hard to get and stayed that way. He wants it more than I do, and that seems like a good way to keep it. Married 20 years, some happily. (For some reason I cannot type a question mark. It is insisting I use an emoji instead. Emoji equals question mark.)

    He has two boys that we have every other week. We don't have sex, literally, every day -- although majority of the weeks we do -- there are definitely times when we fight or TOM, but it all averages out to be about once per day. He definitely wants it more than I do 90% of the time, but I still do it for his sake.
  • Guns_N_Buns
    Guns_N_Buns Posts: 1,899 Member
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    Oh, and TOM generally equates to other forms of intimacy, if you catch my drift.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
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    We have frequent sex. Sometimes it's every day. Sometimes a few times a week. Sometimes we go a week in between when life is busy or we are sick or whatever. Sometimes it's more fun after a short break, though! Sometimes it's good to let it build.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
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    jnichel wrote: »
    TannedTiger wrote: »
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    I'm just expressing my thoughts. I'm sorry if I accidentally say something that is odd, offensive, or leads to misunderstanding. Because this seems like a topic open to lots of misunderstanding. I don't see how online chatting could ever be as good or better than real life. I like the physical interaction of real life for sex and for everything. But, I guess online is "safer" because people can have that flirty feeling with much less risk of it going further than what they would actually want. Online chatting is just imagination/illusion. But, it seems some people use it as an interactive type of porn. So, I guess that's the appeal. But, I am not interested. Seems it would get boring really fast. Also my husband adores everything about me. I can't imagine finding anyone that adores me to that degree. Online being an illusion means that a person would be liking an imaginary version of me. Not the real me with all my various quirks that make me a flawed human with positives and negatives. And you don't know, the person could smell bad. That said, I have been in a relationship with my husband for 18 years. It often seems that people that haven't been in a long happy relationship get more freaked out (and judgemental) by the idea of married people looking, flirting, etc. But, we are happy and human. I don't mind if I am out dancing with my husband and we are flirting together with others. I know he loves me and adores me. And can still have fun interacting harmlessly with others. It's not a big deal to me. Just being open to admiring and being admired with men and women. I don't want to be with anyone but my husband. But, it's still fun to interact in an open way with other humans dancing.

    Wow...I am impressed..
    Are you single? lol

    She is not. I have been trying to steal her husband away from her for a while now, you know, for science.

    :lol:

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