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  • gfjazz
    gfjazz Posts: 285 Member
    My husband does not support me either the more I exercise the more he tells me I am never going to heal my knee.probably right but since Jan 27 23 pounds I love my clothes fit I feel better at 70 that's great news
    I worry my husbands overweight breathes heavy just putting socks on I want him to loose weight but he wil not give up sweets
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    gfjazz wrote: »
    My husband does not support me either the more I exercise the more he tells me I am never going to heal my knee.probably right but since Jan 27 23 pounds I love my clothes fit I feel better at 70 that's great news
    I worry my husbands overweight breathes heavy just putting socks on I want him to loose weight but he wil not give up sweets

    my husband is overweight, every other weeks says I have to make him lose weight, so I make him healthy dinners and then he complains I didn't feed him enough and he eats more. Oh well, his snoring would be cured by losing weight but can't tell him that.
  • MrOtto2016
    MrOtto2016 Posts: 40 Member
    edited May 2016
    Well, I bought my wife and I the garmin vivo fit 2 and we have been walking every night for the last 3 weeks ~ 2kms and she has lost 3lbs and I have dropped 10lbs. I'm logging all my food but she is not.
    She is very happy that she can get into clothes she hasn't in awhile. I am happy cause her nice firm butt is coming back...lol
  • RavenLibra
    RavenLibra Posts: 1,737 Member
    My Wife, thinks that standing all day passes for exercise... I learned long ago not to argue with her... SO.. I go to the gym... and climb stairs...she don't offer encouragement BUT I do this for me and the internal fire that I fuel with the pain and suffering I can inflict upon myself at the gym. I am very much self directed. Of course it would be nice to get a compliment once in a while BUT that ain't what drives the Emu :)
  • MsAmandaNJ
    MsAmandaNJ Posts: 1,248 Member
    jasamjak wrote: »
    Do any of you not get the support from the better half and find yourself this MFP is the place to get the support?
    I wouldn't say what I get from him is support, it's more enthusiasm that I'm doing something that makes me happy. He has no interest in getting fit, but doesn't knock me for doing it myself. I'm sure talking about it bores him, so I try to limit the exercise talk. MFP is a nice place for me to be able to talk about an aspect of my life others have no interest in.
  • your_pal_crusher
    your_pal_crusher Posts: 4,437 Member
    MsAmandaNJ wrote: »
    I wouldn't say what I get from him is support, it's more enthusiasm that I'm doing something that makes me happy. He has no interest in getting fit, but doesn't knock me for doing it myself. I'm sure talking about it bores him, so I try to limit the exercise talk. MFP is a nice place for me to be able to talk about an aspect of my life others have no interest in.

    ^ this for me too. I like the community of support also.
  • 2011rocket3touring
    2011rocket3touring Posts: 1,346 Member
    My wife is neutral about my journey. She has asked about my progress and I'm hesitant because we are so close in weight, we are probably under 5lbs apart and I'm not sure who's lighter right now and I think she would be devastated if it were me so I try to keep mum.
  • Noelani1503
    Noelani1503 Posts: 378 Member
    I'm married! My husband tries to understand why I want to do this, but he's never enjoyed working out and has no fitness related goals. He's made casual comments about how I would beat him in a fight, but the delivery makes it seem like it's coming from a place of insecurity. We're on completely different pages about all this and I don't want to say something that makes him feel weak, so I come here for support.
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    I think partly for me and the husband I'm the naturally sportier one in the family...so if I can walk I will walk rather than drive, he'd rather drive. Just makes sense to burn some calories any way I can
  • JeffFit70
    JeffFit70 Posts: 41 Member
    My wife is somewhat neutral on my fitness goals. She is happy I am healthier and likes my current look more than my fat physique.

    I am on MFP to support other where I can but mostly laughs and bullsh*t. I love working out. I don't log my food anymore, so I don't need MFP for support so much...although I have found some great people here.
  • freeforms1979
    freeforms1979 Posts: 46 Member
    @synchkat
    coactive79@gmail.com. hit me up gorgeous....
  • MalcolmX1983
    MalcolmX1983 Posts: 214 Member
    freeforms1979 wrote: »
    @synchkat
    coactive79@gmail.com. hit me up gorgeous....

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  • milmil89
    milmil89 Posts: 43 Member
    I am too very happy married; thought i'd stop by to say hey :)
  • jasamjak67
    jasamjak67 Posts: 1,421 Member
    milmil89 wrote: »
    I am too very happy married; thought i'd stop by to say hey :)

    Hey there!
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    freeforms1979 wrote: »
    @synchkat
    coactive79@gmail.com. hit me up gorgeous....

    ummm that's ok
    thanks for the offer though
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  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    edited May 2016
    Bennysammysofiesdad wrote: »
    Will I get booted if I'm technically married but seperated for 2 years?!?! :D

    talk to my buddy Freeforms I suspect he makes his own rules
  • gfjazz
    gfjazz Posts: 285 Member
    Well hate to admit it but hubby was right after a 48 min and 15 min u tube videos for exercise I am in pain
    I love the support from this chit chat for married.hubby and I stay home most days so this is my inter action with anyone
    My dog is my thearpy most days once a month I do have a thearpist that listens to me trying to understand why my kids hate me
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    Aren'y all kids programmed to hate their parents at some point?
    and well done. What youtube videos do you do? I usually try to find the hardest and then regret that decision but in my messed up mind if I don't hurt it doesn't work
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  • Gareth6484
    Gareth6484 Posts: 3 Member
    edited May 2016
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  • merlosc33
    merlosc33 Posts: 38 Member
    Add me
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    freeforms1979 wrote: »
    @synchkat
    coactive79@gmail.com. hit me up gorgeous....

    I bet you have to beat the women off with a stick.
  • davidleewilson
    davidleewilson Posts: 29 Member
    Married, 40 years on Sunday. We are equal but she tends to do more housework. I love doing everything outside. I was fortunate to find my soulmate.
  • serenityfrye
    serenityfrye Posts: 360 Member
    Married 10 years. Glad to find this thread. My husband is the sort who can drop 10 lbs over night just by giving up cookies so it's great to have support when my goals take a little more effort to reach :smile:
  • gianna42
    gianna42 Posts: 5,991 Member
    serenityfrye wrote: »
    Married 10 years. Glad to find this thread. My husband is the sort who can drop 10 lbs over night just by giving up cookies so it's great to have support when my goals take a little more effort to reach :smile:

    Yes - how do they do that?!
  • serenityfrye
    serenityfrye Posts: 360 Member
    Crazy high metabolism. Our kids are all alarmingly thin as well. They're wound up like tops all day, meanwhile I'm lucky to get through the day without a nap lol.
  • serenityfrye
    serenityfrye Posts: 360 Member
    Crazy high metabolism. Our kids are all alarmingly thin as well. They're wound up like tops all day, meanwhile I'm lucky to get through the day without a nap lol.
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    serenityfrye wrote: »
    Married 10 years. Glad to find this thread. My husband is the sort who can drop 10 lbs over night just by giving up cookies so it's great to have support when my goals take a little more effort to reach :smile:

    I'm kind of like this and I'm happiest when I'm active and can decide I want to lose so I track food and exercise. I think it's probably a bit of adhd too :)
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