Weird gender attraction question

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  • Ben_there_done_that
    Ben_there_done_that Posts: 732 Member
    Yup. Just looked it up as well. I think you're right, Megan.
  • DeficitDuchess
    DeficitDuchess Posts: 3,099 Member
    It's possible or it might be a situation, in which you wish you had a feature; that they have? So you aren't sexually attracted, to them themselves but you'd wish that you had their butt, etc., to enhance your own sexuality. I don't know, if that itself; has a name though. For example there're women that desire to have a butt, like Kim Kardashian; yet have no desire to have sex with her!
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  • djeffreys10
    djeffreys10 Posts: 2,312 Member
    Maximus wrote: »

    What does the year have to do with it??? Are you saying that with each year humans get smarter? That folks from 50 or 500 years ago were idiots?


    I would say the year has a lot to do with it. This was just 50-60 years ago...

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  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    Francl27 wrote: »
    MeganMoroz89 wrote: »
    You might feel like you fall into one of these categories:

    Pansexual = You can be sexually attracted to any gender, whether or not it is within the male/female binary
    Demisexual = You are only sexually attracted to certain people with whom you have an emotional connection

    Is there something for 'almost never sexually attracted by anyone'? lol.

    Yes, that's what demi-sexual is. Demi-sexual is not completely asexual. It's a person with a low sex drive that doesn't feel physically attracted to people based on physicality alone. They only sometimes want sex with a person they have formed an emotional connection with.

    I think it might be worth a try to date women and see how it goes.

    I'm bisexual. But, I have a high sex drive.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member

    Is it wrong to be attracted to a Green Chili Burrito?


    .....I'm asking for a friend.
  • JustMissTracy
    JustMissTracy Posts: 6,338 Member
    This is it..

    I wouldn't overthink it...people are attracted to all sorts of things, sometimes they make sense, sometimes they don't. If an opportunity arises that you can dabble with someone, I say go for it...you'll know pretty fast whether it's really something you're into or not. On the opposite side of the coin, there's nothing wrong with being attracted to anyone and doing nothing about it. xo
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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Is it wrong to be attracted to a Green Chili Burrito?


    .....I'm asking for a friend.

    depends...does it make you burn inside with a passion you can't get anywhere else? If so then it's ok.

    Dunno, I'll ask my friend.

    okay... he said Yes



    and Thank You
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Is it wrong to be attracted to a Green Chili Burrito?


    .....I'm asking for a friend.

    Objectum sexual
  • Wheelhouse15
    Wheelhouse15 Posts: 5,575 Member
    Francl27 wrote: »
    MeganMoroz89 wrote: »
    You might feel like you fall into one of these categories:

    Pansexual = You can be sexually attracted to any gender, whether or not it is within the male/female binary
    Demisexual = You are only sexually attracted to certain people with whom you have an emotional connection

    Is there something for 'almost never sexually attracted by anyone'? lol.

    Asexual.

  • Wheelhouse15
    Wheelhouse15 Posts: 5,575 Member
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Is it wrong to be attracted to a Green Chili Burrito?


    .....I'm asking for a friend.

    Objectum sexual

    So fetishism has a new term?

  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Is it wrong to be attracted to a Green Chili Burrito?


    .....I'm asking for a friend.

    Objectum sexual


    I'm good with that.


    ....if that also means Extra Cheese and a side of Guac

    (which I'm pretty sure that it does)
  • Caporegiem
    Caporegiem Posts: 4,297 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Is it wrong to be attracted to a Green Chili Burrito?


    .....I'm asking for a friend.

    depends...does it make you burn inside with a passion you can't get anywhere else? If so then it's ok.

    Dunno, I'll ask my friend.

    okay... he said Yes



    and Thank You

    Does it burn with the same passion when it leaves you? Because that's love.
  • toned_thugs_n_harmony
    toned_thugs_n_harmony Posts: 1,001 Member
    edited September 2016
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Is it wrong to be attracted to a Green Chili Burrito?


    .....I'm asking for a friend.

    depends...does it make you burn inside with a passion you can't get anywhere else? If so then it's ok.

    Dunno, I'll ask my friend.

    okay... he said Yes



    and Thank You

    Does it burn with the same passion when it leaves you? Because that's love.


    if it doesn't burn WORSE when it leaves you...it was never love
  • DeficitDuchess
    DeficitDuchess Posts: 3,099 Member
    edited September 2016
    What's self attraction's label?

    I am not conceited but my self esteem, won't allow me; to be loveless!
  • Caporegiem
    Caporegiem Posts: 4,297 Member
    edited September 2016
    toned_thugs_n_harmony wrote: »
    if it doesn't burn WORSE when it leaves you...it was never love


    That's pretty insightful for someone with only 163 posts...
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    Wheelhouse15 wrote: »
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Is it wrong to be attracted to a Green Chili Burrito?


    .....I'm asking for a friend.

    Objectum sexual

    So fetishism has a new term?

    No, it's not fetishism. It's a rare situation in which people do not have sexual attraction or romantic interest in people. They feel that they are in love with specific objects and the objects are also in love with them. I'm pretty sure it's classified as a mental illness (though they disagree). Everyone that has this condition has other disorders along with it such as a severe attachment disorder.
  • snickerscharlie
    snickerscharlie Posts: 8,578 Member
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Is it wrong to be attracted to a Green Chili Burrito?


    .....I'm asking for a friend.

    depends...does it make you burn inside with a passion you can't get anywhere else? If so then it's ok.

    Dunno, I'll ask my friend.

    okay... he said Yes



    and Thank You

    Does it burn with the same passion when it leaves you? Because that's love.

    It's true...if you love something set it free...and if it hurts like hell it was probably real love.

    If it hurts like hell you should probably visit your doctor. Just sayin'.
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  • snickerscharlie
    snickerscharlie Posts: 8,578 Member
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
    snickerscharlie wrote: »
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Is it wrong to be attracted to a Green Chili Burrito?


    .....I'm asking for a friend.

    depends...does it make you burn inside with a passion you can't get anywhere else? If so then it's ok.

    Dunno, I'll ask my friend.

    okay... he said Yes



    and Thank You

    Does it burn with the same passion when it leaves you? Because that's love.

    It's true...if you love something set it free...and if it hurts like hell it was probably real love.

    If it hurts like hell you should probably visit your doctor. Just sayin'.

    like a therapist to address the emotional pain?

    Not exactly.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Is it wrong to be attracted to a Green Chili Burrito?


    .....I'm asking for a friend.

    depends...does it make you burn inside with a passion you can't get anywhere else? If so then it's ok.

    Dunno, I'll ask my friend.

    okay... he said Yes



    and Thank You

    Does it burn with the same passion when it leaves you? Because that's love.

    Like giving birth to a Marine, homeslice..... Like giving birth to a Marine.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    edited September 2016
    toned_thugs_n_harmony wrote: »
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
    Caporegiem wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Is it wrong to be attracted to a Green Chili Burrito?


    .....I'm asking for a friend.

    depends...does it make you burn inside with a passion you can't get anywhere else? If so then it's ok.

    Dunno, I'll ask my friend.

    okay... he said Yes



    and Thank You

    Does it burn with the same passion when it leaves you? Because that's love.


    if it doesn't burn WORSE when it leaves you...it was never love



    Finally, a woman that understands.
  • MsRuffBuffNStuff
    MsRuffBuffNStuff Posts: 363 Member
    I think it doesn't mean anything. You can admire someone and be attracted to them without wanting to have sex with them... I definitely notice attractive women, and there are even women I enjoy being around a lot...but that doesn't mean anything about my sexual orientation. You have to decide what it means, if anything
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    DeficitDuchess wrote: »
    What's self attraction's label?

    I am not conceited but my self esteem, won't allow me; to be loveless!

    I don't know. Maybe auto-sexual. I might have just made that word up. But, I have found that if you search anything sexual that it probably has people talking about it or proclaiming a fetish for it.
  • kristy5714982
    kristy5714982 Posts: 2 Member
    If you found other women attractive, but did not desire them sexually, it could just be admiration. If you have a female friend that you feel mental and physical desire for, you could be bisexual. If you have known a man you have felt physical desire for, you could be bisexual or heterosexual. You can find people attractive, but not necesarily want to have sex with them. But the fact that you have felt physical desire before does not indicate to me that you are asexual.
  • jenmar222
    jenmar222 Posts: 9,271 Member
    edited September 2016
    MeganMoroz89 wrote: »
    You might feel like you fall into one of these categories:

    Pansexual = You can be sexually attracted to any gender, whether or not it is within the male/female binary
    Demisexual = You are only sexually attracted to certain people with whom you have an emotional connection
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    DeficitDuchess wrote: »
    What's self attraction's label?

    I am not conceited but my self esteem, won't allow me; to be loveless!

    I don't know. Maybe auto-sexual. I might have just made that word up. But, I have found that if you search anything sexual that it probably has people talking about it or proclaiming a fetish for it.

    This is more of a meta comment....

    I hate the current LGBTQ-academic movement to stick a label on every feckin mode of sexuality out there

    It also seems quite "anti-queer" as the point of queer theory has been to break the confines of societally imposed labels and recognize things like sexuality as self-determined and sometimes fluid/uncategorizable

    Anyway, carry on....
  • DeficitDuchess
    DeficitDuchess Posts: 3,099 Member
    edited September 2016
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    DeficitDuchess wrote: »
    What's self attraction's label?

    I am not conceited but my self esteem, won't allow me; to be loveless!

    I don't know. Maybe auto-sexual. I might have just made that word up. But, I have found that if you search anything sexual that it probably has people talking about it or proclaiming a fetish for it.

    Thank you!
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