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    LOL
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    _MistahJ_ wrote: »

    So, just as I expected, not an intelligent thought of your own.

    "When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser."
    Socrates
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    I find it interesting you would consider that slander when literally the majority of the post you referenced you did in fact copy verbatim from the site


    The LGBT foundation is not exactly Westboro, which is where you can find out more about lesbian bed death.

    http://lgbt.foundation/lesbian-bed-death

    "If you’re lucky enough to be unaware of the term, “lesbian bed death” is when lesbians in long-term relationships either stop having sex altogether or have it very infrequently. Coined by Pepper Schwartz in 1983, it has its own Wikipedia page debating whether it’s a lesbophobic myth or a genuine problem and there's even a rock band of the same name! The general consensus is that whilst there may be statistics to indicate “bed death” is more prevalent in lesbian relationships, couples of all orientations experience it.

    So is there any reason that female same-sex couples may be more likely to stop having sex? Well, maybe. Combine two menstrual cycles and (eventually) two menopauses, or even one of each, and there’s a lot of fluctuating hormones that could lead to sex drives dropping off. "

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    _MistahJ_ wrote: »

    [gasp] Another quote! I'm learning so much from you!

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    edited September 2016
    _MistahJ_ wrote: »

    That would be the most intelligent thing you've done in this thread.

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    edited September 2016

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    edited September 2016
    It's sad that some people can't disagree while still having open-minded, intelligent, thoughtful, civilized conversation. These people rely on exaggeration and hammering insults rather than using their brains or communication skills. You can usually spot them having to have the last word in every internet argument...

    Anyway, this is why we can't have nice things :confused:
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    jenmar22 wrote: »
    It's sad that some people can't disagree while still having open-minded, intelligent, thoughtful, civilized conversation. These people rely on exaggeration and hammering insults rather than using their brains or communication skills. You can usually spot them having to have the last word in every internet argument...

    Anyway, this is why we can't have nice things :confused:

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    jenmar22 wrote: »
    I love when people have opinions that differ from mine. Often they state them very intelligently, and I learn from them. Such as earlier in the thread when I was complaining about the multiplicity of labels that the LGBTQ movement is adopting. And then a couple forum members contributed very insightful posts about why finding a label for their own sexuality helped them understand it more and find community. We disagreed. Yet, it ended up being very respectful and insightful in the end.

    The problem isn't differing opinions.... The problem is:

    1. Not having the ability to discuss them in a respectful or civilized manner

    2. Approaching the conversation as if you're 150% right so you don't need to consider others' perspectives

    3. Not having the maturity to walk away when a conversation is clearly unproductive

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    Re-reading through some of the older posts, I am very confident that you have achieved your goal and the OP sees herself as a beautiful human, still a bit unsure of her sexuality, but completely content on where this thread ended up.

    Bravo!

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    P.S. Is the echo chamber slang for the beach in Florida? If so then yes!

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    Man what shitshow did I start, lol.
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    It seems like you're more asexual than anything, but why put a label on it and worry about it? Just do what you do.
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    Get some snowflake to explain all the ever-expanding definitions of gender identities you can choose from, then get them all tattooed on your arm and start walking around with a Sharpie strung around your neck for people to check which they prefer. Or, be u.
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    Francl27 wrote: »
    Man what shitshow did I start, lol.

    HAHAHA
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    edited September 2016
    Francl27 wrote: »

    I don't care about the label. I'm just trying to figure out what is 'normal' as a heterosexual person, and what could be sign of bisexuality. I suppose it's harder to figure out when you don't necessarily feel much sexual attraction for anyone though.

    Don't spend your life trying to be normal and fit in, just try to find people who care about you and with whom you can be happy. That goes for sexual and just friends relationships. Hell, it also goes for coworkers. Don't spend your life trying to change for everyone else. At risk of being misinterpreted, I'm not saying be a difficult *kitten*, but accept who you are and find your own path.
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