Married but feels guilty

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  • 3M_TA3
    3M_TA3 Posts: 1,036 Member
    138shades wrote: »
    Domino_75 wrote: »
    ladies, I apologize for Mr. 40's words making your body sound like nothing more than an amusement park. Unfortunately so many men look at women as a piece of meat. No offense meant to you Mr. 40, I just believe differently than you do sir.
    I'll bet you are the only guy who feels this way.

    he is full of crap and trying to be smooth.......


    T&A is like the best thing outside of cheese fries and pizza..............and alcohol.

    another non-believer....ask my friends list about me sending "member" parts to break down the stigma of sexual organs. The body is beautiful and does not need to be objectified. #BreakingDownBarriers
  • rhinestoneradio
    rhinestoneradio Posts: 19 Member
    If you wouldn't say it with your spouse standing right next to you, then its inappropriate.
  • 3M_TA3
    3M_TA3 Posts: 1,036 Member
    If you wouldn't say it with your spouse standing right next to you, then its inappropriate.

    I do not disagree...but you are talking to a guy that tried to hook up a 3-some with a nurse as my dad and wife was in the emergency room with me....
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Anything you do that you would not do with your wife's knowledge is disrespectful and/or cheating.
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    edited October 2016
    I think if you feel guilty, maybe you're doing something you shouldn't - ONLY because you attach meaning to it. It's not inherently wrong to talk to other people...

    WRONG! It is inherently wrong for me to talk to other people, especially women.
    But what would you do if women talk to you? ;)

    "Hey baby, you're so hot, but I have a hot wife and therefore you are my sister."

    Something like that?

    But my sisters are hotter than my wife. Outside of work-related communications, I only speak to ugly old hags.
    But I love the "ugly old hags". They come up to me in church and tell me how they wish their sons were like me. That sends my ego higher above Jesus perched in the dome.

    And... you're locked up... You wasted no time this week.
  • PowerMan40
    PowerMan40 Posts: 766 Member
    3M_TA3 wrote: »
    PowerMan40 wrote: »
    3M_TA3 wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    I suppose if it's something you wouldn't feel comfortable with her reading then don't post it. Only you are going to know your own comfort level. Telling someone they look good doesn't mean you are trying to seduce them.

    Wait, if a girl says, "Good Morning" or "Excuse me, but you're in my way" then that's not her trying to flirt with me?

    Does she lift up her shirt and show you her boobs? If she does...it is flirting. If not...just a regular day. Of course, my flirting skills are probably wrong.

    showing people your boobs is a form of flirting?!? no wonder everyone thinks I like them!

    Boobs are over-rated..just another body part, like an arm or something

    You are sooo wrong...... fun bags, hooterz, They are what makes the world turn Bro..

    ladies, I apologize for Mr. 40's words making your body sound like nothing more than an amusement park. Unfortunately so many men look at women as a piece of meat. No offense meant to you Mr. 40, I just believe differently than you do sir.

    You can refrain from apologizing for me, thanks I meant every last word of what I said.

    I believe me and you will always disagree, so we should sit at different lunch room tables from now on....
  • Raptor2763
    Raptor2763 Posts: 387 Member
    this board IS addictive - gotta admit, but we're straying from the question. Basically - if you can't type it with your spouse looking over your shoulder, then don't. pretty simple
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Are you grabbing their woo woo while complimenting them?
    You should stop Trump.
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  • IndySue13
    IndySue13 Posts: 22 Member
    Well, this is one thing we single people don't have to worry about anymore!
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    edited October 2016
    If you are concerned you are either over worrying (and probably don't need to). Or you feel you are doing something wrong. You could talk to your wife. You might be pleasantly surprised by the conversation. I think compliments are fine. But, different people have different boundaries.
  • IndySue13
    IndySue13 Posts: 22 Member
    LOL.....the jealousy factor of a significant other, that is. As far as the boobie discussion....have at it fellas. It's pretty entertaining.
  • crystalsan726
    crystalsan726 Posts: 795 Member
    edited October 2016
    I agree talk to your wife. She will tell you what she prefers. I choose not to have male friends on here being a married woman myself. There are fine lines in marriage and if you are married you will know what those lines for you and your spouse. Also from looking at past failed marriages in my family something small and innocent can always turn to something else. But that is just my opinion. Everyone has their own and will give it to you. You should just ask your wife and see what she says.
  • crystalsan726
    crystalsan726 Posts: 795 Member
    Well some women are secure and some aren't it depends on the person. Also it depends on the compliment too. If it is truly innocent then he shouldn't be worried about talking to his wife. If not then there's your answer.
  • NorthCascades
    NorthCascades Posts: 10,968 Member
    Sarahb29 wrote: »
    This is a really weird question to ask the internet. Ask your wife how she feels about it.

    No! Whatever you do, absolutely do not let your wife find out about this!
  • crystalsan726
    crystalsan726 Posts: 795 Member
    Villae81 wrote: »
    Well some women are secure and some aren't it depends on the person. Also it depends on the compliment too. If it is truly innocent then he shouldn't be worried about talking to his wife. If not then there's your answer.

    Ha! Until an argument starts then all that secure crap turns to raw crazy and starts bringing stuff up from ten thousand years ago shiit they even record what you say in your sleep for ammo purposes

    Well if an argument starts then I guess he will have his answer now won't he?! LoL! If there are issues there to begin with then he should know not to be commenting on pictures. But if he chooses to that is on him.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    Everyone is different. But, not all women feel threatened by their partner admiring women. And certainly not online from a far distance. And vice versa. We are all still human. If he/she is giving unwanted compliments then that's not cool.
  • crystalsan726
    crystalsan726 Posts: 795 Member
    Everyone is different. But, not all women feel threatened by their partner admiring women. And certainly not online from a far distance. And vice versa. We are all still human. If he/she is giving unwanted compliments then that's not cool.

    Well said.
  • ArmsandCharms
    ArmsandCharms Posts: 133 Member
    Lol.... is this real?
  • 3M_TA3
    3M_TA3 Posts: 1,036 Member
    Well now I know @3M_TA3 doesn't think much of my boobs. Geeeez. That's what I had going for me.

    @LiftingLady5 your boobs are awesome...just trolling for FR and random boob pics....it failed....
  • Noelani1503
    Noelani1503 Posts: 378 Member
    Everyone has different rules for their relationships. A lot of couples aren't bothered by looking. They might be turned on by seeing their partner flirt. What about the people who are allowed to touch but not go all the way, or do whatever they want physically with other people but not do anything emotionally? We can't possibly know what's considered acceptable behavior in your relationship.
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  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    Everyone has different rules for their relationships. A lot of couples aren't bothered by looking. They might be turned on by seeing their partner flirt. What about the people who are allowed to touch but not go all the way, or do whatever they want physically with other people but not do anything emotionally? We can't possibly know what's considered acceptable behavior in your relationship.

    Yeah, well said!
  • mbaker566
    mbaker566 Posts: 11,233 Member
    compliments are fine like "way to go"
    avoid things like "looking hot"
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  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    mbaker566 wrote: »
    compliments are fine like "way to go"
    avoid things like "looking hot"

    'yes but a lot of people on here want to approve their appearance with becoming more physically fit...so a compliment such as "Way to go, you are looking hot" isn't all that unreasonable. Its the nature of things. Its not like saying, "Way to go, you are looking hot....I'm sending you a dic pic". That would be too much and his wife would be mad I bet.

    It could be argued that "Way to go, you are looking hot....I'm sending you a dic pic" is appropriate standard for MFP member responses. As long as he sent his wife a D pic too, it's ok.
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  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    138shades wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    mbaker566 wrote: »
    compliments are fine like "way to go"
    avoid things like "looking hot"

    'yes but a lot of people on here want to approve their appearance with becoming more physically fit...so a compliment such as "Way to go, you are looking hot" isn't all that unreasonable. Its the nature of things. Its not like saying, "Way to go, you are looking hot....I'm sending you a dic pic". That would be too much and his wife would be mad I bet.

    It could be argued that "Way to go, you are looking hot....I'm sending you a dic pic" is appropriate standard for MFP member responses. As long as he sent his wife a D pic too, it's ok.

    He could just tell his wife that he doesn't even need to send her a dic pic too, because she gets the real thing. I bet she would see how lucky she is then.

    u r hilarious........but not real lol

    When I looked in the mirror this morning I looked pretty real to me.

    Sorry lulu, you're not real. That's just the way it goes sometimes.