Married but feels guilty
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If you are concerned you are either over worrying (and probably don't need to). Or you feel you are doing something wrong. You could talk to your wife. You might be pleasantly surprised by the conversation. I think compliments are fine. But, different people have different boundaries.0
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LOL.....the jealousy factor of a significant other, that is. As far as the boobie discussion....have at it fellas. It's pretty entertaining.0
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I agree talk to your wife. She will tell you what she prefers. I choose not to have male friends on here being a married woman myself. There are fine lines in marriage and if you are married you will know what those lines for you and your spouse. Also from looking at past failed marriages in my family something small and innocent can always turn to something else. But that is just my opinion. Everyone has their own and will give it to you. You should just ask your wife and see what she says.1
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Well some women are secure and some aren't it depends on the person. Also it depends on the compliment too. If it is truly innocent then he shouldn't be worried about talking to his wife. If not then there's your answer.
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crystalsan726 wrote: »Well some women are secure and some aren't it depends on the person. Also it depends on the compliment too. If it is truly innocent then he shouldn't be worried about talking to his wife. If not then there's your answer.
Ha! Until an argument starts then all that secure crap turns to raw crazy and starts bringing stuff up from ten thousand years ago shiit they even record what you say in your sleep for ammo purposes
Well if an argument starts then I guess he will have his answer now won't he?! LoL! If there are issues there to begin with then he should know not to be commenting on pictures. But if he chooses to that is on him.1 -
Everyone is different. But, not all women feel threatened by their partner admiring women. And certainly not online from a far distance. And vice versa. We are all still human. If he/she is giving unwanted compliments then that's not cool.0
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BinaryPulsar wrote: »Everyone is different. But, not all women feel threatened by their partner admiring women. And certainly not online from a far distance. And vice versa. We are all still human. If he/she is giving unwanted compliments then that's not cool.
Well said.1 -
Lol.... is this real?2
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LiftingLady5 wrote: »Well now I know @3M_TA3 doesn't think much of my boobs. Geeeez. That's what I had going for me.
@LiftingLady5 your boobs are awesome...just trolling for FR and random boob pics....it failed....0 -
Are you complimenting them with your dick? No? Okay then.5
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Everyone has different rules for their relationships. A lot of couples aren't bothered by looking. They might be turned on by seeing their partner flirt. What about the people who are allowed to touch but not go all the way, or do whatever they want physically with other people but not do anything emotionally? We can't possibly know what's considered acceptable behavior in your relationship.1
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Noelani1503 wrote: »Everyone has different rules for their relationships. A lot of couples aren't bothered by looking. They might be turned on by seeing their partner flirt. What about the people who are allowed to touch but not go all the way, or do whatever they want physically with other people but not do anything emotionally? We can't possibly know what's considered acceptable behavior in your relationship.
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compliments are fine like "way to go"
avoid things like "looking hot"0 -
LiftingLady5 wrote: »compliments are fine like "way to go"
avoid things like "looking hot"
'yes but a lot of people on here want to approve their appearance with becoming more physically fit...so a compliment such as "Way to go, you are looking hot" isn't all that unreasonable. Its the nature of things. Its not like saying, "Way to go, you are looking hot....I'm sending you a dic pic". That would be too much and his wife would be mad I bet.
It could be argued that "Way to go, you are looking hot....I'm sending you a dic pic" is appropriate standard for MFP member responses. As long as he sent his wife a D pic too, it's ok.1 -
LiftingLady5 wrote: »LiftingLady5 wrote: »LiftingLady5 wrote: »compliments are fine like "way to go"
avoid things like "looking hot"
'yes but a lot of people on here want to approve their appearance with becoming more physically fit...so a compliment such as "Way to go, you are looking hot" isn't all that unreasonable. Its the nature of things. Its not like saying, "Way to go, you are looking hot....I'm sending you a dic pic". That would be too much and his wife would be mad I bet.
It could be argued that "Way to go, you are looking hot....I'm sending you a dic pic" is appropriate standard for MFP member responses. As long as he sent his wife a D pic too, it's ok.
He could just tell his wife that he doesn't even need to send her a dic pic too, because she gets the real thing. I bet she would see how lucky she is then.
u r hilarious........but not real lol
When I looked in the mirror this morning I looked pretty real to me.
Sorry lulu, you're not real. That's just the way it goes sometimes.0
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