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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »jiujitsudad15118 wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »jiujitsudad15118 wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »If you do a job and don’t put your tools away, the job isn’t done.
If you take out the trash but don’t put a new liner in the bin, the job isn’t done.
If you sweep the floor, but don’t hang the broom back on its hook, the job isn’t done.
If you wash the dishes but leave a fork in the sink or don’t empty the gross strainer thing, the job isn’t done.
If you change the toilet paper roll but leave the empty cardboard tube on the back of the tank, the job isn’t done.
If you sully a hand towel and put it in the hamper without hanging a fresh towel, the job isn’t done.
I can see why youre an ex-wife hahaha jk...kinda
woo.
ETA: I’m not an ex wife.
I would never consent to be in a relationship in which I had to explain those things to a grown up.
Im just teasing. Im the same way...adults who need kidsplaing are annoying AF
Sorry, I’m oblivious to teasing sometimes
Are ya?
How about sarcasm?0 -
jiujitsudad15118 wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »jiujitsudad15118 wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »jiujitsudad15118 wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »If you do a job and don’t put your tools away, the job isn’t done.
If you take out the trash but don’t put a new liner in the bin, the job isn’t done.
If you sweep the floor, but don’t hang the broom back on its hook, the job isn’t done.
If you wash the dishes but leave a fork in the sink or don’t empty the gross strainer thing, the job isn’t done.
If you change the toilet paper roll but leave the empty cardboard tube on the back of the tank, the job isn’t done.
If you sully a hand towel and put it in the hamper without hanging a fresh towel, the job isn’t done.
I can see why youre an ex-wife hahaha jk...kinda
woo.
ETA: I’m not an ex wife.
I would never consent to be in a relationship in which I had to explain those things to a grown up.
Im just teasing. Im the same way...adults who need kidsplaing are annoying AF
Sorry, I’m oblivious to teasing sometimes
Are ya?
How about sarcasm?
I don’t do well with that either. I know, I know. Hopelessly square. Can’t help it.1 -
I saw this and it got me thinking...
Not about me particularly, although I'm sure I've been talk bad about but made me think of other people who talk bad about other people constantly. What do these people gain from spreading hate against someone else? To some, you may be the most amazing person and to others not so much. I'm a big believer in different people bring out different sides of you. People are so easily persuaded and influenced by rumors, in accurate information and just plain hatred. Is it because it's easier to believe the bad rather than the good? For me, unless you've done me wrong personally, you're okay with me. I judge by actions not on words of others. Anyway, just my thoughts this morning and I think I need more coffee lol7 -
r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
I saw this and it got me thinking...
Not about me particularly, although I'm sure I've been talk bad about but made me think of other people who talk bad about other people constantly. What do these people gain from spreading hate against someone else? To some, you may be the most amazing person and to others not so much. I'm a big believer in different people bring out different sides of you. People are so easily persuaded and influenced by rumors, in accurate information and just plain hatred. Is it because it's easier to believe the bad rather than the good? For me, unless you've done me wrong personally, you're okay with me. I judge by actions not on words of others. Anyway, just my thoughts this morning and I think I need more coffee lol
idk. People seem to dislike and hate for some pretty random reasons. It's incomprehensible to me - getting enraged because someone is different from you.
Why does it matter, except as a matter of interest or discussion, that we take our coffee differently or find different movies entertaining or choose a different diet or different religion or have different sexual practices?
Using MFP as an example, Why do people hate on women who show cleavage on here? Or who do or don’t wear makeup? Petty *kitten*.
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r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
I saw this and it got me thinking...
Not about me particularly, although I'm sure I've been talk bad about but made me think of other people who talk bad about other people constantly. What do these people gain from spreading hate against someone else? To some, you may be the most amazing person and to others not so much. I'm a big believer in different people bring out different sides of you. People are so easily persuaded and influenced by rumors, in accurate information and just plain hatred. Is it because it's easier to believe the bad rather than the good? For me, unless you've done me wrong personally, you're okay with me. I judge by actions not on words of others. Anyway, just my thoughts this morning and I think I need more coffee lol
I agree that People can bring out different sides. I’ll also give benefit of the doubt until you wrong me personally.
However I will be more cautious, if there’s more than a handful that have been wronged by the same individual (that same individual claims their innocence). There’s a problem, when a person can’t take accountability for their flat out lies and then tells others “it takes two”. There comes a shame feeling, when you give more vulnerable pieces of yourself, while someone wasn’t honest about who they were.3 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
I saw this and it got me thinking...
Not about me particularly, although I'm sure I've been talk bad about but made me think of other people who talk bad about other people constantly. What do these people gain from spreading hate against someone else? To some, you may be the most amazing person and to others not so much. I'm a big believer in different people bring out different sides of you. People are so easily persuaded and influenced by rumors, in accurate information and just plain hatred. Is it because it's easier to believe the bad rather than the good? For me, unless you've done me wrong personally, you're okay with me. I judge by actions not on words of others. Anyway, just my thoughts this morning and I think I need more coffee lol
idk. People seem to dislike and hate for some pretty random reasons. It's incomprehensible to me - getting enraged because someone is different from you.
Why does it matter, except as a matter of interest or discussion, that we take our coffee differently or find different movies entertaining or choose a different diet or different religion or have different sexual practices?
Using MFP as an example, Why do people hate on women who show cleavage on here? Or who do or don’t wear makeup? Petty *kitten*.
Great examples. Petty and judgmental. To each their own.3 -
I wish I'd understood this in my 20's. Would have saved me a lot of aggravation.
"“You wouldn't worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.” - Elanor Roosevelt4 -
r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
I saw this and it got me thinking...
Not about me particularly, although I'm sure I've been talk bad about but made me think of other people who talk bad about other people constantly. What do these people gain from spreading hate against someone else? To some, you may be the most amazing person and to others not so much. I'm a big believer in different people bring out different sides of you. People are so easily persuaded and influenced by rumors, in accurate information and just plain hatred. Is it because it's easier to believe the bad rather than the good? For me, unless you've done me wrong personally, you're okay with me. I judge by actions not on words of others. Anyway, just my thoughts this morning and I think I need more coffee lol
All of this, well put. I dont come to conclusions based on rumours or assumptions either... only experience.
As for coffee... I'll take a double shot of espresso please! 😊4 -
ChernobylAthleticsDPT wrote: »Service at this restaurant be like: you'll get your tea when you get your tea. If we decide to give you your tea. Its not even upsetting, it's just comical at this point. Family is about to start placing bets on whether or not we get the tea each time we come back.
This was my exact experience with every restaurant I went to in
Grand Bahama.
It does get comical after a while,
although more so looking back than at the time! Lol1 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
I saw this and it got me thinking...
Not about me particularly, although I'm sure I've been talk bad about but made me think of other people who talk bad about other people constantly. What do these people gain from spreading hate against someone else? To some, you may be the most amazing person and to others not so much. I'm a big believer in different people bring out different sides of you. People are so easily persuaded and influenced by rumors, in accurate information and just plain hatred. Is it because it's easier to believe the bad rather than the good? For me, unless you've done me wrong personally, you're okay with me. I judge by actions not on words of others. Anyway, just my thoughts this morning and I think I need more coffee lol
All of this, well put. I dont come to conclusions based on rumours or assumptions either... only experience.
As for coffee... I'll take a double shot of espresso please! 😊
I'm offering spiked coffee today, you good with that? 😁3 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
I saw this and it got me thinking...
Not about me particularly, although I'm sure I've been talk bad about but made me think of other people who talk bad about other people constantly. What do these people gain from spreading hate against someone else? To some, you may be the most amazing person and to others not so much. I'm a big believer in different people bring out different sides of you. People are so easily persuaded and influenced by rumors, in accurate information and just plain hatred. Is it because it's easier to believe the bad rather than the good? For me, unless you've done me wrong personally, you're okay with me. I judge by actions not on words of others. Anyway, just my thoughts this morning and I think I need more coffee lol
All of this, well put. I dont come to conclusions based on rumours or assumptions either... only experience.
As for coffee... I'll take a double shot of espresso please! 😊
I agree with you on some level, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t take what you heard into consideration. Most of the time the things I hear have some truth in it but I choose to ignor it, because it pleases me in the moment. I then end up paying the consequences later. Although, that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t be nice or give someone a chance based solely on rumours. I would just be more cautious until I had a better understanding of who I’m dealing with. I also would take into consideration who is telling me the information and why.7 -
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laprimaJenny wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
I saw this and it got me thinking...
Not about me particularly, although I'm sure I've been talk bad about but made me think of other people who talk bad about other people constantly. What do these people gain from spreading hate against someone else? To some, you may be the most amazing person and to others not so much. I'm a big believer in different people bring out different sides of you. People are so easily persuaded and influenced by rumors, in accurate information and just plain hatred. Is it because it's easier to believe the bad rather than the good? For me, unless you've done me wrong personally, you're okay with me. I judge by actions not on words of others. Anyway, just my thoughts this morning and I think I need more coffee lol
All of this, well put. I dont come to conclusions based on rumours or assumptions either... only experience.
As for coffee... I'll take a double shot of espresso please! 😊
I agree with you on some level, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t take what you heard into consideration. Most of the time the things I hear have some truth in it but I choose to ignor it, because it pleases me in the moment. I then end up paying the consequences later. Although, that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t be nice or give someone a chance based solely on rumours. I would just be more cautious until I had a better understanding of who I’m dealing with. I also would take into consideration who is telling me the information and why.
This.
I hate rumors. I won't make a judgement call based on rumors, but I won't completely ignore them either. I will just be more cautious. It has definitely saved me from a world of hurt. And while some rumors are false, or based on a fraction of truth... there are some rumors that are 100% solid gold truth (aka FACT).
But I prefer to learn from personal experience... not other people's experience.
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r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
I saw this and it got me thinking...
Not about me particularly, although I'm sure I've been talk bad about but made me think of other people who talk bad about other people constantly. What do these people gain from spreading hate against someone else? To some, you may be the most amazing person and to others not so much. I'm a big believer in different people bring out different sides of you. People are so easily persuaded and influenced by rumors, in accurate information and just plain hatred. Is it because it's easier to believe the bad rather than the good? For me, unless you've done me wrong personally, you're okay with me. I judge by actions not on words of others. Anyway, just my thoughts this morning and I think I need more coffee lol
All of this, well put. I dont come to conclusions based on rumours or assumptions either... only experience.
As for coffee... I'll take a double shot of espresso please! 😊
I'm offering spiked coffee today, you good with that? 😁
Am I good with that! Keep em coming!
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laprimaJenny wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
I saw this and it got me thinking...
Not about me particularly, although I'm sure I've been talk bad about but made me think of other people who talk bad about other people constantly. What do these people gain from spreading hate against someone else? To some, you may be the most amazing person and to others not so much. I'm a big believer in different people bring out different sides of you. People are so easily persuaded and influenced by rumors, in accurate information and just plain hatred. Is it because it's easier to believe the bad rather than the good? For me, unless you've done me wrong personally, you're okay with me. I judge by actions not on words of others. Anyway, just my thoughts this morning and I think I need more coffee lol
All of this, well put. I dont come to conclusions based on rumours or assumptions either... only experience.
As for coffee... I'll take a double shot of espresso please! 😊
I agree with you on some level, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t take what you heard into consideration. Most of the time the things I hear have some truth in it but I choose to ignor it, because it pleases me in the moment. I then end up paying the consequences later. Although, that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t be nice or give someone a chance based solely on rumours. I would just be more cautious until I had a better understanding of who I’m dealing with. I also would take into consideration who is telling me the information and why.
Some very good points here.. most that go without saying. If someone I trust and respect comes to me with something I dont consider it gossip or rumours. But I don't frivolously trust and respect anyone and everyone. On the same token I've been burnt before. Havent we all? Guess that's just life... you live and you learn and you're better for it.
You know what speaks louder than words and even actions? Patterns.11
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