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  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    Shaved a years worth of beard off today and now the bottom half of my face is white as a sheet.

    This always makes me sad. πŸ˜”
    I guess because when my ex shaved his after 25yrs I cried for a week. πŸ˜‚

    ... um, they grow back ya'know ?

    Exes?

    They usually come back thicker too.

    And with a vengeance

    But a little more patchy?

    Ummm...Just here to cheer on your new PP @PlentyofProtein00. What a cutie-patootie!! 😌

    But...my beard is patchy 😐
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
    Shaved a years worth of beard off today and now the bottom half of my face is white as a sheet.

    This always makes me sad. πŸ˜”
    I guess because when my ex shaved his after 25yrs I cried for a week. πŸ˜‚

    ... um, they grow back ya'know ?

    Exes?

    They usually come back thicker too.

    And with a vengeance

    But a little more patchy?

    Ummm...Just here to cheer on your new PP @PlentyofProtein00. What a cutie-patootie!! 😌

    But...my beard is patchy 😐

    Same, sis...same 🀣😩
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    Those bats are mega sized!! We have little ones around here and I love going out at dusk in the early fall to watch them during feeding time. When I was little, we had them living in a shed of ours; when they'd fly in and out I tried catching them with a net. Never got one and most likely a good thing. I would've screamed bloody murder.
  • Diatonic12
    Diatonic12 Posts: 32,344 Member
    edited November 2020
    <3<3
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.

    Call her your beautiful woman. Hugs and Butt Smacks

    Be sure and tell Daryl that I said, Hello, won't you? Give him my best regards.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8yxoob6aPtk
  • JessBbody
    JessBbody Posts: 523 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.

    It does sound odd to me when I hear it, but I don't think it should, at least not for me. I want to shake the oddness out of hearing it because I want to lose those ageist sensibilities. It's like, why does it have to sound odd? People in their 40s, 50s and beyond should be able to have partners they aren't married to and I should be able to call those partners by the same descriptors as I would for a younger person.

    I've never liked the term significant other. Next time I'm in a couple I'm definitely going to refer to him as my boyfriend, until it feels normal.

  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.

    Not really.
    Makes you seem kind of, fun?

    Idk if that’s the right word.
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.

    It does sound odd to me when I hear it, but I don't think it should, at least not for me. I want to shake the oddness out of hearing it because I want to lose those ageist sensibilities. It's like, why does it have to sound odd? People in their 40s, 50s and beyond should be able to have partners they aren't married to and I should be able to call those partners by the same descriptors as I would for a younger person.

    I've never liked the term significant other. Next time I'm in a couple I'm definitely going to refer to him as my boyfriend, until it feels normal.

    It does take some getting used to. I dont know why it feels weird but it did or does 🀨
  • KickassAmazon76
    KickassAmazon76 Posts: 4,678 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.

    It does sound odd to me when I hear it, but I don't think it should, at least not for me. I want to shake the oddness out of hearing it because I want to lose those ageist sensibilities. It's like, why does it have to sound odd? People in their 40s, 50s and beyond should be able to have partners they aren't married to and I should be able to call those partners by the same descriptors as I would for a younger person.

    I've never liked the term significant other. Next time I'm in a couple I'm definitely going to refer to him as my boyfriend, until it feels normal.

    It does take some getting used to. I dont know why it feels weird but it did or does 🀨

    For me it's the whole "boy" and "girl" nomenclature. It feels childish. I don't tend to refer to grownups as boys or girls.
  • JessBbody
    JessBbody Posts: 523 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.

    It does sound odd to me when I hear it, but I don't think it should, at least not for me. I want to shake the oddness out of hearing it because I want to lose those ageist sensibilities. It's like, why does it have to sound odd? People in their 40s, 50s and beyond should be able to have partners they aren't married to and I should be able to call those partners by the same descriptors as I would for a younger person.

    I've never liked the term significant other. Next time I'm in a couple I'm definitely going to refer to him as my boyfriend, until it feels normal.

    It does take some getting used to. I dont know why it feels weird but it did or does 🀨

    For me it's the whole "boy" and "girl" nomenclature. It feels childish. I don't tend to refer to grownups as boys or girls.

    I get this.
    Until we come up with something better, the alternative would be man/gentleman friend or woman/lady friend.
    But I usually think of these as terms older people use to describe either their friends of the opposite gender or maybe people they're dating. So it seems like there's an age category for those, too.

  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    edited November 2020
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.

    My uncle has referred to his SO as his "Ol lady", since he was like 30... πŸ˜‚

    Out of every thing I've ever heard, I still like that one the best... And that Dude is probably the cockiest machoist Latino I've ever known... πŸ˜‚, he's also the funniest...

    I really gotta get better at catching up with people πŸ˜‚
  • Miz_Owl
    Miz_Owl Posts: 3,026 Member
    What I found more odd is when my mother was dating and I would say , " mom & her boyfriend "
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.

    Couple goals...
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  • KickassAmazon76
    KickassAmazon76 Posts: 4,678 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.

    Umm are congrats in order? πŸ˜…

    I think girlfriend sounds totally normal regardless of the age.

    If you can’t get used to it but like having her around, you can always change it to fiancΓ©e 😏

    Tried that... Turns out ex is all encompassing. Lol
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.

    Well that depends on the seriousness of the relationship. If it's just a female you know it won't last, girlfriend seems appropriate. If it's someone you're looking into a future with, fiancee, wife, love of my life....

    In truth, whatever name you choose to refer her to as, she will be happy with because she'll have you :)
  • stevehenderson776
    stevehenderson776 Posts: 324 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.

    Last chance? :p
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    I love these guys but they scare the bejeezus when I ride my bike at night.

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    EDIT
    Holy *kitten*..

    Their wingspan is 3 feet.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QqKnRpch2wI

    Whooosh!

    They scare me a bit too. I have an old fig tree they just love and at night if I walk under it I can hear the whoop whoop noise of giant wings taking off or them coming into land..
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    I love these guys but they scare the bejeezus when I ride my bike at night.

    r4wooqdlb8ec.jpg

    5ix9zfd7qjgy.jpg


    EDIT
    Holy *kitten*..

    Their wingspan is 3 feet.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QqKnRpch2wI

    Whooosh!

    They scare me a bit too. I have an old fig tree they just love and at night if I walk under it I can hear the whoop whoop noise of giant wings taking off or them coming into land..

    Snekes

    Crockadials

    Spideers

    Now Bats Too ?

    tCd.gif
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.

    Ball and chain? Fan? Admirer? Better half? Gangster *kitten?* Flame? Hearthrob?

    πŸ˜‚ you πŸ€—

    Add..
    Love muffin
    Bit o crumpet
    Bedwarmer
    Ol girl


    Kidding 😜

    The name I liked the most was "darlin" but Im not sure if it was the word or the accent. πŸ™‚

    Maybe just call her by her name ? Do you have to qualify who she is to others ?


    Congratulations in any event.. going to be in the dad bod thread soon? πŸ˜ƒ
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.

    Ball and chain? Fan? Admirer? Better half? Gangster *kitten?* Flame? Hearthrob?

    πŸ˜‚ you πŸ€—

    Add..
    Love muffin
    Bit o crumpet
    Bedwarmer
    Ol girl


    Kidding 😜

    The name I liked the most was "darlin" but Im not sure if it was the word or the accent. πŸ™‚

    Maybe just call her by her name ? Do you have to qualify who she is to others ?


    Congratulations in any event.. going to be in the dad bod thread soon? πŸ˜ƒ

    Bed Warmer?

    go with: "Beddie" too.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    I love these guys but they scare the bejeezus when I ride my bike at night.

    r4wooqdlb8ec.jpg

    5ix9zfd7qjgy.jpg


    EDIT
    Holy *kitten*..

    Their wingspan is 3 feet.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QqKnRpch2wI

    Whooosh!

    They scare me a bit too. I have an old fig tree they just love and at night if I walk under it I can hear the whoop whoop noise of giant wings taking off or them coming into land..

    Snekes

    Crockadials

    Spideers

    Now Bats Too ?

    tCd.gif

    And yet you aren't afraid of the most dangerous.. me πŸ˜œπŸ˜‚

    I will look after you πŸ€— theres no critters in the basem.... errrmm , I mean inside πŸ˜‰
  • KickassAmazon76
    KickassAmazon76 Posts: 4,678 Member
    @reenieHJ - thank you so much for the kind words about my song. <3

    I just finished work for the day! YAY finished early, and they're letting us off the hook for more work tomorrow, so I'm done for the weekend. I am so fried mentally from this week that I just want to sleep... but really need to do a workout and actually feed the kids, so maybe just a quick nap. lol
  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.

    Squeeze? Just joking πŸ˜€
    I think girlfriend is appropriate,
    everything else sounds strange.
  • Revolu7
    Revolu7 Posts: 1,035 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.
    Revolu7 wrote: Β»
    Is it odd sounding to hear a 50 yr old man refer to his girlfriend? Is there another word to use for older prople, Significant other sounds stuffy to me.

    Ball and chain? Fan? Admirer? Better half? Gangster *kitten?* Flame? Hearthrob?

    πŸ˜‚ you πŸ€—

    Add..
    Love muffin
    Bit o crumpet
    Bedwarmer
    Ol girl


    Kidding 😜

    The name I liked the most was "darlin" but Im not sure if it was the word or the accent. πŸ™‚

    Maybe just call her by her name ? Do you have to qualify who she is to others ?


    Congratulations in any event.. going to be in the dad bod thread soon? πŸ˜ƒ

    Well lets just say its a hypothetical relationship. πŸ˜‰. So lets just say im talking with you and i say, me and Xiomara went to dinner last night. You say, who is Xiomara? I say, she is.........darlin? That is no good unless im speaking with her.....but what about when i talk about this theoretical female to you? I think i will be stuck with girlfriend.....

    Good thing this is a theoretical situation 😁