What's on your mind?

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  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,702 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    On cognitive dissonance...

    Whatever you believe about yourself is the truth.That's your paradigm.

    But if the truth is negative or unhelpful, then find whatever will, motivation, mantra or gumption you need to stop fighting against your success today.

    Embrace The Better You even though it's challenging because life is gonna be a constant challenge whether you suck or succeed.

    There's just way more clarity for problem solving when you're succeeding though.


    ...Hopefully, I wasn't just talking to myself here 🤷🏿‍♀️

    I heard ya! ☺️
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Where I can get these
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    I’ll find them and hand deliver.

    I'm gonna marry you 🥰
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Where I can get these
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    I’ll find them and hand deliver.

    I'm gonna marry you 🥰

    Marry me too 🥰💍
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    🤨😡
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    On cognitive dissonance...

    Whatever you believe about yourself is the truth.That's your paradigm.

    But if the truth is negative or unhelpful, then find whatever will, motivation, mantra or gumption you need to stop fighting against your success today.

    Embrace The Better You even though it's challenging because life is gonna be a constant challenge whether you suck or succeed.

    There's just way more clarity for problem solving when you're succeeding though.


    ...Hopefully, I wasn't just talking to myself here 🤷🏿‍♀️

    Yep, we're our own worst enemies. :/ When I was a preteen-ish little girl, I was picked on by strangers, parents of friends, people I really didn't know. I became what they picked on me about, like a self fulfilling prophecy. It's been a challenge to this day to overcome what I had convinced myself I must've been because if adults were saying it then it must be truth. :/ Granted I'm much better now, with different perspective and all that but it does take a lot of positive self-talk to rise above certain things. Certainly made for hellish teenage years though.

    Well, that's my story of what was on my mind after reading your post @MaltedTea. :)
  • lx1x
    lx1x Posts: 38,330 Member
    lx1x wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Where I can get these
    9lydxo4ks3as.jpg

    I’ll find them and hand deliver.

    I'm gonna marry you 🥰

    They don't sell them here (US) it looks like. But!

    They sell these here..
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    You have all the best foods 😤

    Told ya to move.. 😝
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    lx1x wrote: »
    lx1x wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Where I can get these
    9lydxo4ks3as.jpg

    I’ll find them and hand deliver.

    I'm gonna marry you 🥰

    They don't sell them here (US) it looks like. But!

    They sell these here..
    1ky149223sk6.png

    You have all the best foods 😤

    Told ya to move.. 😝

    She is..
    To Australia 😝
  • lx1x
    lx1x Posts: 38,330 Member
    lx1x wrote: »
    lx1x wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Where I can get these
    9lydxo4ks3as.jpg

    I’ll find them and hand deliver.

    I'm gonna marry you 🥰

    They don't sell them here (US) it looks like. But!

    They sell these here..
    1ky149223sk6.png

    You have all the best foods 😤

    Told ya to move.. 😝

    She is..
    To Australia 😝

    That's not a move.. practically still somewhat uk'ish.. 😂
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    lx1x wrote: »
    lx1x wrote: »
    lx1x wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Where I can get these
    9lydxo4ks3as.jpg

    I’ll find them and hand deliver.

    I'm gonna marry you 🥰

    They don't sell them here (US) it looks like. But!

    They sell these here..
    1ky149223sk6.png

    You have all the best foods 😤

    Told ya to move.. 😝

    She is..
    To Australia 😝

    That's not a move.. practically still somewhat uk'ish.. 😂

    Oi, cheeky 😄
  • Cat0703a
    Cat0703a Posts: 17,577 Member
    how do I find every post I have made here?? I would like to see who replied liked etc... I only see one know I've done more TYTY

    @healhierhappiness, from the website not the app, go to one of your posts, click on your name which is a blue hyperlink then select "see all" which is located under the badges. It brings up a new page that tells you the number of reactions you have and below that your activity (discussions you've started and discussions you've replied to) as well as a whole bunch of other things that may or may not be interesting to you. Welcome to the forums. 😀
  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
    edited August 2021
    Elijah Snow. The American firefighter vacationing in Mexico and found dead trapped in a window.

    That’s weird...

    Was he running from someone?
    Why was he in a different hotel?
    Why did his wife leave him by himself knowing he was drinking?
    Did someone lace his drink and he was having a bad trip?

    🧐
  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
    Maybe someone kidnapped him, he managed to get away but ended up getting stuck in the window 😫

    That sucks.

    Maybe he wife paid someone to murder him.

    Where’s the camera footage🗣🗣🗣
  • dawnfire72
    dawnfire72 Posts: 46 Member
    I am wondering why there are no gamers groups that are active. I finally have a working console and have no one to talk fitness games (or otherwise) with. I am not a hardcore gamer but would love to know how others deal with the struggle of wanting to game but then sitting still for hours (I have a Switch with Ring Fit but also have Legend of Zelda and few others that are sedentary games).
  • lx1x
    lx1x Posts: 38,330 Member
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  • JessD9031
    JessD9031 Posts: 581 Member
    JessD9031 wrote: »
    ReenieHJ wrote: »
    Hmmm, haven't met a man yet then. :/

    Well, I am not a man, but if you have KiK or Snapchat, I will show you....

    I have WhatsApp, that any good?

    Raych, you already have my pics...what more do you want? <3
  • healhierhappiness
    healhierhappiness Posts: 98 Member
    THANK you CAT.. appreciate your help have a great day



    healhierhappiness wrote: »
    how do I find every post I have made here?? I would like to see who replied liked etc... I only see one know I've done more TYTY

    @healhierhappiness, from the website not the app, go to one of your posts, click on your name which is a blue hyperlink then select "see all" which is located under the badges. It brings up a new page that tells you the number of reactions you have and below that your activity (discussions you've started and discussions you've replied to) as well as a whole bunch of other things that may or may not be interesting to you. Welcome to the forums. 😀
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,702 Member
    lx1x wrote: »
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    Haha you’re so silly 😂
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,702 Member
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    A boy: "Your brakes sound like they need replacing"
    A man: --sails everyone off a cliff while madly pumping the failed brakes--

    Perfect! 😂
  • JessD9031
    JessD9031 Posts: 581 Member
    edited August 2021
    JessD9031 wrote: »
    JessD9031 wrote: »
    ReenieHJ wrote: »
    Hmmm, haven't met a man yet then. :/

    Well, I am not a man, but if you have KiK or Snapchat, I will show you....

    I have WhatsApp, that any good?

    Raych, you already have my pics...what more do you want? <3

    Just more pics will be fine. Please and thank you 😏😘

    @eatpolerepeat You can take all you want, anytime you want. <3
  • JessD9031
    JessD9031 Posts: 581 Member
    glassyo wrote: »
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    I used to spend a lot of time talking to people online. Trust me, both boys and men are all too happy to show you. :p

    I don't know what's the big deal. I spent a week at a clothing optional resort. A weenis is a weenis. Look, laugh, delete, next. I wish more guys would send me theirs. It is just more material for me to joke with them about. Just ask......@, well nevermind.
  • PAWGliacci wrote: »
    JessD9031 wrote: »
    glassyo wrote: »
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    I used to spend a lot of time talking to people online. Trust me, both boys and men are all too happy to show you. :p

    I don't know what's the big deal. I spent a week at a clothing optional resort. A weenis is a weenis. Look, laugh, delete, next. I wish more guys would send me theirs. It is just more material for me to joke with them about. Just ask......@, well nevermind.

    Sometimes I wonder if I've done this entire internet thing wrong

    when in doubt you should always send them a picture.

    one way or the other, it'll get you out of the friend zone for sure.

    If you wrote a book on this stuff, I'd buy it
  • strangeanimal55
    strangeanimal55 Posts: 87 Member
    I am wondering why there are no gamers groups that are active. I finally have a working console and have no one to talk fitness games (or otherwise) with. I am not a hardcore gamer but would love to know how others deal with the struggle of wanting to game but then sitting still for hours (I have a Switch with Ring Fit but also have Legend of Zelda and few others that are sedentary games).

    I play ARK which is sedentary and can become a time suck real quick. I just schedule for the evening, after I've done my daily activity, had dinner, and took my dog for an after dinner walk.
  • Sweet_A
    Sweet_A Posts: 7,694 Member
    edited August 2021
    JessD9031 wrote: »
    ReenieHJ wrote: »
    Hmmm, haven't met a man yet then. :/

    Well, I am not a man, but if you have KiK or Snapchat, I will show you....

    JessD9031 wrote: »
    glassyo wrote: »
    qx7equqz028a.jpeg

    I used to spend a lot of time talking to people online. Trust me, both boys and men are all too happy to show you. :p

    I don't know what's the big deal. I spent a week at a clothing optional resort. A weenis is a weenis. Look, laugh, delete, next. I wish more guys would send me theirs. It is just more material for me to joke with them about. Just ask......@, well nevermind.


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