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  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    Wondering what it's like to wake up feeling refreshed from a solid night's sleep.

    I wanna be that person that doesn't need 3 alarms, doesn't hit snooze 5 times, doesn't need a big cup of slap me in the *kitten* face when I roll outta bed.

    Is that too much to ask?!
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    Wondering what it's like to wake up feeling refreshed from a solid night's sleep.

    I wanna be that person that doesn't need 3 alarms, doesn't hit snooze 5 times, doesn't need a big cup of slap me in the *kitten* face when I roll outta bed.

    Is that too much to ask?!
    I get up right away & then take an hour to get moving. The only time I feel refreshed is when I can sleep as long as I want without guilt & without interruption. That has happened approximately three times in the past 25 years. I am so *kitten* exhausted most of the time & it’s pure will & stress that keep me moving. Most days I fantasize about a nice dark hobbit hole where there are no obligations & I can just lie still & quiet. TMI?
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    Wondering what it's like to wake up feeling refreshed from a solid night's sleep.

    I wanna be that person that doesn't need 3 alarms, doesn't hit snooze 5 times, doesn't need a big cup of slap me in the *kitten* face when I roll outta bed.

    Is that too much to ask?!
    I get up right away & then take an hour to get moving. The only time I feel refreshed is when I can sleep as long as I want without guilt & without interruption. That has happened approximately three times in the past 25 years. I am so *kitten* exhausted most of the time & it’s pure will & stress that keep me moving. Most days I fantasize about a nice dark hobbit hole where there are no obligations & I can just lie still & quiet. TMI?

    Not at all. I could have easily written this word for word....minus the dark hobbit hole 😂
  • Alinouveau2
    Alinouveau2 Posts: 6,464 Member
    My first volunteer driver should be fun on Monday. The wife of the man I'm taking was super chatty and will be coming along pluses I get to drive them downtown so I can go see the Christmas windows or maybe even go skate
  • Tigg_er
    Tigg_er Posts: 22,001 Member
    I need to find balance. My ability to get too attached to my dying patients is really weighing heavy on me.

    I know no other way, it's who I am as a person and would want the same care for anyone that I loved.

    It's hard not to take my work home with me at the end of the day.

    If I find myself in that position, it is a person like you I pray for to take care of me 🤗🤗
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    Tigg_er wrote: »
    I need to find balance. My ability to get too attached to my dying patients is really weighing heavy on me.

    I know no other way, it's who I am as a person and would want the same care for anyone that I loved.

    It's hard not to take my work home with me at the end of the day.

    If I find myself in that position, it is a person like you I pray for to take care of me 🤗🤗

    This is so damn sweet. Thank you!
  • snowflake954
    snowflake954 Posts: 8,399 Member
    I need to find balance. My ability to get too attached to my dying patients is really weighing heavy on me.

    I know no other way, it's who I am as a person and would want the same care for anyone that I loved.

    It's hard not to take my work home with me at the end of the day.

    My mother was a registered nurse and worked nights. Sometimes she'd be called to special--stay in a dying person's room. I once asked her if she was afraid to be there when a person died. She looked at me and said "No, I consider it a privilege to be there, and to comfort the family".
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    There comes a time when you just have to let go & allow people to wallow in their own ignorance
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    I made a mistake at work today & I didn’t know it was a mistake at the time & this is why I shouldn’t be allowed to make decisions & now I get to feel this pressure in my chest for a week
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    I made a mistake at work today & I didn’t know it was a mistake at the time & this is why I shouldn’t be allowed to make decisions & now I get to feel this pressure in my chest for a week

    ☹️♥️
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,170 Member
    edited November 2022
    I made a mistake at work today & I didn’t know it was a mistake at the time & this is why I shouldn’t be allowed to make decisions & now I get to feel this pressure in my chest for a week

    Tbh - most of the chit I’ve learned from any job is by ducking something up- now during your year end review you can list not afraid to make mistakes as a strength - that my friend is a silver lining
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    edited November 2022
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    I made a mistake at work today & I didn’t know it was a mistake at the time & this is why I shouldn’t be allowed to make decisions & now I get to feel this pressure in my chest for a week

    Tbh - most of the chit I’ve learned from any job is by ducking something up- now during your year end review you can list not afraid to make mistakes as a strength - that my friend is a silver lining
    I will never not be afraid to make mistakes

    ETA: & I think most bosses want you to be afraid to make mistakes
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,170 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    I made a mistake at work today & I didn’t know it was a mistake at the time & this is why I shouldn’t be allowed to make decisions & now I get to feel this pressure in my chest for a week

    Tbh - most of the chit I’ve learned from any job is by ducking something up- now during your year end review you can list not afraid to make mistakes as a strength - that my friend is a silver lining
    I will never not be afraid to make mistakes

    ETA: & I think most bosses want you to be afraid to make mistakes

    And most bosses don’t know chit 🤷‍♂️
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,170 Member
    SF really getting Robocops - like what In dafaq we doin ??
  • Alinouveau2
    Alinouveau2 Posts: 6,464 Member
    I had a bunch of Lego points to use!!!! Hooray for free Lego, got some fun sets for some toy drives I needed toys for
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    Wondering what it's like to wake up feeling refreshed from a solid night's sleep.

    I wanna be that person that doesn't need 3 alarms, doesn't hit snooze 5 times, doesn't need a big cup of slap me in the *kitten* face when I roll outta bed.

    Is that too much to ask?!
    I get up right away & then take an hour to get moving. The only time I feel refreshed is when I can sleep as long as I want without guilt & without interruption. That has happened approximately three times in the past 25 years. I am so *kitten* exhausted most of the time & it’s pure will & stress that keep me moving. Most days I fantasize about a nice dark hobbit hole where there are no obligations & I can just lie still & quiet. TMI?
    I think I need to take a lot of this back because it’s not completely true. I think I’m having some depression right now which is darkening my perspective. Honestly, when I guard my boundaries around sleep and I’m careful about caffeine I do feel quite refreshed after a good nights sleep. It requires work though and I’m not very good about being consistent with it.

  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,170 Member
    I’ve got to learn to live a subsistence life style -
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,170 Member
    Wondering what it's like to wake up feeling refreshed from a solid night's sleep.

    I wanna be that person that doesn't need 3 alarms, doesn't hit snooze 5 times, doesn't need a big cup of slap me in the *kitten* face when I roll outta bed.

    Is that too much to ask?!
    I get up right away & then take an hour to get moving. The only time I feel refreshed is when I can sleep as long as I want without guilt & without interruption. That has happened approximately three times in the past 25 years. I am so *kitten* exhausted most of the time & it’s pure will & stress that keep me moving. Most days I fantasize about a nice dark hobbit hole where there are no obligations & I can just lie still & quiet. TMI?
    I think I need to take a lot of this back because it’s not completely true. I think I’m having some depression right now which is darkening my perspective. Honestly, when I guard my boundaries around sleep and I’m careful about caffeine I do feel quite refreshed after a good nights sleep. It requires work though and I’m not very good about being consistent with it.

    I’ve been trying to prioritize sleep about the last year - year and a half now - try to keep a consistent bed time between 8:30-9 up but 4ish most days - and it seems I feel better those days than if I sleep in - and now if I get up after 4 or 5 ish even in the weekends - I get bummed cause I feel like I didn’t attack the day 🤷‍♂️

  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    edited December 2022
    Iquote="cowsfan12;c-47167363"]
    Wondering what it's like to wake up feeling refreshed from a solid night's sleep.

    I wanna be that person that doesn't need 3 alarms, doesn't hit snooze 5 times, doesn't need a big cup of slap me in the *kitten* face when I roll outta bed.

    Is that too much to ask?!
    I get up right away & then take an hour to get moving. The only time I feel refreshed is when I can sleep as long as I want without guilt & without interruption. That has happened approximately three times in the past 25 years. I am so *kitten* exhausted most of the time & it’s pure will & stress that keep me moving. Most days I fantasize about a nice dark hobbit hole where there are no obligations & I can just lie still & quiet. TMI?
    I think I need to take a lot of this back because it’s not completely true. I think I’m having some depression right now which is darkening my perspective. Honestly, when I guard my boundaries around sleep and I’m careful about caffeine I do feel quite refreshed after a good nights sleep. It requires work though and I’m not very good about being consistent with it.

    I’ve been trying to prioritize sleep about the last year - year and a half now - try to keep a consistent bed time between 8:30-9 up but 4ish most days - and it seems I feel better those days than if I sleep in - and now if I get up after 4 or 5 ish even in the weekends - I get bummed cause I feel like I didn’t attack the day 🤷‍♂️

    [/quote]

    What on earth does one do at 5 a.m. to attack the day? Do you exercise 7 days a week?

    They say that getting up the same time every day is key, but when I'm not working I like to roll around in bed for a few extra hours bc it feels like a treat. However, I've noticed that when I do this I feel like crap for the rest of the day.

    @TwitchyMagee Caffeine may also play a roll in my sleep issues. I run on caffeine all day long!
    Me thinks we all know what to do to take better care of ourselves, the problem is doing it and staying consistent.

    Take care of you the way you'd take care of someone you love. ♥️ PSA

    Let's just cancel today and all meet on the leather sofa.

    ETA - Quotes all kindsa twisted up 😤
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,170 Member
    Iquote="cowsfan12;c-47167363"]
    Wondering what it's like to wake up feeling refreshed from a solid night's sleep.

    I wanna be that person that doesn't need 3 alarms, doesn't hit snooze 5 times, doesn't need a big cup of slap me in the *kitten* face when I roll outta bed.

    Is that too much to ask?!
    I get up right away & then take an hour to get moving. The only time I feel refreshed is when I can sleep as long as I want without guilt & without interruption. That has happened approximately three times in the past 25 years. I am so *kitten* exhausted most of the time & it’s pure will & stress that keep me moving. Most days I fantasize about a nice dark hobbit hole where there are no obligations & I can just lie still & quiet. TMI?
    I think I need to take a lot of this back because it’s not completely true. I think I’m having some depression right now which is darkening my perspective. Honestly, when I guard my boundaries around sleep and I’m careful about caffeine I do feel quite refreshed after a good nights sleep. It requires work though and I’m not very good about being consistent with it.

    I’ve been trying to prioritize sleep about the last year - year and a half now - try to keep a consistent bed time between 8:30-9 up but 4ish most days - and it seems I feel better those days than if I sleep in - and now if I get up after 4 or 5 ish even in the weekends - I get bummed cause I feel like I didn’t attack the day 🤷‍♂️

    What on earth does one do at 5 a.m. to attack the day? Do you exercise 7 days a week?

    They say that getting up the same time every day is key, but when I'm not working I like to roll around in bed for a few extra hours bc it feels like a treat. However, I've noticed that when I do this I feel like crap for the rest of the day.

    @TwitchyMagee Caffeine may also play a roll in my sleep issues. I run on caffeine all day long!
    Me thinks we all know what to do to take better care of ourselves, the problem is doing it and staying consistent.

    Take care of you the way you'd take care of someone you love. ♥️ PSA

    Let's just cancel today and all meet on the leather sofa.


    ETA - Quotes all kindsa twisted up 😤[/quote]

    I try to gym 5-6 days a week - rest Sunday: - but if I get up early on Sunday - I can get some laundry done - clean what not - then just chill the rest of the day - football nap - whatevs - but this doesn’t always happen. - A lot of Sundays I do sleep in - but then I’m bummed for not attacking said day - nah I’m sayin -

  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Iquote="cowsfan12;c-47167363"]
    Wondering what it's like to wake up feeling refreshed from a solid night's sleep.

    I wanna be that person that doesn't need 3 alarms, doesn't hit snooze 5 times, doesn't need a big cup of slap me in the *kitten* face when I roll outta bed.

    Is that too much to ask?!
    I get up right away & then take an hour to get moving. The only time I feel refreshed is when I can sleep as long as I want without guilt & without interruption. That has happened approximately three times in the past 25 years. I am so *kitten* exhausted most of the time & it’s pure will & stress that keep me moving. Most days I fantasize about a nice dark hobbit hole where there are no obligations & I can just lie still & quiet. TMI?
    I think I need to take a lot of this back because it’s not completely true. I think I’m having some depression right now which is darkening my perspective. Honestly, when I guard my boundaries around sleep and I’m careful about caffeine I do feel quite refreshed after a good nights sleep. It requires work though and I’m not very good about being consistent with it.

    I’ve been trying to prioritize sleep about the last year - year and a half now - try to keep a consistent bed time between 8:30-9 up but 4ish most days - and it seems I feel better those days than if I sleep in - and now if I get up after 4 or 5 ish even in the weekends - I get bummed cause I feel like I didn’t attack the day 🤷‍♂️

    What on earth does one do at 5 a.m. to attack the day? Do you exercise 7 days a week?

    They say that getting up the same time every day is key, but when I'm not working I like to roll around in bed for a few extra hours bc it feels like a treat. However, I've noticed that when I do this I feel like crap for the rest of the day.

    @TwitchyMagee Caffeine may also play a roll in my sleep issues. I run on caffeine all day long!
    Me thinks we all know what to do to take better care of ourselves, the problem is doing it and staying consistent.

    Take care of you the way you'd take care of someone you love. ♥️ PSA

    Let's just cancel today and all meet on the leather sofa.


    ETA - Quotes all kindsa twisted up 😤

    I try to gym 5-6 days a week - rest Sunday: - but if I get up early on Sunday - I can get some laundry done - clean what not - then just chill the rest of the day - football nap - whatevs - but this doesn’t always happen. - A lot of Sundays I do sleep in - but then I’m bummed for not attacking said day - nah I’m sayin -

    [/quote]

    Yup. I feel so much better when I roll outta bed and leave the house. That's why I struggle with Sunday, and it's too cold to wake up and walk the dogs. So I lay around and feel like crap the rest of the day. Yes, I get things accomplished but I'm more productive when I'm bounced outta the house at 6:30 a.m.
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,170 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Iquote="cowsfan12;c-47167363"]
    Wondering what it's like to wake up feeling refreshed from a solid night's sleep.

    I wanna be that person that doesn't need 3 alarms, doesn't hit snooze 5 times, doesn't need a big cup of slap me in the *kitten* face when I roll outta bed.

    Is that too much to ask?!
    I get up right away & then take an hour to get moving. The only time I feel refreshed is when I can sleep as long as I want without guilt & without interruption. That has happened approximately three times in the past 25 years. I am so *kitten* exhausted most of the time & it’s pure will & stress that keep me moving. Most days I fantasize about a nice dark hobbit hole where there are no obligations & I can just lie still & quiet. TMI?
    I think I need to take a lot of this back because it’s not completely true. I think I’m having some depression right now which is darkening my perspective. Honestly, when I guard my boundaries around sleep and I’m careful about caffeine I do feel quite refreshed after a good nights sleep. It requires work though and I’m not very good about being consistent with it.

    I’ve been trying to prioritize sleep about the last year - year and a half now - try to keep a consistent bed time between 8:30-9 up but 4ish most days - and it seems I feel better those days than if I sleep in - and now if I get up after 4 or 5 ish even in the weekends - I get bummed cause I feel like I didn’t attack the day 🤷‍♂️

    What on earth does one do at 5 a.m. to attack the day? Do you exercise 7 days a week?

    They say that getting up the same time every day is key, but when I'm not working I like to roll around in bed for a few extra hours bc it feels like a treat. However, I've noticed that when I do this I feel like crap for the rest of the day.

    @TwitchyMagee Caffeine may also play a roll in my sleep issues. I run on caffeine all day long!
    Me thinks we all know what to do to take better care of ourselves, the problem is doing it and staying consistent.

    Take care of you the way you'd take care of someone you love. ♥️ PSA

    Let's just cancel today and all meet on the leather sofa.


    ETA - Quotes all kindsa twisted up 😤

    I try to gym 5-6 days a week - rest Sunday: - but if I get up early on Sunday - I can get some laundry done - clean what not - then just chill the rest of the day - football nap - whatevs - but this doesn’t always happen. - A lot of Sundays I do sleep in - but then I’m bummed for not attacking said day - nah I’m sayin -

    Yup. I feel so much better when I roll outta bed and leave
    the house. That's why I struggle with Sunday, and it's too cold to wake up and walk the dogs. So I
    lay around and feel like crap the rest of the day. Yes, I get things accomplished but I'm more productive when I'm bounced outta the house at 6:30 a.m. [/quote]

    Yeah some crazy chick I know used to talk about getting the fence pressure washed before 8am on a Saturday and I thought she was nuts - turns out she knew wht she was taking bout - who knew
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Iquote="cowsfan12;c-47167363"]
    Wondering what it's like to wake up feeling refreshed from a solid night's sleep.

    I wanna be that person that doesn't need 3 alarms, doesn't hit snooze 5 times, doesn't need a big cup of slap me in the *kitten* face when I roll outta bed.

    Is that too much to ask?!
    I get up right away & then take an hour to get moving. The only time I feel refreshed is when I can sleep as long as I want without guilt & without interruption. That has happened approximately three times in the past 25 years. I am so *kitten* exhausted most of the time & it’s pure will & stress that keep me moving. Most days I fantasize about a nice dark hobbit hole where there are no obligations & I can just lie still & quiet. TMI?
    I think I need to take a lot of this back because it’s not completely true. I think I’m having some depression right now which is darkening my perspective. Honestly, when I guard my boundaries around sleep and I’m careful about caffeine I do feel quite refreshed after a good nights sleep. It requires work though and I’m not very good about being consistent with it.

    I’ve been trying to prioritize sleep about the last year - year and a half now - try to keep a consistent bed time between 8:30-9 up but 4ish most days - and it seems I feel better those days than if I sleep in - and now if I get up after 4 or 5 ish even in the weekends - I get bummed cause I feel like I didn’t attack the day 🤷‍♂️

    What on earth does one do at 5 a.m. to attack the day? Do you exercise 7 days a week?

    They say that getting up the same time every day is key, but when I'm not working I like to roll around in bed for a few extra hours bc it feels like a treat. However, I've noticed that when I do this I feel like crap for the rest of the day.

    @TwitchyMagee Caffeine may also play a roll in my sleep issues. I run on caffeine all day long!
    Me thinks we all know what to do to take better care of ourselves, the problem is doing it and staying consistent.

    Take care of you the way you'd take care of someone you love. ♥️ PSA

    Let's just cancel today and all meet on the leather sofa.


    ETA - Quotes all kindsa twisted up 😤

    I try to gym 5-6 days a week - rest Sunday: - but if I get up early on Sunday - I can get some laundry done - clean what not - then just chill the rest of the day - football nap - whatevs - but this doesn’t always happen. - A lot of Sundays I do sleep in - but then I’m bummed for not attacking said day - nah I’m sayin -

    Yup. I feel so much better when I roll outta bed and leave
    the house. That's why I struggle with Sunday, and it's too cold to wake up and walk the dogs. So I
    lay around and feel like crap the rest of the day. Yes, I get things accomplished but I'm more productive when I'm bounced outta the house at 6:30 a.m.

    Yeah some crazy chick I know used to talk about getting the fence pressure washed before 8am on a Saturday and I thought she was nuts - turns out she knew wht she was taking bout - who knew
    [/quote]

    She knows things 😉
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    There are so many lurkers up in here. I'm forever getting friend requests from people I've never even seen around here.

    My friends don't even want to be my friend on here 😂
    Pro tip: If you never visit your wall you will never know that you have friend requests.
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    There are so many lurkers up in here. I'm forever getting friend requests from people I've never even seen around here.

    My friends don't even want to be my friend on here 😂
    Pro tip: If you never visit your wall you will never know that you have friend requests.

    Noted.

    But then I'll miss out on my love notes from my 5 friends
  • bellababy9031
    bellababy9031 Posts: 287 Member
    There are so many lurkers up in here. I'm forever getting friend requests from people I've never even seen around here.

    My friends don't even want to be my friend on here 😂
    Pro tip: If you never visit your wall you will never know that you have friend requests.

    Noted.

    But then I'll miss out on my love notes from my 5 friends

    I'll love the freak right outta you up in here in front of every body. Now, take off your pants.
  • bellababy9031
    bellababy9031 Posts: 287 Member
    There are so many lurkers up in here. I'm forever getting friend requests from people I've never even seen around here.

    My friends don't even want to be my friend on here 😂
    Pro tip: If you never visit your wall you will never know that you have friend requests.

    Noted.

    But then I'll miss out on my love notes from my 5 friends

    I'll love the freak right outta you up in here in front of every body. Now, take off your pants.

    NOW, you can say I am stalking you baybee!!! <3