What's on your mind?

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  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    I wish that MFP were operated like a lot of open forum sites where you were allowed to curse, have dissenting opinions and were openly allowed to discuss contentious topics (as long as it remained civil). I understand why they've taken away the option to discuss things like politics/religion/etc., but I think some of the folks here would be super interesting to have discussions with on those topics.

    Hence why I don't just find a different forum for that avenue.. I rather like the people here, thank you.

    Religion is a big set off in here, we get reports all the time on posts where users are just looking for same religion friends, not even really discussing religion.

    Politics and religion pretty much always end up a moderating nightmare though (people just can't remain civil on the internet), hence the inclusion in the guidelines.

    Yes and that's quite sad to me. Sad that my six year old son can moderate his emotions and remain civil better than most people who are three or more times his age. :sweat:
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    newmeadow wrote: »
    I wish that MFP were operated like a lot of open forum sites where you were allowed to curse, have dissenting opinions and were openly allowed to discuss contentious topics (as long as it remained civil). I understand why they've taken away the option to discuss things like politics/religion/etc., but I think some of the folks here would be super interesting to have discussions with on those topics.

    Hence why I don't just find a different forum for that avenue.. I rather like the people here, thank you.

    We're allowed to do that. I do it all the time. If you're willing to trade in popularity for voicing an opinion that clashes with the commonly held opinions of Chit Chat and other forums at MFP, you're allowed to do it civilly. And you'll also be subjected to passive aggressive swipes in the Vague thread for it too.

    Contentious topics (some even bordering on religion and politics) are allowed to be discussed in the Debate section. But you gotta be hardcore, unafraid of confrontation and back up your stuff. Also, they're not funny there but you're allowed to be funny if you want to lighten it up over there.

    Maybe you like the people here precisely because you don't have contentious, profanity laced discussions with them in which you voice dissenting opinions. That's not rhetoric, I mean it for real.

    Isn't MFP passive aggressive enough with the "Woo" option and other thread swipes without really needing it to be necessary in the Vague thread?

    As for the people here, no.. I adamantly believe that some of you could be really fun, engaging and civil minded in a debate. Not all, but a good amount of you.
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    I come on here to get away from the real world so I am glad they have rules on heavy topics .

    Some of us have very little contact with the outside world on a regular basis, so I come here to actually talk with people. My other venues have all dried up and moving constantly means I never have time to make new connections with people IRL.
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,590 MFP Moderator
    newmeadow wrote: »
    I wish that MFP were operated like a lot of open forum sites where you were allowed to curse, have dissenting opinions and were openly allowed to discuss contentious topics (as long as it remained civil). I understand why they've taken away the option to discuss things like politics/religion/etc., but I think some of the folks here would be super interesting to have discussions with on those topics.

    Hence why I don't just find a different forum for that avenue.. I rather like the people here, thank you.

    We're allowed to do that. I do it all the time. If you're willing to trade in popularity for voicing an opinion that clashes with the commonly held opinions of Chit Chat and other forums at MFP, you're allowed to do it civilly. And you'll also be subjected to passive aggressive swipes in the Vague thread for it too.

    Contentious topics (some even bordering on religion and politics) are allowed to be discussed in the Debate section. But you gotta be hardcore, unafraid of confrontation and back up your stuff. Also, they're not funny there but you're allowed to be funny if you want to lighten it up over there.

    Maybe you like the people here precisely because you don't have contentious, profanity laced discussions with them in which you voice dissenting opinions. That's not rhetoric, I mean it for real.

    Isn't MFP passive aggressive enough with the "Woo" option and other thread swipes without really needing it to be necessary in the Vague thread?

    As for the people here, no.. I adamantly believe that some of you could be really fun, engaging and civil minded in a debate. Not all, but a good amount of you.
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    I come on here to get away from the real world so I am glad they have rules on heavy topics .

    Some of us have very little contact with the outside world on a regular basis, so I come here to actually talk with people. My other venues have all dried up and moving constantly means I never have time to make new connections with people IRL.

    New Group: Exploring the universe with CanesGalactica. Sounds perfect :)
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  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,590 MFP Moderator
    Put me out of my misery

    I offered a while back and you got all upset.....
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,590 MFP Moderator
    newmeadow wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    I wish that MFP were operated like a lot of open forum sites where you were allowed to curse, have dissenting opinions and were openly allowed to discuss contentious topics (as long as it remained civil). I understand why they've taken away the option to discuss things like politics/religion/etc., but I think some of the folks here would be super interesting to have discussions with on those topics.

    Hence why I don't just find a different forum for that avenue.. I rather like the people here, thank you.

    We're allowed to do that. I do it all the time. If you're willing to trade in popularity for voicing an opinion that clashes with the commonly held opinions of Chit Chat and other forums at MFP, you're allowed to do it civilly. And you'll also be subjected to passive aggressive swipes in the Vague thread for it too.

    Contentious topics (some even bordering on religion and politics) are allowed to be discussed in the Debate section. But you gotta be hardcore, unafraid of confrontation and back up your stuff. Also, they're not funny there but you're allowed to be funny if you want to lighten it up over there.

    Maybe you like the people here precisely because you don't have contentious, profanity laced discussions with them in which you voice dissenting opinions. That's not rhetoric, I mean it for real.

    Isn't MFP passive aggressive enough with the "Woo" option and other thread swipes without really needing it to be necessary in the Vague thread?

    As for the people here, no.. I adamantly believe that some of you could be really fun, engaging and civil minded in a debate. Not all, but a good amount of you.

    Then debate away. It's allowed. You said it wasn't. Maybe lurk in the debate section for a bit to get the flavor of it first.

    If you prefer communication to be direct within the guidelines of civility, rather than passive, really, you can take the initiative - even here in Chit Chat.

    The Vague thread and the woo button aren't the only fertile ground for passive hints and swipes. There's the I Confess thread and the What's on Your Mind threads too. I've been passive aggressive on all those threads myself because sometimes I just can't be civil and I know it. I'm trying to stay out of MFP jail of course, like everybody else.

    What topics would interest you for debate or what subjects would you be most interested in posting very direct opinions about?



    I think she is specifically talking about a religious or political based debates not being allowed.
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,590 MFP Moderator
    @WorkerDrone83 you are doing an excellent job

    although I am sure whomever the noob was is wondering why you sign off "just doing my job".
  • WorkerDrone83
    WorkerDrone83 Posts: 3,195 Member
    @WorkerDrone83 you are doing an excellent job

    although I am sure whomever the noob was is wondering why you sign off "just doing my job".

    Thanks!
    Well, you get what you pay for.

    ~ Dead or alive, you’re coming with me.
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,590 MFP Moderator
    @WorkerDrone83 you are doing an excellent job

    although I am sure whomever the noob was is wondering why you sign off "just doing my job".

    Thanks!
    Well, you get what you pay for.

    ~ Dead or alive, you’re coming with me.

    humm I need to take a page outta your book
  • Put me out of my misery

    It'll grow back squish!
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  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    edited February 2018
    cee134 wrote: »
    Time for some new ink.

    I drew a potato cowboy yesterday.

    You should get that tattooed on your face.

    I 2nd this. So... this means you pretty much have to now. Also since we are both from different countries that means the international community is backing this idea.

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  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,590 MFP Moderator
    Put me out of my misery

    I offered a while back and you got all upset.....

    Not you, you're way to eager for the job

    No one ever lets me have any fun :disappointed:
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  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,590 MFP Moderator
    Who is Tanya?

    I'm Tanya, I guess we will make it public

    Happy trails to yall
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  • W8WarI
    W8WarI Posts: 567 Member
    edited February 2018
    My horoscope, I normally don't read mine because I don't care, to search for it! However it must be a new feature, upon a website that I frequent but I haven't seen it there prior, so it caught my eyes as I was scrolling through the web page & it's quite deep:

    "You could miss several subtle cues today, which can create a few awkward situations. You are given a chance to share your feelings with someone, but might not say a word for fear of saying too much. Although you are known to speak your mind without holding back, you realize how precarious the emotional balance is now and will do nearly anything to prevent this house of cards from tumbling down. Your decision to remain silent may not keep you out of trouble, requiring you to clean up a mess after an argument, anyway. Luckily, others will appreciate your truth more than your diplomacy."
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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Who is Tanya?

    I'm Tanya, I guess we will make it public

    No, I'm Tanya



    We Are All Tanya!





    .... I guess.
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  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Today is surely a sad day for mfp.

    Well said
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  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Today is surely a sad day for mfp.

    :'(
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  • orangegato
    orangegato Posts: 6,572 Member
    How I’m going to be driving on a donut for the next 4 weeks.