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Keep_on_cardio wrote: »
that sounds like good advice, I think it's important to grow a strong connection with ourselves, because everything goes sideways we will still have a strength withinKeep_on_cardio wrote: »A lot of posts I’ve read, I’d truly start with building your self esteem. When you find confidence in yourself, a lot of these thoughts of the unknown and unknown future will slow down a bit. You’ll know what you want and a vision, you won’t be afraid of the outcome because you’ll be happy at some point, of where you are as a person.
Careful that doesn't take on a life of its own and become narcissism. That happens frequently to individuals raised in Western nations.
Constant focus on self, self, self is circular and sterile. It goes nowhere.
You may have been joking about moving to Russia but you might consider a visit to Russia or Eastern Europe. You may find it refreshing and invigorating.
Narcissists Feed off empaths and I’m pretty sure @1sphere doesn’t raise up signals as being a narcissistic. He appears like someone who’ll be embodied, by a narcissist if not careful in figuring himself out.
Yes that's a sad possibility for him, I agree. He could be taken advantage of. But he seems to be of sharp intellect though. He can arm himself psychologically against narcissists if he sees the red flags.
You think? All I’ve gathered is women chit chat.. so his mind is half fluff in the clouds, lot of crappy people. So ehh.. self focus sure as crap isn’t sterile and goes nowhere, can save him from a whole lot of mess.0 -
Keep_on_cardio wrote: »
that sounds like good advice, I think it's important to grow a strong connection with ourselves, because everything goes sideways we will still have a strength withinKeep_on_cardio wrote: »A lot of posts I’ve read, I’d truly start with building your self esteem. When you find confidence in yourself, a lot of these thoughts of the unknown and unknown future will slow down a bit. You’ll know what you want and a vision, you won’t be afraid of the outcome because you’ll be happy at some point, of where you are as a person.
Careful that doesn't take on a life of its own and become narcissism. That happens frequently to individuals raised in Western nations.
Constant focus on self, self, self is circular and sterile. It goes nowhere.
You may have been joking about moving to Russia but you might consider a visit to Russia or Eastern Europe. You may find it refreshing and invigorating.
And pointing someone with very low self esteem in the direction of second guessing raising their self esteem, sounds wise?
I don't know what you mean exactly. Please clarify. Dude has to get out of a rut. It's doable.
Also, I don't diagnose self esteem abnormalities. I think self esteem doesn't exist. It's vague and I believe a smokescreen term used to disguise malignant social conditioning meant to mislead people. (Not that you're doing that personally. "Self esteem" is pop psy lingo that's taken root in everyday conversation.)0 -
Keep_on_cardio wrote: »Keep_on_cardio wrote: »
that sounds like good advice, I think it's important to grow a strong connection with ourselves, because everything goes sideways we will still have a strength withinKeep_on_cardio wrote: »A lot of posts I’ve read, I’d truly start with building your self esteem. When you find confidence in yourself, a lot of these thoughts of the unknown and unknown future will slow down a bit. You’ll know what you want and a vision, you won’t be afraid of the outcome because you’ll be happy at some point, of where you are as a person.
Careful that doesn't take on a life of its own and become narcissism. That happens frequently to individuals raised in Western nations.
Constant focus on self, self, self is circular and sterile. It goes nowhere.
You may have been joking about moving to Russia but you might consider a visit to Russia or Eastern Europe. You may find it refreshing and invigorating.
Narcissists Feed off empaths and I’m pretty sure @1sphere doesn’t raise up signals as being a narcissistic. He appears like someone who’ll be embodied, by a narcissist if not careful in figuring himself out.
Yes that's a sad possibility for him, I agree. He could be taken advantage of. But he seems to be of sharp intellect though. He can arm himself psychologically against narcissists if he sees the red flags.
You think? All I’ve gathered is women chit chat.. so his mind is half fluff in the clouds, lot of crappy people. So ehh.. self focus sure as crap isn’t sterile and goes nowhere, can save him from a whole lot of mess.
Whatever. You've given him your advice. I've given him mine. He's a man. He doesn't need women to tell what to do anyway.0 -
Keep_on_cardio wrote: »
that sounds like good advice, I think it's important to grow a strong connection with ourselves, because everything goes sideways we will still have a strength withinKeep_on_cardio wrote: »A lot of posts I’ve read, I’d truly start with building your self esteem. When you find confidence in yourself, a lot of these thoughts of the unknown and unknown future will slow down a bit. You’ll know what you want and a vision, you won’t be afraid of the outcome because you’ll be happy at some point, of where you are as a person.
Careful that doesn't take on a life of its own and become narcissism. That happens frequently to individuals raised in Western nations.
Constant focus on self, self, self is circular and sterile. It goes nowhere.
You may have been joking about moving to Russia but you might consider a visit to Russia or Eastern Europe. You may find it refreshing and invigorating.
And pointing someone with very low self esteem in the direction of second guessing raising their self esteem, sounds wise?
I don't know what you mean exactly. Please clarify. Dude has to get out of a rut. It's doable.
Also, I don't diagnose self esteem abnormalities. I think self esteem doesn't exist. It's vague and I believe a smokescreen term used to disguise malignant social conditioning meant to mislead people. (Not that you're doing that personally. "Self esteem" is pop psy lingo that's taken root in everyday conversation.)
Self esteem is a quick response, directly to @1sphere due to posts about how strangers look at him as though they’re repulsed. The constant posts about relationships and being single.
How do you think he’s going to get out of a mental rut?
Confidence, self work and building self esteem. You may think self esteem is just pop psy lingo, however if this guy went to therapy.. better believe they’d discuss how to build his self esteem. How would he build self confidence by continue to focus on what others are thinking. The mental rut, starts with you and your thoughts, not others.
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I can finally cancel my psychiatry subscription.2
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samtarlyonadiet wrote: »I can finally cancel my psychiatry subscription.
I can clearly see yer nuts2 -
Spank is only one letter away from shank.1
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samtarlyonadiet wrote: »Spank is only one letter away from shank.
And both might be necessary, depending on where you live 😂0 -
Today’s the big day. Making a major life decision soon5
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caco_ethes wrote: »Today’s the big day. Making a major life decision soon
Go with 7, vanilla, forgiveness, or green0 -
caco_ethes wrote: »Today’s the big day. Making a major life decision soon
Finally getting the "let me speak to your manager" haircut?0 -
caco_ethes wrote: »Today’s the big day. Making a major life decision soon
tell em its cash up front or you walk. none of that direct deposit business.1 -
Reckoner67 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Today’s the big day. Making a major life decision soon
Go with 7, vanilla, forgiveness, or green
Cliche, boring, not a thing
Green it issamtarlyonadiet wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Today’s the big day. Making a major life decision soon
Finally getting the "let me speak to your manager" haircut?
Better!
I’m taking a new profile pic2 -
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Nobody is better at talking me out of things than I am1
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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Today’s the big day. Making a major life decision soon
are u buying a bed??
I would never post about something that personal on mfp 😏2 -
Reckoner67 wrote: »Nobody is better at talking me out of things than I am
This used to be me
I guess you could say i talked myself out of it 😬0 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Today’s the big day. Making a major life decision soon
are u buying a bed??
I would never post about something that personal on mfp 😏
did u just post shame me
Not at all but you should know I’m highly specific about what constitutes a great bed. They say you spend 1/3 of your life sleeping you know. Or like 3/4 anyway its gotta be a damn good bed1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Today’s the big day. Making a major life decision soon
are u buying a bed??
I would never post about something that personal on mfp 😏
did u just post shame me
Not at all but you should know I’m highly specific about what constitutes a great bed. They say you spend 1/3 of your life sleeping you know. Or like 3/4 anyway its gotta be a damn good bed
i bought the best one i ever had off of walmart online a few years. one of those memory foam ones they ship to you in a big box. it was like...$250 bucks probably and it was the best bed ever.2 -
caco_ethes wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Today’s the big day. Making a major life decision soon
are u buying a bed??
I would never post about something that personal on mfp 😏
did u just post shame me
Not at all but you should know I’m highly specific about what constitutes a great bed. They say you spend 1/3 of your life sleeping you know. Or like 3/4 anyway its gotta be a damn good bed
i bought the best one i ever had off of walmart online a few years. one of those memory foam ones they ship to you in a big box. it was like...$250 bucks probably and it was the best bed ever.
Why do you shamelessly tell me lies2 -
caco_ethes wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Today’s the big day. Making a major life decision soon
are u buying a bed??
I would never post about something that personal on mfp 😏
did u just post shame me
Not at all but you should know I’m highly specific about what constitutes a great bed. They say you spend 1/3 of your life sleeping you know. Or like 3/4 anyway its gotta be a damn good bed
i bought the best one i ever had off of walmart online a few years. one of those memory foam ones they ship to you in a big box. it was like...$250 bucks probably and it was the best bed ever.
Why do you shamelessly tell me lies
no way im dead serious it was the best thing ever. i'd never spend over $500 on a bed again since then.2 -
caco_ethes wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Today’s the big day. Making a major life decision soon
are u buying a bed??
I would never post about something that personal on mfp 😏
did u just post shame me
Not at all but you should know I’m highly specific about what constitutes a great bed. They say you spend 1/3 of your life sleeping you know. Or like 3/4 anyway its gotta be a damn good bed
i bought the best one i ever had off of walmart online a few years. one of those memory foam ones they ship to you in a big box. it was like...$250 bucks probably and it was the best bed ever.
Why do you shamelessly tell me lies
no way im dead serious it was the best thing ever. i'd never spend over $500 on a bed again since then.
Lack of proper sleep got you delirious2 -
caco_ethes wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Today’s the big day. Making a major life decision soon
are u buying a bed??
I would never post about something that personal on mfp 😏
did u just post shame me
Not at all but you should know I’m highly specific about what constitutes a great bed. They say you spend 1/3 of your life sleeping you know. Or like 3/4 anyway its gotta be a damn good bed
i bought the best one i ever had off of walmart online a few years. one of those memory foam ones they ship to you in a big box. it was like...$250 bucks probably and it was the best bed ever.
Why do you shamelessly tell me lies
no way im dead serious it was the best thing ever. i'd never spend over $500 on a bed again since then.
Lack of proper sleep got you delirious
no they have a pill for that now2 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »also in my thorough research i heard memory foam not bouncy at all which seems kinda lame
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How truly slimy, heartless and *kitten* some people can be and it doesn't even phase them.2
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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »also in my thorough research i heard memory foam not bouncy at all which seems kinda lame
It's not at all "bouncy", but firm and stable
...much better2 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »also in my thorough research i heard memory foam not bouncy at all which seems kinda lame
It's not at all "bouncy", but firm and stable
...much better
Have you even had jello before2 -
caco_ethes wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Today’s the big day. Making a major life decision soon
are u buying a bed??
I would never post about something that personal on mfp 😏
did u just post shame me
Not at all but you should know I’m highly specific about what constitutes a great bed. They say you spend 1/3 of your life sleeping you know. Or like 3/4 anyway its gotta be a damn good bed
i bought the best one i ever had off of walmart online a few years. one of those memory foam ones they ship to you in a big box. it was like...$250 bucks probably and it was the best bed ever.
Why do you shamelessly tell me lies
no way im dead serious it was the best thing ever. i'd never spend over $500 on a bed again since then.
100%
Beds should be somewhat disposable too imo1 -
If humor was evaluated on a graduated scale, my jokes would be within spitting distance of “well why don’t you marry it” and *points to eye* “what’s this” “now spell cup”
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caco_ethes wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »also in my thorough research i heard memory foam not bouncy at all which seems kinda lame
It's not at all "bouncy", but firm and stable
...much better
Have you even had jello before
Have you ever eaten jello without a spoon? Just sucked it up?
I have, and have no reason whatsoever for this random inquiry!1
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