What's your 'Selfish Reason'?

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  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,893 Member
    The boyfriend bought a boat. I wanted to look hot while wearing a bikini on the boat.
  • Factory_Reset
    Factory_Reset Posts: 1,651 Member
    I want to look good enough to where a woman would want me before I ever said anything. I think it would be awesome to catch someone checking me out.

    We're already checking you out! :smile:

    I have yet to catch someone doing it. And I have even tried!

    Look harder
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    some of us are a little SLOW I guess

    And mean.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    To bang hot chicks.

    This guy deleted me and I would STILL climb him like a tree

    This is a joke RIGHT? Im finding both men highly unattractive (sorry no offense dude(s))

    I am sure they weren't offended, I am not attracted to you at all and I highly doubt you care.

    Plus they said they wanted hot chicks.
  • 43932452
    43932452 Posts: 7,246 Member
    straight from my profile . . .

    My Inspirations

    •hotter sex
    •looking good naked has it's benefits
    •new ink/piercings when I reach my goals
    •ending up on top when wrestling with _the_feniks_


    I wanna borrow a cpl of theses .. ink/piercings .. maybe. lol
  • ARoseC2012
    ARoseC2012 Posts: 21 Member
    ok i have a few different reasons, and other then my "health" they are the main reasons i want to be skinny, i think being healthy is definately a personal choice you have to make, and you have to do it for yourself, not someone else (though i will admit i kinda do it for my husband too :wink: )

    1. To tell my brother "shove off! im ****ing sknny, without being in the military!"

    2. To look back at my wedding pictures and say "honey we need a do over, i look way better now then i did then"

    3. To beable to giggle and laugh when my husband picks me up, becuase i dont have to worry about him hurting his back anymore.

    3. To look hot at my high school reunion, and have all of the *kitten* i went to school with hitting on me becuase im suddenly hot enough to be hit on... then walk off with my husband becuase he married me before i was gorgous.

    oh and

    4. To look as sexy on the outside as i feel on the inside when i dance!
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    To be perfection.
  • jerseygirlmaggie
    jerseygirlmaggie Posts: 165 Member
    I have a friend with incredibly high self-esteem (which is a great quality to have). I have mentioned this to my hubby and some of our other male friends. I love their responses. My hubby and our other male friends say her only redeemng quality is her boobs (and she bought those a few years ago), her face is nothing exciting and actually she could stand to lose about 25 pounds.

    But she thinks she is HOT.... changes her FB pic on a daily basis and takes every opportunity to show off the girls (her boobs).

    My "selfish reason" is... too look hotter than she thinks she looks.
  • chunkydunk714
    chunkydunk714 Posts: 784 Member
    I have many other reasons but my one selfish reason is to be hotter than the b*tches who never thought I would be.

    Kinda like biggie smalls ....when teachers didnt think he would amount to nuffin....

    *leaves thread singing it was all a dream.....*
  • MsP90X
    MsP90X Posts: 1,053 Member
    To wear my bikini with confidence on my cruise
  • Laac68
    Laac68 Posts: 55
    I thought of one more thing to add...a friend of mine is retired but was a WW leader for 2 years. He believes that the only way to shed excess pounds is through WWs. He feels that it is unnecessary to count calories and those who do are misinformed. I disagree and have seen many get rid of excess weight and keep it off by tracking their caloric intake daily.
  • leebesstoad
    leebesstoad Posts: 1,186 Member
    To get invited to the orgies. Duh.
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    I want my ex to see how hot i got and realize he can't do any better than me....which i know is true i have seen his current woman.
  • SisterhoodoftheShrinkingPants
    SisterhoodoftheShrinkingPants Posts: 474 Member
    To bang hot chicks.

    This guy deleted me and I would STILL climb him like a tree

    This is a joke RIGHT? Im finding both men highly unattractive (sorry no offense dude(s))

    I am sure they weren't offended, I am not attracted to you at all and I highly doubt you care.

    Plus they said they wanted hot chicks.

    .Look, the pic (which has been changed to reflect a rather handsome man) was not a good one, and for a website that FREQUENTLY has forum posts about, Hot, Not, Pass, Bang etc etc etc...I honestly didnt think my comment would be SO attacked. Was it a little douchy YES. Finest moment NO. But, if everyone wants to jump on the band wagon, go for it. I already apologized. Not gonna grovel. If you find me unattractive, GREAT! Maybe you guys should start a new forum about how unattractive you think I am. Honestly I dont care. I just feel bad for the OP of this awesome Topic as it has been (true to form) grossly derailed...

    <Out> for further anonymous character bashing
  • T0FatToB3S1ck
    T0FatToB3S1ck Posts: 192 Member
    Because there is no such thing as inner beauty and well basically I'm a *****. If you can't be "pretty on the inside" might as well be a knock out on the outside.
  • tzig00
    tzig00 Posts: 875 Member
    I had one ex tell me that he would never marry me until I looked "damn good in a bikini" and he couldn't love me until I "grew my hair out and lost a ton of weight". I had another ex work at a club and would always talk about the hot young things he saw while he was there. My reason is to go to the bar where that ex works and just watch his head turn and think this is what you could've had and hoping to see my other ex in passing and watch him do a double take.
  • NHoughton13
    NHoughton13 Posts: 303
    I want to look good enough to where a woman would want me before I ever said anything. I think it would be awesome to catch someone checking me out.

    We're already checking you out! :smile:

    I have yet to catch someone doing it. And I have even tried!

    What do we all see that you don't? Consider yourself checked out....multiple times....seriously...like, lots.....on the verge of objectified.....in need of a restraining order....start carrying a stick to keep the women away....cutie.....
  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    I want my ex to see how hot i got and realize he can't do any better than me....which i know is true i have seen his current woman.

    you too hey? ;)
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
    To bang hot chicks.

    This guy deleted me and I would STILL climb him like a tree

    This is a joke RIGHT? Im finding both men highly unattractive (sorry no offense dude(s))

    I am sure they weren't offended, I am not attracted to you at all and I highly doubt you care.

    Plus they said they wanted hot chicks.

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  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    .Look, the pic (which has been changed to reflect a rather handsome man) was not a good one, and for a website that FREQUENTLY has forum posts about, Hot, Not, Pass, Bang etc etc etc...I honestly didnt think my comment would be SO attacked.

    Did you take a wrong turn? This is not one of those threads and not all of us participate in those threads.

    Your comment was incredibly nasty and uncalled for. You really think it's OK to say things like that to people?
  • statickey
    statickey Posts: 309 Member
    Yea I think I wanna look good naked too. And just walk around all day like that. Yea that'd be awesome.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    To bang hot chicks.

    This guy deleted me and I would STILL climb him like a tree

    This is a joke RIGHT? Im finding both men highly unattractive (sorry no offense dude(s))

    I am sure they weren't offended, I am not attracted to you at all and I highly doubt you care.

    Plus they said they wanted hot chicks.

    .Look, the pic (which has been changed to reflect a rather handsome man) was not a good one, and for a website that FREQUENTLY has forum posts about, Hot, Not, Pass, Bang etc etc etc...I honestly didnt think my comment would be SO attacked. Was it a little douchy YES. Finest moment NO. But, if everyone wants to jump on the band wagon, go for it. I already apologized. Not gonna grovel. If you find me unattractive, GREAT! Maybe you guys should start a new forum about how unattractive you think I am. Honestly I dont care. I just feel bad for the OP of this awesome Topic as it has been (true to form) grossly derailed...

    You must be new. MFP members are largely against negative shaming. No one expects you to be attracted to everything and everyone, that would be ridiculous. But to actually tell someone, completely at random, that you find them highly unattractive is an awful thing. Many people here are trying to improve their health, fitness, and physical appearance. So doing something like that is incredibly unkind. Admitting you were wrong and apologizing is a great step, but you need to understand why you were jumped on.
  • BranMuffin86
    BranMuffin86 Posts: 314 Member
    I wanna turn heads when I walk past!
  • CoffeeLush
    CoffeeLush Posts: 46 Member
    I had one ex tell me that he would never marry me until I looked "damn good in a bikini" and he couldn't love me until I "grew my hair out and lost a ton of weight". I had another ex work at a club and would always talk about the hot young things he saw while he was there. My reason is to go to the bar where that ex works and just watch his head turn and think this is what you could've had and hoping to see my other ex in passing and watch him do a double take.

    I think you might need to date better men.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    To look good naked in those situation where I am naked in front of people (don't ask)


    Asking. Definitely asking.... :love: :wink:
  • T0FatToB3S1ck
    T0FatToB3S1ck Posts: 192 Member
    To bang hot chicks.

    This guy deleted me and I would STILL climb him like a tree

    This is a joke RIGHT? Im finding both men highly unattractive (sorry no offense dude(s))

    I am sure they weren't offended, I am not attracted to you at all and I highly doubt you care.

    Plus they said they wanted hot chicks.

    .Look, the pic (which has been changed to reflect a rather handsome man) was not a good one, and for a website that FREQUENTLY has forum posts about, Hot, Not, Pass, Bang etc etc etc...I honestly didnt think my comment would be SO attacked. Was it a little douchy YES. Finest moment NO. But, if everyone wants to jump on the band wagon, go for it. I already apologized. Not gonna grovel. If you find me unattractive, GREAT! Maybe you guys should start a new forum about how unattractive you think I am. Honestly I dont care. I just feel bad for the OP of this awesome Topic as it has been (true to form) grossly derailed...

    You must be new. MFP members are largely against negative shaming. No one expects you to be attracted to everything and everyone, that would be ridiculous. But to actually tell someone, completely at random, that you find them highly unattractive is an awful thing. Many people here are trying to improve their health, fitness, and physical appearance. So doing something like that is incredibly unkind. Admitting you were wrong and apologizing is a great step, but you need to understand why you were jumped on.

    Dear Guy, Your Hot. SIncerely, Me
  • themommie
    themommie Posts: 5,033 Member
    To hear my husband refer to me as his hot wife...done :blushing:
  • msuspartan10
    msuspartan10 Posts: 72 Member
    Oh here's a really selfish one. My good friend from high school and before has it all together -- married, well paying job, new puppy and kitten, thinking about kids and we're the same age. I want to get all buff and hot so I have one thing that's "better" than her lol
  • 4jamaica
    4jamaica Posts: 69 Member
    I want to look good enough to where a woman would want me before I ever said anything. I think it would be awesome to catch someone checking me out.

    You haven't caught anyone because women are really good at it compared to men :) In my opinion, if a man catches a woman looking, then it's because she let herself be caught.
  • TyTy76
    TyTy76 Posts: 1,761 Member
    To bang hot chicks.

    This guy deleted me and I would STILL climb him like a tree

    This is a joke RIGHT? Im finding both men highly unattractive (sorry no offense dude(s))

    I am sure they weren't offended, I am not attracted to you at all and I highly doubt you care.

    Plus they said they wanted hot chicks.

    .Look, the pic (which has been changed to reflect a rather handsome man) was not a good one, and for a website that FREQUENTLY has forum posts about, Hot, Not, Pass, Bang etc etc etc...I honestly didnt think my comment would be SO attacked. Was it a little douchy YES. Finest moment NO. But, if everyone wants to jump on the band wagon, go for it. I already apologized. Not gonna grovel. If you find me unattractive, GREAT! Maybe you guys should start a new forum about how unattractive you think I am. Honestly I dont care. I just feel bad for the OP of this awesome Topic as it has been (true to form) grossly derailed...

    You must be new. MFP members are largely against negative shaming. No one expects you to be attracted to everything and everyone, that would be ridiculous. But to actually tell someone, completely at random, that you find them highly unattractive is an awful thing. Many people here are trying to improve their health, fitness, and physical appearance. So doing something like that is incredibly unkind. Admitting you were wrong and apologizing is a great step, but you need to understand why you were jumped on.

    Dear Guy, Your Hot. SIncerely, Me

    Well look at that..

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