No photo = no add!

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  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    I've belonged to many forums and none of them use real pictures, it's bizarre to me when people do.

    it's show a lack of creativity. I can hear what you're saying, that people with real pics aren't as smart.
  • BedsideTableKangaroo
    BedsideTableKangaroo Posts: 736 Member
    it just depends man.
    sometimes i use a goofy pic of some kind on here when i'm feeling depressed and need a laugh, but that's me.

    sometimes people only go halfway when they sign up and just keep telling themselves, oh i'll add a picture later, but maybe they're overweight and embarrassed still. i know i was a few years ago.

    sometimes people use fake photos just to circumvent a forum ban. like they can't use their real photo because someone will recognize them from before and report them.

    and sometimes they're just stalkers and you're totally justified in deleting/ignoring them. you just have to trust your gut.

    We said we werent gonna mention that again.....

    I disagree. A person can use any picture of any person found on the internet for a profile pic if they really wanted to. Perhaps the people who use sayings and cartoon characters and funny pics are actually more dependable. Plus, whichever pic they use can give a little insight as to their personality.

    def true, and i agree with the rest to an extent- personally, i think the best route to go is, sure, use a fake/goofy pic for your pp, keep your profile locked, but also, if you're real, keep an actual pic or two in your photos section so your friends know who they're really dealing with.

    Note to self...delete all pics of extremely large breasted, big assed tiny waist bikini blondes in photos section before accepting any friends requests.

    FR SENT

    Note to self...replace all pics of extremely large breasted, big assed tiny waist bikini blondes in photos section with balding large bellied large breasted men with unibrows and mustaches.

    fr sent. wait, i'm doing this wrong.
  • pinuplove
    pinuplove Posts: 12,871 Member
    pinuplove wrote: »
    nature68 wrote: »
    Without trust there is no foundation to grow and build on , all u got is sand and u sure as hell can't build on sand

    Jeez louise We're here to lose weight, not find a soul mate! Relax.

    right, that's what ashley madison is for.

    Is Adult Friend Finder still around, or did MFP chit-chat replace it?
  • browneyedgirl749
    browneyedgirl749 Posts: 4,984 Member
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    xxtonixx87 wrote: »
    It should be a rule to have a pic on these kind of sites.

    Are you looking for a date?

    I'm just here to lose 10 pounds and tone up a bit. I don't need to see a photo of your chest to talk to you.

    Preach!! It's the guys with profile pictures like that that make me wonder their true intentions on this site.

    I don't trust anyone until I see some D pics

    Start chatting to one of the guys that has a chest pic... give it a day, I'm sure you'll get one :lol:

    A day???? hahahahahahaha

    I was trying to give them a little credit lol
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    pinuplove wrote: »
    pinuplove wrote: »
    nature68 wrote: »
    Without trust there is no foundation to grow and build on , all u got is sand and u sure as hell can't build on sand

    Jeez louise We're here to lose weight, not find a soul mate! Relax.

    right, that's what ashley madison is for.

    Is Adult Friend Finder still around, or did MFP chit-chat replace it?

    ... like you need to ask
  • pinuplove
    pinuplove Posts: 12,871 Member
    I don't care if a FR has a profile pic, a real person, a cartoon or the default.

    I ignore all of them 100%.

    Truth. @tacklewasher is an equal-opportunity ignorer :disappointed:
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    I don't care if a FR has a profile pic, a real person, a cartoon or the default.

    I ignore all of them 100%.

    But what if its a great actor?
  • Tacklewasher
    Tacklewasher Posts: 7,122 Member
    pinuplove wrote: »
    I don't care if a FR has a profile pic, a real person, a cartoon or the default.

    I ignore all of them 100%.

    Truth. @tacklewasher is an equal-opportunity ignorer :disappointed:

    I think I ignored you twice :)

    But we have our super-secret group so we are good.
  • Tacklewasher
    Tacklewasher Posts: 7,122 Member
    I don't care if a FR has a profile pic, a real person, a cartoon or the default.

    I ignore all of them 100%.

    But what if its a great actor?

    Still ignore it. I've stopped deleting them though. Got 20 or so I'm ignoring now.
  • NorthCascades
    NorthCascades Posts: 10,968 Member
    MeganAM89 wrote: »
    Realistically, I have zero way of knowing if the photo a person is using as their profile pic is actually of them. This is the internet. Literally all of us in this thread who have a photo of themselves could be lying. We'd never know.

    And even if the pic is real and it looks great and you want to eff their brains out, it's the internet, and they probably live 5,000 miles away.

    Meanwhile, if you're horny and single, there are probably real people wherever you live.

    Not you specifically, well, maybe, I don't know, I'm just agreeing with your point.
  • pinuplove
    pinuplove Posts: 12,871 Member
    edited April 2017
    pinuplove wrote: »
    I don't care if a FR has a profile pic, a real person, a cartoon or the default.

    I ignore all of them 100%.

    Truth. @tacklewasher is an equal-opportunity ignorer :disappointed:

    I think I ignored you twice :)

    But we have our super-secret group so we are good.

    Does that make me special or pathetic?

    Well it's not super-secret NOW, is it!? hrmph
  • Tacklewasher
    Tacklewasher Posts: 7,122 Member
    pinuplove wrote: »
    pinuplove wrote: »
    I don't care if a FR has a profile pic, a real person, a cartoon or the default.

    I ignore all of them 100%.

    Truth. @tacklewasher is an equal-opportunity ignorer :disappointed:

    I think I ignored you twice :)

    But we have our super-secret group so we are good.

    Does that make me special or pathetic?
    Yes
    Well it's not super-secret NOW, is it!? hrmph
    Oh *kitten*!
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    I do think the profile pic should give an indication of your sex.

    Like @abitoftrouble would have a big ZERO.
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  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    I do think the profile pic should give an indication of your sex.

    Like @abitoftrouble would have a big ZERO.

    Doesn't this post belong in the rate a person thread?

    No, I still like @abitoftrouble so that doesn't effect their overall rating.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    I accept all friend requests. I give everyone the benefit of the doubt. I have met some really interesting and helpful people and I have no idea why or where some of them noticed me, but if I didn't give them a chance, I would have missed out.

    If people send me a blank request, I message them, they all have replied.

    People all have different needs, some like to be social, others not so much. That is fine by me. I am in the community to support everyone.

    The only creepy people I have talked to did not send me a friend request, just messages.

    I chose to use a real picture of myself to try to add something personal because I am a guarded person and have a closed profile. I message people who I have something I want to say something to, I like one on one conversation.
  • pinuplove
    pinuplove Posts: 12,871 Member
    pinuplove wrote: »
    pinuplove wrote: »
    I don't care if a FR has a profile pic, a real person, a cartoon or the default.

    I ignore all of them 100%.

    Truth. @tacklewasher is an equal-opportunity ignorer :disappointed:

    I think I ignored you twice :)

    But we have our super-secret group so we are good.

    Does that make me special or pathetic?
    Yes

    Thanks for clearing that up. :confounded: I'm going to go cry in the corner and lament my current lack of FRs.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    I do think the profile pic should give an indication of your sex.

    Like @abitoftrouble would have a big ZERO.

    Brb, changing mine to a vagina...

    Well that's confusing.
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  • Stella3838
    Stella3838 Posts: 439 Member
    How can I make my profile picture faker?
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    How can I make my profile picture faker?

    Change it to Marlon Brando.
  • Stella3838
    Stella3838 Posts: 439 Member
    Change it to Marlon Brando.

    Wait, if I changed it to something like this, then I might get lots of FR's I can ignore!!

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