That's poor form

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  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    I just made sure to walk outside to pass gas instead of making everyone in the office suffer.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    I'm always looking to help out a stranger or do a random good deed.





    ..... well, that is, if there's something in it for me.

    This, ladies and gentlemen, THIS is how its done.
  • FireTurtle75
    FireTurtle75 Posts: 2,014 Member
    edited June 2017
    It's your good deed. No one helped you push the mower, so it's up to you if you want to share that you did or not.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    It's your good deed. No one helped you push the mower, so it's up to you if you want to share that you did or not.

    It was self-propelled.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    I told this ugly person they looked good.
    Only kicked my dog once, and it wasn't as hard as usual.
    Let that one idiot who wanted to cut in front of me and drive like a azz in, so I could ride up and almost hit him.

    Ya know, philanthropic stuff like that.

    :'(:'( So you really didn't mean it when you told me I looked good and you don't have to call me a dog, I was impressed that you only kicked me once and not as hard as normal, this morning.
  • pudgy1977
    pudgy1977 Posts: 13,499 Member
    Good deed of the day? Well, I haven't punched not even one person yet
  • MrStabbems
    MrStabbems Posts: 3,110 Member
    It's your good deed. No one helped you push the mower, so it's up to you if you want to share that you did or not.

    It was self-propelled.

    It was actually two good deeds as I was sweating lots so technically watering their lawn too.
  • akoivisto
    akoivisto Posts: 141 Member
    It's your good deed. No one helped you push the mower, so it's up to you if you want to share that you did or not.

    It was self-propelled.

    But was it self-guided? I heard the new Yardmaster ''Cruise" is a real killer.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    @pudgy1977 wrote: »
    Good deed of the day? Well, I haven't punched not even one person yet

    Let me push you over the edge
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    pudgy1977 wrote: »
    Good deed of the day? Well, I haven't punched not even one person yet

    don't worry; the day is young
  • pudgy1977
    pudgy1977 Posts: 13,499 Member
    Seriously have my office door locked so no one tempts me
  • benjaminhk
    benjaminhk Posts: 353 Member
    I don't trust people that frequently brag about their good deeds.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    benjaminhk wrote: »
    I don't trust people that frequently brag about their good deeds.

    Who are you trying to convince more? Me or yourself?


    I see this as a trick question, and I ain't fallin' for it.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    benjaminhk wrote: »
    I don't trust people that frequently brag about their good deeds.

    Who are you trying to convince more? Me or yourself?


    I see this as a trick question, and I ain't fallin' for it.

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  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    I drove an old lady who doesn't understand or speak English (I am not a stranger to her) and her cat home so she didn't have to walk in the rain with a cat.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    benjaminhk wrote: »
    I don't trust people that frequently brag about their good deeds.

    TBH, I don't believe/trust anyone that brags about anything, especially if it's over and over. Their "hard" workouts, how much they get hit on, how awesome they are... etc. Who are you trying to convince more? Me or yourself?

    im not just awesome... im kitten awesome!

    Well of course, you are discluded from this statement!
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    I think it's good to share ideas of good deeds, makes me more aware of things I can do to help people
  • MrStabbems
    MrStabbems Posts: 3,110 Member
    edited June 2017
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    I drove an old lady who doesn't understand or speak English (I am not a stranger to her) and her cat home so she didn't have to walk in the rain with a cat.

    That's really quite nice, and demonstrates to people with EAL or visitors that we aren't all bad/xenophobic idiots
    benjaminhk wrote: »
    I don't trust people that frequently brag about their good deeds.

    Distrust how? distrust their deeds or just them in general? also how frequent becomes frequently?
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    I have to say I sometimes hesitate to offer to do things for people because I don't want to offend them.
    Example being someone who is physically disabled, I sometimes feel awkward offering to help because I don't know how they will take it.
  • thewindandthework
    thewindandthework Posts: 531 Member
    I think it's fine--preferable, even--to feel good about doing something good.

    It might be purer in some academic way if it's wholly altruistic, I guess, but I think it's better to do good regardless of motivation than not to do good because you're concerned about why you're doing it.

  • MrStabbems
    MrStabbems Posts: 3,110 Member
    I think it's fine--preferable, even--to feel good about doing something good.

    It might be purer in some academic way if it's wholly altruistic, I guess, but I think it's better to do good regardless of motivation than not to do good because you're concerned about why you're doing it.

    That's valid point and kinda related to @Vikka_V 's. It's odd that we might stop and not do a good deed if it might be taken the wrong way. That being said the saying "The road to Hell is paved with good intentions" springs to mind
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    i think i screwed up my left shoulder due to poor form

    But your wrist is still good?

  • MrStabbems
    MrStabbems Posts: 3,110 Member
    edited June 2017
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    I think it's fine--preferable, even--to feel good about doing something good.

    It might be purer in some academic way if it's wholly altruistic, I guess, but I think it's better to do good regardless of motivation than not to do good because you're concerned about why you're doing it.

    I would never suggest that someone not do good because they are concerned about why they are doing it. My suggestion would be to make a habit of doing good. Make it part of your lifestyle, do these things without thinking. If it becomes part of your routine then you won't feel the need to talk about it, but you still did it. That person will remember it and hopefully be inspired by it, do something similar and pass on the kindness.

    What if, by talking about it you inspired others to go and do more good deeds so the net good deed's is higher if you talk about it that if you just did it and kept quiet...

    in fact I think it might be selfish NOT to talk about it! :lol:
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    @Vikka_V wrote: »
    I drove an old lady who doesn't understand or speak English (I am not a stranger to her) and her cat home so she didn't have to walk in the rain with a cat.

    Should have left the cat behind
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    edited June 2017
    i stopped giving money to homeless people

    What about the unemployed?
  • MrStabbems
    MrStabbems Posts: 3,110 Member
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    MrStabbems wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    I think it's fine--preferable, even--to feel good about doing something good.

    It might be purer in some academic way if it's wholly altruistic, I guess, but I think it's better to do good regardless of motivation than not to do good because you're concerned about why you're doing it.

    I would never suggest that someone not do good because they are concerned about why they are doing it. My suggestion would be to make a habit of doing good. Make it part of your lifestyle, do these things without thinking. If it becomes part of your routine then you won't feel the need to talk about it, but you still did it. That person will remember it and hopefully be inspired by it, do something similar and pass on the kindness.

    What if, by talking about it you inspired others to go and do more good deeds so the net good deed's is higher if you talk about it that if you just did it and kept quiet...

    in fact I think it might be selfish NOT to talk about it! :lol:

    Yep. You're right. I am a selfish *kitten*. Lol

    but we still love you L. You and your many many innumerable flaws :lol:

    especially the flaws.
  • MrStabbems
    MrStabbems Posts: 3,110 Member
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    MrStabbems wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    MrStabbems wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    I think it's fine--preferable, even--to feel good about doing something good.

    It might be purer in some academic way if it's wholly altruistic, I guess, but I think it's better to do good regardless of motivation than not to do good because you're concerned about why you're doing it.

    I would never suggest that someone not do good because they are concerned about why they are doing it. My suggestion would be to make a habit of doing good. Make it part of your lifestyle, do these things without thinking. If it becomes part of your routine then you won't feel the need to talk about it, but you still did it. That person will remember it and hopefully be inspired by it, do something similar and pass on the kindness.

    What if, by talking about it you inspired others to go and do more good deeds so the net good deed's is higher if you talk about it that if you just did it and kept quiet...

    in fact I think it might be selfish NOT to talk about it! :lol:

    Yep. You're right. I am a selfish *kitten*. Lol

    but we still love you L. You and your many many innumerable flaws :lol:

    especially the flaws.


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    All your perfect imperfections L. :*
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    i stopped giving money to homeless people

    What the unemployed?

    id buy you a beer or 2

    I'll take it!
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    i stopped giving money to homeless people

    When asked by panhandlers for spare change, I always reply :

    "Ya got change for a twenty? "
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