Ghosted

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  • SEAHORSES4EVER
    SEAHORSES4EVER Posts: 1,553 Member
    newmeadow wrote: »
    pinuplove wrote: »
    _dracarys_ wrote: »
    Perhaps his wife found out.
    He's 46? I'm tempted to agree with this.


    46 and playing textie games with hopeful youngsters. Must be a real catch.

    It was better before the edit :D I woo'd!
  • grayblackmfp
    grayblackmfp Posts: 140 Member
    I don't think he's married. I've been to his house and it looked like the house of a man and his children. Doesn't mean he doesn't have a non live in significant other though.
    I looked him up on the dating website. He hasn't been online lately although his profile is still up.
    Anyway I sent a letter asking if he is ok and to communicate with me. I'm going to have to let it go now so I don't descend into psychoness or bunny boiler mode. Bit worried I look like a stalker as it's only been a few days. Feels like the uncertainty is making me nuts.
  • irishchic1020
    irishchic1020 Posts: 3 Member
    He ghosted.

    It sucks not to get an explanation, but it is what it is. I've had it done to me and I've done it also. It's the easy way out, but in today's dating world it's very common.
  • Jillj32
    Jillj32 Posts: 145 Member
    Just let it go. He's not worth your time or attention.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    Not having closure sucks. Get closure. Send that text.
  • SwedishSarah
    SwedishSarah Posts: 4,350 Member
    I was dating a man who I met on a dating website a month ago. We had seven dates over four weeks with daily texts in-between. He always texted me first. Then one day he didn't reply to me. And I've heard nothing from him since. Unless he's had some kind of emergency he obviously doesn't want to see me again. I know I'm better off without someone who can be so cruel but the bit of hope that I have left hurts. It doesn't feel quite over because I'm still waiting for a text or call. I'm surprised how much it hurts after such a brief time with him. It doesn't make me want to open up to anyone else. Has this happened to you and how did you get past it without losing faith in humanity?


    Do not put any more of your time into someone who won't put their time into you. There are many jerks in this world, but don't let this loser affect how you look at future relationships.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    MrStabbems wrote: »
    Yep. Wife found that phone. Dudes in purgatory now. Few months blow by and he'll be back telling tales. Move on lady.

    This guy has some tales to tell

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  • laurenebargar
    laurenebargar Posts: 3,081 Member
    So you deleted his number and dont have his phone number anymore?

    This honestly probably isnt the case, however if you were hanging out multiple times and nothing out of the ordinary happened recently between you two, couldnt he have gotten a new phone and has no way to get in touch with you?

    When you say you wrote a letter do you mean you mailed him a letter?

    How did you leave it the last time you saw each other?
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    Jillj32 wrote: »
    Just let it go. He's not worth your time or attention.

    Since we're in Disney mode here, is that not the most overrated song ever?
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  • MrStabbems
    MrStabbems Posts: 3,110 Member
    What if you "ghost" someone for 4 hours? Like not return their text Bc your child is sick. Is that ghosting or inconsiderate?

    neither.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    Ghosting is for pusssies.
    Man up and tell me why you can't stand me.

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  • Poisonedpawn78
    Poisonedpawn78 Posts: 1,145 Member
    Ghosting is for pusssies.
    Man up and tell me why you can't stand me.

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    Dont do it Hicks, Its a TRAP!!
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    Ghosting is for pusssies.
    Man up and tell me why you can't stand me.

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    Dont do it Hicks, Its a TRAP!!

    Remember, short control bursts.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    @newmeadow wrote: »
    I don't think he's married. I've been to his house and it looked like the house of a man and his children. Doesn't mean he doesn't have a non live in significant other though.
    I looked him up on the dating website. He hasn't been online lately although his profile is still up.
    Anyway I sent a letter asking if he is ok and to communicate with me. I'm going to have to let it go now so I don't descend into psychoness or bunny boiler mode. Bit worried I look like a stalker as it's only been a few days. Feels like the uncertainty is making me nuts.

    My married boyfriends always kept rentals on the side. Of course I was the last to know about the married status or the multiple residences. I got this from my hairdresser and later, with the other one, from his other side piece. And of course, the boyfriends were 40 something. Men are in their thirsty prime then, and are trying to stay one step ahead of the eventual need for a Viagra prescription. Stick with under 35 or over 55.

    Well, hell, you just eliminated me.



  • dc8066
    dc8066 Posts: 1,439 Member
    Maybe, y'all need to chill a little. What if he had a heart attack or some other tragic event in the family? I'd give him a week or two to respond, then delete his # if he's still playing ghost
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    @newmeadow wrote: »
    @newmeadow wrote: »
    I don't think he's married. I've been to his house and it looked like the house of a man and his children. Doesn't mean he doesn't have a non live in significant other though.
    I looked him up on the dating website. He hasn't been online lately although his profile is still up.
    Anyway I sent a letter asking if he is ok and to communicate with me. I'm going to have to let it go now so I don't descend into psychoness or bunny boiler mode. Bit worried I look like a stalker as it's only been a few days. Feels like the uncertainty is making me nuts.

    My married boyfriends always kept rentals on the side. Of course I was the last to know about the married status or the multiple residences. I got this from my hairdresser and later, with the other one, from his other side piece. And of course, the boyfriends were 40 something. Men are in their thirsty prime then, and are trying to stay one step ahead of the eventual need for a Viagra prescription. Stick with under 35 or over 55.

    Well, hell, you just eliminated me.

    You'll be married within 10 years, and, my suspicion is, you'll be a faithful husband. :heart:

    But will I be employed?
  • Sunna_W
    Sunna_W Posts: 744 Member
    Maybe he's married and got caught? IDK. I like the idea of sending him one more text and asking him a question that only he would know the answer to and see if he responds... If he doesn't, then I would just write it off. Also, preface it with the phrase, "My husband and I were talking, and he asked me to find out if..."
  • grayblackmfp
    grayblackmfp Posts: 140 Member
    newmeadow wrote: »
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    My married boyfriends always kept rentals on the side. Of course I was the last to know about the married status or the multiple residences. I got this from my hairdresser and later, with the other one, from his other side piece. And of course, the boyfriends were 40 something. Men are in their thirsty prime then, and are trying to stay one step ahead of the eventual need for a Viagra prescription. Stick with under 35 or over 55.

    That's really *kitten*. The amount of planning and deceit that's gone into deceiving other people.
    I don't think I have the heart for internet dating, I'm going to find a new hobby.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    @newmeadow wrote: »
    @newmeadow wrote: »
    @newmeadow wrote: »
    I don't think he's married. I've been to his house and it looked like the house of a man and his children. Doesn't mean he doesn't have a non live in significant other though.
    I looked him up on the dating website. He hasn't been online lately although his profile is still up.
    Anyway I sent a letter asking if he is ok and to communicate with me. I'm going to have to let it go now so I don't descend into psychoness or bunny boiler mode. Bit worried I look like a stalker as it's only been a few days. Feels like the uncertainty is making me nuts.

    My married boyfriends always kept rentals on the side. Of course I was the last to know about the married status or the multiple residences. I got this from my hairdresser and later, with the other one, from his other side piece. And of course, the boyfriends were 40 something. Men are in their thirsty prime then, and are trying to stay one step ahead of the eventual need for a Viagra prescription. Stick with under 35 or over 55.

    Well, hell, you just eliminated me.

    You'll be married within 10 years, and, my suspicion is, you'll be a faithful husband. :heart:

    But will I be employed?

    Shucks. You could make a pile 'o cash right now tending bar in Vegas or Reno. You got the Canadian Akroydesque wit.

    I'll have to consider that. And also learn how to bartend.
  • Caporegiem
    Caporegiem Posts: 4,297 Member
    edited June 2017
    @newmeadow wrote: »
    @newmeadow wrote: »
    @newmeadow wrote: »
    I don't think he's married. I've been to his house and it looked like the house of a man and his children. Doesn't mean he doesn't have a non live in significant other though.
    I looked him up on the dating website. He hasn't been online lately although his profile is still up.
    Anyway I sent a letter asking if he is ok and to communicate with me. I'm going to have to let it go now so I don't descend into psychoness or bunny boiler mode. Bit worried I look like a stalker as it's only been a few days. Feels like the uncertainty is making me nuts.

    My married boyfriends always kept rentals on the side. Of course I was the last to know about the married status or the multiple residences. I got this from my hairdresser and later, with the other one, from his other side piece. And of course, the boyfriends were 40 something. Men are in their thirsty prime then, and are trying to stay one step ahead of the eventual need for a Viagra prescription. Stick with under 35 or over 55.

    Well, hell, you just eliminated me.

    You'll be married within 10 years, and, my suspicion is, you'll be a faithful husband. :heart:

    But will I be employed?

    Shucks. You could make a pile 'o cash right now tending bar in Vegas or Reno. You got the Canadian Akroydesque wit.

    I'll have to consider that. And also learn how to bartend.

    You just need magic apples.

  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    edited June 2017
    @newmeadow wrote: »
    @newmeadow wrote: »
    @newmeadow wrote: »
    I don't think he's married. I've been to his house and it looked like the house of a man and his children. Doesn't mean he doesn't have a non live in significant other though.
    I looked him up on the dating website. He hasn't been online lately although his profile is still up.
    Anyway I sent a letter asking if he is ok and to communicate with me. I'm going to have to let it go now so I don't descend into psychoness or bunny boiler mode. Bit worried I look like a stalker as it's only been a few days. Feels like the uncertainty is making me nuts.

    My married boyfriends always kept rentals on the side. Of course I was the last to know about the married status or the multiple residences. I got this from my hairdresser and later, with the other one, from his other side piece. And of course, the boyfriends were 40 something. Men are in their thirsty prime then, and are trying to stay one step ahead of the eventual need for a Viagra prescription. Stick with under 35 or over 55.

    Well, hell, you just eliminated me.

    You'll be married within 10 years, and, my suspicion is, you'll be a faithful husband. :heart:

    But will I be employed?

    Shucks. You could make a pile 'o cash right now tending bar in Vegas or Reno. You got the Canadian Akroydesque wit.

    I'll have to consider that. And also learn how to bartend.

    You just need magic apples.


    LOL!!

    I thought there was going to be a "taste like fish" line but their line was much better.
  • gothchiq
    gothchiq Posts: 4,590 Member
    Yeah. Cheating on wife. Consign him to the Lake of Fire, so to speak, and move on.
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    I don't think he's married. I've been to his house and it looked like the house of a man and his children. Doesn't mean he doesn't have a non live in significant other though.
    I looked him up on the dating website. He hasn't been online lately although his profile is still up.
    Anyway I sent a letter asking if he is ok and to communicate with me. I'm going to have to let it go now so I don't descend into psychoness or bunny boiler mode. Bit worried I look like a stalker as it's only been a few days. Feels like the uncertainty is making me nuts.

    he got what he wanted.....game over

    Just because she went to his house doesn't mean he banged her. :#

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