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Did he block you on the dating website?0
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laurenebargar wrote: »Did he block you on the dating website?
That's a good question. It tells you when people are online, right? Just keep checking back to see if he's on. If he is, you know he's ok but a dick.0 -
browneyedgirl749 wrote: »laurenebargar wrote: »Did he block you on the dating website?
That's a good question. It tells you when people are online, right? Just keep checking back to see if he's on. If he is, you know he's ok but a dick.
I think so, I remember my friend in college met someone on a dating website and they just disappeared too, and when she went to look for his dating profile it was gone, so I signed up and he still had a profile he had just blocked her, thats a pretty clear answer for OP on if hes just ignoring her or if something else is going on.1 -
Perhaps his wife found out.21
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hasnt been that long in time.. maybe something happened to his phone?? and he dont have your # now... i would give it time...
or he is already married,other gf,something happened..but it sounds like you already wrote him off by deleting his info..????0 -
grayblackmfp wrote: »Ghosting sucks and it's a cowardly thing to do but I can't help but wonder, what if something happened to him and he's laying in a hospital somewhere or worse...dead! I know that's horrible but I always give people the benefit of the doubt before I write them off forever. That's the only 'excuse' aside from he's just not that into you.
I don't know if he is ok. I know it's unlikely but he might not be. We have no mutual friends so no one would tell me if he wasn't.
He's 46 so I'd have thought he was more mature than just doing a disappearing act. I've sent him a letter today asking why he's avoiding me and saying I'd like him to communicate. I won't contact him again and will try and get busy with my life instead of moping.
Yes that is very immature for a 46 year old. Sadly, there is nothing you can do but move on. If he's alive and well and hasn't reached out, it's because he simply doesn't want to. There is absolutely no other reason. People can think of a gazillion excuses why he wouldn't but the bottom line is, if he really wanted to, he'd make it happen. Leave him alone. I know it's hard, I've been ghosted. You're left wondering "what the heck happened or where did I go wrong". You even start justifying (again excuses) all the reasons why he hasn't called. (i.e., his phone got lost etc). It's all BS. In this day and age of technology, if he really wanted to reach you he would. Again, the only excuse would be laying in a hospital or dead. Other than that, he doesn't want to contact you. I'm sorry.5 -
_dracarys_ wrote: »Perhaps his wife found out.
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Ghosting is for pusssies.
Man up and tell me why you can't stand me.6 -
Damn! I thought this thread was going to be about something else...
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_har_T_Swallow wrote: »tbf its not always just the married *guys* who ghost.
Tell us who hurt you.6 -
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I don't think he's married. I've been to his house and it looked like the house of a man and his children. Doesn't mean he doesn't have a non live in significant other though.
I looked him up on the dating website. He hasn't been online lately although his profile is still up.
Anyway I sent a letter asking if he is ok and to communicate with me. I'm going to have to let it go now so I don't descend into psychoness or bunny boiler mode. Bit worried I look like a stalker as it's only been a few days. Feels like the uncertainty is making me nuts.0 -
He ghosted.
It sucks not to get an explanation, but it is what it is. I've had it done to me and I've done it also. It's the easy way out, but in today's dating world it's very common.1 -
Just let it go. He's not worth your time or attention.2
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Not having closure sucks. Get closure. Send that text.0
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Yep. Wife found that phone. Dudes in purgatory now. Few months blow by and he'll be back telling tales. Move on lady.5
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grayblackmfp wrote: »I was dating a man who I met on a dating website a month ago. We had seven dates over four weeks with daily texts in-between. He always texted me first. Then one day he didn't reply to me. And I've heard nothing from him since. Unless he's had some kind of emergency he obviously doesn't want to see me again. I know I'm better off without someone who can be so cruel but the bit of hope that I have left hurts. It doesn't feel quite over because I'm still waiting for a text or call. I'm surprised how much it hurts after such a brief time with him. It doesn't make me want to open up to anyone else. Has this happened to you and how did you get past it without losing faith in humanity?
Do not put any more of your time into someone who won't put their time into you. There are many jerks in this world, but don't let this loser affect how you look at future relationships.0
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