WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR AUGUST 2017
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~ Karen - I completely understand your pain with your grandson's situation...my daughter is clinically "depressed" and diagnosed with bipolar disorder (which I believe is inaccurate, but I'm not an expert). She does take medication, and it does help. Unfortunately, she married a man with bipolar disorder, severe depression that makes Eeyore look like Richard Simmons most of the time, and he has recently been diagnosed with Aspbergers Syndrome. Then there's my grandson...who is now 7yrs old...diagnosed with Autism at 2yrs old...FORTUNATELY my daughter was very proactive and has got all three of them in regular therapy and specialized therapy for my grandson who is classified in the spectrum as High Functioning. He's brilliant, but has behavioral issues. They're managed quite well with lots of therapy - weekly - and fantastic teachers and facilitators at his school. My biggest concern is puberty for him because that is when both his parents were truly in crisis and stayed that way until early 20's when they met. There IS light at the end of the tunnel for your grandson...stay diligent and faithful...be there for his parents, it truly helps when everyone is supportive! Even when it really hurts the worst!
~ Heather - what a beautiful couple you make, and I absolutely ADORE your dress!
~ Menopausal Ladies - I'm most recently suffering slightly more with mini flashes as I call them...I had my full hysterectomy 11yrs ago, and did HRT for 6 mo's post op then went with herbal for a few years until I weaned myself off of that too...so for approx. 9 years I haven't had any symptoms, mood swings, or any typical menopause issues so many people suffer from. I'm one of the blessed ones! I'm concerned about the mini flashes sometimes, but they're not severe enough to seek advice yet. I feel badly for all of you who suffer. I watch my Mom and say a prayer of gratitude whenever I hear her complain, or note her mood swings, etc.
Today has been really busy at work. So busy in fact I didn't get my breakfast in, only coffee. Didn't give myself an excuse to overeat at lunch tho...still focused!! I heard from a very fit co-worker however that missing a meal isn't always a good thing. So, I upped my protein (his recommendation) for lunch, and grabbed some raw almonds for a snack shortly...
Also, I'm very happy to report I found the pedometer app on my phone, and as of 1pm have 2412 steps in...I'm a firm believer that MFP really DOES work since I'm somehow more aware and constantly checking my calories and sodium counts and inputting all my water intake too...just wish I'd find a way to change the app from minutes walked to steps walked instead. Maybe there's another app to convert the steps to minutes somewhere! Or, maybe I'll become a millionaire for thinking of it first! LOL! Highly doubtful, but one can dream!
Started a new college course yesterday, this one advanced industrial hygiene. In case I haven't mentioned, I'm a safety professional by trade. My education past high school didn't start again for me until 2012 when I realized my experience alone wasn't going to keep me employed. I went back to school online, and have completed an AS in Business Administration, a BS in Occupational Safety and Health, and am currently working on my MS in Occupational Safety and Health/Environmental Management. All of these from the same college of Columbia Southern University. I'll graduate hopefully in early 2019 with my Masters. I have to say that only the math courses for my prior degrees really made me work for passing grades. Started off my masters great too, had a 4.0 for several terms until my last course, which was masters level safety engineering. The professor, full time faculty for the college, was very strict in his grading rubric, and I barely squeaked out a "B" grade overall. I got lots of extra help and feedback from him, but didn't get an "A" on anything but the weekly discussion boards - which thankfully kept me from having to retake the course and pay more tuition, etc. I'm mentioning it because sometimes I get really busy with work and college, and forget to focus on DORRIE. My health and mental wellbeing suffer - so, I'm making that aware also. Is anyone else a late bloomer, over 50, and in college too?
I've gotta get back to work - enjoy your afternoon/evening/morning wherever you are in the world!!
Much love and respect from Vegas,
Dorrie aka TrulyDivyn5 -
How many of us have Eyore for husbands???? I think he IS EYORE!
My youngest brother had two sons and they both have so many of the alphabet mental illnesses. ADD! ADDHD ODD OCD plus bipolar. Why and how can children be born with all of that. The older of the two sons is now a fairly mature man, is an EMT paramedic. His only mental problem right now is his sexual addiction to this trailer trash of a woman who keeps popping out babies. Some are his, some aren't. But he is just like his Mom and loves every one of them and has given 4 babies his name. There is one of the children he knows is his. They have lived together long enough in Alabama that they are legally married and therefore he has to divorce her to dissolve the relationship. Neither of them have the money so sometimes they live together and fit terribly and sometimes they live apart. They children have seen so much and I don't know what kind of a role model of a mother or father they will carry on into their adult life. Hopefully it will be my brother and SIL. But both of the boys when they were children attempted suicide when the were young. And both have spent many a day in a children's psychiatric hospital.
Well a friedm of mine says that since we have a 60% chance of rain today that it WILL rain. I don't think so. So far there is no evidence of it.
I agree, where is Penny???? Sure miss her wisdom, humor and pictures. I also miss Sylvia, and the lady who had cats, lived in a Victorian house and adopted her nieces or was it grand children. Anyway, there have been many good friends through the years here that have left. I know anytime there is a Joyce that comes here that she doesn't stay. I guess I scare them all off!
Joyce, Indiana2 -
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DJ, well I saw it on a Facebook page called ' Linnies Place', its a group site that has a lot of down home recipes, beautiful pics, and old fashioned knowhow stories. I also belong to a group there called ' Older Than Dirt', which is like this group but not as healthy!!!
Becca hugs!2 -
Fridge is finally fixed, yea now for it to cool down..and will have to go get some dinner tonight, because there isnt much in tiny fridge.. will check in later before bed..4
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Dorrie
Nice to meet you! You live in Las Vegas now? When were you in Oregon, what part? Here are some pics for you!
Becca
Hugs from Hammond, Oregon!
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Tere, yep its nice to split up a large steak to make multiple meals!
Today I mailed off a mint in box toy of my sons he wasn't interested in keeping. I rec'd a postal money order for $30, so then with buying bubble wrap and a box, it came to $15 that I profited! I promptly gave to my husband and he used $12 to fill up the car! The flow of money..2 -
So, DH birthday is this weekend and we have two special Chicago stuffed pepperoni pizzas arriving FedEx tonight frozen. He is so excited- this is a treat we order only approx twice a year. Lol, yes we get our pizza delivered to Texas all the way from Chicago! We plan to cook one tonight and I'm praying for The self-control to only eat one piece. I already entered that one piece into MFP so I had better not eat more than that! That will be hard, but at least it's not my favorite the spinach pizza.
This weekend one of our nieces is coming to town as well. She is 12 years old and as sweet as can be! I have to think of something special for all of us (DH, niece and MIL) to do. Unfortunately it is way too hot here right now to plan any outdoor activities. MIL's rehab is going well, I'll go with her again tomorrow.
I'll sign off now, I need to call my brother because today is his actual birthday. This is a hard time, because my father who lives with him, is currently in rehab facility. All this rehab activity in the older generation has me doubling down on my determination to continue strength training. I'm proud of myself, I did three sessions this week.
Rye
Texas
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Ooh half my thread disappeared?!
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Becca, are those your photographs? They are amazingly beautiful and spectacular!0
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August Goals
1. Carbs 50-75g (limit 25g/meal)
2. Fiber 30g
3. Vegetables - big salad daily
4. Track/complete entry daily
5. Steps - avg 5000 steps, 30 Fitbit min.
6. Lose 10 pounds
7. Declutter weekly in the zones
8/1 Weight = 288.4
• I'm getting more fiber on a regular basis. I want to have a clean colonoscopy in February next year.
• I'll be age 60 on Aug 22nd. I did not want to be fat and forty... fifty... sixty... I don't usually put "pounds loss" numbers on my monthly goals - but I will aim for 10 pounds loss this month. I'll be seeing my doctor in September and would like to have a good loss.
-- Ginger in Texas4 -
Lisa in w Tx. We all manage the best we can with kids leaving and transitioning from us. I have to resign to the fact that how I relate with my sons is just a lifelong series of hellos and goodbyes. Its what we do in between, to always let them know we support them and will offer advice. The best gift we can give our children is to raise them, then let them go.
Becca
Oregon
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I had oral surgery yesterday to insert 2 implants for teeth. So... no foods, slept most of the day, dropped 3 lbs. No pain and not hungry. Sipping coffee. Had my Metamucil. Not sure what I'll eat later. Maybe some quick homemade vegetable soup. Frozen veggies cooked in broth. Maybe a protein shake.
Hope you all are having a good day and week. I'm going to catch up reading posts here.
--Ginger in Texas4 -
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Call me crazy but I love to see other people happy and succeeding .
Good Evening my dear Friends,
M, sorry to hear about your condition, (MTHFR). It’s great that you know all that is necessary to keep it under control. As serious as it sounds I will admit I did laugh when I saw the abbreviation because it reminds me of an abbreviation for something else. *Yes, I’m bad.*
Virginia, I always like to have things clean and neat when I have a repairman scheduled, but the truth is they don’t really care. I assure you they have seen things that you might not even imagine. Glad the toe isn’t broken. Always remember when you go someplace like IHop that they will often fix something not even on the menu. I often ask for a grilled chicken breast and green veggie and restaurants are able to accommodate. Never hurts to ask.
Michele, I think you will get a good view of the eclipse from where you live. According to the map online, the very best view of the fullest coverage will be around Charleston but much of the south East will have a great view. Just drive carefully on your way home. Here is a great interactive map for those that are interested. https://www.vox.com/science-and-health/2017/7/25/16019892/solar-eclipse-2017-interactive-map
Dorrie, don’t worry about trying to get everyone sorted out. As soon as you learn it, it will change. Lol You will get very clear on a few and not so much on others. We don’t let it bother us if someone responds to the wrong person. Just keep reading and posting and enjoy the ride.
Tere, so sorry that your asthma is giving you such fits. I sure hope it improves soon!
KarenVA, how scary for an 11 year old to be thinking of suicide. My prayers are with you all.
Janetr, so happy to see you post. I was beginning to worry about you. I’m sure you have something to tell us about but we will wait until you are ready. Sending love your way. (((((Hugs)))))
Bianca, that was terrible to see that mother treating her daughter like that. I don’t even know what I would do.
Heather, your dress is beautiful. I know you will have a great time!!!
Allie, so glad the fridge is fixed.
Rye, have fun with your niece at whatever inside activity you decide on. I know you don’t want outside in the heat.
It has rained on and off all day today. It’s raining pretty hard right now. It’s been a nice anniversary but we decided not to go out today and wait until the worst of the tourist season is over. That is normally once school starts. The restaurants are just so crowded. I just can’t believe I’m old enough to have been married for 49 years. I remember when that just sounded ancient.to all the Newbies. Come often and join in the chat. This thing works!! Please sign your post with what you want to be called. It makes it easier for us to respond to you. Also a location is great, be it specific or general. We are happy to have you join us.
I want to thank you all, my cyber sisters, for the well wishes for my DD. She is doing fine and all the scrapes are scabbed up and healing nicely. It’s amazing how your words can touch our hearts and that we truly feel each other’s caring and love. You are all the absolute best and I just want you to know how much I truly love you!
Sending love, good thoughts and cool sunshine to all of you.
I Love you
DJ
Myrtle Beach, SC
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~ Becca - OMG thank you!!!!!!! I've missed the coast so much! I grew up in Medford, but we had a home in Brookings too, and the old family homesteads in Yoncalla and Eugene are still very much occupied by family as well as representatives in Jackson and Josephine Counties...I have a LOT of family/friends/relatives there...I try to get home annually, but it's not always the case. I was in Medford for my 35th HS reunion last year, and family reunion right after that in Ft Jones/Etna/Callahan area across the border...I was soooo happy to see those photos! Made my afternoon!
Some time, you're going to have to show me how to share photos too. When I get home tonight, I have to take my DSIL (which I think stands for dear Son in Law?) to Bullhead City to purchase something important to him...my grandson and my son will probably road dog it with us. For those wondering where that is, Bullhead City AZ is on the NV/AZ border across the river from Laughlin NV - both about half an hour north of Needles CA. Usually, and typically it's 10 degrees warmer there than in Vegas...go figure! Why am I driving you ask? Forgot to mention my DSIL is also epileptic and cannot drive at night. He's an excellent navigator tho!
I haven't mentioned my son yet - he's 25yrs old and has not given me a grandchild yet. I'm secretly grateful for that because he's not ready to be a father yet. I predict that will change in the next 3 to 5 years. He's got a plan, the 2yr and 5yr plan. 2yr plan is to buy a house and finish college, not in any certain order. He will then feel as if he is prepared for a child in his life both financially and emotionally. He's going to be an excellent Daddy when he is one!
I'm trying to attach a photo of my grandson - let me know if it comes through! Last year's 1st day of school - he had no front teeth...now he has front teeth, but others are missing...LOL...I'm very biased by my gorgeous handsome handful of a grandchild!!4 -
Cute pic, Dorrie! You attached it fine, but if you wish to post it " opened" then click on the landscape in a box option, ( next to the camera box above where you type). I have oogles of pics I've gathered here and there! Katla is another Oregonian up off the Columbia River inlet some. She is awesome!
Bridge that connects Oregon to Washington State in Astoria.
Haystack rock, Cannon beach
Becca
Coastie with the mostie! Haha!
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Rye, On Thursdays my line dance class meets right before BINGO so the players start arriving while we are still dancing. So many of them are mobility challenged and seeing them helps me redouble my commitment to walk, dance, lift, and do other exercise as well as eat right. I want to do everything I can to maintain my health and mobility.
Heather,you and your husband look fabulous. I hope you have a perfect cruise and enjoy every minute of it.
DJ, happy anniversary.
Barbie
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