Such a thing as guy "friends"?

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  • dc8066
    dc8066 Posts: 1,439 Member
    edited October 2017
    On a rare occasion, yes.
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  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    activities1 wrote: »
    Can girls just be friends with guys or do you all at some point just want in our pants?

    Just curious, no offense meant.

    Only if they're gay.


    Not that there's anything wrong with it.
  • activities1
    activities1 Posts: 3,475 Member
    This is very insightful lol.
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  • erica_today
    erica_today Posts: 185 Member
    I've had friends that were just guys. My two best friends in high school were guys they always had my back. I did kiss one of them once when we saw a movie together. Then we looked at each other agreed to never speak of it again and stayed besties. I've had other guy friends too that were just that guy friends. And when a guy speaks to me now that I just want as a friend I speak to him as though he's just a friend and I make it clear of my intentions. But some guys are just buttholes
  • ZodFit
    ZodFit Posts: 394 Member
    activities1 wrote: »
    Can girls just be friends with guys or do you all at some point just want in our pants?

    Just curious, no offense meant.
    Sure you can.
    The ones trying to get in your pants were never your friend to begin with.

  • Corprina
    Corprina Posts: 215 Member
    I think it's possible just not probable.
  • russelljam08
    russelljam08 Posts: 167 Member
    Beta orbiters.
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  • gcibsthom
    gcibsthom Posts: 30,145 Member
    Men and women can definitely be friends without wanting to get into each others pants...I have had several female friends who I did not want to climb into bed with. Some wanted it, some didn't. It's just a part of honest communicating. Once you establish a basis in friendship, communication is much easier. And the best relationship is when they are both friends and lovers...
  • uggins311
    uggins311 Posts: 2,204 Member
    Yes, i have plenty of female friends that i haven't thought of getting into their pants. But if they were to want me to get into their pants i probably would, because well.... I'm a guy.
  • MrSith
    MrSith Posts: 1,636 Member
    edited October 2017
    It's so hard saying no to a blow-job.
  • deanowatt11
    deanowatt11 Posts: 14 Member
    I think you can just have a friendship but if you find the friend physically attractive then there will always be that thought. You may never act upon it for fear of rejection or already in a relationship, but the thought would be there. Even if it's just the once. If you are not attracted to them then you will probably never think of them as anything other than a friend.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    WorkerDrone83 wrote: »
    You'd think that us wanting to get into your pants and being denied would just make us better quality friends. Like we try harder. :)

    I'd not thought of it this way :laugh:
  • JillianRumrill
    JillianRumrill Posts: 335 Member
    my best friend is a guy...but he's also gay. sooooo...
  • activities1
    activities1 Posts: 3,475 Member
    WorkerDrone83 wrote: »
    You'd think that us wanting to get into your pants and being denied would just make us better quality friends. Like we try harder. :)

    Nice logic. I need to reject before even asked so I have the best of friends lol
  • WorkerDrone83
    WorkerDrone83 Posts: 3,195 Member
    edited October 2017
    activities1 wrote: »
    WorkerDrone83 wrote: »
    You'd think that us wanting to get into your pants and being denied would just make us better quality friends. Like we try harder. :)

    Nice logic. I need to reject before even asked so I have the best of friends lol

    But make it a slightly ambiguous rejection, leaving only a shred of hope. Otherwise, I'm definitely not coming to give you a lift home from the bar at 2AM because your ride has a flat.

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