Such a thing as guy "friends"?

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  • activities1
    activities1 Posts: 3,475 Member
    Lmao like Gandalf and froto lol MADE MY DAY!!!
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  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    I have met guys on this site who are amazing and sincerely platonic. Platonic friends are the best, they don’t demand as many nudes and the ones they send are a bit more low-key. Plus there’s like almost no pressure to sext or have a high credit score.

    Heyyyyyyyyyy, you ready to do some..... taxes with me, since I need help?
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    activities1 wrote: »
    Can girls just be friends with guys or do you all at some point just want in our pants?

    Just curious, no offense meant.

    I've been told I'm just friends with lots of girls. So yes.
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,423 Member
    activities1 wrote: »
    Can girls just be friends with guys or do you all at some point just want in our pants?

    Just curious, no offense meant.

    I have had guy friends for years that have never expressed any interest in my pants. I don't believe they secretly have wanted in my pants for 20+ years. My female friends haven't expressed interest in wanting to be in my pants either. Somehow we all manage to just be friends and found other people to date/marry/share pants with.

    If you are talking about "friends" on this site that might be different.
  • activities1
    activities1 Posts: 3,475 Member
    Lol yes on this site.
  • Merrysailor5
    Merrysailor5 Posts: 1,424 Member
    Renaissance_Turtle wrote: »
    Will_Run_4_Food wrote: »
    I want to knock boots with my entire friends list

    So glad we're friends bro. call me.. LOL

    teehehe
  • ManBehindTheMask
    ManBehindTheMask Posts: 615 Member
    I have lots of female friends

  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    They are some really nice guys on here who aren't all about the *kitten* and then there's the others..
    Im friends with a lot of the first variety.. :)
  • TonyB0588
    TonyB0588 Posts: 9,520 Member
    activities1 wrote: »
    Can girls just be friends with guys or do you all at some point just want in our pants?

    Just curious, no offense meant.

    Can't speak for anyone else, but I don't have those thoughts about the other girls I am comfortable with. I only feel that way with my wife.
  • TonyB0588
    TonyB0588 Posts: 9,520 Member
    cherchezlafemme13 wrote: »
    I don’t know. I don’t really trust a man that doesn’t want to get in my pants. What’s wrong with him?

    @cherchezlafemme13 Why do you think that? Nothing wrong with him. He's just being respectful.
  • TonyB0588
    TonyB0588 Posts: 9,520 Member
    happymaiden wrote: »
    I have guy friends who are in a relationship and who at some point admitted wanting to sleep with me but we just laughed it off and told him it's not gonna happen.. we're still friends though. I guess it'll always be in guys' heads (pun intended) to want to sleep with women, friends or not, so it's up to us to set boundaries.

    Not really fair to lump all men into one category. I set my own boundaries, and I'd never lead a woman on to the point of thinking I'd want to do that. The only woman I've ever slept with is my wife, and I don't think I want to change that.
  • JDMac82
    JDMac82 Posts: 3,192 Member
    WreckedButWhole wrote: »
    JDMac82 wrote: »
    i have a lot of friends that are girls, just that nothing more. besides i have my own pants...... haha

    some just cant be friends, just like some girls cant just be friends, they want in guys pants too.

    Those girls don’t want in your pants, they just want you to want in theirs

    But I dont wear skinny jeans............................. haha
  • dutchandkiwi
    dutchandkiwi Posts: 1,389 Member
    Sure it is possible, but I accept it is possibly not possible for everybody. I guess to me it falls into the same category as staying friends with an ex, never been able todo that but some people can.

    One of my best friends is male. Nothing ever happened between us even if we had to share beds (stuff up in reservations) and we have been friends for over 20 years. It should be noted that his wife and my husband, which we both met long after we'd become friends have a lot in common with our friend. i.e. my husband and my friend share certain characteristics and do his wife and I. My friend and I used to joke it is that our friendship is the result of a faulty batch of matches. The ingredient to spark is missing.

    Last year one of my BFF's got married. Her husband's best man is female. I totally see a similar dynamic there as with my male friend and I.
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  • ptcampgymokc
    ptcampgymokc Posts: 318 Member
    It is possible... As long as both people in the friendship are clear and comfy about it...
  • ptcampgymokc
    ptcampgymokc Posts: 318 Member
    True. happens to me all the time with my friend....
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  • HealthyAshes88888
    HealthyAshes88888 Posts: 1,248 Member
    edited October 2017
    Lovetocompete wrote: »
    Yes they can be friends*. Here's the catch though: if she wants sex, it'll happen. The man will not say no.

    Any argument is feeble at best.


    So true
    Eta..in a lot of those friendships. Not all
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