Snap Judgments

caco_ethes
caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
edited November 23 in Chit-Chat
This might be a dangerous thread but let’s see how we do.

What kinds of judgments do you make about people based on only one or two things you have learned about them? What kinds of generalities do you feel are your reality (but may not be anyone else’s)?

For example, if I learn that a guy is a boob man, I immediately assume that he’s boring and has no imagination. That’s my snap judgment.

And an example of something that I believe to generally be true is that most men are more attracted to brunettes than blondes. I see a lot of men (especially here) talk about not liking blondes.

Remember, these are people’s individual perceptions so don’t get grumpy. And try to shy away from anything openly racist or offensive please. :lol:
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  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    jkou77 wrote: »
    When I people say no offense ...they generally mean to offend ...is that a judgement...lol I think I'm doing this wrong

    No, you’re good! Any kinds of assumptions are interesting to hear about
  • pudgy1977
    pudgy1977 Posts: 13,499 Member
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    Sooo...not this kind of snap then?
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    When people say they want to talk about something, then continue to talk without stopping or pausing for discussion, I think they A) Are more interested in convincing themselves they are right or know what they are talking about, B) Think they already know everything, C) Are justifying things.
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    pudgy1977 wrote: »
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    Sooo...not this kind of snap then?

    No, this kind

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  • JaydedMiss
    JaydedMiss Posts: 4,286 Member
    edited December 2017
    guys who invite me on a first date to get booze are boring and need me drunk so i dont notice. Sad i know lol.
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  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    I assume men with a deeper voice have a lot of difficulty zipping their pants
  • 123liveoak
    123liveoak Posts: 2,239 Member
    People that hate cats hate life
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    I have big hands, big feet, and a deep voice, and assume every thinks I have a big wardrobe.
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  • rsclause
    rsclause Posts: 3,103 Member
    I was on my way to a test of duct mounted smoke detectors and needed a lighter to light the test smoke bombs. So I went into a quick shop and the girl in front of me was buying a lighter only. Lighter and no cigarettes I thought "pot smoker". I had to laugh when I stepped up and bought only a lighter as I glanced behind me.
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  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    When a guy relentlessly sends me FR with no message than later sends me a pm saying "you're so damn sexy" I assume he's a pervert.
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