Less alcohol- January 2018- one day at a time
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Today will be day 5 for me! I’m anticipating it to be the hardest day yet (tomorrow will be worse though). Kids bday from 12-2 and then I will be home and would normally have several rum and sparkling water over the course of the evening. I’m planning instead to work out in my new home gym and doing something constructive with my 8 year old (we have a lot of STEM toys/activities that aren’t used enough) before cooking a healthy dinner for us. I feel so good so that is really mentally helping me stick to my goals right now.4
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Yesterday was a win! Then of course diet was great. I am thinking of roses or earrings for rewards. Maybe a rose a week. Maybe all of them on my birthday if I abstain that day....5
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Last night was a learning experience, many factors and emotions, broke down my wall of not drinking. But I am happy and now relieved. I drank (3) then something clicked in my brain and I stopped, switched to fizzy water and diet cranberry juice. yes the damage was done, over calories, potential hangover(I don't have one yaaa) broke my streak but the mystery is over, what if I drink again. Well now I know and it is not worth it, so I am looking forward to tonight, my fizzy water, tea and a enjoying me. I hate watching the hubby drink but I cannot let that affect or influence me. So I start over and I okay with that, I am a perfectionist so not having a dry January is ruined. 1 out of 30 days is way more better than drinking 30 out of 30 which is what I use to do.
Great job everyone! I am 1 for 411 -
I woke up with a totally clear head this morning & had a long run. I read somewhere that with running, you shouldn’t drink the day before a long run or the day you’ve completed it. This is really helping me (was a bit doubtful of the benefit) as two long runs in since alcohol free & there is a fairly big difference! Day 5 today for me & Saturday when I intended to drink, but I won’t be. Want to see what the difference is in another week. Still each day as it comes, once we hit Monday again it’ll be easier! Keep going everyone, it’s inspiring me too!8
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slimbyjune18 wrote: »I woke up with a totally clear head this morning & had a long run. I read somewhere that with running, you shouldn’t drink the day before a long run or the day you’ve completed it. This is really helping me (was a bit doubtful of the benefit) as two long runs in since alcohol free & there is a fairly big difference! Day 5 today for me & Saturday when I intended to drink, but I won’t be. Want to see what the difference is in another week. Still each day as it comes, once we hit Monday again it’ll be easier! Keep going everyone, it’s inspiring me too!
Great job, I want to work back up to running and quitting drinking is really going to help. I hope by the spring thaw in Ohio I can have enough walking miles on the treadmill to venture outside for running. I am just starting back to daily exercise so I have a long way to go.3 -
Day 5 is in the books as a success - a difficult success. My oldest daughter is in the Navy and home on leave. We had the first of two dinner parties last night.
She and I came in from shopping to find a 12pk in the fridge. I passed them up easily. My son in law then said “we are running out to the liquor store, need anything?” I was so proud of my reply... “NO, I’M GOOD”. Yay!!! Go me!!!!
He came back and asked me to make him a mojito. I did and passed on having one. The second was more difficult, but I passed again.
Everyone left about 11 Pm and as I was putting stuff in the dishwasher - I looked at my husband and said “a mojito would be so good right about now”. He said to have one - one would not hurt me... I almost caved in.
The silly little thing that kept me from having one was the app in the photo above.... my counting clock. I would have to reset to zero.
I grabbed a sparking ice and went to the bedroom.
I am proud of myself this morning!!!
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@becky3695 That's awesome! It took some serious self-discipline for you to pass all that up!2
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crazykatlady820 wrote: »@becky3695 That's awesome! It took some serious self-discipline for you to pass all that up!
Thank you!!! And you are my biggest inspiration. I know if you can make it 80+ Days - I can make it just One more!!!
Let’s do this!!!!4 -
jenifer7teen wrote: »Still, i have begun to experience SHAME when i drink too much or too often. I hate that emotion more than anything. So, my new years resolution is for each day i am totally sober i put 10 dollars (a bottle of wine) into an account.
This is a FANTASTIC idea!!!! I can think of a lot of things that $3650 can buy me next year!!
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I am doing dry January! Day 6 so far feeling really good. I realized i was drinking way more than I thought. One bottle at dinner with my boyfriend would turn into two.. going out i'd lose count of how many drinks I was having. I was gaining weight and my sleep pattern was terrible. 6 days in I am already noticing a difference in my skin, my sleep is better and I have more energy in the morning. Once January is over I think I will continue, or at least reduce my drinking to once in a while. I'm actually finding it to be a fun challenge for myself!8
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I'm in, too! My first goal is to have a dry January and then see what my next steps will be. I can easily drink a bottle a day and all those empty calories are killing me. Drinking undoes what I have spent months trying to achieve with my weight. Plus my depression medication will work a lot better if I'm not drunk all the time!8
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Love seeing the updates throughout the day and to see how everyone is doing! I had 1/2 glass of microbrew with hubby last night while we watched the sunset from an upstairs balcony. The beer was nice, but I found I didn’t want more than the 1/2 that I drank. This morning, I’m ready for a great workout and a nice day with my family.
Are you noticing it’s easier to keep your diet in check since cutting back on the alcohol? I’m at goal weight, and I primarily work on my running and strength training (just body weight at the moment). I have a tendency to eat more after drinking, so I think cutting back is going to help me moderate my diet.
Have a great day everyone!6 -
I love this! I’m in too! Today is day 8 for me. I’ve noticed that my sleep tracker is showing fewer sleep interruptions and I just feel better about myself. Trying to cut back on sugar intake and I notice I snack way more after I’ve had a couple of drinks. Plus, wine can expensive! LOL! I have a plan in place to have flavored seltzer water on hand for instances where I really want something. I’m going to put it in a fancy cocktail glass and sip away. Hope it works!9
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One of the best threads, ever, on MFP.14
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kcn2bluesky wrote: »Love seeing the updates throughout the day and to see how everyone is doing! I had 1/2 glass of microbrew with hubby last night while we watched the sunset from an upstairs balcony. The beer was nice, but I found I didn’t want more than the 1/2 that I drank. This morning, I’m ready for a great workout and a nice day with my family.
Are you noticing it’s easier to keep your diet in check since cutting back on the alcohol? I’m at goal weight, and I primarily work on my running and strength training (just body weight at the moment). I have a tendency to eat more after drinking, so I think cutting back is going to help me moderate my diet.
Have a great day everyone!
Yes, I find it much, much easier to stay on track with my eating, especially because wine was more than a trigger for food I did not need, and I developed a habit of lots of salty snacks with wine in the evenings ... after meals. Now, I have a much better guage for my hunger and food cravings, and with that, added confidence to succeed with weight loss.
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I like waking up and reading everyone’s posts. Day 5 for me today. Feeling excited about healthier me.5
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jenifer7teen wrote: »Still, i have begun to experience SHAME when i drink too much or too often. I hate that emotion more than anything. So, my new years resolution is for each day i am totally sober i put 10 dollars (a bottle of wine) into an account.
This is a FANTASTIC idea!!!! I can think of a lot of things that $3650 can buy me next year!!
Oh, I am definitely doing this. I think by day 7 (tomorrow), I'll have saved at least $20 in wine.4 -
@kcn2bluesky definitely noticing it's easier to keep calories under control since I'm not spending them on wine. I can actually say that I'm not hungry over the past couple of days, probably because I'm eating enough. This is helping a lot. Plus I've lost a couple of pounds in the past week, which is pretty motivating.3
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jenifer7teen wrote: »Still, i have begun to experience SHAME when i drink too much or too often. I hate that emotion more than anything. So, my new years resolution is for each day i am totally sober i put 10 dollars (a bottle of wine) into an account.
This is a FANTASTIC idea!!!! I can think of a lot of things that $3650 can buy me next year!!
Haha right?! I dont plan to quit drinking entirely so i wont save quite that much. I'd like to save $2000. ive found if my goal isnt realistic for me, it wont work to motivate me.
I love drinking, especially socially, but it needs to be more of a treat...like dessert is for some people. Life is meant to be enjoyed, afterall, and perfect health isnt an obsession that really serms healthy (or realistic) either. But any pleasure in excess brings displeasure (hurting self, others, interfereing with happiness, hangovers, expense). Personally my goal is just to balance drinking with all the other things i want to enjoy about life. The dollar amount is just a reminder of the "cost" of drinking. Its a trade off for other wsys to spend time/money/calories/etc....some days it's worth it to me. Somedays its not. I just need to really stop and evaluate before indulging...not do it habitually and unthinkingly! Thats where my feeling of SHAME (ewww) kicks in.
Anyway good luck to everyone in their goals!!! It was nice to vent here while i spent a boring, sober Friday at home last night. Haha5 -
@Skyweigh @kittybenn Sounds like you are both doing great!! I can think of lots of things to do with 300 calories than spend them on 2 glasses of wine in the evening! And I’m starting to calculate the $$ saved as well. I don’t typically drink every night of the week, but even 2 bottles of wine a week adds up in both calories and money. I like the idea of setting aside that money to purchase something else. A great motivator to keep this going!
Good luck to everyone with whatever your goals are for the day!5
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