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    Is it appropriate for my boyfriend to ask me to pay him to live with him?

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    • Posts: 1,831 Member
      Whybelesswhenyoucanbmore wrote: »
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      Sorry I didn't know.
      I usually date polish men.

      I've never dated a polish man, how is it?
    • Posts: 492 Member
      eccomi_qui wrote: »
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      I've never dated a polish man, how is it?

      Its eezy peezy lemon squeezey.
    • Posts: 622 Member
      They do all the work for you!
    • Posts: 492 Member
      edited January 2018
      WhereIsPJSoles wrote: »
      They do all the work for you!

      True. I don't even type my own responses. Being a kept woman and all that I just tell him what yo type.
      *to type.
      Gosh.
    • Posts: 1,831 Member
      Whybelesswhenyoucanbmore wrote: »
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      True. I don't even type my own responses. Being a kept woman and all that I just tell him what yo type.

      Your boy can’t spell tho
    • Posts: 492 Member
      eccomi_qui wrote: »
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      Your boy can’t spell tho

      He doesn't speak English :D:D
    • Posts: 772 Member
      Whybelesswhenyoucanbmore wrote: »
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      Its eezy peezy lemon squeezey.

      Can I?
      4d5.jpg
      Carry on.
    • Posts: 492 Member
      poetic_cell wrote: »
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      Can I?
      4d5.jpg
      Carry on.

      :smiley:
    • Posts: 597 Member
      silkmouse wrote: »
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      Actually I don't think he is using me as he gets paid tomorrow and I have his bank card and pin number so I plan on withdrawing the money that he owes me. When we do move into somewhere I plan on purchasing flowers.

      In essence Jasiek works 8 pm - 5 pm daily approximately in construction 5 days a week and then for me I wake up, go to the gym, read books from the library, hang out with people during the day, and then meet up with Jasiek. Sometimes I also study Polish, I listen to music and watch TV as well.

      Does he know you're going to withdraw the money? Neither of you seem mature enough to handle an adult relationship. I cannot believe you are 29 years old.
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    • Posts: 15,487 Member
      People like this really exist? All of this is a parenting failure.

      ..priceless reading and entertainment though
    • Posts: 4,286 Member
      WhereIsPJSoles wrote: »
      I hate this thread now because I have to sit here realizing I’m single and people like this get boyfriends.

      lolololol im there with you dont worry xD
    • Posts: 772 Member
      WhereIsPJSoles wrote: »
      I hate this thread now because I have to sit here realizing I’m single and people like this get boyfriends.

      You and me both sister

      Or maybe he's a figment of her imagination.
      Hey, could be even one of the fictional book characters! Brb.
    • Posts: 1,831 Member
      WhereIsPJSoles wrote: »
      I hate this thread now because I have to sit here realizing I’m single and people like this get boyfriends.

      Maybe it’s because of your tough exterior?
    • Posts: 4,571 Member
      WhereIsPJSoles wrote: »
      I hate this thread now because I have to sit here realizing I’m single and people like this get boyfriends.


      Ugh. Preach.

      *kitten* sickening.
    • Posts: 567 Member
      edited January 2018
      WhereIsPJSoles wrote: »
      I hate this thread now because I have to sit here realizing I’m single and people like this get boyfriends.

      I refuse to believe that this' true, it's implausible; that I am this unlucky!
    • Posts: 772 Member
      edited January 2018
      Since I clearly have no better sheiße to do, I looked for everything Jasiek and this caught my eye. There's a book called Jasiek by Ewa Nowacka and here's the description (English translation made possible by Google):

      Get to know each other: this is Jasiek, Agnieszka, it's Marek, Katarzyna, Artur, besides, there will be even more ... Literary portraits of these girls and boys were created by well-known and liked by you authors. Our heroes have fifteen or sixteen years of age, very different characters, interests and attitudes - as is the case with teenagers. We still do not know for sure how many portraits and ... problems that modern times bring with us, we will present you in this series, but we hope that you will get to know these new friends well, understand and ... you will like. Or maybe moments of reflection on this reading will help you to solve your problems, which are often very important and difficult?

      Coincidence? I think not.
    • Posts: 6,946 Member
      For the love of all that is holy!!!! Eat the boyfriend already and get it over with!!
    • Posts: 932 Member
      I would go back a step and ask whether you two share the same values. The values are key to a future together. (If you trusted in your future together you would sell your place or give up the lease in order to participate in the cost of your new place together.)
    • Posts: 1,831 Member
      Keeping up with the Kielbasa’s starring Jasiek

      I’d watch the hell out of this
    • Posts: 470 Member
      Is this jasiek legal?


    • Posts: 1,400 Member
      newmeadow wrote: »
      All right all right you guys. This thing with Jasiek has been going on for years. Apparently he's found a new girlfriend but he's had other girls at MFP and he really has a way of upsetting his partners.

      Read this very old, 9 page chit chat thread if you don't believe me.

      Love you Bright Crystal :heart:

      http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/1295172/inspirational-dream/p1

      OK, I'm outta here and going back to the poo thread. I know where I am with poo.
    • Posts: 403 Member
      edited January 2018
      BruinsGal_91 wrote: »
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      OK, I'm outta here and going back to the poo thread. I know where I am with poo.

      Don't go it's just getting good!
      Edit: autocorrect and I aren't friends
    • Posts: 457 Member
      If I believed this was real, which I *don't*, Jasiek wants a green card. And as a Pole, I could see how his Polish brain could try to request splitting the rent and having it come out as you need to pay me. That's if I believed this was real, which it isn't. For my sanity's sake, it can't be.
    • Posts: 403 Member
      cavia wrote: »
      If I believed this was real, which I *don't*, Jasiek wants a green card. And as a Pole, I could see how his Polish brain could try to request splitting the rent and having it come out as you need to pay me. That's if I believed this was real, which it isn't. For my sanity's sake, it can't be.

      If this is real I'm gonna be alone forever, why couldn't my parents be rich asf so a polish man could use me for a green card?! /s
    • Posts: 902 Member
      It's appropriate to expect you to pay 1/2 of the expenses. If he's asking for more than 1/2 then NO. Asking you to pay your own way is appropriate, making a profit from living with you is not!
    • Posts: 457 Member
      dinadyna21 wrote: »
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      If this is real I'm gonna be alone forever, why couldn't my parents be rich asf so a polish man could use me for a green card?! /s

      You and me both. We might as well start adopting cats.
    • Posts: 1 Member
      You sound like a hella spoilt child. It's called paying rent ffs
    • Posts: 214 Member
      With my SO, we moved in together while dating but he let me pick the place and we had a very straight forward conversation about money. It was a mutual discussion and set up so that expenses were taken care of by a percentage of our income. It should be mutual, it’s not one person paying another, it’s more like, the bills have to be paid.
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