WOMEN AGES 50 + FOR FEBRUARY 2018

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  • fanncy0626
    fanncy0626 Posts: 7,152 Member
    Terry- thanks! Hopefully will come back millionaires LOL! I generally throw in a 20 and that's it. I do usually win on it but then I stop. I think the win is a temptation to continue on but I'd rather throw my money into a vending machine at least I get something for it!

    <3

    Mary from Arizona
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,084 Member
    im watching Grace and Frankie. and relaxing..long day...
  • evie1958
    evie1958 Posts: 863 Member
    Allie, that does seem weird that they would advertise a job opening and then tell you there wasn't anything available. I think I'd steer clear of that place, if they can't even get their "stuff" together enough to know if they are hiring or not.... Too bad, sounds like it would have been a nice place to work and taking Alfie with you really would be the frosting on the cake (sorry, bad reference! lol)
    Lisa, why would she want to leave her laundry in the washer for days on end???? Ewwww! I don't like even leaving it for a few hours! And Heather, yes, the laundry has to be dry before it gets put away! I have a bathroom right next to the laundry room. The tub/shower combo don't get used much at all, but the shower bar is a great place for hanging all my "hang to dry" stuff! So nice having more than one bathroom!
    Lisa, that whole location looks like a lovely place to hang out! I certainly understand you looking forward to having control of your own life. I would have a tough time living with someone else's rules after all this time of making my own!
    Rori, how exciting to be retiring so soon! Nice that you have your hobbies all lined up too! My dad always said he didn't know how he ever had time to work, he was so busy with other stuff once he retired! lol
    Yesterday was day 4 of eating fairly well, today was day 5 of getting to the gym. And then when I got to work I found out the truck had not come thru and salted our lot. It was kind of icy, so I went out and hand bombed the lot and driveway, then swept some salt that had gotten close to doors and was on the concrete in front of the lockers. I work in a storage facility, we have about 30 units that are outside access, they have large garage type roll up doors. If the salt sits too close to the steel doors, they will start to corrode so the boss likes us to make sure its swept back onto the lot. While I was sweeping, my fitbit said I had done my 10,000 steps already! May have been more the motion from my arm doing the sweeping, but then again I did walk up and down the length of the building a few times. All in all, a productive morning! And now it's snowing again.... Still really light, small flakes to hopefully it won't build up into anything much.
    Hope everyone has a good one!
    Evelyn, Vancouver Island
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    :flowerforyou:
  • Peach1948
    Peach1948 Posts: 2,473 Member
    Allie ~ Prayers said that everything will work out to your benefit. You have had so much happening lately.

    Dana ~ That is sad about your mom. My mom was in the hospital with pneumonia the week she passed, the nurses there just seemed to be very uncaring. My sister (an RN) had to jerk a knot in them to get them to give mom the care she needed.



  • langman22
    langman22 Posts: 786 Member
    fanncy0626 wrote: »
    Terry- thanks! Hopefully will come back millionaires LOL! I generally throw in a 20 and that's it. I do usually win on it but then I stop. I think the win is a temptation to continue on but I'd rather throw my money into a vending machine at least I get something for it!

    <3

    Mary from Arizona

    My cousin lives in Vegas and the one time I went out I won $90 on the slot machines. I started with a $20. My cousins wife plays once a week the $1 slots and won $1,000 one time.
  • langman22
    langman22 Posts: 786 Member
    im watching Grace and Frankie. and relaxing..long day...

    What a wonderful way to spend the day, feet and and laughing
  • langman22
    langman22 Posts: 786 Member
    Good morning!

    It’s still raining. Ok I’d like to see the sun now!

    Yeah, taxes and death, right? With both of of getting SS and anuities from the state of TX, and I have another from HanesBrands, we just get screwed. We certainly don’t make that much!
    I suggested paying in quarterly payments to DH but he said he would keep his cash until he has to spend it!

    I have been tossing around going to an attorney for a consult about my mothers passing. As you see she was in a rehab because she had fallen and she was having a hard time walking. She was doing OK but she still can go to the bathroom without some help. The reason why she fell is because my “evil” sister and her got into an argument and at the time my sister lived with her in Arkansas. So she got pissed off and took off for home which is in Las Vegas, Nevada. She never told me that she was leaving because neither one of them were talking to me at the time. But my mother texted her and told her that she fell and she needed help so she calls the lady down at the church down the street. The lady took her to the local hospital. Then the local hospital had her set up to Little Rock because she needed a pacemaker; which is about 2 hour drive north. At that time my sister called me and told me what was going on and she was flying in from Vegas to Little Rock. So I’m about a hour and a half or so from Little Rock out in Hot Springs so I offered to pick her up being a nice person as I am. So I picked her up at the airport and we went to see our mother and she was just so happy to see me after not talking for a year. So when she got out of the hospital they sent her to the rehab and like I said she was doing OK but then she was not feeling well and so my sister who had the flu really really bad for two weeks, had her taken to the hospital from rehab. The doctor at the ER said that there was nothing wrong with her so they sent her back to the rehab that afternoon. My mother told the doctor that she went back there she would die. And that night she passed away. Her death certificate said 11:30 PM January 5. However, The nurse called me at 12:40 AM on the 6th and she said that mom had rang her and by the time she got down there at 12:20 she was already passed. So it just seems to me that there was a whole lot of negligence going on with my mother’s death. She wasn’t feeling well plus the nurses had to supply her the Advair when she was a custom to using it at will. It said on her Death certificate that she died of acute respiratory failure, acute heart failure and kidney disease.
    So do you think I have a case? She was 89.

    Sorry for rambling. I’m just upset today and didn’t sleep well last night.

    I have been doing better with my diet though. Yeah me!

    RORI: Congrats! 5 more days! DH and I had to sign papers 90 days in advance. It seemed like an eternity plus my boss thought of 50 more things for me to before I left!

    Talk later...
    Dana in Arkansas

    I say it doesn't hurt to get an attorney's opinion. Might make you feel better too.
  • fanncy0626
    fanncy0626 Posts: 7,152 Member
    Dana- I think you have a stronger case for getting 50% of her estate from your sister. Especially with the circumstances of her last days. I would ask Lenora she seems to know everything about the law.

    <3

    Mary from Arizona
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,245 Member
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  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    Spousal IRAs are a good way to reduce your federal tax burden if you qualify, and can still be contributed to until April 17 for 2017.

    <3
  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,645 Member
    Dana - I agree, can't hurt to talk with an attorney. There was a lot of strange stuff going on during the last year of your mom's life with your sister and then at the ER/Rehab. At least an attorney should be able to help you lay it all out and help you decide if there's anything worth pursing, considering your time and the emotional energy it might take.

    Lanette
    SW WA State watching the snow flurries start up again.
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,691 Member
    Dana - <3<3<3

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxx
  • suebdew
    suebdew Posts: 1,298 Member
    <3
  • LifeChoiceGrammy
    LifeChoiceGrammy Posts: 121 Member
    Anyone a WW member??
  • knjiuv
    knjiuv Posts: 61 Member
    I agree Dana, if it makes you feel better about it then it is worth it for your Mom's sake to pursue this with a lawyer. If it were me and I didn't do it then I would never forgive myself. I do hope Lenora pops in here and gives some insight.

    Went to my occupational therapy today and am now graduated! I have met all her goals. She did give me a stronger resistance band to use. But my grip strength numbers and pinch strength were all at her goals. It's bad though that she says I have graduated and I still have to pay $40!

    I remember when I quit work. I called in sick May 15th. I used sick days until I could start my short term disability. Then I finished my accrued sick time. I think I finished all that by November. November 22 was my anniversary there so I had my 4 week vacation time due to me. The whole time I was off and even vacation time I was accruing more sick time. Plus the hospital had a thing that gave employees money for good patient evaluations. So I got that at Christmas time. I hadn't even worked a day of this time that the patient eval time was. But it came in my pay check. So I was well paid for the time I was off. But sadly, that was my final paycheck as between me and my neurologist, we decided that I needed to retire. I was glad though that I did t have to say one day at work that my MS was bad and I needed to quit. I don't think I could have tolerated that last day of work saying goodby to my fellow employees. Even if I was retiring in good health that day would be hard, it would be very distracting from my work. They did have a retirement party for me when I felt well enough to do it. I appreciated that a lot. It was so good to see the many people throughout the whole hospital come see me and wish me well. The hospital had a weekly newsletter and announce things like retirement parties. We knew that there are certain employees that go to things like that just because they know there is free food.

    Heather and Lisa, so excited about the prospect of your new homes. Good luck to the both of you. Heather, I don't think I could ever liv in a village atmosphere. I have to have at least one mall and several shopping centers near by. Charlie knows that sometimes I just need to be by myself and go 'window shopping'. I might buy some inexpensive thing but I just need to be out by myself.

    JanetR, I took several pictures of the different bases that my eggs sit in. One is the plastic napkin ring that you can pick up anywhere. The other is a flat ceramic looking base that came with the rock. But this is the one I was talking about qsj633rh1h0d.jpeg
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    Please excuse the table. It's dark and didn't let the picture come out the way I wanted. I wish my iPad had a flash.

    I am so ready for steady 70 degree + days. This has felt like he longest winters.

    Joyce, Indiana
  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    Dana (((Hugs)))
  • spikeyhair
    spikeyhair Posts: 2,078 Member
    Kate UK <3