He's/She's Just Not That Into You
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_Maid_of_Mischief_ wrote: »If he doesn't hold my hair for me when I eat spaghetti, it's a deal breaker.
Bonus points if he cups his hands under your chin to catch the noodles like a bib.4 -
He has to pull my toes also. If he wont do this, hes gone.1
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_Maid_of_Mischief_ wrote: »justinewillcutyou wrote: »Bad hygiene. Mama’s boy.
I love it when they're a mama's boy, I think it's the cutest thing ever ❤
Lol you haven't dated a reeeeeal mama's boy then. They're literally the worst.4 -
It's a little annoying when they turn out to be a guy
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They don't respect my time for working out 😑1
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He has to pull my toes also. If he wont do this, hes gone.
I like this too so this is going on my listChrystalMiller wrote: »_Maid_of_Mischief_ wrote: »justinewillcutyou wrote: »Bad hygiene. Mama’s boy.
I love it when they're a mama's boy, I think it's the cutest thing ever ❤
Lol you haven't dated a reeeeeal mama's boy then. They're literally the worst.
Mama's boys are the worst. Never again!1 -
CoffeeAndContour wrote: »I could have just said 'energy vampires' and saved you all 30 seconds of life.
I agree. Negativity is hard to deal with. Especially if you’re the sort who vibes off of other people. Also when they are insecure. It can be a lot to handle. Confidence is sexy. It’s difficult to be in a relationship with someone when you begin to feel like it’s your responsibility to lift their confidence, more than a partner typically would.
Gotta be honest, allowing other people to affect your mood is not sexy. People's bad moods are there issue, how we choose to deal with that is totally in our control. Somebody that doesn't need to vibe off another, someone that is self aware enough to not be affected by other people's moods, that's confidence, that's secure, that's sexy.7 -
CoffeeAndContour wrote: »I could have just said 'energy vampires' and saved you all 30 seconds of life.
I agree. Negativity is hard to deal with. Especially if you’re the sort who vibes off of other people. Also when they are insecure. It can be a lot to handle. Confidence is sexy. It’s difficult to be in a relationship with someone when you begin to feel like it’s your responsibility to lift their confidence, more than a partner typically would.
Gotta be honest, allowing other people to affect your mood is not sexy. People's bad moods are there issue, how we choose to deal with that is totally in our control. Somebody that doesn't need to vibe off another, someone that is self aware enough to not be affected by other people's moods, that's confidence, that's secure, that's sexy.
Yes, but attitudes are contagious. Good or bad.4 -
hey al1
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Avocado_AS5 wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »I could have just said 'energy vampires' and saved you all 30 seconds of life.
I agree. Negativity is hard to deal with. Especially if you’re the sort who vibes off of other people. Also when they are insecure. It can be a lot to handle. Confidence is sexy. It’s difficult to be in a relationship with someone when you begin to feel like it’s your responsibility to lift their confidence, more than a partner typically would.
Gotta be honest, allowing other people to affect your mood is not sexy. People's bad moods are there issue, how we choose to deal with that is totally in our control. Somebody that doesn't need to vibe off another, someone that is self aware enough to not be affected by other people's moods, that's confidence, that's secure, that's sexy.
Yes, but attitudes are contagious. Good or bad.
Not to me.....I recognize other's attitudes, but do my very best to not let effect my own.1 -
CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Cameron_1969 wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »If they lack manners
If they lack common curtesy and respect for others
If they are gossipy about their friends
Already said, but if they don’t put their family first
If they don’t like kids
If they don’t like animals
If they are stagnant in life
If they have bad hygiene
If they have no hobbies or passions
If they are a showboater
If they lack communication skills
If they don’t inspire me to be better
I thought I'd been eliminated when you got the part about hating snowboarders. . But then I read it again.. How do you feel about guys who are easily confused?
Lol. Easily confused is okay, long as they aren't indecisive. I happen to love snowboarders being one myself.
I'm very decisive, but that can be dangerous for one who is easily confused. .
And here's my snowboarder pic
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_Maid_of_Mischief_ wrote: »
It's a work in progress.
Umm, good luck with your endeavor towards finding perfection. 😁😁
Thanks. With 7 billion people in the world, I'm sure I can find one or two that fit the bill.
AgainWithTheSurfyPants wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »
You're single aren't you? 😂😆 kidding..
Jo!! HAaahah I thought something very similar! What a list bro.
Yes, I am single, but I'd rather be single and content (which I am) than dating and miserable, and I find it sad that people seem to think that being in a relationship requires some measure of selling out. There is a reason people have standards, and I've seen too many friends and family members in *kitten* relationships because they are afraid to be alone so they lower their standards and expectations, which is monumentally stupid. Relationships should make you happy; they should make you feel good, not stressed out and not like you compromised yourself, but too many people are quick to do that out of desperation, and then justify it to themselves in some fashion or other. That doesn't include when the investment model kicks in and people stay in relationships simply because of the amount of time they've spent in it - again, monumentally stupid.
Think about all the relationships you've been in and think about how they impacted the subsequent relationship - you avoided the things you didn't like in previous relationships when going into the new one, and you kept an eye out for any appearance of these things (because people are just so full of artifice when first dating), so everyone has a list of things that are acceptable and unacceptable (and the unacceptable can be divided into hard and soft limits) when it comes to dating, and this list is based on past experience of what made you unhappy in previous relationships - why repeat the past if it made you so effing miserable the first time around?
I'm on board! Dating a girl who did duck-face would be a sure ticket to lifelong misery..1 -
Smokers, drinkers, and substance abuse
Dudes in women's bodies
Women who are content with being unhealthy
Dull boring personalities
Mean human beings
No ambition
Lived a different lifestyle
Women I just can't be attracted to no matter how hard I try
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People who wrote novels. Im just not into you3
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projectsix wrote: »Smokers, drinkers, and substance abuse
Dudes in women's bodies
Women who are content with being unhealthy
Dull boring personalities
Mean human beings
No ambition
Lived a different lifestyle
Women I just can't be attracted to no matter how hard I try
Phrasing.2 -
Poor Personalities or multipersonalities this does not include those 5-7 days a month
No sense of humor
No ambition
Nasty in a since they don't pick up after their self or keep their vehicle clean
Closemindedness
Dependent
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Misty_1375 wrote: »
I have to say that growing up, I really expected quicksand to be a much bigger concern than discovering at sexy time that I was with a man. I mean, Lola and all, but still.3
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