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  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    robbell678 wrote: »
    I was recently dumped via a text message,...man that sucks! Never happened before.She didn't want to see or hear from me again. Did she take the easy way out? Crushed.

    Her loss and issues my friend
    Most likely did you a solid hun! Hugs!!🤗
  • amorfati601070
    amorfati601070 Posts: 2,890 Member
    Tinydancer106 wrote: »
    Sometimes thinking about the future when I'm not here any longer it is crippling.....not for me or my fear of dying etc.. ..but for my heart and world I'll leave behind...so I do my best to only think of it in quick moments like when I have to do some planning but its like a pain I would not wish on my worst enemy💔

    And I need to stop posting late at night when I cant sleep...yup🙄
    Sorry to go all Vulcan, but that’s not really logical and you should not be afraid. There world and everything existed at a point in time before you were born. Then when you die it’s exactly returning to that. You’ve been through this before, well not really but in a state of non-existence if you know what I mean. My brain hurts now.
  • amorfati601070
    amorfati601070 Posts: 2,890 Member
    Tinydancer106 wrote: »
    amorfati601070 wrote: »
    Tinydancer106 wrote: »
    Sometimes thinking about the future when I'm not here any longer it is crippling.....not for me or my fear of dying etc.. ..but for my heart and world I'll leave behind...so I do my best to only think of it in quick moments like when I have to do some planning but its like a pain I would not wish on my worst enemy💔

    And I need to stop posting late at night when I cant sleep...yup🙄
    Sorry to go all Vulcan, but that’s not really logical and you should not be afraid. There world and everything existed at a point in time before you were born. Then when you die it’s exactly returning to that. You’ve been through this before, well not really but in a state of non-existence if you know what I mean. My brain hurts now.

    No I'm not afraid for me....for my child whom will always need me and not be able to be on his own....sorry...just having a moment ❤

    Oh yeah, that’s the worst part about dying. The others who have are left without you now. Well you can only do your best. It will all work out somehow.
  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    amorfati601070 wrote: »
    Tinydancer106 wrote: »
    amorfati601070 wrote: »
    Tinydancer106 wrote: »
    Sometimes thinking about the future when I'm not here any longer it is crippling.....not for me or my fear of dying etc.. ..but for my heart and world I'll leave behind...so I do my best to only think of it in quick moments like when I have to do some planning but its like a pain I would not wish on my worst enemy💔

    And I need to stop posting late at night when I cant sleep...yup🙄
    Sorry to go all Vulcan, but that’s not really logical and you should not be afraid. There world and everything existed at a point in time before you were born. Then when you die it’s exactly returning to that. You’ve been through this before, well not really but in a state of non-existence if you know what I mean. My brain hurts now.

    No I'm not afraid for me....for my child whom will always need me and not be able to be on his own....sorry...just having a moment ❤

    Oh yeah, that’s the worst part about dying. The others who have are left without you now. Well you can only do your best. It will all work out somehow.

    Its all we can do my friend 🤗👍❤
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Tinydancer106 wrote: »
    amorfati601070 wrote: »
    @Tinydancer106 wrote: »
    Sometimes thinking about the future when I'm not here any longer it is crippling.....not for me or my fear of dying etc.. ..but for my heart and world I'll leave behind...so I do my best to only think of it in quick moments like when I have to do some planning but its like a pain I would not wish on my worst enemy💔

    And I need to stop posting late at night when I cant sleep...yup🙄
    Sorry to go all Vulcan, but that’s not really logical and you should not be afraid. There world and everything existed at a point in time before you were born. Then when you die it’s exactly returning to that. You’ve been through this before, well not really but in a state of non-existence if you know what I mean. My brain hurts now.

    No I'm not afraid for me....for my child whom will always need me and not be able to be on his own....sorry...just having a moment ❤

    I just want to say, I adore you!
    And all of your sweet, kind, positive energy...I feel it!
    You emanate kindness and positive vibes!!
    Know that it is appreciated lady!!

    And most importantly, I'm sure your son feels it, you just got a great energy to you!

    Know that you help me too❤❣
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    amorfati601070 wrote: »
    r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
    I'm very sensitive and I cry alot. Although, it's been a few days so I guess I'm getting better with that.

    I can’t really cry anymore even though I want to. Weird question, but do you think you feel better after crying? Like, I don’t know..it’s kind of relieving to get it out.

    I do feel relief when I let myself cry but it also comes with guilt and vulnerability. The guilt may be because 99% of the time no one knows I do it and also, the "I should be stronger than this" but I am not. Now can I ask, how do you deal with those emotions if you don't cry?
  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Tinydancer106 wrote: »
    amorfati601070 wrote: »
    @Tinydancer106 wrote: »
    Sometimes thinking about the future when I'm not here any longer it is crippling.....not for me or my fear of dying etc.. ..but for my heart and world I'll leave behind...so I do my best to only think of it in quick moments like when I have to do some planning but its like a pain I would not wish on my worst enemy💔

    And I need to stop posting late at night when I cant sleep...yup🙄
    Sorry to go all Vulcan, but that’s not really logical and you should not be afraid. There world and everything existed at a point in time before you were born. Then when you die it’s exactly returning to that. You’ve been through this before, well not really but in a state of non-existence if you know what I mean. My brain hurts now.

    No I'm not afraid for me....for my child whom will always need me and not be able to be on his own....sorry...just having a moment ❤

    I just want to say, I adore you!
    And all of your sweet, kind, positive energy...I feel it!
    You emanate kindness and positive vibes!!
    Know that it is appreciated lady!!

    And most importantly, I'm sure your son feels it, you just got a great energy to you!

    Know that you help me too❤❣

    Aw thank you so much vik!!💖💖💖💖
    You're always so upbeat and kind and I truly love seeing your posts too🤗😗

    I appreciate the kind words sometimes in your darkest hours you find light thru beautiful strangers that you think of as friends.....💖😘
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    Tinydancer106 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
    amorfati601070 wrote: »
    r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
    I'm very sensitive and I cry alot. Although, it's been a few days so I guess I'm getting better with that.

    I can’t really cry anymore even though I want to. Weird question, but do you think you feel better after crying? Like, I don’t know..it’s kind of relieving to get it out.

    I do feel relief when I let myself cry but it also comes with guilt and vulnerability. The guilt may be because 99% of the time no one knows I do it and also, the "I should be stronger than this" but I am not. Now can I ask, how do you deal with those emotions if you don't cry?

    I have not cried since before i was 12 yrs old. Im used to it now but many times wished i could. The guilt you feel about crying might be similar to the guilt i have about not being able to. Not being able to show the emotion sometimes can give a feeling of guilt like maybe i dont care enough. Its not true, but like many people i am a bit broken in certain aspects and all i can do is work on it. But dealing with emotions without crying is possible, because there is no choice if the tears dont come.

    Ya know crying is just one way to release your emotions....what ever works for you is what I say....even if it's not what would normally be considered relief....even laughing can be therapeutic.....and sometimes tears just won't come ....doesn't mean you're broken....just working it a different way🤗

    Just my 2 cents 💖

    I laugh - cackle actually- when I’m in physical pain. It’s the weirdest thing. Childbirth was hilarious
  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
    Tinydancer106 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
    amorfati601070 wrote: »
    r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
    I'm very sensitive and I cry alot. Although, it's been a few days so I guess I'm getting better with that.

    I can’t really cry anymore even though I want to. Weird question, but do you think you feel better after crying? Like, I don’t know..it’s kind of relieving to get it out.

    I do feel relief when I let myself cry but it also comes with guilt and vulnerability. The guilt may be because 99% of the time no one knows I do it and also, the "I should be stronger than this" but I am not. Now can I ask, how do you deal with those emotions if you don't cry?

    I have not cried since before i was 12 yrs old. Im used to it now but many times wished i could. The guilt you feel about crying might be similar to the guilt i have about not being able to. Not being able to show the emotion sometimes can give a feeling of guilt like maybe i dont care enough. Its not true, but like many people i am a bit broken in certain aspects and all i can do is work on it. But dealing with emotions without crying is possible, because there is no choice if the tears dont come.

    Ya know crying is just one way to release your emotions....what ever works for you is what I say....even if it's not what would normally be considered relief....even laughing can be therapeutic.....and sometimes tears just won't come ....doesn't mean you're broken....just working it a different way🤗

    Just my 2 cents 💖

    I laugh - cackle actually- when I’m in physical pain. It’s the weirdest thing. Childbirth was hilarious

    ....exactly!!! 💖
  • s131951
    s131951 Posts: 3,776 Member
    Listened to 'Grand Pianola Music: On the Great Divide' last week in my car. Nearly brought tears to my eyes.
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    My favorite movies are Rat Race & Boat Trip. They're cheesy, corny but they make me laugh. I have been told that's the only time I show a real genuine laugh 😑😂
  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
    My favorite movies are Rat Race & Boat Trip. They're cheesy, corny but they make me laugh. I have been told that's the only time I show a real genuine laugh 😑😂

    I bet its beautiful boo!🤗❤
  • flotek72
    flotek72 Posts: 500 Member
    Bill Nye walked into my Astronomy 101 class in college.
    Has had more than 3 flu shots in his lifetime.
    Debt free.

    2 of these are truths and one is a lie.

    Lie:
    Has had more than 3 flu shots in his lifetime. (I've only had 3 because I get the flu every time I get one.)
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    I am very tired
  • robbell678
    robbell678 Posts: 140 Member
    Just watched Into the Wild for the 9th time.
    Sadly beautiful .
  • mommabear4315
    mommabear4315 Posts: 3,424 Member
    I love people watching.
    I prefer 100° weather to cold weather (anything under 70°)
    I love cupcakes -homemade especially
    I just embarked on a plant base diet and it’s going good
    I’m hooked on 90 day fiancé
    I love happy people
    I hate waiting at Office Depot
  • jc4meandu
    jc4meandu Posts: 273 Member
    I love Jesus,My family <3
    I love helping people.
    I prefer fall over summer.
    I love cooking and unfortunately in my past eating TO MUCH!! LOL
    I won't say hate but don't like it when people add you as a friend and DONT respond to your messages. Why add someone???? If your not gonna talk to them??
    I love studying bible.
    I don't like waiting at walmart check out!!!! LOL
  • jc4meandu
    jc4meandu Posts: 273 Member
    Oh yeah I love the Nashville predators even if we lost in OT last night in shootout! :s
  • LeeMarie392
    LeeMarie392 Posts: 166 Member
    I don’t fall easy but when I do I fall hard..too hard
  • robbell678
    robbell678 Posts: 140 Member
    LeeMarie392 wrote: »
    I don’t fall easy but when I do I fall hard..too hard
    Oh yeah,..I’m there too. Too intense at times.😌
  • Finishiitnow
    Finishiitnow Posts: 896 Member
    edited November 2019
    robbell678 wrote: »
    I was recently dumped via a text message,...man that sucks! Never happened before.She didn't want to see or hear from me again. Did she take the easy way out? Crushed.

    In my case, the same person dumped me by txt, by phone, by mail, by email and in person. I was just so stupidly in love that I thought I could change his mind...
  • robbell678
    robbell678 Posts: 140 Member
    Finishiitnow wrote: »
    robbell678 wrote: »
    I was recently dumped via a text message,...man that sucks! Never happened before.She didn't want to see or hear from me again. Did she take the easy way out? Crushed.

    In my case, the same person dumped me by txt, by phone, by mail, by email and in person. I was just so stupidly in love that I thought I could change his mind...

    Love truly is blind.❤️
    I get to keep the love though,..so I’m ok with that. There’s a reason for everything. Helps me through the &$7fb&&;/,..😁

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