Why do you think you are single?
Cutemesoon
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Feel free to pick a # from the list below or add additional #'s. Funny stories are welcomed! 😆
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1, 2, 4, kind of 82
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I don't really think it's anything on that list. I think I just require too much simple things that nobody can seem to do.9
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The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »I don't really think it's anything on that list. I think I just require too much simple things that nobody can seem to do.
What simple things are you talking about? Just curious0 -
The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »I don't really think it's anything on that list. I think I just require too much simple things that nobody can seem to do.
What simple things are you talking about? Just curious
A person who sticks around when things get tough not only when things are great, communication, honesty, never having to guess where you stand in the relationship, just to name a few. Basically, just all the important things to keep a relationship together. Alot of people are quick to walk away instead of investing.
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1. Because I look young and all the guys my age probably think I'm too young
2. Because I care too much about what people think of me which leads to overthinking and anxiety for no reason
3. Because I doubt myself alot and talk myself down6 -
1. Because I look young and all the guys my age probably think I'm too young
2. Because I care too much about what people think of me which leads to overthinking and anxiety for no reason
3. Because I doubt myself alot and talk myself down
I know what you mean, but embrace who you are, and enjoy your individuality xx3 -
The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »I don't really think it's anything on that list. I think I just require too much simple things that nobody can seem to do.
What simple things are you talking about? Just curious
A person who sticks around when things get tough not only when things are great, communication, honesty, never having to guess where you stand in the relationship, just to name a few. Basically, just all the important things to keep a relationship together. Alot of people are quick to walk away instead of investing.
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2,6,7, my weight, and fear.
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4, 6 and sort of 8....so much freedom!!2
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Is there any one here1
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I'm avoidant and keep others at a distance.5
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I'm with @The_Devil_in_Miss_Jones. Online, people either want to chat/trade texts endlessly, and never actually meet, or they want to meet immediately for guaranteed sex, and don't want to put in either the conversation or the work. (I've been told it's just easier to determine sexual compatibility and THEN decide if you like someone.)
In real life, it seems people rarely ask each other out. Am I the only one not afraid of rejection? It's momentary, and then you move, you don't waste time. When I do ask someone out, they want to meet at bars, at clubs, and at night. Me, I'm a morning person, and while trying to get fit/lose weight, the bars are the last place I want to be. In fact, they're generally the last place I want to be anyway.
So I'm single because number 8 is my choice until I find someone who wants to work on partnership with me.14 -
I'm with @The_Devil_in_Miss_Jones. Online, people either want to chat/trade texts endlessly, and never actually meet, or they want to meet immediately for guaranteed sex, and don't want to put in either the conversation or the work. (I've been told it's just easier to determine sexual compatibility and THEN decide if you like someone.)
In real life, it seems people rarely ask each other out. Am I the only one not afraid of rejection? It's momentary, and then you move, you don't waste time. When I do ask someone out, they want to meet at bars, at clubs, and at night. Me, I'm a morning person, and while trying to get fit/lose weight, the bars are the last place I want to be. In fact, they're generally the last place I want to be anyway.
So I'm single because number 8 is my choice until I find someone who wants to work on partnership with me.
This is so wonderfully said!4 -
Because I'm not a crazy dumpster fire and apparently a lot of dudes want to rescue someone. I don't need someone, therefore I'm intimidating.
Also, I call out B.S. and don't allow drama. Yes, guys bring drama too. Oh and I'm constantly put into the friend zone. I'm cool to be around but no one wants me romantically.28 -
All but #4 probably1
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Because I haven’t found the man thats worthy of ALL the love that I have to offer and it’s ALOT of love.3
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3, and my standards are high.3
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8. After 17 years of marriage and then a divorce 2 years ago, I’m enjoying the break.2
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I real wish I knew, I guess I'm just one of those guys that no one ever wants to go out with. I have been asking out a lady I go to church with for over a year, yes I think she's the most wonderful, smart, and beautiful lady in the world. She's turned me down at least 10 times, I've lost track, but she never has said to quit asking so maybe one day my prayers will get answered.8
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9. I pretty much dgaf.After years of not being good enough ,the shoe is on the other foot.The last straw for me was going on a dating site recently and seeing the bitchy profiles:"you're making my ex look good","men on here need to learn to respect women",and of course the prerequisite "where are all the good men gone?" If this is the first thing you type on a profile then just *kitten* right off.Most women in my age group have nothing to offer me.High mileage and drama? If I want that,I'll drive my car with the traction control off.Rode hard and put away wet?Nah,I'll ride my motorcycle in the rain instead.
So I guess #3,4,6,86 -
I have no idea I'm awesome 😂😂😂 but probably no.5 waiting for them to find me...hopefully they will find me on my couch watching Netflix 🤔2
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I'm busy and I have trouble opening up to people. It's a defense mechanism...I've been burned.2
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1,2,6, & 8...mostly 8 (freedom)
I don't think having a vampire/graveyard shift lifestyle helps either2
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