I real wish I knew, I guess I'm just one of those guys that no one ever wants to go out with. I have been asking out a lady I go to church with for over a year, yes I think she's the most wonderful, smart, and beautiful lady in the world. She's turned me down at least 10 times, I've lost track, but she never has said to quit asking so maybe one day my prayers will get answered.
9. I pretty much dgaf.After years of not being good enough ,the shoe is on the other foot.The last straw for me was going on a dating site recently and seeing the bitchy profiles:"you're making my ex look good","men on here need to learn to respect women",and of course the prerequisite "where are all the good men gone?" If this is the first thing you type on a profile then just *kitten* right off.Most women in my age group have nothing to offer me.High mileage and drama? If I want that,I'll drive my car with the traction control off.Rode hard and put away wet?Nah,I'll ride my motorcycle in the rain instead.
Because I'm not a crazy dumpster fire and apparently a lot of dudes want to rescue someone. I don't need someone, therefore I'm intimidating.
Also, I call out B.S. and don't allow drama. Yes, guys bring drama too. Oh and I'm constantly put into the friend zone. I'm cool to be around but no one wants me romantically.
Adding that I may be a lil bitter at the moment. Usually I dont even think about dating or care. I'll get back to that point soon enough. Right now I'm just hurt.
Because I'm not a crazy dumpster fire and apparently a lot of dudes want to rescue someone. I don't need someone, therefore I'm intimidating.
Also, I call out B.S. and don't allow drama. Yes, guys bring drama too. Oh and I'm constantly put into the friend zone. I'm cool to be around but no one wants me romantically.
Adding that I may be a lil bitter at the moment. Usually I dont even think about dating or care. I'll get back to that point soon enough. Right now I'm just hurt.
I'm with The_Devil_in_Miss_Jones. Online, people either want to chat/trade texts endlessly, and never actually meet, or they want to meet immediately for guaranteed sex, and don't want to put in either the conversation or the work. (I've been told it's just easier to determine sexual compatibility and THEN decide if you like someone.)
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So I guess #3,4,6,8
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I don't think having a vampire/graveyard shift lifestyle helps either
Adding that I may be a lil bitter at the moment. Usually I dont even think about dating or care. I'll get back to that point soon enough. Right now I'm just hurt.
Same.
Have you always been that way or did a bad situation make you that way?
Sounds like a good idea. Some people rush back into relationships after a breakup. I think it's best to take time to heal & recover.
All of this! Especially the parts in bold.