WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR APRIL 2019
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got out early... and am home.. going down around 5:15 to feed DFIL and then comehome .. feel wiped out.. dont know why.. hospice social worker. meeting me at 7:45 tomorrow morning at nursing home..
Iris (Toms SIL) and I have born the brunt of doing all of the care for DFIL and I spoke with Tom this morning.. and he is getting hot under the collar as Iris and I talked about cremation...now we are trying to do what is economically possible with the money allotted .. and if something should happen to him before his brother can get up here , cremation is the easier way.. but Tom was griping that from what he knew everything was picked out and paid.. well I told him some of it was paid not all of it.. and so I texted him and made a suggestion..
since Iris and I have been doing the planning, Tom and his Brother (Doug) who dont really get along, will have to actually talk to each other and figure out what they want.. this is there father.. this is the last time they have any say about anything , they are the older ones and they have to make the decision.. Iris and I are stepping back.. and it is up to the 2 of them to figure out.. nobody wanted to take any responsibility when there mom died.. and we have at least a little bit of time to plan.. so they better sh-t or get off the pot!!6 -
Carol - glad BNL is able to be communicative. Did you ever find his will and/or financial/medical power of attorney? Maybe you mentioned and I skipped over it. You and your DH are so kind and supportive in helping him. Hoping all the legal stuff is done - good to get the bank's input to make sure no one comes out of the woodwork and questions the financial things/bill paying you are helping with.
Hope your knee is progressing well!
I found out my 2nd in line for executor/power of attorney is moving! So need to visit our attorney and get her replaced. DH is in the same predicament so we'll stop in together one of these days.
Mega-mom - looking good! Go ahead and change your handle to "Mini-mom"
I think I've missed a couple days of posts..
Busy couple days, spring is here.
Lanette
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Mega mom - Fantastic work!
A complete transformation!
Heather UK xxxxxxx0 -
Worked with some darling preschoolers today! Son having a slow recovery. Does not surprise me.
Beautiful day here. I am going out for a walk. Celebrating DS #2 Birthday tonight. Margaret 2 -
Mega mom, fantastic transformation.
Lisa, welcome!
Carol, progress at least, on the BIL situation. How’s the knee?
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It was a beautiful day in Mesa Verde National Park today: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mesa_Verde_National_Park
I was well on the way to generating over 12k steps, then, I slipped. Both ankles twisted. Left foot took the worse of it, so still was able to drive. Couldn't find a Kaiser Permanente health care facility in the town of Cortez where we are staying, so went to Walgreens and stocked up on epsom salt, two compressing wraps, and arnica gel. Have been icing and elevating in hopes that it will feel better for the 7 hour drive tomorrow. Poor DH. He really wants to be of help, but just can't do much to take care of me. And, he canNOT drive anymore. Will get xrays once we're back in our hood. For now, hope this is the last of the 'slips' any of us has for awhile.
Rori
Moving slowly in
Cortez, CO11 -
cityjaneLondon wrote: »My first post was killed off by Chrome updating. Grrrrrrrrrr!
KJ - Pizza should be as close to the Neapolitan original as possible. Although I actually prefer white pizza with no tomato.
Tracey - I am on Amazon under Heather Eyles. Look under Books. Most of them are my old kids books, but I self published anovel I wrote in the 80s and a memoir, so they are also on Kindle. Please read the blurbs carefully - adult content!
You can get to my author page by pressing my name. I am now working on the second volume of my memoir, about my teenage years.
Katla - I also want to buy a few herbs plus some fruit bushes. Must get DH organised to take me.
I applied today to take part in a tv programme that we watch every afternoon called The Repair Shop. They take old, loved family items and repair them. There is always an emotional story attached. I have submitted my china doll Elizabeth for their help. They have thousands of applications, so I'm not holding out much hope, but I thought I would try. She was my mother's doll and she gave her to me when I was around 5 years old. I adored her as she was life sized. As she had lost her fingers my mother got new plastic arms put on her at the Doll's Hospital. They didn't fit and they wore away the arm holes. Disaster.
I attach a photo of my mother with the doll. Sorry it's blurry, but you can see the idea. Also a pic of her as she us now, all mutilated. I hope they can fix her if we are chosen. Her current state makes me very sad.
Much love, Heather UK xxxxxxx
Heather, I know this is sick and wrong, but I took one look at that disturbing photo of the baby doll and started laughing hysterically.
Karen in Virginia
p.s. Rori Oh my gosh, just what you needed while away from home. I am so sorry.6 -
Rori ~ So sorry about your twisted ankles. Hope you make it home OK.
My knee is doing as well as can be expected. Leg is still black and blue and I have my moments of pain...trying to do the stretching and follow advice of PT pro. Everyone I encounter cannot believe that I just had the surgery a week ago. Still miss my wine!
Carol in Ga4 -
Rori ... so sorry you slipped!
Karen VA ... you are a sick, sick person ... ... Ok, I laughed too!
Heather ... at what point did someone think those arms would work on that doll? I was recently in the home of a doll-repairer. Is that a word? Her entire basement was dedicated to it. Quite an art actually.
Beth4 -
Pip: Congratulations on your upcoming cruise. I hope you enjoy every moment. :flowerforyou:
Auntiebk: I love the Dogleesi shirt. :bigsmile:
Heather: I came home from the nursery with two Golden Lemon Thyme plants and a pot of chives. I feel great about the purchases. I’ve already got them tucked into their “forever” pots.
Megamom: You are transforming yourself. WTG!!!
Rvfamilyfour: We have an RV Rita and another Lisa. Would you like the nickname RV Lisa? Welcome to a grat group!
Michele: I’m happy for you because you’re free from the Newcomer board meetings. :bigsmile:
(((Allie))) You are an angel for your DFIL and absolutely right to make Tom & Iris step up and take some responsibility. :flowerforyou:
(((Rori))) Feel better soon!
Karen: Poor baby doll.
Heather: I hope you are able to find the right arms for your doll. Good luck with your search. It would be wonderful if you are able to restore her.
DH has fallen in love with chives. I’m doing what I can on the growing side, but it will take some time before they’re ready for harvest. I wonder whether any of you can recommend freeze dried chives at a reasonable price. The local grocery store has a big container of lower quality dried chives or a small and pricey container of really great dried chives. DH wants to be cheap about it. :ohwell:
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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KJ (Kelly), I used to do the same thing with the Costco holiday fruitcake. It weighs 3 pounds, and I would allow myself an ounce a day commencing with Christmas Day. I would slice and freeze each quarter separately and put wax paper between each slice. I think since my surgery I’ll forego that indulgence. My calories could be better spent on slices of med. rare prime rib!
Michele in NC, our Bariatric team tells us “It isn’t brain surgery!” That’s what I love about my practice. The first time you go in you get a LARGE 3-ring binder chock-full if information about every step of the procedures, pre-and post-surgery guidelines, supplement guidelines, and hospital information before and after surgery. I saw a dietician a week later who helped me tweak my calorie, fat, carb and protein needs to lose weight pre-surgery. I saw an ARNP that same day who answered a lot of my other questions and documented my health concerns, and set up an appointment with a psychiatrist for a 1-hour evaluation session. In addition, we have twice-monthly group sessions open to all levels, from pre-surgery to 10-12 years post op. The groups are facilitated by a psychologist and a dietician or ARNP, and are very fun and helpful. There’s one weekday evening one and one weekend one every month. Our team is the highest rated in the whole Northwest. I think it’s sad that many others don’t get the kind of help I’m getting to succeed.
At the same time, this group is crucial to my success also. I don’t get time with many older women. We as a group think differently, I believe, than most other demographics. We have the experience that hindsight and years of surviving in societies that often didn’t do the best they could for us. I call it “mother wit”, and it has nothing to do with whether you’ve born or parented a child. It has to do with how we feel about the good of the world in general. We may differ on what that is, but we seem to be aware of it more than most others.
Barbara AHMOD, I love the shirt. It describes you to a T!”
Rebecca, drink much water is the solution, if you’ll pardon the pun!
Lisa signing as rvfamily!, welcome! Let us know where you are, approximately, so we can separate you from the other Lisas.
Oh, Allie! im afraid you’re in a rather thankless spot. I’m so glad you’ve helped that man feel loved and cared about in the final chapter of his story.
I’m on my way to my 12-step meeting which is another huge help in my life. I hope to go out for pho afterward! It’s a great option for me, since I leave out the noodles!
May Day is near, and I love all the things I see blooming as I drive. My huge ornamental dark plum in front of my house is done blooming, but the lilacs will be our any day, and then about June 1st my climbing pink Lady Banksia rose, which almost envelopes my plum, will bloom. Heavenly fragrant nights ahead!
Sharon Near Seattle
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Bro, 1 yr older
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HEATHER Hope they offer to repair your doll. The programme today included a doll repair, very emotional story. They did a wonderful job, did you see it?
Kate UK 3 -
stats for the day:
bike ride hm 2 gym- 6.58min, 13.6amph, 146mhr, 1.58mi= 85c
STAIRCLIMBER- 30min, 120ahr, 125mhr, 2035steps, 128floors, lvl7, 132mhr= 240c
bike ride gym 2 dome- 4.51min, 142mhr, 18.4amph, 1.48mi= 72c
bike ride puy 2 sumn station- 14.47min, 12.3amph, 150mhr,3.04mi= 151c
jog sta 2 wrk- 4.51min, 9.25min mi, 149mhr, .51mi= 58c
jog wrk 2 sta- 4.29min, 9.38min mi, 146mhr, .46mi= 79c
bike ride dome 2 hm- 17.46min, 145mhr, 8.9amph, 2.62mi= 175c
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Heather UK: Not sure if you have heard of an organization called repaircafe.org, there are 1800 of them around the world. Volunteers with various skills help people with repairs. Someone may have the skills to help. They are in the UK.
Matchka: I want to move right now, your pics look like the Garden of Eden.🌴
I’ve vowed not to throw any food out. It all went into the blender (heavy duty, will crush an iPhone) and added veggie stock. Soup for a week! The grands & ma’s never threw anything out. We are getting snow this weekend in Toronto. Does it ever end?❄️☃️2 -
It was a beautiful day in Mesa Verde National Park today: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mesa_Verde_National_Park
I was well on the way to generating over 12k steps, then, I slipped. Both ankles twisted. Left foot took the worse of it, so still was able to drive. Couldn't find a Kaiser Permanente health care facility in the town of Cortez where we are staying, so went to Walgreens and stocked up on epsom salt, two compressing wraps, and arnica gel. Have been icing and elevating in hopes that it will feel better for the 7 hour drive tomorrow. Poor DH. He really wants to be of help, but just can't do much to take care of me. And, he canNOT drive anymore. Will get xrays once we're back in our hood. For now, hope this is the last of the 'slips' any of us has for awhile.
Rori
Moving slowly in
Cortez, CO
So sorry!! I don't envy you the drive!1 -
Hi Gals,
I’ve been so busy; but catching up and checking in with you.
Heather great train pictures. I love old trains.
Karen – great photos
Pip – great photos – you look like you are having fun.
Rori – I have only been in a helicopter a couple of times but LOVED it.
Tracey – in response to your question about US health care costs, so my insurance is from Covered California (part of “Obama care”) and gives me ok coverage after $6,000 per year deducible. So I do the things that are required to be free, Mammogram, pap smear, TB testing, and colonscopy - have signed a DNR even though there is nothing currently wrong with me. There are some free or sliding scale clinics that I would use if I needed to, but the closest one is over an hour each way drive and I am in a big city. Before Obama care the closest place to get a mammogram on a sliding scale had a 6 month wait.
Yvonne – you nailed it exactly!
“Happy National Zucchini Bread Day!....
Tracey - Our system is really simple: If we don't have the money for medical bills here and we don't qualify for some kind of public assistance, we defer care until we die. Even if we do qualify for public assistance, if we don't have the money to pay for the part they won't cover, we die."
-Yvonne in TX”
Rori – Take care!!! What a total drag!
Speaking of falls, while of course it is right to be careful, one of the exercises that Heather introduced me to and a variation from a yoga instructor is to work on balance, so balance on one leg and then without putting your foot down pretend write the alphabet with the raised leg. I still can’t get past J, but when I started I couldn’t get past c…
Kim from N. California
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Rori - I'm so sorry to hear of your fall. You have a lot on your shoulders, especially since dh can't drive
Allie - you are so right to have Tom step up because you know that if he doesn't, no matter what, you'll have made the wrong decision and that you do not need
Michele in NC2
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