June 2019 Monthly Running Challenge

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  • Elise4270
    Elise4270 Posts: 8,375 Member
    Elise4270 wrote: »
    I have a sick child thwarting my running plans (quickly googles how long you can legally leave a 5-year-old at home alone for...)

    Not to scare you... but we had child protective services called on us on time because my son at like 6 or 7 was... playing in our front yard, while my wife was just on the other side of the window. *shrugs*

    Meanwhile, I grew up under "I don't want to see your face again till the street lights come on" :smiley:

    Oh sure, until you’re a teenager and it becomes, “where do you think you’re going?” Haha!

    5 is young, but I only half suggested it because different areas/cultures may have different rules. And maybe it’s okay in @ContraryMaryMary ‘s world. In our parts I think 10 is the norm, but that isn’t that all 10 yo’s can be left alone. My oldest boy was a heathen. I couldn’t leave him alone at 13... 14. Then he got mad that he was punished for joyriding with older boys when they decided to shoot people with a BB gun. I came down too hard, daddy saved him.

    Not where I grew up. I literally rode my bike for miles, taking over an hour each way to a friend's house before I was old enough to drive. At 10 I was babysitting my newly born sister. *shrugs* different times I guess.

    I doubt were much different in age, that sir is the difference growing up male vs female and perhaps families and population density. I didn't get my DL until I was married and moved out.
  • PastorVincent
    PastorVincent Posts: 6,668 Member
    Elise4270 wrote: »
    Elise4270 wrote: »
    I have a sick child thwarting my running plans (quickly googles how long you can legally leave a 5-year-old at home alone for...)

    Not to scare you... but we had child protective services called on us on time because my son at like 6 or 7 was... playing in our front yard, while my wife was just on the other side of the window. *shrugs*

    Meanwhile, I grew up under "I don't want to see your face again till the street lights come on" :smiley:

    Oh sure, until you’re a teenager and it becomes, “where do you think you’re going?” Haha!

    5 is young, but I only half suggested it because different areas/cultures may have different rules. And maybe it’s okay in @ContraryMaryMary ‘s world. In our parts I think 10 is the norm, but that isn’t that all 10 yo’s can be left alone. My oldest boy was a heathen. I couldn’t leave him alone at 13... 14. Then he got mad that he was punished for joyriding with older boys when they decided to shoot people with a BB gun. I came down too hard, daddy saved him.

    Not where I grew up. I literally rode my bike for miles, taking over an hour each way to a friend's house before I was old enough to drive. At 10 I was babysitting my newly born sister. *shrugs* different times I guess.

    I doubt were much different in age, that sir is the difference growing up male vs female and perhaps families and population density. I didn't get my DL until I was married and moved out.

    I grew up on the New Jersey Shore, very much middle-class suburb, but densely populated.
  • Elise4270
    Elise4270 Posts: 8,375 Member
    Elise4270 wrote: »
    Elise4270 wrote: »
    I have a sick child thwarting my running plans (quickly googles how long you can legally leave a 5-year-old at home alone for...)

    Not to scare you... but we had child protective services called on us on time because my son at like 6 or 7 was... playing in our front yard, while my wife was just on the other side of the window. *shrugs*

    Meanwhile, I grew up under "I don't want to see your face again till the street lights come on" :smiley:

    Oh sure, until you’re a teenager and it becomes, “where do you think you’re going?” Haha!

    5 is young, but I only half suggested it because different areas/cultures may have different rules. And maybe it’s okay in @ContraryMaryMary ‘s world. In our parts I think 10 is the norm, but that isn’t that all 10 yo’s can be left alone. My oldest boy was a heathen. I couldn’t leave him alone at 13... 14. Then he got mad that he was punished for joyriding with older boys when they decided to shoot people with a BB gun. I came down too hard, daddy saved him.

    Not where I grew up. I literally rode my bike for miles, taking over an hour each way to a friend's house before I was old enough to drive. At 10 I was babysitting my newly born sister. *shrugs* different times I guess.

    I doubt were much different in age, that sir is the difference growing up male vs female and perhaps families and population density. I didn't get my DL until I was married and moved out.

    I grew up on the New Jersey Shore, very much middle-class suburb, but densely populated.

    Dallas. Poor.
  • Tramboman
    Tramboman Posts: 2,482 Member
    Elise4270 wrote: »
    Elise4270 wrote: »
    Elise4270 wrote: »
    I have a sick child thwarting my running plans (quickly googles how long you can legally leave a 5-year-old at home alone for...)

    Not to scare you... but we had child protective services called on us on time because my son at like 6 or 7 was... playing in our front yard, while my wife was just on the other side of the window. *shrugs*

    Meanwhile, I grew up under "I don't want to see your face again till the street lights come on" :smiley:

    Oh sure, until you’re a teenager and it becomes, “where do you think you’re going?” Haha!

    5 is young, but I only half suggested it because different areas/cultures may have different rules. And maybe it’s okay in @ContraryMaryMary ‘s world. In our parts I think 10 is the norm, but that isn’t that all 10 yo’s can be left alone. My oldest boy was a heathen. I couldn’t leave him alone at 13... 14. Then he got mad that he was punished for joyriding with older boys when they decided to shoot people with a BB gun. I came down too hard, daddy saved him.

    Not where I grew up. I literally rode my bike for miles, taking over an hour each way to a friend's house before I was old enough to drive. At 10 I was babysitting my newly born sister. *shrugs* different times I guess.

    I doubt were much different in age, that sir is the difference growing up male vs female and perhaps families and population density. I didn't get my DL until I was married and moved out.

    I grew up on the New Jersey Shore, very much middle-class suburb, but densely populated.

    Dallas. Poor.

    Erie, PA. Basketball, baseball, football, fishing, and hunting. Probably should have spent more time studying...
  • MegaMooseEsq
    MegaMooseEsq Posts: 3,118 Member
    edited June 2019
    Elise4270 wrote: »
    I have a sick child thwarting my running plans (quickly googles how long you can legally leave a 5-year-old at home alone for...)

    Not to scare you... but we had child protective services called on us on time because my son at like 6 or 7 was... playing in our front yard, while my wife was just on the other side of the window. *shrugs*

    Meanwhile, I grew up under "I don't want to see your face again till the street lights come on" :smiley:

    Oh sure, until you’re a teenager and it becomes, “where do you think you’re going?” Haha!

    5 is young, but I only half suggested it because different areas/cultures may have different rules. And maybe it’s okay in @ContraryMaryMary ‘s world. In our parts I think 10 is the norm, but that isn’t that all 10 yo’s can be left alone. My oldest boy was a heathen. I couldn’t leave him alone at 13... 14. Then he got mad that he was punished for joyriding with older boys when they decided to shoot people with a BB gun. I came down too hard, daddy saved him.

    Not where I grew up. I literally rode my bike for miles, taking over an hour each way to a friend's house before I was old enough to drive. At 10 I was babysitting my newly born sister. *shrugs* different times I guess.


    Yeah, I grew up in a rural area and our property sat at the foot of a small mountain range - my sister and I used to disappear up there all day and come back covered in bumps and scrapes and poison oak. Good times. @Elise4270: Good point. I grew up in Northern California where there was a pretty decent split between economic classes that you often find in agricultural/tourist areas, but generally very low crime. I don't think my parents treated us any differently than they would have treated boys, though. I didn't get my driver's license until I was 18 but that's because I'd spent the year before that as an exchange student in Switzerland.

    I try and stay way far away from anything that even hints at Mommy Wars, but I definitely agree that people and laws in the US in general have swung way too far towards the overprotective side when it comes to giving kids freedom to play and explore on their own. No matter how many studies come out showing that "stranger danger" is exceptionally rare, I think it's too easy to fixate on the few widely publicized cases think that there are Scary Men lurking around every corner waiting to grab our kids. In terms of crime, the US is generally much safer now than when I was growing up in the 80s and 90s. Car violence, on the other hand, is up a lot over the last decade, and that's where I would really worry about kids on their own.
  • MegaMooseEsq
    MegaMooseEsq Posts: 3,118 Member
    shanaber wrote: »
    @MegaMooseEsq - it isn't just the 'Scary Men' mentality. Too many parents are afraid to let their kids play outside and get dirty. My daughter is a pediatrician and she is always encouraging her patients parents to get the kids out and let them play in the dirt and grass, fresh air and sunshine. She truly feels many of the allergies we see so much of now are a result of parents trying to keep their kids in an isolated bubble.

    Ug, really? Dirt? That is even more mind-bogglingly strange to me. Kids are supposed to get dirty!
  • PastorVincent
    PastorVincent Posts: 6,668 Member
    shanaber wrote: »
    @MegaMooseEsq - it isn't just the 'Scary Men' mentality. Too many parents are afraid to let their kids play outside and get dirty. My daughter is a pediatrician and she is always encouraging her patients parents to get the kids out and let them play in the dirt and grass, fresh air and sunshine. She truly feels many of the allergies we see so much of now are a result of parents trying to keep their kids in an isolated bubble.

    Ug, really? Dirt? That is even more mind-bogglingly strange to me. Kids are supposed to get dirty!

    Yes, seriously. I am so glad for my son's sake my wife and I never bought into that. He has scars and dirt. Just like normal boys should have. :)
  • rheddmobile
    rheddmobile Posts: 6,840 Member
    Our medals finally came! (Race was back in early May)

    5K, Steel Challange, and Marathon:

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    Steel Challange is for running the 5k the day before the Marathon. :)

    I was not sure we were going to be able to get them. I had to bail early and get Mrs. Pastor Vincent medical attention so we did not collect all the medals on the day of the race. But I contacted them, and they sent them! :D

    Those are really classy looking medals!
  • ContraryMaryMary
    ContraryMaryMary Posts: 1,788 Member

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    Did my 85 minute long run. I do lng runs by time so I don’t go too fast but I also make sure I run 1 mile for every 10:00. So I run until I reach both 8.5M and 85:00. Paced 10:04 today which was really good for me considering the heat Index was 98 when I finished. Luckily there was a breeze and I made myself walk 30 seconds every 1.25M loop and drink Gatorade. BUT...OH MY GOD. I wore shorts that have these built in undies. They are old- maybe 10 years and while they are the Nike Dry Fit stuff, I got saturated today. I mean I was sloshing around in my own sweat and those “undies” chafed my unmentionables and my inner thighs where the leg meets the unmentionables. Holy F#%+! I am in agony!! Didn’t bother me until I took a shower. I guess those aren’t good shorts to wear when it’s that hot out- they have never done that before. I also came home 4lbs lighter despite drinking 60oz of fluid out there.

    So now I’m enjoying lots of water and quite a bit of wine. I only drink 3 or 4 times a month and tonight we are going out to a nice dinner and going to enjoy some drinks.

    I hope everyone has a fun and relaxing weekend. My kitty is still doing well after her teeth cleaning on Wednesday!

    Nothing quite like a shower to find all the chafing! Ouch, especially in the delicate areas.
  • Elise4270
    Elise4270 Posts: 8,375 Member
    Alan on our Run the Year challenge page says:
    I haven’t run a marathon in 8 years and decided to run the Richmond Marathon in November. In the past, I never incorporated speed work in to my training, but want to do it this time in hopes of a better finishing time. Does anyone have any advice on best practices for speed work that they would be willing to share?

    C'mon over Alan!
  • katharmonic
    katharmonic Posts: 5,720 Member
    I wrote a whole thing that got deleted. Argh. I intro'd a few months ago...35, teacher, runner, occasional vodka fan, yada yada.

    So, I am running my 2nd half marathon of 2019 tomorrow. Fingers crossed to get 2:03.

    I signed up for my first full, a bucket list item as I am about to turn 36.

    I'm hoping to use these running challenges to stay accountable. So hi.

    Goal for June is 125...ramping up that mileage.

    Good luck today on your HM @RunnerGirl238!
    Welcome (again), and which full are you signed up for as your first?
  • garygse
    garygse Posts: 896 Member
    @Lazy_Bones_85 Get some 2Toms SportShield and apply it for those longer sweaty runs...that's what I do, and I've had no inner lining chafing issues. I also apply it to the small of my back where my Garmin RD Pod can potentially rub (it attaches to the back of my shorts) and across my chest where the chest strap sits. You can also use Glide, which I use for my under arm, but I find SportShield is easier to apply "down there".

    @RunnerGirl238 Good luck with your race today!
  • PastorVincent
    PastorVincent Posts: 6,668 Member
    I did it!!!! With an elevation gain of 555. Ran smart. Feeling amazing. I might cry.

    YAY!!!! CONGRATS!!!
  • PastorVincent
    PastorVincent Posts: 6,668 Member
    garygse wrote: »
    @Lazy_Bones_85 Get some 2Toms SportShield and apply it for those longer sweaty runs...that's what I do, and I've had no inner lining chafing issues. I also apply it to the small of my back where my Garmin RD Pod can potentially rub (it attaches to the back of my shorts) and across my chest where the chest strap sits. You can also use Glide, which I use for my under arm, but I find SportShield is easier to apply "down there".

    @RunnerGirl238 Good luck with your race today!

    Toms SportShield is new to me, but BodyGlide, Vaseline, and other brands exist to do the same. If you are in a pinch, dry stick deodorant works too. I used to think the only option was BodyGlide, but the more I read on threads like this the more options I come across. I tend to stick with BodyGLide, cause I know it works for me - But during my last marathon, I stopped twice and applied vaseline just in case since it was raining.
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