WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR AUGUST 2019
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Pantries! don’t wanna talk about it living in an RV. ENVIOUS!!
Gastrointestinal doc shortly. Gotta go
RV Rita8 -
Has anyone heard from Janet in OKA?
Michele ~ Christmas is four months away! Why don't you treat yourself to an Instant Pot before then...you will love it.
Machka ~ Happy 11th anniversary. Our 50th will be on Monday.
Amber ~ Great accomplishment on the weight loss and on you & daughter's survival. So glad you found the hubby who is now making your life happy.
Lanette ~ Wishing you a very successful surgery next week. Sorry your husband is feeling so stressed.
Pantry: My husband keeps ours organized and makes lists for me to fill at the grocery. I tend to buy duplicates of the same thing because I forget that we already have the item.
Everyone have an excellent Friday!
Carol in GA
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Heather said‘I tend to slather it on quite thickly. ’
Machka: That’s quite a fairytale romance. Love the lakeside? Venue.
Katla: My doctor prescribed HRT for menopause but it didn’t sit well with me. I used aromatherapy and yogic breathing to alleviate symptoms.1 -
My normal BMI supposed to be 145kbs y under so a ways to go still I’m 160.2kbs this morning.
Debby- Not a big deal my abuse is way behind us now. Been happily married along time now Daughter y me survived worked on our futures! I’m Baptist openly again! Woohoo! It’s a fact that the large portion of those with weight problems are children or escapees of abuse. It can cause the weight to stick around due to stress y eating to soothe the pains. Luckily I had weight needed to be gained after lol soars me a healthy weight for years. Of course a baby in old age unravels that body like a ticking time bumb.
Luci- Yup the eyes are the window to the soul. Shows it all.
Debby- My Lawyer went to court without me a lot common place in abuse divorces they only needed me twice in over 3years (of course I was a different situation everyone I knew divorced an abuser in 1day-6months). He can sign away his rights during mediation through lawyers present they put the victim sitting near the door exit. Or judge can let him sign at the hearing have the lawyer have it handy. The jobs y her can get protective or restraining orders he goes to jail for showing up he can sit y think multiple times until he gives up bosses are supportive now of days. Any advice you need ask cause trust me if we can escape a worse situation you can get her out! I have over 3+ years of divorce court experience lol 😂 from visitation gone wrong to asking for school transfer to a bribe in front of the judge for abuser to not hurt Daughter...seeing him accept the bribe he got reduced visitation that was so worth it he never used it. Would have cost him over $500 for 30minutes every 2 weeks he’d pay again. Counseling’s a blessing she’ll love it they can help her with advice on how to bond to son y have open conversation that won’t hurt court orders y they can do so much. Kid starts to open like a flower her too. Family counseling helps to my family attended a few times so they could learn also so go with them a few times ask questions you got from how to I approach his nightmares to questions. By now the I’ll hit you threat is old isn’t it since go back get hit ...or leave get hit threats that will be harder to carry out. Ooooh such a tough choice think easy to choose leave happily with a skip in your steps . Plus he hits now y especially after lawyers obtained makes restraining/protective orders so easy Custody too. Also makes it easier to put him in jail for a long time which means peace. Signing rights away in some states means no visitation y no child support but worth it to fully cut ties 100%! Not like he will pay child support anyways with his behaviors. Let him be estranged (refuses to use child visitation can go back get him off papers if he does in many states)even lock him up for non-payments. Maybe he’ll learn something but doubt it. Plus makes it easier if she remarries for him to sign away rights so she can move anywhere do anything happily like me. With luck she’ll find a loving hubby like mine we’ve been married along time now had JR it’s wonderful to be Free.
Karen - Warren Jeff’s Mormon Church I escaped extreme Apostolic Pentecostal one. Think Don’t drink the Koolaid Jim Jones who was Apostolic Pentecostal who got his ministry position decades later in the Methodist church taught Apostolic Pentecostal beliefs with a crazy ending. Lol now I wear pants up a storm to shirt hair y ❤️ LOVE It! My new Hubby says ask you shall receive so I ask get it chopped off a lot lol 😆. So refreshing to get the trims! He lets me wear what I want he’s getting used to me wearing no bra y happily bouncing along lol 😂. https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/9-things-know-jim-jones-jonestown-massacre/?amp
Poor sleep last night was setting up the new toy Hubby bought JR. Doing while JR slept way easier! He came home with an iPod for him...more electronic to forget to charge lol.
Today nachos y sandwich 🥪 with homemade guacamole y 4oz tea. Granola y dryers 70cal fudge pop for fun should be under calories by a few but that’s okay.
Why I’m hard to get depressed - If you’ve survived the worse then you appreciate the smaller things in life way way way more! Couldn’t get me down if you tried my Mom got to see me safe before she died so I have memories of her with new hubby. She could die peacefully knowing that. Hubby was by her bedside a lot near the end something many men don’t do. He’s my soul mate .
Amber Tx5 -
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Yes, Janetr we haven't heard of in a bit, and also Sharon.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxx0 -
Here’s my other favorite in Britain got talent
Being born with physical disabilities He reminds me of my best friend Michael who had Autism he could really crank out the jokes.
Amber Tx0 -
Hours r going back from 8-4:30 starting Monday, plus is I’m getting off the phones!4
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Hi Gals,
Panty envy!
Kim from N. California
So the silly little 10 year old who still lives inside my brain got a giggle with this typo! LOL!
Amber my "pantry" turns out to be just one of several places to store food. It's scattered throughout my cupboards! While I don't have children at home now, I actually provided childcare for 3 growing boys years ago (nothing like Kelly!!) as well as my own 2 sons. You make do! Now that it's just my husband and I, it's plenty.
Pip ... change of hours and no phone work ... this is good, right?
I'm waiting for a Verizon technician to arrive and upgrade our internet/router. My intent last night was to reduce our monthly expenses. Somehow that changed into a new contract with upgraded equipment and internet speeds. With all the specials/bundles/and smooth talk, my monthly bill went up $4.00. Sigh. But, according to my chat representative last night, my family "is just going to love it!" One positive ... knowing a service man had to go into the basement sent me on a speed declutter/throw out mission so he could get to the equipment he needs to work on!
Beth near Buffalo
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Hello ladies.
I was dog sitting all week and I gained a pound. It matters because now I have four to lose for the Labor Day challenge in about ten days. Two meals out are planned for that time. I guess it means that my home routine is really good. I missed my fiber goal and got extra hungry. I suppose I can't give up yet but four pounds in ten days will be tough.
Annie in Delaware4 -
Katla--Hugs
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Meg--Sounds pretty scary to me. Pray you feel better soon.
Machka--Happy Anniversary!
I am so happy it is Friday. Today the State Fair starts here in town. Big deal as it's 150 years. Last couple days we have had over 4 inches of rain with chance of more all weekend. So they want people to park at one of the WalMarts or Mall and take the bus out. We have done that last several years as they pick you up, drop you off at the gate and pick you there and take you to your car. We don't plan to go until next Thursday as taking 2 of the DGD's to the christian concert that evening. That's enough for me.
Blessings, Vicki GI NE6 -
Hi Gals,
Panty envy!
Kim from N. California
So the silly little 10 year old who still lives inside my brain got a giggle with this typo! LOL!
Amber my "pantry" turns out to be just one of several places to store food. It's scattered throughout my cupboards! While I don't have children at home now, I actually provided childcare for 3 growing boys years ago (nothing like Kelly!!) as well as my own 2 sons. You make do! Now that it's just my husband and I, it's plenty.
Pip ... change of hours and no phone work ... this is good, right?
I'm waiting for a Verizon technician to arrive and upgrade our internet/router. My intent last night was to reduce our monthly expenses. Somehow that changed into a new contract with upgraded equipment and internet speeds. With all the specials/bundles/and smooth talk, my monthly bill went up $4.00. Sigh. But, according to my chat representative last night, my family "is just going to love it!" One positive ... knowing a service man had to go into the basement sent me on a speed declutter/throw out mission so he could get to the equipment he needs to work on!
Beth near Buffalo
Off phones? Yes!!!!!!!!!! I’m just going back to my old schedule 8-4:30, it was 7-3:30, boo but I’ll take it1 -
Happy Friday Ladies!
Busy morning, I've been skimming.
Amber you are truly a survivor. Have you thought of writing a book? I sometimes see the Pentecostal ladies in our town with the long dresses and hair piled on their heads. Hope they are faring better than you did.
Beth - here we go talking about panties again, lol. My pantry is in back of the house, an oddly shaped janitor's closet in the laundry room with a couple shelves. DH put a lot of shelving in the garage that takes the overflow. That new recliner looks great. If I send the teleporter to your house, do you think your DH would let me borrow it for a few weeks? Bet it would fit - you might have to take one of the seats out.
Pip - will these new hours be better for you when daylight savings time ends? I'm a zombie today otherwise I'd be able to figure it out myself, lol.
KarenNY - that's the pits about your gym closing. Was it a chain like 24 Hour Fitness?
Meg - hope you are feeling better!!
RVRita - hope your medical appointment went well. Not my favorite visit, see below.
I got up at 12:30 this morning and smelled something.... doggie poo. Sure enough, our older gal managed to get the runs in the kitchen and living room plus had barfed up her supper. I cleaned it all up the best I could, took a while. She and I napped off and on in the recliner, and she went out to continue her illness several times. Called the vet, no openings until next week. She's doing better, had some broth for lunch and will give her that with a couple teaspoons of cottage cheese and maybe some rice or pumpkin.
DH was getting ready to shampoo the carpet, no more procrastinating!!
I had a funny feeling I was coming down with a bladder or yeast infection this morning. I called the surgeon's office, they said get it checked out right now!
Managed to get into my GP's office within an hour of calling (love that place, they always manage to squeeze me quickly), all is well and I left with a prescription for generic premarin cream. Sounds like that will take care of a lot of "female complaints" I'd had but never had checked out, so many other priorities that involved severe pain so never got around to addressing "mere" irritations.
So everything getting lined up for Monday. Waiting now for the call when to show up at outpatient surgery. UPDATE - 7 am! In and out I hope!
Time to grab a nap.
Lanette
SW WA State5 -
NYKaren: I’m sorry to hear that gyms are closing in your area. Good luck finding a new one. :flowerforyou:
RVRita: I hope your visit to the doctor goes well. As to RV pantries, our ability to keep a supply of necessities hasn’t been difficult. We bought Rubbermaid square wide-mouthed food grade plastic jars from Amazon that hold our supplies of flours, brown rice, and other staples. I’ve also seen them on the shelves at Walmart. In our rig, we lay the jars on their bellies on our upper cupboard shelves and label the lids. Fresh veggies and meats require frequent visits to the grocery stores. We keep some meats in the freezer section of our refrigerator. All of that said, we don’t live in our RV full time. The flours and dry staples are always there, but fresh and frozen items are purchased for short term storage and more immediate use. When our trip is over the refrigerated items go home with us. I tried to attach a picture of the jars but it wouldn't upload. Sorry. :grumble: One more thing—they don't handle the heat produced by operating the stove well. If they get too close to a burner they melt. The nearby counter is okay for them.
Yoga today didn’t happen. My teacher evidently had a family emergency. I burned a bunch of calories on an exercise bike before coming home.
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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Katla - I almost forgot - do you think when your DH starts his PT and he feels better, he'll reconsider you catching a plane to visit the grandkids? It would be great for you both (or at least you) to see the farm in person.
I'd always catch the red eye from Portland and arrive early the following morning in Chicago before catching a hop to South Bend, IN.
Flying isn't my favorite, a leisurely drive in the RV sounds better for sure.
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Lanette: I'm so sorry your older dog is having health problems that lead to unpleasant clean up for you. I hope the vet will be able to help with the situation.
Katla0 -
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💖Rebecca7 -
Machka: Happy Anniversary!1
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Go with a city or university gym ... much less likely to close. I won't touch private gyms anymore.
Like Machka, I won't use private gyms anymore either and I only had one close on me! I now use the Y, it's near enough to our home, the facility itself is great and the price is very reasonable.
Debby, has your daughter spoken to police at all? The pos is making very serious threats. Heaven forbid something does happen, but if she has already filed a complaint, especially if she have photos of bruises etc, then it will be easier going forward with charges.
Katla, I'm so sorry that your hubby is not wanting you to go see the grandkids. I do understand you not wanting to leave him alone for any length of time given his health and I also understand him not wanting to have people come in or to go visit family if they can't understand his food limitations, that would be frustrating. Not to mention the consequences of ingesting the problem foods!
We are a one vehicle family (it is just the two of us) and with hubby retired we can usually make do just fine. Well, I made him an app't this afternoon knowing that I had to work, but decided it was not big deal, I have my bike, I'll just ride to work. Well, wouldn't you know it, I woke up to rain. Not really heavy rain, but rain nevertheless. I did get wet! Fortunately, I packed my work clothes in my backpack, so they were fine. I was also happy that I had an extra pair of socks and dry shoes already at work, working with wet feet all day would not have been fun!
I have to admit to a bit of pantry envy, I don't really have one. Or at least I didn't til hubby built one for me. At our old house, we took out the chimney and he put a pantry in there for me, it was wonderful! Floor to ceiling, about 2 ft deep, lots of shelves.... all my canned and boxed goods went in there, so much easier than having to crawl around on the floor looking for stuff in the lower cabinets, I don't have many upper cabinets and not really that many lower either, so space is premium. Anyway, hubby built a cabinet for me, it's about 18" wide and 12" deep, it works well for my baking stuff, his snacky stuff and my cereal as well as a few staples. I'm not at home so can't take pics and show them. The good thing about it is that it's too small to get to be too much of a disaster!
That's it for me, for now anyway! I'm up to page 74, so getting close to being caught up!
Hugs for those needing them, congrats to those celebrating and welcome to the newbies!
Evelyn, Vancouver Island2 -
Part of our kitchen remodel last year resulted in a very nice cabinet for storage. Now we have lots of space. There are several reasons for this besides having a great floor to ceiling cupboard on both sides of the kitchen.
1. There are only 2 of us.
2. We eat very few items that come in cans.
3. There is space in the bathroom and laundry room to store cleaning supplies, paper goods, and some larger items.
4. We add things to the shopping list as we open the last one.
5. We have a big freezer.
6. We eat a lot of the same meals over and over so we don't have a huge variety of foods.
7. We inventory things often.
Barbie in NW WA
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JR wanted a toy dug it out he’s proud of himself lol.
Lanette- Their not fairing well - name 1 Woman or teenage girl or elementary kid who wants to be a societal outcast with out dated hair to being told your lesser than your brother y wear clothes like the prairie days. Quote scripture while cleaning toilets 🚽. Trust me your scared enough of the men you’ll claim your fine until lawyer says yes yes we can free you!
Here’s the fun dress code to make you raise an eyebrow at. I’m wearing slacks right now I’m immodest y immoral oooohhhh! They match my husbands oh nooooo I m going straight down the toilet! Start by reading the men’s rules it’s 2 lines plus a 1 liner after that your done. The rest all for Women cause women are special need to be controlled or will be on girls gone wild spring break! Oh noooo lol. No dancing 💃 no TV 📺 No Movies 🎥 in theaters most of all never swim 🏊♂️ with the opposite gender! Yeah the more you read the more like me you’ll sneak the gals the abuse hotline to shelter numbers on a piece of paper 📝 like I do. Remember Cleaning is our holy duty lol 😂 cause apparently men who make decisions for them think it’s something we all Want to do y long to do. My husband calls it nonsense after he researched it all told me stop cleaning just clean one day a week who cares if it’s dirty! I clean more now because JR keeps hiding chewed up food everywhere mysterious odors are hard to locate. He hid his 1st try of fish 🐟 that was horrible odor. Toy box it was in the toy box! Hubby says he’ll just make a mess in the morning leave it.
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Amber Tx2 -
stats for the day:
day 25 (mon-fri), last day til MS ride
no gym workout
bike ride hm 2 gym- 7.39min, 12.4amph, 127mhr, 1.57mi= 71c
apple watch- 64c
bike ride gym 2 sumn station- 49min, 14.5amph, 149mhr, 11.81mi= 519c
apple watch- 443c
jog station 2 wrk- 4.46min, 145mhr, 9.42min mi, .49mi= 68c
apple watch- 59c
jog wrk 2 sta- 4.30min, 10min mi, 145mhr, .45mi= 70c
apple watch- 57c
Bike ride dome 2 hm- 17.07min, 8.9amph, 148mhr, 2.54mi= 213c
apple watch- 145c
total cal 9413 -
Went to the water aerobics class today. The plan for tomorrow is to do a Biggest Loser Cardio Max Bootcamp DVD
Meg – please get better fast. What was the diagnosis?
Pantries: I have this “thing” about having appliances etc. out all the time on the counter. I like to have the counters cleaned off as much as possible so I keep all my appliances below the counters. I remember MIL had a deep pantry and the problem was that cans would get pushed to the back and expire.
Elena – I would recommend the Personal Training with Jackie DVD. It’s only something like 40 minutes long. Not complicated at all and she doesn’t go fast. I don’t like when you are supposed to go fast with weights, to me, then I compromise form so I prefer to go slower. Actually, on any DVD where you are supposed to go fast with a weight (I know there is one with Bob Harper, can’t remember the name right now) where when they go fast, I go slow. I actually think you get more of a workout if you go slow.
M – happy anniversary. Do you have any special plans after dinner?
I spoke to Denise and told her we’d leave Fri (30th), get there that evening, then leave Tuesday (3rd). She then spoke to Vince who said we’d go up on the 30th and leave on the 1st. After not seeing PJ for 4 months, we only get to spend one day with him! I can’t believe it. Vince’s answer when I mentioned it was “well, what the h*** are we going to do?”. Honestly, we can go site seeing, walk along the beach, even go bowling (I’ve seen where one person holds the baby while another bowls). I’m sure there are things to do. I just want him to tell her that we talked and decided to leave Tuesday. She does have to go to work, but we can stay out of her way, leave after she leaves, and close the garage door behind us. Update: I texted her this
After exercise stopped at the Salvation Army and made a donation. Then stopped by a Dollar General and the store was having ½ off all their summer things so got some inflatables for next year. Then stopped at Big Lots to see if they had Vince’s bread (they didn’t) and thought “oh, I’ll just see if their summer things are still 50% off. Well, they were 75% off. Got these floating things that you can use in the pool to put your drink in. For 4 of them it was only $6. Vince doesn’t like the idea of encouraging people to drink in the pool, I feel “what’s the big deal” so I’m going to keep them. Then, on a whim I decided to stop at the Dollar General by me. Well, their summer things were 75% off. So I bought even things I got at the store that were 50% off and I’ll return the 50% off things. Then went in the pool
NYKaren – grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Carol – an IP is something the kids can get me. Jessica, in particular, would like me to have one so I think she might be more inclined to get one for me
Lanette – good luck Monday!
Katla – so sorry you missed your yoga. I know what a bummer it is when you are looking forward to something and it doesn’t happen
Went to this laser show at the local Science Center. Was pretty good. Vince didn't want to go so I went by myself.
Michele in NC
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I dyed my hair with henna tonight. I think my face is looking thinner - less double chin and more cheekbone. Yay!9
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Machka, happy anniversary! Wishing you both many more years of happiness!
And I'm all caught up!
Evelyn, Vancouver Island1 -
Well I think I bit off more than I can chew with my Pen Pals business, but I will give it a go! I currently have 19 people I'm writing! Crazy! I have been writing most of the afternoon. I had my ear buds in, listening to acoustic guitar, William Ackerman stuff, so its been relaxing. I have 2 letters done, but I have 10 envelopes organized, and each pal has a file with a recd and sent page I fill in with dates, and each has a bio sheet. I know kind of OCD with it all. I have friends from all parts of the world.👍.
Today was shopping so this week was $82 total. Fixing easy meals. I bought 10 Lean Cuisine meals, most dinner some lunches. I love their pizzas, and tonight's dinner was turkey with spiced apples. Yum! Ten LC meals came to $30 ish. Then 5 yogurts with breakfast flat cookies for breakfast. I bought a huge plastic container of fresh spinach. My plan is all my pasta meals will be on a bed of spinach. I bought some Mexican pasta thing, and I bought some blue tortilla chips to have with it. I bought Apple's and oranges for daily fruit. Today's breakfast was a hearty Artisan bread made into french toast, with blueberry compote, with walnuts. Yum!
Have a great weekend ladies!
💖Rebecca6 -
M – happy anniversary. Do you have any special plans after dinner?
Michele in NC
Thank you!
Plans ... Go home and rest. Dinner in a restaurant will take it out of my husband. So we'll come home and since it is Saturday and right now they're playing Columbo Saturday evenings, we'll watch that. I'll likely do some homework while watching TV. I can't just watch TV.
Dinner and something else are out for us now ... too exhausting for him.
We will exercise this afternoon! It's supposed to pour rain shortly, so that will be in our little home gym. In the past we've often celebrated our anniversaries by cycling a long distance.
We do go to plays or the symphony, but on their own, without dinner in a restaurant.
Movies in a movie theatre are out because they're too overwhelming and could trigger a seizure.
Machka in Oz5 -
It's not easy finding an anniversary card for someone who has a brain injury!
Most of the cards go on about memories and how the person is the same as when we met and how life has been wonderful and lovely and everything has gone as hoped and planned.
Then, when I saw this one ... it fit. It simply says ...
Love you then.
Love you still.
Always have.
Always will.
Machka in Oz
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Machka - Happy Anniversary!! I hope you have (had) a wonderful day!
The weather is finally pleasant! In the upper 60s tonight. I had a lovely walk this evening to clear my head and relax. I think I may walk on the Waterfront tomorrow night if the weather cooperates!
My mom had her scans today. We will know the results sometime next week. Then we can move forward with treatment.
Connie in KY7
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