What’s a red flag for you?
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if she refers to it as a "baecation"
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KosmosKitten wrote: »
yep, I'd probably ask them to baecate the premises lol4 -
happimess01 wrote: »if she refers to it as a "baecation"
That's an automatic deletion from life offence. No one needs to hear that.1 -
"don't talk to me until i've had my coffee"3
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anyone who has a lot of people in their life that they no longer speak to, but speak about.8
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kindalikevelma wrote: »anyone who has a lot of people in their life that they no longer speak to, but speak about.
You cut me deep, Shrek. You cut me real deep just now.3 -
If she asks you "does (whatever clothing item) make my thighs look fat?"
...pretend you didn't hear...you won't answer this one right2 -
Doesn't care about what you have to say.0
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Hides their phone1
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kindalikevelma wrote: »anyone who has a lot of people in their life that they no longer speak to, but speak about.
Depends on why they no longer speak to them. There are good reasons not to speak to former friends/acquaintances. Narcissism, abuse and being a toxic person come to mind.
Now if they're all a bunch of people that that person refuses to ever call by their actual name and only refers to them by a hate-filled moniker, then yeah.. I would say it's a red flag and you should skidaddle.4 -
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When it suddenly dawns on me that he’s all in my head. 🤯4
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pronounces the word "tortillas" very ostentatiously at a restaurant
"thorteeyass"2 -
If her beard is thicker then mine 🤣2
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can you drive stick?1 -
can you drive stick?
Learned how to drive (and took my drivers test) in an old manual transmission colt vista 😆4 -
KosmosKitten wrote: »kindalikevelma wrote: »anyone who has a lot of people in their life that they no longer speak to, but speak about.
Depends on why they no longer speak to them. There are good reasons not to speak to former friends/acquaintances. Narcissism, abuse and being a toxic person come to mind.
Now if they're all a bunch of people that that person refuses to ever call by their actual name and only refers to them by a hate-filled moniker, then yeah.. I would say it's a red flag and you should skidaddle.
I get not speaking to someone for whatever reason, but i agree its a red flag if they still speak about these people.0 -
kindalikevelma wrote: »anyone who has a lot of people in their life that they no longer speak to, but speak about.
Whew this. 👏🏾 my ex was exactly like this. Everyone was the villain in his story.
To add on, another red flag for me is someone who tries to question/sway your opinion in regards to boundaries you’ve set for yourself.
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People who somehow equate doing 80% of the talking to winning the argument 😑2
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Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »People who somehow equate doing 80% of the talking to winning the argument 😑
According to Jordan Peterson, winning an argument is less important than just making peace with a disagreement. Not sure if i buy that.....but its a thought......2 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »People who somehow equate doing 80% of the talking to winning the argument 😑
According to Jordan Peterson, winning an argument is less important than just making peace with a disagreement. Not sure if i buy that.....but its a thought......
I agree with Jordan Peterson...there is no changing someone's mind...they are spending their time coming up with a rebuttal to your points.3 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »People who somehow equate doing 80% of the talking to winning the argument 😑
According to Jordan Peterson, winning an argument is less important than just making peace with a disagreement. Not sure if i buy that.....but its a thought......
I agree with Jordan Peterson...there is no changing someone's mind...they are spending their time coming up with a rebuttal to your points.
Not always true... I've never been afraid of saying "You're right"... But in most cases, you're right...
See what I did there 😏0 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »People who somehow equate doing 80% of the talking to winning the argument 😑
According to Jordan Peterson, winning an argument is less important than just making peace with a disagreement. Not sure if i buy that.....but its a thought......
I agree with Jordan Peterson...there is no changing someone's mind...they are spending their time coming up with a rebuttal to your points.
Not always true... I've never been afraid of saying "You're right"... But in most cases, you're right...
See what I did there 😏
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Yeah not every person is incapable. Just the majority...we are rare @Mr_Healthy_Habits1 -
If anyone wanted to give me a red flag, I’d take it. It’s nice to receive gifts2
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PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »People who somehow equate doing 80% of the talking to winning the argument 😑
According to Jordan Peterson, winning an argument is less important than just making peace with a disagreement. Not sure if i buy that.....but its a thought......
I agree with Jordan Peterson...there is no changing someone's mind...they are spending their time coming up with a rebuttal to your points.
Not always true... I've never been afraid of saying "You're right"... But in most cases, you're right...
See what I did there 😏
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Yeah not every person is incapable. Just the majority...we are rare @Mr_Healthy_Habits
We just be passive aggressive like...
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