What’s a red flag for you?

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  • Ironwoman1111
    Ironwoman1111 Posts: 3,913 Member
    @MelG7777 wrote: »
    @PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    Ironwoman1111 wrote: »
    When they’re NOT even on MFP yet they’re always checking what you’ve shared in the community.🤬 Get a life!😤 Why are the forums public anyway?😒

    This is hot 😍

    I mean, yeah… stalking.. red flag 😅

    I’m hoping for one of my own someday.🥰

    🧐😲 It’s not funny!😤

    😂🤣😂 But… I’ll ask if there’s someone available.😄
  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,230 Member
    Ironwoman1111 wrote: »
    @MelG7777 wrote: »
    @PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    Ironwoman1111 wrote: »
    When they’re NOT even on MFP yet they’re always checking what you’ve shared in the community.🤬 Get a life!😤 Why are the forums public anyway?😒

    This is hot 😍

    I mean, yeah… stalking.. red flag 😅

    I’m hoping for one of my own someday.🥰

    🧐😲 It’s not funny!😤

    😂🤣😂 But… I’ll ask if there’s someone available.😄

    Sorry. Was just teasing around with @PaperDoll_ I don’t actually want or need that. Sorry it happened to you!
  • Ironwoman1111
    Ironwoman1111 Posts: 3,913 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Ironwoman1111 wrote: »
    @MelG7777 wrote: »
    @PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    Ironwoman1111 wrote: »
    When they’re NOT even on MFP yet they’re always checking what you’ve shared in the community.🤬 Get a life!😤 Why are the forums public anyway?😒

    This is hot 😍

    I mean, yeah… stalking.. red flag 😅

    I’m hoping for one of my own someday.🥰

    🧐😲 It’s not funny!😤

    😂🤣😂 But… I’ll ask if there’s someone available.😄

    Sorry. Was just teasing around with @PaperDoll_ I don’t actually want or need that. Sorry it happened to you!

    No need to say sorry. I thought it was funny! It’s all good!
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Ironwoman1111 wrote: »
    @MelG7777 wrote: »
    @PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    Ironwoman1111 wrote: »
    When they’re NOT even on MFP yet they’re always checking what you’ve shared in the community.🤬 Get a life!😤 Why are the forums public anyway?😒

    This is hot 😍

    I mean, yeah… stalking.. red flag 😅

    I’m hoping for one of my own someday.🥰

    🧐😲 It’s not funny!😤

    😂🤣😂 But… I’ll ask if there’s someone available.😄

    Sorry. Was just teasing around with @PaperDoll_ I don’t actually want or need that. Sorry it happened to you!

    Blaming me? 😮🥰
  • R3d_butt3rfly_
    R3d_butt3rfly_ Posts: 1,585 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    Ironwoman1111 wrote: »
    When they’re NOT even on MFP yet they’re always checking what you’ve shared in the community.🤬 Get a life!😤 Why are the forums public anyway?😒

    This is hot 😍

    I mean, yeah… stalking.. red flag 😅

    I’m hoping for one of my own someday.🥰

    I know where you live 😏
  • MintMoijo
    MintMoijo Posts: 17 Member
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    My complete trust is hard won...so lying to me.. caught in a lie will set a red flag waving., even a small lie will will make me wonder what else they've lied about.

    They’re real!!! I swear it.. but it doesn’t matter what you say you’re not gonna get nudes or a feel lass! 😜
  • LBSwartz
    LBSwartz Posts: 10 Member
    Self-absorption, inappropriate sexual comments and bad teeth.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    MintMoijo wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    My complete trust is hard won...so lying to me.. caught in a lie will set a red flag waving., even a small lie will will make me wonder what else they've lied about.

    They’re real!!! I swear it.. but it doesn’t matter what you say you’re not gonna get nudes or a feel lass! 😜

    🚩 😂
  • ChillTheBathWater
    ChillTheBathWater Posts: 32 Member
    edited March 2022
    Disrespect, in any form.

    I recently watched an interview with a few former FBI/military interrogators, CSIs & detectives. Several also had counseling degrees or PhDs.

    They said when watching 2 people interact, they knew which relationships were doomed/dangerous, if one partner/counterpart sneered (showed contempt) when the other was speaking. They all agreed that 100% of the time, that meant one or both had no respect for the other & all they'd interviewed/interrogated/counseled (depending upon situation) lasted less than 1-yr, married or not... in some cases it was family members, friends, boss-employee dynamic, neighbors. Violence/abuse of some sort was also present in most of those relationships, covert or obvious.

    So, it turns out those little micro-expressions we p/u on & dismiss, even though they make us feel uncomfortable/fearful, shouldn't be so lightly tossed to the side.

    Trust your instincts.
  • Ironwoman1111
    Ironwoman1111 Posts: 3,913 Member
    If he stands outside my window night after night… He thinks I don’t know.🙄
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,749 Member
    If he falls asleep every time his butt hits the sofa.
  • lx1x
    lx1x Posts: 38,330 Member
    Ironwoman1111 wrote: »
    If he stands outside my window night after night… He thinks I don’t know.🙄

    Welp.. stop dancing in your bday suit and close the blinds.. 😏




    😝

  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Often smells of alcohol..
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    Often smells of alcohol..

    I keep telling you it’s only hand sanitizer 😑
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    Often smells of alcohol..

    I keep telling you it’s only hand sanitizer 😑

    You're drinking hand sanitiser? 😱
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    Often smells of alcohol..

    I keep telling you it’s only hand sanitizer 😑

    You're drinking hand sanitiser? 😱

    Isn’t that how you keep from getting the covid? 🤔 Have I been doing it wrong? 😮
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    Often smells of alcohol..

    I keep telling you it’s only hand sanitizer 😑

    You're drinking hand sanitiser? 😱

    Isn’t that how you keep from getting the covid? 🤔 Have I been doing it wrong? 😮

    🤣😂 if you haven't had covid then you're doing it right
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    Often smells of alcohol..

    I keep telling you it’s only hand sanitizer 😑

    You're drinking hand sanitiser? 😱

    Isn’t that how you keep from getting the covid? 🤔 Have I been doing it wrong? 😮

    🤣😂 if you haven't had covid then you're doing it right

    Oh, I’m doing it right then! 😎😂
  • Ironwoman1111
    Ironwoman1111 Posts: 3,913 Member
    @lx1x wrote: »
    Ironwoman1111 wrote: »
    If he stands outside my window night after night… He thinks I don’t know.🙄

    Welp.. stop dancing in your bday suit and close the blinds.. 😏




    😝

    Blinds!💡☝️😁 Yes, I knew I forgot something. But… it’s just a silly deer eating my raspberry bush? 🤷‍♀️🦌😂
  • lx1x
    lx1x Posts: 38,330 Member
    Ironwoman1111 wrote: »
    @lx1x wrote: »
    Ironwoman1111 wrote: »
    If he stands outside my window night after night… He thinks I don’t know.🙄

    Welp.. stop dancing in your bday suit and close the blinds.. 😏




    😝

    Blinds!💡☝️😁 Yes, I knew I forgot something. But… it’s just a silly deer eating my raspberry bush? 🤷‍♀️🦌😂

    Ah..
    hides back behind the hedges
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,749 Member
    If he can’t name the last book he read.
  • Ironwoman1111
    Ironwoman1111 Posts: 3,913 Member
    edited April 2022
    If he still eats crayons
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,749 Member
    When he escalates the conversation much too quickly.
    Later.
  • R3d_butt3rfly_
    R3d_butt3rfly_ Posts: 1,585 Member
    When they play mind games
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,749 Member
    Drives a convertible. 🫤
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Secretive.. 😒
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,749 Member
    Alcohol brings out the worst in him.
    Watch how fast I disappear. Poof 💭
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    When he can't remember the lies he told me before.
  • amorfati601070
    amorfati601070 Posts: 2,890 Member
    I know it’s completely coincidental but very “Tony” I’ve ever met has been a Sketchy Mofo.

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