Sometimes people post on here and they seem like their lives are sooo good and everything must be all together for them. Sometimes people post and it reeks of hot dumpster fire life. Sometimes people seem so self righteous that you think either “they have it together” or “hun, you need to come back to reality with the rest of us”. So how are you a hot mess? Or are you an “I got it goin on”? How so? Discuss so we can either revel in your hotness of messes, or admire your I got it goin on-ness. I myself am a hot mess with the possibility of eventually having some parts goin on.