WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR NOVEMBER 2019
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Missed 4 days and feel like itโs been forever! Too many posts to read right now. Iโll go backwards from today. Busy time of year!
RV Rita still in Roswell3 -
Restaurants- Eating before impossible Daughter gets so excited to be home we pack up JR leave early come home late.
She has already announced one day will be Starbucks for Brunch drinks followed by a restaurant.Spa my first ever which means Hubby will pick up JR watch him for a short period . Shopping ๐. Dinner with hubby y Dad included with us 3 . Movie ๐ฅ . More shopping ๐. Back home . Thatโs 1 day! When she gets her energy out wants to just be lazy with a computer think Iโll be so tired out Iโll welcome the ignoring us time lol.
Today chicken baked with light cheese on top. Banana pepper. Spinach topped with homemade spinach guacamole.Apple slices.
Unhealthy Diet Coke to take my teeth enamel off . Not every day but still I know itโs bad for me but feel like a treat.
Later at Dinner guacamole /chips ,chicken , broccoli ๐ฅฆ not sure what Iโll drink yet.
Snacks unknown probably special k with almond milk let JR eat away Iโll eat the left overs.
Iโll send out Thankyou from Daughter y us to all by call y email ๐ง. Her generation is not taught by schools to write letters like my Mothers generation.My generation was learning phone etiquette I was confused struggled learning to write letters ...didnโt help moms family nitt-picked every word of my letters even got them back graded (teachers but still turned me off forever on writing โ๏ธ cause of those heartless grammar nazis! Then they attacked Daughter decades later so she refuses to write...I understand the fear it leaves). Daughter said her Generation was taught email ๐ง y social media etiquette only no phone or letters. I spent a month teaching her friends y her about telephone books y how theirs yellow pages on the internet too after teaching them the book version. Biggest struggle ever!!!
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RvRita- I miss too many I skim for my name or a topic I recognize skip the rest no way to read every word when we get behind. Logged in after being sick was 200+ posts!!!1 -
Happy Saturday, Supermodels!
Lisa - good to know you are OK! We get nervous after Gloria's demise (newbies - Gloria was a regular on here and suddenly stopped posting - we found out she'd been hit and killed by a car!)
SuziQ - glad you are back as well. Sorry for your phone woes. And Katla, yours too. I almost feel fortunate that we don't have anyone we must talk to on a regular basis. Plus, with my dicey hearing, email or texting is always preferred. I also developed an allergy to talking on the phone after working at 911 and later having to help answer phones for the county department I was working in when I retired. I swore after that, talking on the phone would be only for my convenience, lol. I may change my mind some day, but that's my story for now.
Heather - your Thai curry sounds wonderful, I never would have thought of putting salmon in it, I bet it will be delicious! Every year I struggle with should I send nieces/nephews gifts (small checks) for Christmas, as I rarely get thank you's. But then I think of the times I DO hear from them, they are generally cheery and newsy and give me a lift. I know they are super busy; I was that way too at their age. So the checks will go out in cards. I missed birthdays tho this year other than a Facebook greeting, and may keep it that way.
NYKaren - good idea getting Rachel on the road while weather is still decent. Thanks for the recommendation of "Brittany runs a Marathon" - I'll plan to watch it soon. The commercials for it looked cute. I finished with the latest season of "Shakespeare and Hathaway" and now started the latest season of "Death in Paradise". Britbox has been well worth the money for us.
Got back from my walk a little while ago. Waited until it warmed up to 20! Ran into my walking friend who was at her mailbox, said she'd be MIA for a while as she needed an additional procedure on her knee which was replaced a few months ago. She's ticked they waited for a couple weeks to get her in physical therapy. And she works for a hospital!
Also whipped up a broccoli/cauliflower crunch salad. Took one to Thanksgiving at our friends and they liked it. I still had plenty of veggies left. Quick recipe - break up broccoli and cauliflower florets, about three cups worth. I had half of each. Add a cup of red grapes, 2/3 c toasted walnuts, broken up and 1/3 to 1/2 c chopped red onion. Dressing: 1/3 to 1/2 c mayo - I use grapeseed oil Vegennaise - 1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice and 1 tablespoon real maple syrup/honey. I prefer maple syrup since it doesn't get thick like cold honey does. Stir it all together. Great the second day. Stir before serving to redistribute the dressing. The actual recipe calls for double the amount of dressing but cutting back doesn't affect it IMHO.
Also started on Christmas cards yesterday. That's a first! Normally I'm doing them the second week of December, lol.
Doing some mini fasting today - will have some of my crunch salad for lunch.
Have a great weekend, ladies!
Lanette
SW WA State with snow expected tomorrow morning before it turns to freezing rain!5 -
Pip: Gorgeous tree! :bigsmile:
Terri: I use my laptop to visit here at MFP and have had no serious problems. I have โhomeโ on my phone that provides access to the list serve. I prefer using my laptop to visit here because I can edit my work before I say something dumb. I use the phone to log calories.
Barbara: Iโll see if I can find Miracle on library2go. :flowerforyou:
SuziQ: I got the update overnight. Thanks!
We have frost this morning! It is our first frost for the season and it is gorgeous. Our hummingbirds are chowing down on sugar water. I took my miniature rosebush, still in full bloom, and tucked it under a rhododendron beside the house. Iโve done the same in years past and it seems to survive each winter. DH bought it for me at the grocery store years ago for Motherโs Day.
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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SuziQ: I discovered the iphone update in the middle of the night. All is well with my phone, but I didnโt get much sleep that night. Iโm sure they think theyโre doing us all a favor by making ios changes in the middle of the night. I would have loved to get a real nightโs sleep. :grumble:
Lanette: I remember Gloria well. She was a valiant woman, raising grandsons on her own. I hope theyโre doing well now.
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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Lanette - The Thai curry was fantastic, but a little too spicy for DH. I thought it was the best thing I've had for a while. I bought these wonderful mini zucchini and eggplants from our local Mediterranean store. I only used half the packet of curry sauce and just a few spoonfuls of coconut milk, so I will freeze the rest.
Much love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx3 -
Lisa, I know the feeling. I havenโt had anything to contribute lately either. Iโve been ignoring my calorie budget and my spending budget. Not good! I have too many friends with MLM gigs. I only buy stuff I โwant,โ but I buy way too much that I donโt really โneed.โ
Family drama is also draining me โ Not my husband; Not my children; But my siblings. My father is also beginning a decline, Iโm afraid, so Iโm needing to spend more and more time with him.
Iโm at a plateau on the weight. I know the problem. I just donโt have the inclination to address it right now. Maybe December will motivate me.
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Gender Reveal Parties ๐:
Poor Uncles still being made fun of. The youth of this generation is big on secret until the gender reveal.Huge deal to them. It is posted on social media so has to be perfect to a T! My poor Uncle after the pink explosion ๐ฅ powder smoke bomb went off (turned white then pink I wasnโt there since Iโm the 2nd y 3rd cousin) he asked so what the sex of the baby? Kept asking so their perfect video even at the end he was confused on what it will be. Finally someone said pink smoke itโs a girl. He said โSmokes not alive it has no sex! Whatโs the BABY!โ Lol ๐ I get a tickle hearing it ,but they were upset awhile about it.
Donโt know about you but think their silly ๐.
I learned about my Daughter when Dr. went in to do a checkup he said what is that ....โUmmmm โ I said. โHer V-Jay presses up against your camera thingy you may want to go up a little higher to find the head measurements.โ
Lol Daughter kept following the camera thingy so only got V-Jay measurements.Well I was happy to know I had a girl! Abuser of course broke my bones when we got home punishment no doctor for days for having a girl not a boy. I was relieved it was a girl very very relieved! Was a breath they donโt fight for custody very hard for girls ,but boys thatโs another story. They only fought 3yrs would have been worse for a boy. She also was suspected of having a cyst on her ovaries so was definitely a girl.
JR well Doctor ran test to see if I was pregnant ๐คฐ less than 5minutes later (think test spinner for a minute of that) bam answer your pregnant! Doctor said WOW never comes back that fast his Testosterone must be through the roof! Lol ๐ she said it harder to detect pregnancy with females. Told the OB later what she said he said yup true .He wrote baby boy on our files. Lol ๐ so no need for gender reveal started day 1.
I just told everyone. Not a big whoop ๐ to me. My MIL this time had a dream I was having a boy he was sitting on steps of the house we moved to later so well called hubby while I was driving to the doctor she told everyone her dream lol. Lol ๐ no need to tell them before I knew even. Hubby had a dream too he was baptizing his son. My Cousin (blabber mouth) y a nurse who I knew forever spilled the beans all over town y to family that I just found out I was pregnant few minutes ago it was a boy! Lol that all in Day 1 of the pregnancy.
Amber Tx2 -
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Hi all: Hope all those who celebrated had a good Thanksgiving. We ended up having 11 here. Too much food but lots of fun. We are working on our cabin this weekend that we hope to start renting in January. Niece and 2 nephews helping out along with my son and DD. It is slowly coming together. Last night the 2 girls were building chairs in the living room and it was getting pretty silly. Weight staying the same just now and I am OK with that. Need to really work hard on that after the holidays.
Everyone take care Sue in WA6 -
SuziQ Sometimes I wish I just had a landline & no other phone. What a bewildering, maddening experience that must have been. Ugh. Sorry you were robbed of your week. Hope you feel better soon.
Kate Sorry you are experiencing sibling drama. I know how that is. Also sorry to hear your dad is declining - my parents would be 95 and 97 if they were still living! I have several buddies who sell fun stuff like nail stick-ons, children's books, Lularoe's, etc. I bought some Lularoe leggings and some children's books early on & then just said no. Don't want more stuff & don't want to spend the money.
Lanette What a different & yummy-sounding salad! I will be making it soon! Thank you for mentioning Gloria, I think of her often, especially on days when Learning Coach duties are challenging. She was an inspiration.
Pip & Heather You have motivated me to put a recurring event on my calendar for the death date of my partner's mom. I miss it sometimes (this year for example) and I hate it that my partner has to tell me why she is sad or irritable - I want to remember it ahead of time so I can be sensitive to it. Her father's death date is easy to remember & that anniversary doesn't have the same impact on her, but her mom's death anniversary is difficult. xo
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I had a wonderful text conversation with 3 of my old high school buddies in Nebraska this morning. It seems that a century old house that had belonged to the family of a dear friend of my family was moved 7 miles by its new owners to a new site where they will live. The driver for the company they hired was a 5' tall 100 lb woman in flip-flops who did such a superb job that items left on the window sills did not fall off. She negotiated hilly rural dirt roads and 2 corners. Average speed: 4 feet per second. It took 2.5 hours to go 7 miles. My friends who were there for the event were laughing about what all of their old farmer dads would have had to say about the driver, LOL!!! My family friend who was born in that house was reportedly very pleased about the whole thing. She is 85 now.
Karen in Virginia11 -
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Karen - That really gave me a good chuckle this evening! Look at the size of that!
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx3 -
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stat for the day:
jog- 5.5-6.2sp w/some fast sprints 10.23min mi, 135ahr, 148mhr, 3.85mi= 379c
Apple Watch- 405c1 -
Hi all,
I've been MIA from writing but I'm hanging out and maintaining. This is a hard time of year coming up to my son's birthday December 12. He died in 1984 but the grief is sometimes so raw.... And the drama continues in our family legal battle. I head to Alaska for mediation that was requested and has been set up by the Ak. Supreme Court. The Superior Court ruled favorably for my sister and I last march but my brother and cousin appealed on every ruling of the Superior Ct judge. Mediation will be December 9 and 10 and will be led by a retired Supreme Ct Justice. I hope it will be successful. The case has been an energy (and money) drain for going on eight years. Worse than the drain is the divide created in our family.
I have maintained my weight and exercise thru November and know I'll get back with healthy eating and logging food when I'm less stressed. I am grateful for so much in my life, just now feeling burdened by worries. Two weeks ago, I caught a head cold that laid me low and just now am feeling that I'm kicking the bug. I'm looking forward to getting thru the next two weeks and already counting the days until I come back home to WA on December 11.
Wishing everyone well.... and I enjoy being a part of this wonderful supportive group.
Betsy in NW Washington
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@SuziQ113 No tech advice, just sympathy and commiserations. Technology is great when it works, but Oh!!! So frustrating when it goes wrong.
๐๐คถ Gratitude for Christmas ๐ ๐ป๐#1, 15 Nov: Scents: loved the smell of the roses I put into my Floral arrangement#17, 30 Nov, Knowledge: I'm grateful for the self-knowledge I have gained on this health and fitness journey. Now all I have to do is apply it! ๐
#2, 16 Nov:Technology: Glad that I had my car and didnโt have to stand in the cold waiting for a bus
#3, 17 Nov: Colour: the colour of the beautiful sunset as I walked home in the late afternoon
#4, 18 Nov: Food: Fresh produce form my own garden ..... or ....... Chocolate! ๐ซ My ultimate comfort food.
#5, 19 Nov: Sound: I'm grateful for the sound of DH moving about downstairs. It's very comforting.
#6, 20 Nov: In Nature: I love the view of the night sky from my bedroom window on clear nights.
#7, 21 Nov: Memory: This triggered a veritable avalanche of memories of my life, the happy moments crowding out the less pleasant ones. So... the memory I am most grateful for is my own selective memory, which chooses to focus on the positives, and reframe the negatives as learning experiences.
#8, 22 Nov: Book: "Unlimited Power" by Tony Robbins. This book was a revelation to me and showed me that I was in charge of my life. It was pretty scary at first to accept responsibility for all my actions and decisions. It was no longer possible for me to blame others or make excuses. But it was such a positive turning point in my life. I revisit it often.
#9, 23 Nov - Place: the place I am most grateful for is the quiet place in my head where I go when I meditate.
#10, 24 Nov - Taste: Today grandson had made an experimental mulled wine drizzle cake. I was grateful that it tasted so good, (not all of his experiments turn out so well ๐) Fortunately, I always hold calories for my Sunday visit, so was able to fully enjoy his delightful concoction (NB: lemon drizzle cake is one of my favourites)
#11, 25 Nov - Holiday: I love my annual week's family holiday on the West coast of Ireland with our DED and the grands. This year was our 24th year of these holidays. We started them with my DMiL when our granddaughter was just 8 months old. I am grateful that all 3 grands still want to come on these holidays with us.
#12, 25 Nov, Texture: I love the feel of fresh soft fluffy towels after my shower.
#13, 26 Nov, Abilities: I treasure my ability to be adaptable, and look for the positive in situations.
#14, 27 Nov, Sight: I appreciate the sight of my husband bringing my tea in bed each morning. It means I can take my time waking up.
#15, 28 Nov, Season: All the season's have their good points' but the spring is my favourite because it heralds the end of winter and the lengthening of daylight hours.
#16, 29 Nov: I'm grateful that bones are strong. I have been very fortunate in that I have never had a broken bone. Long may that continue.
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Note to self: Making soup from the turkey carcass is an all day job and a lot of work and the result is priceless. We will be so happy with the four meals of soup and the extra broth when we use them in the future. This is something I learned from my mother and it one of the ways I celebrate her.
My walking friend is back from her Thanksgiving adventure with her family. Her daughter in Idaho bought the plane ticket for her and insisted on having a wheelchair scheduled to take her from the curb to the plane. She told me about how she got picked to be frisked and have her luggage looked through at security. I told her that I though it was because it seemed suspect to TSA that such a fit and healthy person should be in a wheelchair and they maybe considered that it was a trick to smuggle something onto the plane. She thought the whole thing was hilarious but she didn't tell that to TSA.
The dogs and cat loved the little bits of turkey I mixed into their regular food.
New thread will be coming soon.
Barbie in chilly NW WA2 -
Instant pot getting a workout today. Made bone broth with turkey carcass and have all but 4 cups tucked away in the freezer for future use. Now I have yougurt from Fairlife milk cooking in the IP. Weather has been sunny, but the gusts coming off the mountains were cold and biting. Bring on the soup! My fridge has homemade turkey chili and Skinnytaste.com Creamy Zucchini Soup (an absolute winner if you haven't already tried it!)
Spoke with a good friend who lives in NYC, and learned she is being considered for a study on the positive effect of cocoa flavanols on age related memory loss. I was excited for a hot second until she told me that 'chocolate' is processed and doesn't contain the same type or necessary quantity of flavanols they are testing. The study is funded by Mars (fyi Michele).
No gift shopping here. Don't have kids or relatives who expect anything. I ramp up my charitable giving because I know there are so many who feel pain, pressure and stress during the holidays, and there are so many great organizations that exist to help those in need.
So, in that grateful space...
#14: Sight โ Star filled skies on a clear night. Humbling.
#15: Season โ Summer in the mountains
#16: Body โ My heart and head. They keep me going and balance each other.
Stay well friends. We can do this.
Rori
Colorado Foothills
October and November 2019 intentions and scorecard:
๐ฏ Be lighter = A. Down 1.2 as of this AM
๐ฏ Get back to photo scanning project. Avg 15 mins/day. = . F. Haven't touched a photo all month. Did do some other needed decluttering.
๐ฏ Add harder intervals to daily recumbent bike workout = B. I'm up to resistance level 5.
๐ฏ Intentionally connect with acquaintances and neighbors. Set up coffee/lunch dates. = B. Haven't been able to socialize due to family obligations/appointments/visitors.
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https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10774121/women-ages-50-for-december-2019#latest
This is the link to the new thread for December. I hope I'll see you there.2 -
November Update:
Original Goal for 2019 was to reach 155lbs, achieved, and revised it down to <150lbs. Weight has been steadily trending downwards. I am now at my lowest weight in 4 decades! I have been bouncing around 150 for over a week now.
Just a few details on my personal journey to health and fitness.
Aim for 2019 ~ reach 155 <150
Aim for each month ~ Weigh less at the end than I did at the beginning โ
This month, I am FOCUSED on heathy food choices and DETERMINED to achieve my goals!
Age: 73; Height 5โ2โ; Female
SW: 227lbs (Mar 2014)
LW: 153 (Oct 2016)
151.6: 1 Nov 2019 (75 lbs Discarded:- not lost, not looking for them ๐ ๐ ๐)
149.8: 30 November 2019
UGW: 155 140s (this may change when I get there ๐ ) โ Hit 149s over a week ago.
CW: 149.8- For the last 3 years I have tended to bounce up and down between 160 - 170. Occasionally I bounced up/down a little more.
- My ideal situation would be to be below 155, to allow me some wiggle room for holidays/celebrations, hence my original goal for 2019, which I have now revised down a little.
- I use CI/CO and a variety exercise for extra calories.
- Logic would suggest that I have found a natural comfortable weight, and, according to modern BMI calculation, I am in the upper range of normal for my age and height. However, logic doesn't always dictate our desires and feelings. ๐
- Getting and staying healthy and fit requires the development of a permanent lifestyle reset.
- Replacing unhelpful habits with more useful ones is key to to the process.
- Losing weight is only one of the elements.
- Eating healthy and staying actively is not OPTIONAL, but an ABSOLUTE ESSENTIAL.
REMINDERS One or two thoughts on weight which might give heart to some of you.- Daily weight fluctuations are normal, and can be several lbs a day for no apparent reason.
- A general downward trend is what we are looking for.
- Eating out can cause apparent weight gain because of high sodium levels, but usually goes quickly. Drinking extra water helps with this.
- The human body does not react instantly to what we do to it. Sometimes it can take several days to see results.
- Plateaus are a normal part of the process. The body is consolidating and adapting to your new way of eating/exercising.
- The closer you get to your goal weight, the more difficult it becomes to lose weight, as your body becomes more efficient at using what you feed it.
- When you exercise you build muscle, which takes up less space than fat, so use measurements as well as weight to assess your progress.
- Getting/Staying fit and healthy requires a permanent lifestyle change for most people.
See y'all on the December pages. ๐๐๐
โ๏ธ Terri
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Happy National Mutt Day!
"Desperately longing for a new home, millions of loving and healthy mixed breed dogs in shelters wait for someone to come and adopt them. National Mutt Day provides an excellent opportunity to find the perfect canine companion. Despite the name, a mutt learns, obeys and trains much like purebred animals. While their lineage cannot be traced and their features a bit murky, their companionship will be faithful."
Barbara - Looking waaay back I see you asked about brussels sprouts. This year I tried a new recipe for brussels sprouts in rosemary cream sauce. It was good but not really worth the extra calories. Usually we roast them, sometimes with winter squash, but the most common way is an Alton Brown recipe where you saute them with cranberries and pecans. That one is simple and delicious!
Lanette - So happy to hear massage helped your frozen shoulder! Yes, Philip doesn't market himself as a medical massage therapist but that's exactly the kind of work he does and he's had a lot of success with frozen shoulder. Massage therapy is a great complement to physical therapy or chiropractic, so you may want to talk to your massage therapist about getting on a regular schedule.
Rebecca - Ooooh, Tucker is such a cutie! I can smell the puppy breath from here!
Made it through Thanksgiving! I didn't over-indulge but, if I'm being honest, that speaks less to my willpower and more to the fact that I don't care for my mother-in-law's cooking. There was some pie in the mix but we stayed on track with our workouts so overall the holiday wasn't much of a bump in the road.
You how sometimes you just get so involved in putting one foot in front of the other you lose track of where you are? Today is the birthday of my dear friend who I lost several years ago so it's already a wistful day. Then for some reason I decided now was the time to sort through and file all of the paperwork from my work on Dad's estate and then, as if that wasn't enough, I read a long letter Mom wrote to the church newsletter just after her breast cancer diagnosis. That last item made me lose it and I realized what an idiot I was to tackle all that today.
Since another dog isn't an option right now unless the greyhound group calls and wants me to foster, I'll celebrate Mutt Day by posting a picture of Luna:
Pets to all of your furry friends!
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Yvonne See Barbie's post above for link to join us in December thread. xoxo0
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