Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..
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Yoshiboobs wrote: »
OOF3 -
eatpolerepeat wrote: »
No i’m just trying to break down the code people use!
Like @_sw33tp3a_11 said she uses a standard “have a nice day” in her messages, and if i get a message that says have a nice day, i’m like oh 😬 they don’t wanna talk anymore0 -
eatpolerepeat wrote: »
No i’m just trying to break down the code people use!
Like @_sw33tp3a_11 said she uses a standard “have a nice day” in her messages, and if i get a message that says have a nice day, i’m like oh 😬 they don’t wanna talk anymore
I think short messages just enough to respond to whats said is an indicator....but then again I do that all day because I'm busy at work.0 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »eatpolerepeat wrote: »
No i’m just trying to break down the code people use!
Like @_sw33tp3a_11 said she uses a standard “have a nice day” in her messages, and if i get a message that says have a nice day, i’m like oh 😬 they don’t wanna talk anymore
I think short messages just enough to respond to whats said is an indicator....but then again I do that all day because I'm busy at work.
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dylanalexander5781 wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »eatpolerepeat wrote: »
No i’m just trying to break down the code people use!
Like @_sw33tp3a_11 said she uses a standard “have a nice day” in her messages, and if i get a message that says have a nice day, i’m like oh 😬 they don’t wanna talk anymore
I think short messages just enough to respond to whats said is an indicator....but then again I do that all day because I'm busy at work.
Ok
😂, you must be at work2 -
Guys/girls: how do you politely indicate you don’t want to message anymore without coming right out and saying it?
I don't really see it this way and it's not really ever that I don't want to chat...
It's just that life, the universe, nature, whatever pulls us apart and maybe back together again at some point in the distant or near future 🤷🏽♂️...
I take no offense and mean no harm, and usually assume the other way... ✌🏼2 -
Guys/girls: what keeps you from sliding into someone’s DMs when you’d otherwise want to talk to them?
Back when we could still DM without the FR rigamarole I would message super tall men for clothing recommendations because the SO is super tall and shopping options are nil here. Retail Research.0 -
Guys,
Do you like it when your girl calls you baby?1 -
_sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »Guys,
Do you like it when your girl calls you baby?
Eeewww4 -
Indifferent to it. Any pet name can get old if overused though_sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »Guys,
Do you like it when your girl calls you baby?
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_sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »Guys,
Do you like it when your girl calls you baby?
they usually call me *kitten* so idk6 -
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Ladies
It’s okay to send creepy, inappropriate messages to other ladies, right? 😬
I mean, too late now 😏4 -
eatpolerepeat wrote: »_sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »Guys,
Do you like it when your girl calls you baby?
Mine does but he'll never admit it
You two are the cutest1 -
_sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »Guys,
Do you like it when your girl calls you baby?
She can I don't mind...
But I would feel like I might as well ask her about her fitness goals if I called her Baby or Babe...
I prefer just Jes... It's way hotter than Babe 😏😂2 -
Going back a couple of pages to the questions about messages/comments being misconstrued...
Most of my "interractions" are online. I have little use or patience for people IRL. I've perceived more and more momentum behind that idea that any comments about another person not explicitly asked for are unwelcomed and could border on shaming, harrassment, etc.
Is my perception off in that sense, or do other people have similar impressions/feelings? If so, do you feel this is now the social norm, or is it just a small portion of people making a lot of noise?
To be clear, I am aware of the difference between commenting, "you look great" and "nice tits"... I'm not *that* oblivious.0 -
Going back a couple of pages to the questions about messages/comments being misconstrued...
Most of my "interractions" are online. I have little use or patience for people IRL. I've perceived more and more momentum behind that idea that any comments about another person not explicitly asked for are unwelcomed and could border on shaming, harrassment, etc.
Is my perception off in that sense, or do other people have similar impressions/feelings? If so, do you feel this is now the social norm, or is it just a small portion of people making a lot of noise?
To be clear, I am aware of the difference between commenting, "you look great" and "nice tits"... I'm not *that* oblivious.
Hmm. Maybe true online in general but I wouldn’t see it that way here in chit
I’d say the vast majority of people feel good when singled out and given a compliment. A small but noisy minority might disagree. (I don’t mean this with any lack of sensitivity to true harassment issues, i’m talking about general well-meaning commentary)2 -
_sw33tp3a_11 wrote: »Guys,
Do you like it when your girl calls you baby?
pfft ... call me anything you want.
Just don't call me late to dinner.2 -
Going back a couple of pages to the questions about messages/comments being misconstrued...
Most of my "interractions" are online. I have little use or patience for people IRL. I've perceived more and more momentum behind that idea that any comments about another person not explicitly asked for are unwelcomed and could border on shaming, harrassment, etc.
Is my perception off in that sense, or do other people have similar impressions/feelings? If so, do you feel this is now the social norm, or is it just a small portion of people making a lot of noise?
To be clear, I am aware of the difference between commenting, "you look great" and "nice tits"... I'm not *that* oblivious.
I’d say the vast majority of people feel good when singled out and given a compliment.
That cat tower of yours is pretty hot.2 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Going back a couple of pages to the questions about messages/comments being misconstrued...
Most of my "interractions" are online. I have little use or patience for people IRL. I've perceived more and more momentum behind that idea that any comments about another person not explicitly asked for are unwelcomed and could border on shaming, harrassment, etc.
Is my perception off in that sense, or do other people have similar impressions/feelings? If so, do you feel this is now the social norm, or is it just a small portion of people making a lot of noise?
To be clear, I am aware of the difference between commenting, "you look great" and "nice tits"... I'm not *that* oblivious.
I’d say the vast majority of people feel good when singled out and given a compliment.
That cat tower of yours is pretty hot.
You should see it when it’s on fire 🔥1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Going back a couple of pages to the questions about messages/comments being misconstrued...
Most of my "interractions" are online. I have little use or patience for people IRL. I've perceived more and more momentum behind that idea that any comments about another person not explicitly asked for are unwelcomed and could border on shaming, harrassment, etc.
Is my perception off in that sense, or do other people have similar impressions/feelings? If so, do you feel this is now the social norm, or is it just a small portion of people making a lot of noise?
To be clear, I am aware of the difference between commenting, "you look great" and "nice tits"... I'm not *that* oblivious.
I’d say the vast majority of people feel good when singled out and given a compliment.
That cat tower of yours is pretty hot.
You should see it when it’s on fire 🔥
I'm sure that's only a matter of time.1 -
Women: if a man messages you, what is your reaction? Be real
Curiosity and interest. He could, after all, want the recipe for something I was talking about in a forum, or to ask me how the heck I cope with having a boyfriend AND a girlfriend, doesn't he get jealous, and that's not a problem. I like to talk to friendly intelligent people. I have even been known to flirt on occasion. I am even willing to talk about how my kink works in a 24/7 relationship. I'm a very friendly open person.
Actually the people who think that it's appropriate to message me and assume I'm here to help him with the problem in his pants aren't a problem either. I have a delete button.
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How can you tell the difference between someone wanting attention and someone wanting your attention?1
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hawkeye45_ wrote: »How can you tell the difference between someone wanting attention and someone wanting your attention?
Not sure if either is too healthy if done for an extended period of time.
That said, I'd think someone who wants your specific attention will commit to actions they assume (or know) will be of interest to you whereas general attention-seeking looks like them doing the same thing(s) with any and every person repeatedly.
Basically, lack of originality.
Also, you can just ask them.2 -
hawkeye45_ wrote: »How can you tell the difference between someone wanting attention and someone wanting your attention?
Those could be the same thing
If she wants attention in general, her selfies are posted publicly
If she wants attention from you specifically, she sends you selfies that you won’t find publicly
But if you really want to know if she’s interested in you specifically, she:asks you why you have to live so far away3 -
Guys: how you take it when she tells you “you should selfie more”0
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hawkeye45_ wrote: »How can you tell the difference between someone wanting attention and someone wanting your attention?
asks you why you have to live so far away
Low cost of living and no state income tax.1 -
hawkeye45_ wrote: »hawkeye45_ wrote: »How can you tell the difference between someone wanting attention and someone wanting your attention?
asks you why you have to live so far away
Low cost of living and no state income tax.
Uh huh, so you live in SD then?1
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