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hawkeye45_ wrote: »
oh no i did that before too. was actually pretty easy once i quit caring in fact4 -
KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/Gals: What is the best musical genre and why?
probably sad music4 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/Gals: What is the best musical genre and why?
probably sad music
But.. there's genres of sad music. I get accused of listening to a lot of "sad" music and it's not really *all* sad, but a lot of it is composed in a minor key, which gives off that impression. The lyrics aren't always necessarily sad, although I do have a lot of erm.. depressing stuff in my library.2 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/Gals: What is the best musical genre and why?
probably sad music
*kitten* yassssssss3 -
hawkeye45_ wrote: »A follow-up to the previous discussion.
If your partner discovered something that they enjoyed and wanted to try (within the bounds of not harming others), and it was not for you, would you consider an open relationship so they can get that itch scratched? Why or why not? (I left out the word "illegal" here because, in some states, any position other than missionary is illegal.)
I've been thinking about that a lot. Not kink related but just in general. I'm turning over to the idea that it's unfair to require everything from one person. 🤷🏻♀️ I guess that's a yes. But I also get jealous and idk how'd that'd pan out in the end.2 -
KosmosKitten wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/gals: What would you do if you found out your long term partner ended up having an unusual kink/fetish? Nothing illegal or harmful to others, just... out of the ordinary. How do you respond? Let's assume that they developed this fetish throughout the course of your relationship (they didn't come into the relationship knowing they were already into this particular thing).
- How do you respond?
- Is it a deal breaker?
- Do you attempt to engage to see if maybe you'll enjoy it, too or at least not mind it?
- If the above is no, it's not enjoyable... do you end your relationship with this person?
Saw a Reddit thread earlier today that gave me pause and it seemed like an interesting question for y'all.
If it's not enjoyable for me and he really wants and needs that fetish.. then yeah, I'd end it, it would be unfair to both of us otherwise.
But Id try most things once, so within reason I'd give it a go
How does a person know if they need a particular kink or fetish vs. wanting it? I have quite a few and while I'd really like to engage in all of them 100% of the time, none of them are essential for living. I can still engage in a really good time without them, although if any particular kink/fetish came up, it would probably qualify as a phenomenal time.
I guess I'm asking: where is the line between compromising your wants and desires in this regard vs. an actual need that keeps a person from enjoying life with a person? In my experience, no person I've been with who had kinks actually *needed* them for the relationship to continue. They were just a bonus. Some were more extreme interests, too.
I do agree with you, though. Just curious and picking the collective brains of Chit-Chat because it fascinates me.
Stuff where it's "need" level: I don't do romantic relationships where I'm not in control. Period. I don't do sex without being in control. I LIKE to also inflict a little pain, and maybe be a little bit of not-at-all-nice, but that's the whipped cream and cherry. But I don't submit to anyone but my gods. And it wouldn't work for me to not be in charge outside the bedroom too. I have partners who like someone else taking charge, and they support me in it, and so it works for the three of us. Having lived this way, I would never go back to pretending he's in charge, pretending I like it that way, and generally faking being a vanilla woman romantically. Nope.
As to the things like the whips and canes in the chest at the foot of the bed... we don't much get them out. Haven't done that for months because he's been dealing with PTSD and he doesn't want to play that way. I can live without it. I can live without the kink community and the fun that that opens up.
But the way I feel when I'm waking my girlfriend up to take her medication on time, the way I feel when I look at my pantry or his nicely organized closet, and the way I feel when either of them says, "It's okay. I know whatever happens I'll be taken care of,".... ah, that, that's not optional. I don't want to live without that.
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KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/Gals: What is the best musical genre and why?
Classic rock. I don't see how this can be disputed. But then again, it's more of an era than a genre.
So rock music. Because it's the most fun to sing at karaoke.
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KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/Gals: What is the best musical genre and why?
Acid Jazz
Because it's awesome.2 -
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KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/Gals: What is the best musical genre and why?
Comedy rock.0 -
Guys, and girls, but especially guys, do most women look better with their hair down rather than up?
Like, are pony tails and buns ever as cute as hair down?
And is the hair generally prettier wavy, curly, or straight?
Or does this all just depend on the person, facial features, and hair type?1 -
KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/Gals: What is the best musical genre and why?
I like so many. My digital collection is at 11k + tracks.
But for me nothing beats talk radio. Rush, Levin, Hannity, Car Talk, etc.
Second up are radio comedy personalities. Dr. Demeno, Phil Hendrie, etc.1 -
Guys, and girls, but especially guys, do most women look better with their hair down rather than up?
Like, are pony tails and buns ever as cute as hair down?
And is the hair generally prettier wavy, curly, or straight?
Or does this all just depend on the person, facial features, and hair type?
Women have hair?
Hmmm, I guess I need to train my eyes a bit further north.3 -
KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/Gals: What is the best musical genre and why?
I like show tunes.. 😃The Golden-age movie musicals 1940 and 50s, cause Gene Kelly, Fred Astaire, Cyd Charisse, Ginger Rogers, Jane Powell
I know.. not genre but I love them old musicals..
Just saying.. I'll see myself out 😜1 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/Gals: What is the best musical genre and why?
probably sad music
I try to like happy music but I always fall back on my sad indie folk. Bon Iver. The National. St. Vincent. Donovan Woods. Etc etc.
Sometimes I do like a good late 2000’s dance party though.1 -
eatpolerepeat wrote: »hawkeye45_ wrote: »A follow-up to the previous discussion.
If your partner discovered something that they enjoyed and wanted to try (within the bounds of not harming others), and it was not for you, would you consider an open relationship so they can get that itch scratched? Why or why not? (I left out the word "illegal" here because, in some states, any position other than missionary is illegal.)
No, I'm not sharing
PD? 😂2 -
eatpolerepeat wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »eatpolerepeat wrote: »hawkeye45_ wrote: »A follow-up to the previous discussion.
If your partner discovered something that they enjoyed and wanted to try (within the bounds of not harming others), and it was not for you, would you consider an open relationship so they can get that itch scratched? Why or why not? (I left out the word "illegal" here because, in some states, any position other than missionary is illegal.)
No, I'm not sharing
PD? 😂
Yes I've taken over Raychs account 😈
Oh... 😄 I just meant you were sharing already0 -
eatpolerepeat wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »eatpolerepeat wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »eatpolerepeat wrote: »hawkeye45_ wrote: »A follow-up to the previous discussion.
If your partner discovered something that they enjoyed and wanted to try (within the bounds of not harming others), and it was not for you, would you consider an open relationship so they can get that itch scratched? Why or why not? (I left out the word "illegal" here because, in some states, any position other than missionary is illegal.)
No, I'm not sharing
PD? 😂
Yes I've taken over Raychs account 😈
Oh... 😄 I just meant you were sharing already
Oh no, that's just something I can't seem to get out of 😏
Maybe you should become someone else's wife.. 😉 *waggles eyebrows*
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Guys, and girls, but especially guys, do most women look better with their hair down rather than up?
Like, are pony tails and buns ever as cute as hair down?
And is the hair generally prettier wavy, curly, or straight?
Or does this all just depend on the person, facial features, and hair type?
Up or back, especially with a shirt that shows the neck and shoulders.
I think the lines from cheeks to jaw to neck to shoulders is beautiful.4 -
Guys, and girls, but especially guys, do most women look better with their hair down rather than up?
Like, are pony tails and buns ever as cute as hair down?
And is the hair generally prettier wavy, curly, or straight?
Or does this all just depend on the person, facial features, and hair type?
Honestly it doesn't matter but throw me a curve ball once in a while and you'll get me thinking good things3 -
Guys, and girls, but especially guys, do most women look better with their hair down rather than up?
Like, are pony tails and buns ever as cute as hair down?
And is the hair generally prettier wavy, curly, or straight?
Or does this all just depend on the person, facial features, and hair type?
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Guys, and girls, but especially guys, do most women look better with their hair down rather than up?
Like, are pony tails and buns ever as cute as hair down?
And is the hair generally prettier wavy, curly, or straight?
Or does this all just depend on the person, facial features, and hair type?
This hair all day erryday2 -
slimgirljo15 wrote: »eatpolerepeat wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »eatpolerepeat wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »eatpolerepeat wrote: »hawkeye45_ wrote: »A follow-up to the previous discussion.
If your partner discovered something that they enjoyed and wanted to try (within the bounds of not harming others), and it was not for you, would you consider an open relationship so they can get that itch scratched? Why or why not? (I left out the word "illegal" here because, in some states, any position other than missionary is illegal.)
No, I'm not sharing
PD? 😂
Yes I've taken over Raychs account 😈
Oh... 😄 I just meant you were sharing already
Oh no, that's just something I can't seem to get out of 😏
Maybe you should become someone else's wife.. 😉 *waggles eyebrows*
All I’m hearing is I’m getting another sister wife. 😏2 -
eatpolerepeat wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »eatpolerepeat wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »eatpolerepeat wrote: »hawkeye45_ wrote: »A follow-up to the previous discussion.
If your partner discovered something that they enjoyed and wanted to try (within the bounds of not harming others), and it was not for you, would you consider an open relationship so they can get that itch scratched? Why or why not? (I left out the word "illegal" here because, in some states, any position other than missionary is illegal.)
No, I'm not sharing
PD? 😂
Yes I've taken over Raychs account 😈
Oh... 😄 I just meant you were sharing already
Oh no, that's just something I can't seem to get out of 😏
Thank you for making my day with one gif.
I've sprayed flexible thoughts with photos of this human.
It's a good thing I don't know how to post gifs.
I thought I was the only one...
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eatpolerepeat wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »eatpolerepeat wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »eatpolerepeat wrote: »hawkeye45_ wrote: »A follow-up to the previous discussion.
If your partner discovered something that they enjoyed and wanted to try (within the bounds of not harming others), and it was not for you, would you consider an open relationship so they can get that itch scratched? Why or why not? (I left out the word "illegal" here because, in some states, any position other than missionary is illegal.)
No, I'm not sharing
PD? 😂
Yes I've taken over Raychs account 😈
Oh... 😄 I just meant you were sharing already
Oh no, that's just something I can't seem to get out of 😏
Thank you for making my day with one gif.
I've sprayed flexible thoughts with photos of this human.
It's a good thing I don't know how to post gifs.
I thought I was the only one...
What, no love for Sam?
Besides, we all know Dean just eats his way through all his problems anyway.
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I'll take Sam from that episode where he's evil and has the hooker over while he's doing pull-ups with no shirt on.
I'm Dean's girl at all other times.
https://youtu.be/QSxDj06ZY40 1 -
#teamsam4
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Guys, and girls, but especially guys, do most women look better with their hair down rather than up?
Like, are pony tails and buns ever as cute as hair down?
And is the hair generally prettier wavy, curly, or straight?
Or does this all just depend on the person, facial features, and hair type?
This hair all day erryday
Well... my hair is growing out to be something like this.4 -
Miss_Chiev0us wrote: »Guys, and girls, but especially guys, do most women look better with their hair down rather than up?
Like, are pony tails and buns ever as cute as hair down?
And is the hair generally prettier wavy, curly, or straight?
Or does this all just depend on the person, facial features, and hair type?
This hair all day erryday
Well... my hair is growing out to be something like this.
Ummmm.......im gonna need to see this close up 😉0
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