Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..
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TwitchyMacGee wrote: »ladies of mfp
would you prefer him to be overly toxic or kinda a doormat?
(no in betweens & honest answers only pls im trynna see something)
Jeez now I feel bad for giving an over the top not quite honest answer. I am most attracted to men who are confident and also really into me in a non-doormat way. I realize that makes me just like everyone else.
lol none that bothers me i already knew the answer. i just wanted the other guys to know it too
I CHANGED MY ANSWER!😂1 -
rainandsilence wrote: »And the response about the toxic dudes confirms my theory that most woman dig a holes and nice guys finish last - sup wit dat ladies - elaborate a bit
Doormats aren’t nice guys though. They’re sneaky. They don’t stick up for you. And most of all they’re spineless with their immediate family members. They let their mother and sisters mistreat their wife/girlfriend and they don’t put a stop to it. They spoil their children and turn them into insufferable brats and unleash those brats on the rest of us. They take the path of least resistance everywhere they go and inevitably betray people who deserve their loyalty. They’re not nice guys. Neither are toxic guys but at least the toxic ones are more transparent.
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And if we’re being educational, guys should know that the same moves don’t work on everyone.
For example some women like competition in a boom i got your boyfriend way but others are not into it. I like admiration so much and I respect personal property too much to intentionally compete. It’s a turnoff4 -
rainandsilence wrote: »And the response about the toxic dudes confirms my theory that most woman dig a holes and nice guys finish last - sup wit dat ladies - elaborate a bit
Doormats aren’t nice guys though. They’re sneaky. They don’t stick up for you. And most of all they’re spineless with their immediate family members. They let their mother and sisters mistreat their wife/girlfriend and they don’t put a stop to it. They spoil their children and turn them into insufferable brats and unleash those brats on the rest of us. They take the path of least resistance everywhere they go and inevitably betray people who deserve their loyalty. They’re not nice guys. Neither are toxic guys but at least the toxic ones are more transparent.
And generally doormats feel sorry for themselves and that’s a kind of selfishness I aint into. Own your cockiness and take me with you, it’ll be a fun ride. You know, until you hit on all my friends and tell me I’m imagining everything and overreacting7 -
rainandsilence wrote: »And the response about the toxic dudes confirms my theory that most woman dig a holes and nice guys finish last - sup wit dat ladies - elaborate a bit
Doormats aren’t nice guys though. They’re sneaky. They don’t stick up for you. And most of all they’re spineless with their immediate family members. They let their mother and sisters mistreat their wife/girlfriend and they don’t put a stop to it. They spoil their children and turn them into insufferable brats and unleash those brats on the rest of us. They take the path of least resistance everywhere they go and inevitably betray people who deserve their loyalty. They’re not nice guys. Neither are toxic guys but at least the toxic ones are more transparent.
Noted... difference between doormat and nice guy - thanks for elaborating 👍4 -
And now I’m awake again4
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GettinLean19 wrote: »rainandsilence wrote: »And the response about the toxic dudes confirms my theory that most woman dig a holes and nice guys finish last - sup wit dat ladies - elaborate a bit
Doormats aren’t nice guys though. They’re sneaky. They don’t stick up for you. And most of all they’re spineless with their immediate family members. They let their mother and sisters mistreat their wife/girlfriend and they don’t put a stop to it. They spoil their children and turn them into insufferable brats and unleash those brats on the rest of us. They take the path of least resistance everywhere they go and inevitably betray people who deserve their loyalty. They’re not nice guys. Neither are toxic guys but at least the toxic ones are more transparent.
And generally doormats feel sorry for themselves and that’s a kind of selfishness I aint into. Own your cockiness and take me with you, it’ll be a fun ride. You know, until you hit on all my friends and tell me I’m imagining everything and overreacting
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rainandsilence wrote: »And the response about the toxic dudes confirms my theory that most woman dig a holes and nice guys finish last - sup wit dat ladies - elaborate a bit
Doormats aren’t nice guys though. They’re sneaky. They don’t stick up for you. And most of all they’re spineless with their immediate family members. They let their mother and sisters mistreat their wife/girlfriend and they don’t put a stop to it. They spoil their children and turn them into insufferable brats and unleash those brats on the rest of us. They take the path of least resistance everywhere they go and inevitably betray people who deserve their loyalty. They’re not nice guys. Neither are toxic guys but at least the toxic ones are more transparent.
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@GettinLean19 great thread idea - very informative 👍2
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And the response about the toxic dudes confirms my theory that most woman dig a holes and nice guys finish last - sup wit dat ladies - elaborate a bit
We were given the choice between two polar opposites, no in betweensies
Who would you choose between a very outspoken girl who challenged you and bragged and loved attention vs a very quiet meek girl who flinched and apologized every time you did something?8 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »And the response about the toxic dudes confirms my theory that most woman dig a holes and nice guys finish last - sup wit dat ladies - elaborate a bit
We were given the choice between two polar opposites, no in betweensies
Who would you choose between a very outspoken girl who challenged you and bragged and loved attention vs a very quiet meek girl who flinched and apologized every time you did something?
Thank you! False dilemma4 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »I wanna know what guys really think about high-waisted jeans
No just no!0 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »And the response about the toxic dudes confirms my theory that most woman dig a holes and nice guys finish last - sup wit dat ladies - elaborate a bit
We were given the choice between two polar opposites, no in betweensies
Who would you choose between a very outspoken girl who challenged you and bragged and loved attention vs a very quiet meek girl who flinched and apologized every time you did something?
Das why I asked to elaborate yo - to peal
The proverbial onion a bit more 😉
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rainandsilence wrote: »Men, why are so few men able to be celibate, even the ones who take vows of celibacy or who should be celibate because they carry sexuality transmittable disease?
Survival of the species really 🤷🏽♂️0 -
Men, when a woman asks directly for your intentions why you so chicken *kitten* to tell the truth?4
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_Kashmir_314 wrote: »Guess ill go the unpopular opinion. I don’t think high waisted pants look good. Lol
I want to know what the women of MFP think on this one. If you had to be shallow, which one do you prefer. Below average height men or above average height men
Size doesn't matter...
Shallow me - taller than me
So to put in perspective would you have this opinion if you were say. 5’9 to 6’ ?? My girls are 5’8 and 5’9 - and their Pickens are slim right now for dudes taller than they are - which as a dad - I’m completely fine with 😂
As a 5'8" woman I always felt lucky because it seemed like MOST guys were right around my height or taller. It's never been much of an issue.
I know my 5'11" friend felt differently when we were teens but then she started dating shorter guys and didn't care.2 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Men, when a woman asks directly for your intentions why you so chicken *kitten* to tell the truth?
Honestly... It sounds like you've already decided what the truth is... So unless what we say matches, we're lying...
But good on you for that... From the eldest son of a single mother... Show no mercy, nor benefit of the doubt...4 -
I am team Toxic Doormat7
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mixing the mayo and ketchup?3
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Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »I am team Toxic Doormat
Such a great band name2 -
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TwitchyMacGee wrote: »rainandsilence wrote: »Men in front line customer service positions whether it’s grocery store or emergency dispatch operator.
I prefer men in these positions. Actually to be more specific men age 40 and over.
They’re better at keeping bad moods and exhaustion undetectable. They’re less likely to take things personally. They keep it professional.
I disagree. Women are excellent customer service representatives. They are always apologizing for things that aren’t their fault. See above
I'm sorry, but she's right!
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_Kashmir_314 wrote: »
No no no - that’s thousand island .. c’mon M2 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »
Try peanut butter and honey and dip your nilla wafers in - trust me in this3 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »
Try peanut butter and honey and dip your nilla wafers in - trust me in this
Okay but you gotta try putting milk on your ice cream for no other reason than because I can’t think of anything weird but delicious that i eat1
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