Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..

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  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    Oh screw it.

    What happened? 🤣
    @1sphere
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies...

    I realize everyone is different so I'm curious to see what you all have to say...

    Do you prefer someone who is... Shy and awkward (not creepy), or confident and cocky (bordering arrogant)?

    Shy and awkward. Confidence can be gained.
    Plus I think awkward is adorable.

    I did the shy guy thing. I made the first move and he was receptive and grateful and I didn’t mind.

    Then I had to make any and all subsequent moves for the rest of our lives forever and ever amen.

    Is there a middle ground?

    Maybe that quiet confidence, that you don't notice right away and assume it's just shyness. Awkward is still cute though.
  • _Kashmir_314
    _Kashmir_314 Posts: 707 Member
    edited March 2020
    1sphere wrote: »
    I believe I give off vibes of a serial killer, and that sucks

    Listen! I totally get this, trust me. I didn't have a response to your question, and felt bad. You def don't give off that vibe to me, besides this is the internet...don't put too much emphasis on people's perception of you, you'll go nuts. 🤗

    Yes, I disagreed with you.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    _Kashmir_314 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Ok ladies

    Super serious dude who suits up?

    Or laid back dude in t shirt blue jeans ?

    Both can be v hot!

    This. haha



    I like the laid back guy who knows how to be serious, and can clean up nice in a suit.
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  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,176 Member
    _Kashmir_314 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    _Miss_chievous_ wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?

    Not a fan

    What about with chest hair and. A chain 😂
    _Kashmir_314 wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?

    How many chest hairs peeking out? 🤔

    As I’m scrolling down you’re reading my mind- and I’ll just say I know my cookies yo 😉

    Wait, did you actually create a chain from said chest hairs? I'm scared....turtlenecks for you, Sir! 😛

    Lol I can’t grow chest hair or a full beard 🤷‍♂️
  • tulips_and_tea
    tulips_and_tea Posts: 5,744 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    Cryptic, appears emotionless, untalkative but friendly....attractive or not

    Depends what else they have to offer. If they can communicate effectively without being talkative that's fine with me.

    Cryptic is ok regarding general things but clearly communicating or showing feelings is important. I don't like mind games.
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  • mi_nina_lola
    mi_nina_lola Posts: 767 Member
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    _Kashmir_314 wrote: »
    What do guys really think of women with muscles? I'm not necessarily speaking of "toned," I'm talking muscle.

    Honestly... I know women today are after the muscles and who am I to tell them what they should be after one way or the other...

    But I prefer thin, but not skinny... And I'm talking about that soft layer... That drives me more crazy than muscle... Btjm 🤷🏽‍♂️

    oh hey - soft layer heeeeeeeeere!! :p
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    Cryptic, appears emotionless, untalkative but friendly....attractive or not

    This was my ex husband.
    I used to be ok with this. But not anymore....
    I don't find it attractive. I think it's too much work and I would get tired real quick.....

    However "appears" emotionless doesn't mean "emotionless". Does he express emotions?
  • mi_nina_lola
    mi_nina_lola Posts: 767 Member
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies...

    I realize everyone is different so I'm curious to see what you all have to say...

    Do you prefer someone who is... Shy and awkward (not creepy), or confident and cocky (bordering arrogant)?

    cocky and confident
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies -

    married guys off limits?

    IRL married or MFP married?
  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    1sphere wrote: »
    Oh screw it.

    What happened? 🤣
    @1sphere
    my question went ignored, but meh

    LOL. Do you see why you’re the best?
  • mi_nina_lola
    mi_nina_lola Posts: 767 Member
    Men:

    married ladies off limits or this?

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7f7FuDagYLU
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    mi_nina_lola wrote: »
    Men:

    married ladies off limits or this?

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7f7FuDagYLU

    no. but it doesn't matter its still her call
  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    mi_nina_lola wrote: »
    Men:

    married ladies off limits?

    Depends if I know the spouse or not.
  • dudasd1973
    dudasd1973 Posts: 275 Member
    mi_nina_lola wrote: »
    Men:

    married ladies off limits or this?

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7f7FuDagYLU

    Depends if they are officially seperated or not.
  • Reckoner69_lmao
    Reckoner69_lmao Posts: 1,000 Member
    mi_nina_lola wrote: »
    Men:

    married ladies off limits or this?

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7f7FuDagYLU

    ....I always thought that stood for Otters Plan Parties

    No wonder that song was so confusing
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  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    edited March 2020
    1sphere wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    1sphere wrote: »
    Cryptic, appears emotionless, untalkative but friendly....attractive or not

    This was my ex husband.
    I used to be ok with this. But not anymore....
    I don't find it attractive. I think it's too much work and I would get tired real quick.....

    However "appears" emotionless doesn't mean "emotionless". Does he express emotions?
    It’s kind of me I think...in the present. But I can respect that. I believe that relationships come with that duty of compromises, and really being there to comfort your partner. I guess I have to look out for chemistry or else just be me, and be patient. It’s ok to be strange I think, as long as it’s not weighing down on somebody else

    As long as emotions can be expressed, and clear communication is made, it's fine. Overly chatty people drive me nuts. I like comfortable silence. I just don't want to feel like I have to drag any sort of straight answer or emotion out of someone every single time..... that can be exhausting.

    ETA: Absolutely nothing wrong with being strange. It's different and intriguing. ;) Both of which can be very attractive.
  • mi_nina_lola
    mi_nina_lola Posts: 767 Member
    Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »
    mi_nina_lola wrote: »
    Men:

    married ladies off limits or this?

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7f7FuDagYLU

    ....I always thought that stood for Otters Plan Parties

    No wonder that song was so confusing

    so glad you're back :D

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