Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..
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_Kashmir_314 wrote: »
I'mma buy you a present 💥_Kashmir_314 wrote: »_Miss_chievous_ wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?
Not a fan
What about with chest hair and. A chain 😂_Kashmir_314 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?
How many chest hairs peeking out? 🤔
As I’m scrolling down you’re reading my mind- and I’ll just say I know my cookies yo 😉
Wait, did you actually create a chain from said chest hairs? I'm scared....turtlenecks for you, Sir! 😛
Lol I can’t grow chest hair or a full beard 🤷♂️
Send it with the cookies - pleas and thanks 😊 [/quot
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seltzermint555 wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »
And he's gotta have age-appropriate footwear, not like some Etnies he bought in 2007 along with the ultra-tight skinnies.
I used to rock some etnies slides back in the day - man I miss those1 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »_Miss_chievous_ wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?
Not a fan
Same...
My breaking heart hugs you 😂
honey, why are you wearing a shirt?_Kashmir_314 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »_Miss_chievous_ wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?
Not a fan
Same...
My breaking heart hugs you 😂
honey, why are you wearing a shirt?
I second this....
😊😊😊...
If I stand up perfectly straight, the loose skin isn't really to bad 🙈😂4 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »_Kashmir_314 wrote: »
No no no - that’s thousand island .. c’mon M
"Thousand Island dressing is made with mayonnaise and ketchup (or some other sweetened tomato condiment), thickened with a hard-boiled egg pressed through a sieve, and enlivened with vinegar and sweet pickle relish" - Random Google Response
SO ALL MY LIFE I HAVE PAINSTAKINGLY MIXED MAYO AND KETCHUP AND PICKLE JUICE AND BROWN SUGAR AND THATS BASICALLY WHAT THOUSAND ISLAND IS 😩2 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »_Kashmir_314 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?
How many chest hairs peeking out? 🤔
New question...
Shaved or hairy chest? 🤔
Hairy. Unless it's constantly shaved, it tends to feels like sandpaper. I have sensitive skin, so if he doesn't shave every day or every other day, just keep it hairy.1 -
What do men really think about women who work vs stay home? For guys that want their woman to work, are you really ok with doing 50% of the housework or just hope your woman will end up doing most of it......?
I prefer her to not work and maintain the home and kids... That's just me tho3 -
martianspuds wrote: »And the response about the toxic dudes confirms my theory that most woman dig a holes and nice guys finish last - sup wit dat ladies - elaborate a bit
Obviously I can't speak for the majority of ♀️, only myself - but I don't dig a-holes at all.
Currently I'm a fat slug, but I've been attractive enough in the recent past to have been hit on by a lot of guys, with a wide assortment of personality types.
The a-holes have always just been a-holes, period. For me, no amount of having a pretty face or muscles makes up for it.
And on the flip side - frankly, most of the guys I've known who lump themselves into the "nice guys finish last" category have not been nearly as nice as they believed themselves to be.
So much this.
That's why I hate that saying.4 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
I realize everyone is different so I'm curious to see what you all have to say...
Do you prefer someone who is... Shy and awkward (not creepy), or confident and cocky (bordering arrogant)?
Shy and awkward. Confidence can be gained.
Plus I think awkward is adorable.
I did the shy guy thing. I made the first move and he was receptive and grateful and I didn’t mind.
Then I had to make any and all subsequent moves for the rest of our lives forever and ever amen.
Is there a middle ground?
Yes I'm Cocky and confident just not around the os... In real life that is 🤷🏽♂️0 -
martianspuds wrote: »And on the flip side - frankly, most of the guys I've known who lump themselves into the "nice guys finish last" category have not been nearly as nice as they believed themselves to be.
This is very true. It is not that women don’t want guys who are nice. They want someone with a cool personality who they are attracted to. Some guys are just all around unappealing but try to label themselves nice to blame women for their lack of success.
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Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »_Kashmir_314 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?
How many chest hairs peeking out? 🤔
New question...
Shaved or hairy chest? 🤔
Yes
😂
But seriously. Yes1 -
martianspuds wrote: »And on the flip side - frankly, most of the guys I've known who lump themselves into the "nice guys finish last" category have not been nearly as nice as they believed themselves to be.
This is very true. It is not that women don’t want guys who are nice. They want someone with a cool personality who they are attracted to. Some guys are just all around unappealing but try to label themselves nice to blame women for their lack of success.
Exactly.
That's manipulative and narcissistic. Can't be his fault, must be all the women he dates not seeing how great he is.
Any guys who uses "nice guys finish last" when I am dating him, I immediately second guess my decision to date him further.....7 -
mi_nina_lola wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »_Kashmir_314 wrote: »What do guys really think of women with muscles? I'm not necessarily speaking of "toned," I'm talking muscle.
Honestly... I know women today are after the muscles and who am I to tell them what they should be after one way or the other...
But I prefer thin, but not skinny... And I'm talking about that soft layer... That drives me more crazy than muscle... Btjm 🤷🏽♂️
oh hey - soft layer heeeeeeeeere!!
That's the funnest part honestly 😏1 -
martianspuds wrote: »And on the flip side - frankly, most of the guys I've known who lump themselves into the "nice guys finish last" category have not been nearly as nice as they believed themselves to be.
This is very true. It is not that women don’t want guys who are nice. They want someone with a cool personality who they are attracted to. Some guys are just all around unappealing but try to label themselves nice to blame women for their lack of success.
Exactly.
That's manipulative and narcissistic. Can't be his fault, must be all the women he dates not seeing how great he is.
Any guys who uses "nice guys finish last" when I am dating him, I immediately second guess my decision to date him further.....
Same! It they are truly nice, then their actions will show it.
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martianspuds wrote: »And the response about the toxic dudes confirms my theory that most woman dig a holes and nice guys finish last - sup wit dat ladies - elaborate a bit
Obviously I can't speak for the majority of ♀️, only myself - but I don't dig a-holes at all.
Currently I'm a fat slug, but I've been attractive enough in the recent past to have been hit on by a lot of guys, with a wide assortment of personality types.
The a-holes have always just been a-holes, period. For me, no amount of having a pretty face or muscles makes up for it.
And on the flip side - frankly, most of the guys I've known who lump themselves into the "nice guys finish last" category have not been nearly as nice as they believed themselves to be.
Fair enough - I’ve appreciated the elaboration from all the when on this topic today - ladies I applaud you 👏2 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »_Kashmir_314 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?
How many chest hairs peeking out? 🤔
New question...
Shaved or hairy chest? 🤔
Hairy. Unless it's constantly shaved, it tends to feels like sandpaper. I have sensitive skin, so if he doesn't shave every day or every other day, just keep it hairy.
How bout just naturally hairless - like a sphinx cat - but not as wrinkly of course- asking for a friend1 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »What do men really think about women who work vs stay home? For guys that want their woman to work, are you really ok with doing 50% of the housework or just hope your woman will end up doing most of it......?
I prefer her to not work and maintain the home and kids... That's just me tho
What happens when the kids are older? I'm not arguing this...I have a totally different lifestyle. But I often wonder about this as quite a few of my acquaintances are moms of teens and college kids, but have never worked.1 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »_Kashmir_314 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?
How many chest hairs peeking out? 🤔
New question...
Shaved or hairy chest? 🤔
Hairy. Unless it's constantly shaved, it tends to feels like sandpaper. I have sensitive skin, so if he doesn't shave every day or every other day, just keep it hairy.
How bout just naturally hairless - like a sphinx cat - but not as wrinkly of course- asking for a friend
Even better!
ETA: Hairy or hairless... or very little hair... it's all good.
As long as it's not shaved... lol1 -
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GettinLean19 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »_Kashmir_314 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?
How many chest hairs peeking out? 🤔
New question...
Shaved or hairy chest? 🤔
Yes
😂
But seriously. Yes
You're just way too picky for me 😏😂0 -
Ladies...
I hear brains are important... But what if he's just not a smart guy?
Is that really a deal breaker? 🤷🏽♂️2 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
I hear brains are important... But what if he's just not a smart guy?
Is that really a deal breaker? 🤷🏽♂️
Depends on what you call smart.
People have different ideas of what they think is smart or intelligent. My idea of a smart guy might be an idiot to someone else.
But if I think the guy is dumber than a box of rocks.... I won't date him. lol I can't. I would rather watch grass grow....3 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
I hear brains are important... But what if he's just not a smart guy?
Is that really a deal breaker? 🤷🏽♂️
There are multiple kinds of intelligence, and as long as he exhibits at least one form, I've found I'm able to be attracted to a guy who is barely average in terms of old-fashioned gray matter.
As with many things in life, what tends to matter most is how he uses what he's got.1 -
seltzermint555 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »What do men really think about women who work vs stay home? For guys that want their woman to work, are you really ok with doing 50% of the housework or just hope your woman will end up doing most of it......?
I prefer her to not work and maintain the home and kids... That's just me tho
What happens when the kids are older? I'm not arguing this...I have a totally different lifestyle. But I often wonder about this as quite a few of my acquaintances are moms of teens and college kids, but have never worked.
At that point... It's really going to be up to her...
I'd like to see her do something that she loves to do or work on school or something... Rather than go to work doing something she would hate...
Like a side business or something2 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
I hear brains are important... But what if he's just not a smart guy?
Is that really a deal breaker? 🤷🏽♂️
I love smart, open-minded men. Women too but in a different way2 -
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I despise this kind of guy who just puts on a facade, and not only that but is manipulative. The greedy narcissist.martianspuds wrote: »And on the flip side - frankly, most of the guys I've known who lump themselves into the "nice guys finish last" category have not been nearly as nice as they believed themselves to be.
This is very true. It is not that women don’t want guys who are nice. They want someone with a cool personality who they are attracted to. Some guys are just all around unappealing but try to label themselves nice to blame women for their lack of success.
Exactly.
That's manipulative and narcissistic. Can't be his fault, must be all the women he dates not seeing how great he is.
Any guys who uses "nice guys finish last" when I am dating him, I immediately second guess my decision to date him further.....
Same! It they are truly nice, then their actions will show it.
Sounds like there might be a backstory and I’m here for it0 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »_Kashmir_314 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
Guys in dress shirts... The third button undone, sexy or no?
How many chest hairs peeking out? 🤔
New question...
Shaved or hairy chest? 🤔
Hairy chest. Extra points if he doesnt mind if I grab a handful. Other manscaping is appreciated.2 -
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I don’t have any decent story, but I was horrified with a guy I had to work with one time. His mind was latched to perversion and dark chit. Kind of a dodgy guy, but he probably wasn’t even as bad as some others out thereGettinLean19 wrote: »
I despise this kind of guy who just puts on a facade, and not only that but is manipulative. The greedy narcissist.martianspuds wrote: »And on the flip side - frankly, most of the guys I've known who lump themselves into the "nice guys finish last" category have not been nearly as nice as they believed themselves to be.
This is very true. It is not that women don’t want guys who are nice. They want someone with a cool personality who they are attracted to. Some guys are just all around unappealing but try to label themselves nice to blame women for their lack of success.
Exactly.
That's manipulative and narcissistic. Can't be his fault, must be all the women he dates not seeing how great he is.
Any guys who uses "nice guys finish last" when I am dating him, I immediately second guess my decision to date him further.....
Same! It they are truly nice, then their actions will show it.
Sounds like there might be a backstory and I’m here for it
Uh huh, sounds terrible. Do you have his number?2 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »seltzermint555 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »What do men really think about women who work vs stay home? For guys that want their woman to work, are you really ok with doing 50% of the housework or just hope your woman will end up doing most of it......?
I prefer her to not work and maintain the home and kids... That's just me tho
What happens when the kids are older? I'm not arguing this...I have a totally different lifestyle. But I often wonder about this as quite a few of my acquaintances are moms of teens and college kids, but have never worked.
At that point... It's really going to be up to her...
I'd like to see her do something that she loves to do or work on school or something... Rather than go to work doing something she would hate...
Like a side business or something
To circle back to the latter part of the question posed by @nooshi713 , are you really ok with doing 50% of the housework or just hope your woman will end up doing most of it......:
I.e., after the kids have left the nest and Mrs. Healthy is now happily busy doing something she loves - do you envision that you would be sharing housework chores at that point?2
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