Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..
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It all depends on how well you know the girl and how she feels about herself and make up. Many women love make up as an art form and take pride in their skills. Some use it to cover up insecurities, others just want a little color and to enhance their features. Making an assumption about her motives can be a death sentence for you. A simple, “You are a natural beauty” is enough. She will wear make up or go without regardless of your opinion.So what's your thoughts on a guy telling a girl that she doesn't need all that eye make-up she's been putting on - in fact - she looks better with less
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Abs_magee89 wrote: »
It all depends on how well you know the girl and how she feels about herself and make up. Many women love make up as an art form and take pride in their skills. Some use it to cover up insecurities, others just want a little color and to enhance their features. Making an assumption about her motives can be a death sentence for you. A simple, “You are a natural beauty” is enough. She will wear make up or go without regardless of your opinion.So what's your thoughts on a guy telling a girl that she doesn't need all that eye make-up she's been putting on - in fact - she looks better with less
This. I simply compliment a woman in general, and say how beautiful she is. My preference is little to no makeup. But, I do also enjoy watching a woman put her makeup on or take it off in the evening before bed. Kind of like how women can enjoy watching a man shave.3 -
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Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested0 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Depends how hot she is 🤷🏽♂️😂...
Oh and Eta... Never ever ever show that *kitten*, never...3 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Depends how hot she is 🤷🏽♂️😂
I KNEW it!2 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I find I cAre less as I get older - if someone doesn’t like me these days I shrug it off for the most part - I’ll wonder wth I did sometimes cause c’mon what’s not to like 🤷♂️ I kid I kid relax ppl - .. but like healthy habits said - you never show that chit3 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I find I cAre less as I get older - if someone doesn’t like me these days I shrug it off for the most part - I’ll wonder wth I did sometimes cause c’mon what’s not to like 🤷♂️ I kid I kid relax ppl - .. but like healthy habits said - you never show that chit
I'm kinda in this same boat. It's more of an age thing, but I find that I'm less likely to feel like I need to like everybody as well. I mean, I'm not going out of my way to make anyone miserable, but there are a lotta people that I think "welp, not the type of person I want to spend my time with" so I just leave it at that. With that attitude comes understanding that I'm gonna be that guy for a lot of people, too, and that's okay.6 -
Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I find I cAre less as I get older - if someone doesn’t like me these days I shrug it off for the most part - I’ll wonder wth I did sometimes cause c’mon what’s not to like 🤷♂️ I kid I kid relax ppl - .. but like healthy habits said - you never show that chit
I'm kinda in this same boat. It's more of an age thing, but I find that I'm less likely to feel like I need to like everybody as well. I mean, I'm not going out of my way to make anyone miserable, but there are a lotta people that I think "welp, not the type of person I want to spend my time with" so I just leave it at that. With that attitude comes understanding that I'm gonna be that guy for a lot of people, too, and that's okay.
WHY WON’T YOU LOVE ME?4 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I find I cAre less as I get older - if someone doesn’t like me these days I shrug it off for the most part - I’ll wonder wth I did sometimes cause c’mon what’s not to like 🤷♂️ I kid I kid relax ppl - .. but like healthy habits said - you never show that chit
I'm kinda in this same boat. It's more of an age thing, but I find that I'm less likely to feel like I need to like everybody as well. I mean, I'm not going out of my way to make anyone miserable, but there are a lotta people that I think "welp, not the type of person I want to spend my time with" so I just leave it at that. With that attitude comes understanding that I'm gonna be that guy for a lot of people, too, and that's okay.
WHY WON’T YOU LOVE ME?
But all those times when there was one set of footprints?
That's when I was carrying you
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Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I find I cAre less as I get older - if someone doesn’t like me these days I shrug it off for the most part - I’ll wonder wth I did sometimes cause c’mon what’s not to like 🤷♂️ I kid I kid relax ppl - .. but like healthy habits said - you never show that chit
I'm kinda in this same boat. It's more of an age thing, but I find that I'm less likely to feel like I need to like everybody as well. I mean, I'm not going out of my way to make anyone miserable, but there are a lotta people that I think "welp, not the type of person I want to spend my time with" so I just leave it at that. With that attitude comes understanding that I'm gonna be that guy for a lot of people, too, and that's okay.
WHY WON’T YOU LOVE ME?
But all those times when there was one set of footprints?
That's when I was carrying you
🤣
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Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I find I cAre less as I get older - if someone doesn’t like me these days I shrug it off for the most part - I’ll wonder wth I did sometimes cause c’mon what’s not to like 🤷♂️ I kid I kid relax ppl - .. but like healthy habits said - you never show that chit
I'm kinda in this same boat. It's more of an age thing, but I find that I'm less likely to feel like I need to like everybody as well. I mean, I'm not going out of my way to make anyone miserable, but there are a lotta people that I think "welp, not the type of person I want to spend my time with" so I just leave it at that. With that attitude comes understanding that I'm gonna be that guy for a lot of people, too, and that's okay.
WHY WON’T YOU LOVE ME?
But all those times when there was one set of footprints?
That's when I was carrying you
Greatness my friend .. well played indeed 👏😂2 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
Same question for the ladies - is this something you fret about more often than not??1 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
Same question for the ladies - is this something you fret about more often than not??
idgaf
That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.3 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
The only time it might bother me if that if after getting to know one another, it comes out that they've never liked me. Yet, they continued the facade. If that's the case, then depending on the type of interaction with them, I might feel like I've been used or taken advantage of.
Otherwise, I really don't care if a person doesn't like me or not. As long as we show some level of respect towards one another, don't care. Don't show me respect, I'll still show you some. Yet, don't expect me to do anything with/for you in terms of work, other stuff.1 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
Same question for the ladies - is this something you fret about more often than not??
Absolutely. I’m asking the question because i need tips2 -
ladies of mfp-
"im sorry. r u mad at me??"
or
"no. i aint done nothing wrong, you're being ridiculous"
which one of those would you rather hear from him?0 -
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GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I truly do not care. For me, my age/experience has not changed this. It has always been that way.
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XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
The only time it might bother me if that if after getting to know one another, it comes out that they've never liked me. Yet, they continued the facade. If that's the case, then depending on the type of interaction with them, I might feel like I've been used or taken advantage of.
Otherwise, I really don't care if a person doesn't like me or not. As long as we show some level of respect towards one another, don't care. Don't show me respect, I'll still show you some. Yet, don't expect me to do anything with/for you in terms of work, other stuff.
A true midwesterner at heart ❤️1 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
To add to your edit...
Honestly no I don't care what others think about me personally...
Any problem someone might have with me, usually is more of a problem they have with themselves... And I'm sorry but there is nothing I can do about that...
People generally have a problem with you because you are too much and it makes them feel less, so they want you to be less to make themselves feel better...
*kitten* that... If I can inspire you to be more, then that's awesome... But I'm never going to be less...
That being said, I have learned that it's important to not swing at everything, sometimes you have to give other people a chance to shine, it's part of lifting others up and just being a good person...3 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I truly do not care. For me, my age/experience has not changed this. It has always been that way.
How do you treat people when you realize they don’t like you?0 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
The only time it might bother me if that if after getting to know one another, it comes out that they've never liked me. Yet, they continued the facade. If that's the case, then depending on the type of interaction with them, I might feel like I've been used or taken advantage of.
Otherwise, I really don't care if a person doesn't like me or not. As long as we show some level of respect towards one another, don't care. Don't show me respect, I'll still show you some. Yet, don't expect me to do anything with/for you in terms of work, other stuff.
A true midwesterner at heart ❤️
I lived there for far too many years...1 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
Same question for the ladies - is this something you fret about more often than not??
I generally don’t care but it starts to wear me down if it’s people I can’t get away from family/coworkers. I absorb the energy of the people around me and when everyone for the most part has rude/petty vibes my energy turns the same.3 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
To add to your edit...
Honestly no I don't care what others think about me personally...
Any problem someone might have with me, usually is more of a problem they have with themselves... And I'm sorry but there is nothing I can do about that...
People generally have a problem with you because you are too much and it makes them feel less, so they want you to be less to make themselves feel better...
*kitten* that... If I can inspire you to be more, then that's awesome... But I'm never going to be less...
That being said, I have learned that it's important to not swing at everything, sometimes you have to give other people a chance to shine, it's part of lifting others up and just being a good person...
Okay i love this.1 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I truly do not care. For me, my age/experience has not changed this. It has always been that way.
How do you treat people when you realize they don’t like you?
As far as I know, no different. I have no idea if someone doesn't like me. I don't ask.
I suppose if people are around me, they at least tolerate me. And if anyone doesn't, they would not be around me anymore.1 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I find I cAre less as I get older - if someone doesn’t like me these days I shrug it off for the most part - I’ll wonder wth I did sometimes cause c’mon what’s not to like 🤷♂️ I kid I kid relax ppl - .. but like healthy habits said - you never show that chit
I'm kinda in this same boat. It's more of an age thing, but I find that I'm less likely to feel like I need to like everybody as well. I mean, I'm not going out of my way to make anyone miserable, but there are a lotta people that I think "welp, not the type of person I want to spend my time with" so I just leave it at that. With that attitude comes understanding that I'm gonna be that guy for a lot of people, too, and that's okay.
WHY WON’T YOU LOVE ME?Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I find I cAre less as I get older - if someone doesn’t like me these days I shrug it off for the most part - I’ll wonder wth I did sometimes cause c’mon what’s not to like 🤷♂️ I kid I kid relax ppl - .. but like healthy habits said - you never show that chit
I'm kinda in this same boat. It's more of an age thing, but I find that I'm less likely to feel like I need to like everybody as well. I mean, I'm not going out of my way to make anyone miserable, but there are a lotta people that I think "welp, not the type of person I want to spend my time with" so I just leave it at that. With that attitude comes understanding that I'm gonna be that guy for a lot of people, too, and that's okay.
WHY WON’T YOU LOVE ME?
But all those times when there was one set of footprints?
That's when I was carrying youTwitchyMacGee wrote: »Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I find I cAre less as I get older - if someone doesn’t like me these days I shrug it off for the most part - I’ll wonder wth I did sometimes cause c’mon what’s not to like 🤷♂️ I kid I kid relax ppl - .. but like healthy habits said - you never show that chit
I'm kinda in this same boat. It's more of an age thing, but I find that I'm less likely to feel like I need to like everybody as well. I mean, I'm not going out of my way to make anyone miserable, but there are a lotta people that I think "welp, not the type of person I want to spend my time with" so I just leave it at that. With that attitude comes understanding that I'm gonna be that guy for a lot of people, too, and that's okay.
WHY WON’T YOU LOVE ME?
But all those times when there was one set of footprints?
That's when I was carrying you
🤣
😑
Ugh i love you two 😂0 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I truly do not care. For me, my age/experience has not changed this. It has always been that way.
How do you treat people when you realize they don’t like you?
As far as I know, no different. I have no idea if someone doesn't like me. I don't ask.
I suppose if people are around me, they at least tolerate me. And if anyone doesn't, they would not be around me anymore.
I want to learn how to idgaf like this0 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I truly do not care. For me, my age/experience has not changed this. It has always been that way.
How do you treat people when you realize they don’t like you?
As far as I know, no different. I have no idea if someone doesn't like me. I don't ask.
I suppose if people are around me, they at least tolerate me. And if anyone doesn't, they would not be around me anymore.
I want to learn how to idgaf like this
It really isn't that difficult.2 -
Also, since I like shoes (and probably have more than my wife and daughters combined), these are typically what I wear to work:
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XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I truly do not care. For me, my age/experience has not changed this. It has always been that way.
How do you treat people when you realize they don’t like you?
As far as I know, no different. I have no idea if someone doesn't like me. I don't ask.
I suppose if people are around me, they at least tolerate me. And if anyone doesn't, they would not be around me anymore.
I want to learn how to idgaf like this
It really isn't that difficult.
And yet..0
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