Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..
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GettinLean19 wrote: »XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I truly do not care. For me, my age/experience has not changed this. It has always been that way.
How do you treat people when you realize they don’t like you?
As far as I know, no different. I have no idea if someone doesn't like me. I don't ask.
I suppose if people are around me, they at least tolerate me. And if anyone doesn't, they would not be around me anymore.
I want to learn how to idgaf like this
It really isn't that difficult.
And yet..
refer back to my post, seemed like you had a pretty good understanding of it.
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GettinLean19 wrote: »XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I truly do not care. For me, my age/experience has not changed this. It has always been that way.
How do you treat people when you realize they don’t like you?
As far as I know, no different. I have no idea if someone doesn't like me. I don't ask.
I suppose if people are around me, they at least tolerate me. And if anyone doesn't, they would not be around me anymore.
I want to learn how to idgaf like this
It really isn't that difficult.
And yet..
I don't think it is a "learned" trait. You can try to think a certain way, but if you are forcing upon yourself, is that how you really feel?
I don't necessarily consider things like that good or bad, just that some people inherently have different characteristics about them.
I typically do not feel certain things like empathy, sympathy, and jealousy. There are times when others may feel that I am an a-hole for that, but it is just the way I am, and I don't think that forcing myself to feel a certain way is beneficial at all.2 -
XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I truly do not care. For me, my age/experience has not changed this. It has always been that way.
How do you treat people when you realize they don’t like you?
As far as I know, no different. I have no idea if someone doesn't like me. I don't ask.
I suppose if people are around me, they at least tolerate me. And if anyone doesn't, they would not be around me anymore.
I want to learn how to idgaf like this
It really isn't that difficult.
And yet..
refer back to my post, seemed like you had a pretty good understanding of it.
I’m bad at riddles 😂0 -
ladies of mfp-
"im sorry. r u mad at me??"
or
"no. i aint done nothing wrong, you're being ridiculous"
which one of those would you rather hear from him?
Neither. He's blocked for consistent poor grammar.
Aside: @Reckoner69_lmao is...Jesus? 🙏🏿2 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I truly do not care. For me, my age/experience has not changed this. It has always been that way.
How do you treat people when you realize they don’t like you?
As far as I know, no different. I have no idea if someone doesn't like me. I don't ask.
I suppose if people are around me, they at least tolerate me. And if anyone doesn't, they would not be around me anymore.
I want to learn how to idgaf like this
It really isn't that difficult.
And yet..
I don't think it is a "learned" trait. You can try to think a certain way, but if you are forcing upon yourself, is that how you really feel?
I don't necessarily consider things like that good or bad, just that some people inherently have different characteristics about them.
I typically do not feel certain things like empathy, sympathy, and jealousy. There are times when others may feel that I am an a-hole for that, but it is just the way I am, and I don't think that forcing myself to feel a certain way is beneficial at all.
Really good point.
Not sure why I’m in my head about this. Once I figure something out about how i think, I tend to go down a rabbit hole trying to figure out the whys behind it0 -
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TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
yes6 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
yes
“You were right. Totally my fault. Let me make it up to you. Ice cream and dining in sound good?”2 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I care, but I'm sure to many it will seem as weakness. That's ok. I know why I care.
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GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I care, but I'm sure to many it will seem as weakness. That's ok. I know why I care.
Everyone is different man - it’s not a weakness - we are who we are - nothing wrong with that2 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
I care, but I'm sure to many it will seem as weakness. That's ok. I know why I care.
Love this... It's like saying...
Yeah I care what other people think, and I honestly dgaf what you think about that... 😂
Sincere respect brotha... 🙌🏼3 -
GettinLean19 wrote: »Men-
Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it
Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested
This 100% depends on relation to the judge in question.2 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
Hot.1 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
Hot.
I got a thing for dirty working men2 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
Hot.
I got a thing for dirty working men
You should see the dust on this keyboard in front me of me then 😉9 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
Hot.
I got a thing for dirty working men
We have this in common.1 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
Hot.
I got a thing for dirty working men
We have this in common.
Helps muffle the clicks0 -
Ladies...
What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?
Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples 🤷🏽♂️3 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
Hot.
I got a thing for dirty working men
thats crazy cause i got a thing for dirty, working girls wait no i messed it up again didn't i oh no7 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
Hot.
I got a thing for dirty working men
thats crazy cause i got a thing for dirty, working girls wait no i messed it up again didn't i oh no
with a heart of gold1 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?
Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples 🤷🏽♂️
"Push pull" is what now? Sounds like a BDSM pre-gaming technique.
Regardless, how a suitor shows interest is based on either his personality, confidence or complete lack of the previous two factors altogether.
I respond to a confident approach with clear intent and a dash of genuine personality, please.2 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?
Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples 🤷🏽♂️
I like when he treats me differently than he treats other women. In a nice way. When he acts like I’m the only person in the room5 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?
Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples 🤷🏽♂️
I like when he treats me differently than he treats other women. In a nice way. When he acts like I’m the only person in the room
How it should be, and the same in return from women.2 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?
Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples 🤷🏽♂️
I like when he treats me differently than he treats other women. In a nice way. When he acts like I’m the only person in the room
But the the others get SOOOOO angry5 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?
Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples 🤷🏽♂️
I like when he treats me differently than he treats other women. In a nice way. When he acts like I’m the only person in the room
But the the others get SOOOOO angry
Make it clear who's your favorite. Then get the jello pit out and if they really get mad, they can fight it out.5 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?
Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples 🤷🏽♂️
I like when he treats me differently than he treats other women. In a nice way. When he acts like I’m the only person in the room
But the the others get SOOOOO angry
Make it clear who's your favorite. Then get the jello pit out and if they really get mad, they can fight it out.
You are THE BEST wingman1 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?
Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples 🤷🏽♂️
I don't even know if I like the flirting anymore. Its more of how I feel when I am with him.
But I guess I always responded more to the goofy approach. Like if he throws out some of the worst cheesiest pickup lines out there (the "clean" ones, tho) I would totally laugh and melt a lil'.... 🥰 and probably hang around to see if he has more or see what else he might say. I like the goofy sweet guys. ❤5 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?
Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples 🤷🏽♂️
I like when he treats me differently than he treats other women. In a nice way. When he acts like I’m the only person in the room
But the the others get SOOOOO angry
Make it clear who's your favorite. Then get the jello pit out and if they really get mad, they can fight it out.
Dis why we friends 😂1 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?
Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples 🤷🏽♂️
I like when he treats me differently than he treats other women. In a nice way. When he acts like I’m the only person in the room
But the the others get SOOOOO angry
Make it clear who's your favorite. Then get the jello pit out and if they really get mad, they can fight it out.
I haven’t met a man yet who’s worth wrestling for. I don’t compete.
You I’d wrestle just for giggles. Banana pudding though.4 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies...
What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?
Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples 🤷🏽♂️
I like when he treats me differently than he treats other women. In a nice way. When he acts like I’m the only person in the room
But the the others get SOOOOO angry
Make it clear who's your favorite. Then get the jello pit out and if they really get mad, they can fight it out.
I haven’t met a man yet who’s worth wrestling for. I don’t compete.
You I’d wrestle just for giggles. Banana pudding though.
You're on.2
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