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  • threewins
    threewins Posts: 1,455 Member
    Guy. What's your opinion on bitchy girls? I've seen where guy are drawn to that attitude...almost like it's a challenge? So I guess I'm asking do you prefer attitude? Or the sweet nice girl? And why?

    I think that they can be attractive in the short term because you want to see the softer side, or find out whether the softer side actually exists. I guess it's the challenge which is attractive.

    How bitchy women treat your friends and family is important though. I could date a bitchy woman but I'd never shack up with any. Plus the relationship would have a maximum length, after which you two break up.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Guy. What's your opinion on bitchy girls? I've seen where guy are drawn to that attitude...almost like it's a challenge? So I guess I'm asking do you prefer attitude? Or the sweet nice girl? And why?

    I’m also of the opinion that there is a certain kind of man who likes outwardly sweet women just to see how raunchy she’ll be behind closed doors. Even, dare I say it, men who relish “corrupting” apparent sweetness.

    You're half right... It's not to see how raunchy she'll be behind closed doors tho...

    It's more like she's 80% there, now let's add some spice and see if we can get this juuust right...
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Guy. What's your opinion on bitchy girls? I've seen where guy are drawn to that attitude...almost like it's a challenge? So I guess I'm asking do you prefer attitude? Or the sweet nice girl? And why?

    But to seriously answer the question... Neither are perfect tbh... In a bitchy girl I'm going to try to uncover the sweet side, in a sweet girl I'm going to try to uncover the other side...

    It's about balance... If she was all sweet, I'm going to assume that she probably has a lot of dare I say "doormat" tendencies... A bitchy girl at least I know she's not going to let people take advantage of her when I'm not around...

    80% Sweet / 70% bitchy... 😍

  • George_of_the_Jungle
    George_of_the_Jungle Posts: 3,316 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Sorry. No shame

    Sundress all the way 😉

    agreed 100%
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Question time.....

    What causes the best impression on a first date?
    Jeans or dress?
    And why?

    First date... Go with jeans...

    It also depends where you are going and the type of dress... But the dress says you're in to him, the jeans say you just don't know...

    Go with the jeans either way...
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,684 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Sorry. No shame

    Sundress all the way 😉

    agreed 100%

    What if its 40 degrees outside?
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Sorry. No shame

    Sundress all the way 😉

    agreed 100%

    What if its 40 degrees outside?

    Even better...
  • George_of_the_Jungle
    George_of_the_Jungle Posts: 3,316 Member
    Guy. What's your opinion on bitchy girls? I've seen where guy are drawn to that attitude...almost like it's a challenge? So I guess I'm asking do you prefer attitude? Or the sweet nice girl? And why?

    I’m also of the opinion that there is a certain kind of man who likes outwardly sweet women just to see how raunchy she’ll be behind closed doors. Even, dare I say it, men who relish “corrupting” apparent sweetness.

    There's no "corrupting" to it as the "corruption" already exists. You just learn things over time and this is one of them. It isn't a blanket statement, of course there are exceptions and people who project that wholesomeness sometimes really are like that, but usually it's the opposite. In my experience anyway.
  • George_of_the_Jungle
    George_of_the_Jungle Posts: 3,316 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Sorry. No shame

    Sundress all the way 😉

    agreed 100%

    What if its 40 degrees outside?

    I don't date in the cold
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    edited March 2020
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Sorry. No shame

    Sundress all the way 😉

    Sundresses are way too youthful for me.

    I’ll do slinky or sexy or romantic or conservative or whatever but pretty feels foreign to me. It’s not my style.
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    edited March 2020
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Sorry. No shame

    Sundress all the way 😉

    agreed 100%

    What if its 40 degrees outside?

    Celsius or Fahrenheit?

    Fahrenheit
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  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Sorry. No shame

    Sundress all the way 😉

    Sundresses are way too youthful for me.

    I’ll do slinky or sexy or romantic or conservative or whatever but pretty feels foreign to me. It’s not my style.

    You are pretty no matter what you wear.
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Sorry. No shame

    Sundress all the way 😉

    Sundresses are way too youthful for me.

    I’ll do slinky or sexy or romantic or conservative or whatever but pretty feels foreign to me. It’s not my style.

    You are pretty no matter what you wear.

    shut up 🤗
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,684 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Sorry. No shame

    Sundress all the way 😉

    agreed 100%

    What if its 40 degrees outside?

    I don't date in the cold

    Aahhh. Makes sense. :D good thing its 80s here. "Swipe right"
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Sorry. No shame

    Sundress all the way 😉

    agreed 100%

    What if its 40 degrees outside?

    Celsius or Fahrenheit?

    Fahrenheit
    m5aqgzc5garl.jpeg

    Mehhhhhh

    I was visualising this for a sundress.....



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    That’s not a sundress imo. I’d rock that. But not in this weather.

    This is what i picture when people say sundress
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  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Question time.....

    What causes the best impression on a first date?
    Jeans or dress?
    And why?

    First date... Go with jeans...

    It also depends where you are going and the type of dress... But the dress says you're in to him, the jeans say you just don't know...

    Go with the jeans either way...

    Never thought of it in that way.....
    But thanks for your view on that 😊

    But then again on a first, she could go dressed like a stripper and I'd probably be all...

    "Well, maybe she just doesn't get out much and wanted to dress like that for fun" 🤷🏽‍♂️

    Or "Well maybe she just dresses like this all the time and that's the only type of thing she has to wear" 🤷🏽‍♂️
  • George_of_the_Jungle
    George_of_the_Jungle Posts: 3,316 Member
    But now I'm thinking I really shouldn't say anything because if I can't get in in jeans and a t-shirt and work boots, I'm probably not going.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Sorry. No shame

    Sundress all the way 😉

    agreed 100%

    What if its 40 degrees outside?

    Celsius or Fahrenheit?

    Fahrenheit
    m5aqgzc5garl.jpeg

    Mehhhhhh

    I was visualising this for a sundress.....



    4b8sz1bxzlmb.jpeg

    That’s not a sundress imo. I’d rock that. But not in this weather.

    This is what i picture when people say sundress
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    She's hot... I don't even need to see the rest 😂
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    edited March 2020
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Sorry. No shame

    Sundress all the way 😉

    agreed 100%

    What if its 40 degrees outside?

    Celsius or Fahrenheit?

    Fahrenheit
    m5aqgzc5garl.jpeg

    Mehhhhhh

    I was visualising this for a sundress.....



    4b8sz1bxzlmb.jpeg

    That’s not a sundress imo. I’d rock that. But not in this weather.

    This is what i picture when people say sundress
    q2hjbzl7bthf.jpeg

    😂😂😂😂
    I was referring to the actual temperature in Celsius 😜
    That dress was just a coincidence 😉
    But I love that yellow dress 😍

    Lmao

    Eta: i do not like the yellow dress. For me.
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,684 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Sorry. No shame

    Sundress all the way 😉

    agreed 100%

    What if its 40 degrees outside?

    Celsius or Fahrenheit?

    Fahrenheit
    m5aqgzc5garl.jpeg

    Mehhhhhh

    I was visualising this for a sundress.....



    4b8sz1bxzlmb.jpeg

    That’s not a sundress imo. I’d rock that. But not in this weather.

    This is what i picture when people say sundress
    q2hjbzl7bthf.jpeg

    I wear this kind of thing everywhere...its easy and cute and if I'm bloated its comfy
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Sorry. No shame

    Sundress all the way 😉

    agreed 100%

    What if its 40 degrees outside?

    Celsius or Fahrenheit?

    Fahrenheit
    m5aqgzc5garl.jpeg

    Mehhhhhh

    I was visualising this for a sundress.....



    4b8sz1bxzlmb.jpeg

    That’s not a sundress imo. I’d rock that. But not in this weather.

    This is what i picture when people say sundress
    q2hjbzl7bthf.jpeg

    I wear this kind of thing everywhere...its easy and cute and if I'm bloated its comfy

    It's just like a tank top for guys 🤷🏽‍♂️
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    Guy. What's your opinion on bitchy girls? I've seen where guy are drawn to that attitude...almost like it's a challenge? So I guess I'm asking do you prefer attitude? Or the sweet nice girl? And why?

    I’m also of the opinion that there is a certain kind of man who likes outwardly sweet women just to see how raunchy she’ll be behind closed doors. Even, dare I say it, men who relish “corrupting” apparent sweetness.

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  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Sorry. No shame

    Sundress all the way 😉

    agreed 100%

    What if its 40 degrees outside?

    Celsius or Fahrenheit?

    Fahrenheit
    m5aqgzc5garl.jpeg

    Mehhhhhh

    I was visualising this for a sundress.....



    4b8sz1bxzlmb.jpeg

    That’s not a sundress imo. I’d rock that. But not in this weather.

    This is what i picture when people say sundress
    q2hjbzl7bthf.jpeg

    I wear this kind of thing everywhere...its easy and cute and if I'm bloated its comfy
    I bet it looks cute on you too
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    Guy. What's your opinion on bitchy girls? I've seen where guy are drawn to that attitude...almost like it's a challenge? So I guess I'm asking do you prefer attitude? Or the sweet nice girl? And why?

    I’m also of the opinion that there is a certain kind of man who likes outwardly sweet women just to see how raunchy she’ll be behind closed doors. Even, dare I say it, men who relish “corrupting” apparent sweetness.

    yzq2i7uilyam.jpeg

    I was thinking of you when I wrote it. 😊
  • George_of_the_Jungle
    George_of_the_Jungle Posts: 3,316 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Sorry. No shame

    Sundress all the way 😉

    agreed 100%

    What if its 40 degrees outside?

    I don't date in the cold

    Aahhh. Makes sense. :D good thing its 80s here. "Swipe right"

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  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Guy. What's your opinion on bitchy girls? I've seen where guy are drawn to that attitude...almost like it's a challenge? So I guess I'm asking do you prefer attitude? Or the sweet nice girl? And why?

    I’m also of the opinion that there is a certain kind of man who likes outwardly sweet women just to see how raunchy she’ll be behind closed doors. Even, dare I say it, men who relish “corrupting” apparent sweetness.

    And I would say there’s a high probability of that being who she actually is too. But we could let him think he brought it out I guess. 😉

    I’m not that good an actress. 😢
  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Guy. What's your opinion on bitchy girls? I've seen where guy are drawn to that attitude...almost like it's a challenge? So I guess I'm asking do you prefer attitude? Or the sweet nice girl? And why?

    I’m also of the opinion that there is a certain kind of man who likes outwardly sweet women just to see how raunchy she’ll be behind closed doors. Even, dare I say it, men who relish “corrupting” apparent sweetness.

    And I would say there’s a high probability of that being who she actually is too. But we could let him think he brought it out I guess. 😉

    For me it is about 80% what he brings out in me, unless I’m understanding this wrong 😬
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Guy. What's your opinion on bitchy girls? I've seen where guy are drawn to that attitude...almost like it's a challenge? So I guess I'm asking do you prefer attitude? Or the sweet nice girl? And why?

    I’m also of the opinion that there is a certain kind of man who likes outwardly sweet women just to see how raunchy she’ll be behind closed doors. Even, dare I say it, men who relish “corrupting” apparent sweetness.

    And I would say there’s a high probability of that being who she actually is too. But we could let him think he brought it out I guess. 😉

    For me it is about 80% what he brings out in me, unless I’m understanding this wrong 😬

    Well I think he could bring it out. And maybe he could actually inspire new things. But I think it’s likely it was probably inside already. Who knows though. Everyone’s different.

    For me there are things that only get expressed in relationships of extreme trust in which there is no judgment and truly open communication is possible. So in that sense, I guess a partner could bring things out of me. And I hope I’d do the same for him.